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Tillman L. Jeffrey

1947 - 2010

Tillman L. Jeffrey obituary, 1947-2010

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1947

DIED

2010

Tillman Jeffrey Obituary

In loving memory of Tillman L. Jeffrey
2/14/1947 – 10/28/2010


Tillman Jeffrey, 63, of Loomis, Calif., went to be with the Lord on October 28, 2010. After a brave two year battle with cancer, he passed away at his home in the loving arms of his wife with his dachshunds and poodle nearby. Tillman was born February 14, 1947, Valentine's Day, in Barnett, Texas. He grew up in El Cajon and the San Diego area.
Following high school, Tillman joined the U.S. Army and began training at a warrant officer flight training program as a Warrant Officer. He served from 1965 to 1971 as a combat helicopter pilot and flight instructor in Vietnam and Texas, respectively. During two Vietnam tours (Bien Hoa, Pleiku, Dak Seang, Phu Hiep, Dak To) he served with his beloved 173d Airborne Brigade (SEP) as well as the 335th Aviation Company (Airmobile Light) "Cowboys," the 1st aviation Brigade, the 335th's armed helicopter platoon (Falcons), and the1st Cavalry Division. During his first tour, Tillman and his crew spent two hours on the ground in enemy territory awaiting support after his helicopter was shot down. Tillman stated about that episode, "My two hours on the ground more than satisfied my curiosity about the ground war in South Vietnam and I certainly gained a new respect for the Airborne Infantry." While flying just two months into his second tour, he was shot through the floorboards by ground fire with a 12.7mm round from a DShK heavy machine gun and "medevaced" home. Although modest about his military achievements, Tillman was awarded both the Purple Heart and the Distinguished Flying Cross for his gallantry in action.
Tillman loved flying helicopters and after his military career, he flew out of San Diego as a fish spotter for a commercial fishing boat. He met the love of his life, Marita, while visiting friends in San Luis Obispo. They then moved to the SF Bay Area where Tillman worked as a private helicopter pilot and demolition estimator. With his war disabilities catching up to him, he retired to the Central Valley and eventually made his home in Loomis.
Tillman showed his generosity by his willingness to help others. He shared countless hours on home improvement projects with family and loved to shower others with gifts. He had a soft spot in his heart for dachshunds and Military Veterans. Tillman was a lover of art, music, and an avid reader of historical and military books. He was well-read, opinionated, and had a witty sense of humor. Tillman's family meant the world to him and he cherished spending time with them. Many treasured memories were created boating on Folsom Lake with family. He was a member of First United Methodist Church in Loomis, Calif., where he was recently baptized. He was an active member of the 173d Airborne Brigade, Western States, Chapter 10 and served as newsletter editor before his illness. He loved attending Veteran's reunions and parades and conversing with other Veterans.
Tillman is survived by his wife, Marita Jeffrey; his daughter Michelle Bauman and husband Andy; his daughter Laura Staley and husband Chuck; his grandchildren James Staley and Darya and Roman Bauman; his siblings Carolyn Wright, Dennis Jeffrey, Robert "Steve" Jeffrey, and Laurie Hebert and their spouses; and many nieces and nephews. He is survived by his mother, Louise Jeffrey, and preceded in death by his father, Hilmer L. Jeffrey.
Tillman will be deeply missed by his friends and family. His spirit will be honored during a Memorial Service Saturday, November 13, 2010 at 1 p.m. at First United Methodist Church 6414, Brace Road, Loomis. Donations can be made in Tillman's honor to First United Methodist Church, Disabled American Veterans, and Friends of Placer County Animal Shelter.

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Published by Gold Country Media Newspapers on Nov. 11, 2010.

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Diane Dedman Vaughn

June 5, 2013

Happy Trails, Tillman. You will be missed.

Paul Dedman

June 2, 2013

Bud how much like your father you look.What does the L stand for, Bud! Who was Large Pinkum Tokmell to your friends in Mr. Bray's art class? Deeply sorry to find you here after all these years, Tillman. I'll be seeing you, never forget you. Paul Dedman

Randy Wilhelm

December 7, 2010

I am so sorry for everyones loss. I was one of Jeff's mechanics on the tuna boat Odette Therese. I worked with Jeff and shared a room with him for almost 3 years. He was, and is a special person. I did not get an opportunity to meet his wife as he was not married at the time. I can only imagine that you are also a wonderful person because of the person Jeff was. God bless Jeff, and all of his loved ones.

Tom and Patti Wasney

November 18, 2010

TILLMAN, was the most unique person my husbond and I ever knew, and we will forever hold him in our hearts. He was a gem. Tom and Patti Wasney. Arroyo Grande, ca.

Mike and Joni Knight

November 14, 2010

As Tillman has taken his final journey,he will be missed by all.May his family and friends find peace.....
As Tillman passes through those pearly gates he will be greeted by a formation of warriors,58,000 will snap to attention..as he passes through the ranks he will be given a slow hand salute.........a chorus of voices will utter these simple words...."Welcome home brother and friend,job well done"....oooorrrraaaahhhhh !!!!

Mary Dickens

November 12, 2010

Tillman will be greatly missed by many...his spirit and vitality will live on in fond memories he created in his too short time here. He was a pleasure to be around and an inspiration to those he came into contact with. His baptism only confirmed his faith and strength of character and helped make him a greater light that will now shine for eternity. Blessings and hugs to the Family.

November 11, 2010

Tillman, We will miss you! Our hearts are broken! You were always family to us and a piecce of us goes with you but a piece of you will always be with us too! Farewell good friend. Until we meet again! We will try to care for your family as you would have wanted us to,for we love them too!
May you get to fly, now, forever!
Linda, Marvin & Mike Teaby

Curtis Hendel

November 11, 2010

Tillman entered my life almost a decade ago, a man willing to share stories for a military history book that I was writing. In sharing his story for the book, he then started sharing many other stories, which turned in to a long time friendship. Tillman guided me through some very dark days in my life and I could never have thought to repay his kindness and goodness. He was so many things in his life, but to me, most of all, he was my friend and hero. His passing leaves a space in me, but I will always be thankful for his friendship and guidance. Curtis Hendel, USAF

tina kehm

November 11, 2010

My memory of Tillman will always be a pleasant one. He was always so welcoming and just the life of the party. He always had a smile for you and knew just the right thing to say. Tillman will be missed greatly.

Jill Smith

November 11, 2010

What a huge loss this is, but it is followed by respect, honor and memories of who he was to you, his family. May this carry you in peace, that he was loved and respected by many and that he is now safe in the arms of Jesus, with MANY amazing veterans who have fought the good fight. What celebrations and stories there must be in Heaven! Know that I am keeping you, his family in my prayers...for comfort, strength and lasting memories.

November 11, 2010

I first met Tillman quite a few years ago, but didn't really get to know him until we started working on Oma and Opa's house in Santa Maria. Tillman practically rebuilt that house by himself...he was so vital and energetic then. I learned we liked many of the same things, particularly our taste in books. Our last outing together was a few weeks ago when we went target shooting. I discovered then that between us we had enough armaments to start a revolution, although I'm not sure we would have been on the same side.
I'll miss him.

Pete Guttman

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