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Matthew Parrish Obituary

DR. MATTHEW D. PARRISH, COLONEL (RET.), 93 ROCKFORD - Matthew D. Parrish, 93, of Rockford died at 3:30 p.m. Tuesday, Jan. 10, 2012, in P.A. Peterson Center for Health. Born April 1, 1918, in Washington, D.C., son of Forrest and Alice (Flynn) Parrish. He married Marilyn K. Arney on May 29, 1978, in Lincoln. Dr. Parrish received his BA from the University of Virginia in 1939, and his MD from George Washington University in 1950. He was a Diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry and a Fellow (life member) of the American Psychiatric Association. He served in World War II, first in aerial combat in the Pacific as a navigator for 13 months, and later teaching navigation. After completing medical education, Dr. Parrish then distinguished himself as: psychiatrist, U.S. Army Far East Command (Japan and Korea); chief, Mental Hygiene Consultation Service, Fort Belvoir; assistant chief, Psychiatry and Neurology consultant to Army Surgeon General; chief, Psychiatry Service, U.S. Army Hospital, Frankfurt, Germany; chief, Psychiatric Department, Walter Reed Army Institute of Research; and, chief, Psychiatry and Neurology Consultant to the Army Surgeon General. His military career spanned three wars. Dr. Parrish came to Illinois along with other military psychiatrists in the early 1970s. He assumed the role for two years of director of training, Illinois Department of Mental Health, Chicago. In 1974, he came to Singer Mental Health Center, serving in positions as superintendent, medical director, and unit psychiatrist before retiring. University of Illinois-Chicago appointments included clinical professor and clinical assistant professor; and, he was presented "The Faculty Recognition Award For 2006." Matt will be remembered by his many friends and co-workers as a fair, caring, learned gentleman who was generous in sharing his wealth of knowledge and information. While Matt had many and varied interests, music, reading, writing, philosophy, drawing, and hot chocolate were among his passions. Survivors include his wife, Marilyn of Rockford; sons, Denwood (Linda) of Florida, John (Melanie Goldberg) of Michigan, Stephen of Pennsylvania and Maxwell of Wisconsin; 10 grandchildren; many great- grandchildren; and sisters, Marian Seidl of Colorado and Nancy Posey of Virginia. Predeceased by his beloved daughter, Megan Irene; two brothers; one sister; and former wife, Virginia. The family would like to offer a heartfelt thank you to Matt's special side-kick, Jon Solverson. Service at 11 a.m. Wednesday, Jan. 18, in Fred C. Olson Chapel, 1001 Second Ave., Rockford, with visitation from 9:30 to 10:45 a.m.; the Rev. Beth Wagner will officiate. Graveside service at noon Thursday, Jan. 19, in Mt. Pulaski Cemetery, Mt. Pulaski. In lieu of flowers, memorials to Northern Illinois Hospice and Grief Center, 4215 Newburg Road, Rockford, IL 61108 or P.A. Peterson Center for Health, 1311 Parkview Ave., Rockford IL 61107. To share a memorial or online condolence, visit olfsonfh.com.

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Published by Rockford Register Star from Jan. 14 to Jan. 15, 2012.

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Marshal Mehlos

February 2, 2012

Dr. Parrish was my director and mentor as a psychologist at Singer Center. His wealth of knowledge in community psychiatry and his vast patience in training me to be the best in my field, will forever be remembered. I can truly say he was one of the most influential people that affected so many lives and aided people's future. He was like a father to me.

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Steve and Linda

January 29, 2012

He was a great uncle and fascinating person. He told amazing stories of his life experiences. We are so sad he is gone.

Raymond Garcia

January 18, 2012

Dr. Parrish was an esteemed colleague and mentor. His many anecdotes about his service in the military were both enlightening and often amusing. He was a role model for those of us fortunate enough to share in his wisdom, brilliance and empathy. He has been sorely missed since he has been unable to return to our humble table at Tuesday Morning Seminar, where he was a welcome fixture for decades. He was a fine example of how one must "rage against the dying of the light", and his generosity in sharing his knowledge has assured that his flame has not been extinguished.

William Wood

January 17, 2012

Matt was one of the kindest, most caring, most understanding, most generous persons I have ever had the pleasure to meet. His passing is a loss to those who will never have the chance to experience someone who was truly a credit to the human species. I knew Matt as a colleague at Singer Mental Health Center and our friendship was one of the highlights of my 23 years tenure there. I will never forget him and the many, many kindnesses and generosities he selflessly gave to all he encountered, including me. Thank you, Matt. I hope that I have paid forward at least a small part of all that you gave to me.

Dusanka Radovic

January 17, 2012

Dear John and Melanie,
My condolences, love Dusanka.

January 17, 2012

A very kind and thoughtful gentleman. I recall Dr. Parrish's visits to the Department of Psychiatry at University of Illinois College of Medicine at Rockford. He had a wealth of knowledge and so willing to share his life experiences. LaVerne Larson, Rockford,IL

Karen & Richard Coppoletti

January 16, 2012

We are so sorry to hear of Matt's demise. He was a lovely, intelligent, articulate gentleman who was so honest in his dealings and feelings for others. We always enjoyed seeing him and he would discuss literary subjects with Karen and medical and all sorts of other subjects with me. He will be greatly missed. He had so many wonderful experiences in life and had a very good run at life.

Bruce & Beverly Hoffman

January 15, 2012

Marilyn & family - We are so sorry for your loss of a husband and father. Matt was a wonderful man, and we always enjoyed our visits with you when we lived in Rockford. Our deepest sympathy is extended to you during this difficult time.

January 14, 2012

Marilyn and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. It appears that Matthew was quite accomplished and well as provided such a service to our country and community. I am sorry I didn't know him.

Cheryl and David Maggio

January 14, 2012

Years ago when Singer had a staff cafeteria I often shared a lunch table with Dr. Parrish where we exchanged info about shared interests. He was one of a kind.

Richard Westenskow

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