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Marilyn Downer Obituary

MARILYN K. DOWNER, 77 'NANNY' ROCKFORD - Marilyn K. Downer, 77, of Rockford died suddenly, Thursday, Sept. 27, 2012, in OSF Saint Anthony Medical Center, while surrounded by her loving family. Born June 28, 1935, in Kansas City, Mo., daughter of John and Helen Sullivan Quinn. Graduated from Lillis High School in Kansas City and married Robert E. Downer on Oct. 9, 1954. She was employed for 30 years by Holy Family Catholic Church, retiring as business manager in June 2010. She was also a member of Holy Family Church, their Women's Guild and Catholic Women's League. She loved to garden and was a member of the Council of Rockford Gardeners. She had also been a Girl Scout leader during the time her children were involved in scouting. Marilyn was involved in several other more informal groups that she enjoyed; Munching Moms, The Dirty Dozen, Holy Rollers (painting to help others) and the Stamping Group. Following her retirement, she became an active volunteer for Carpenter's Place. Marilyn had the ability to always put a smile on your face and always left you with an "I love you". She lived with, and shared with others that, "No problem is ever to big". Her family was the most important part of her world and she loved her big family gatherings with her children. She lived to spend time with her grandchildren and loved to share stories about them. Additionally, she cherished so many dear friends and loved to spend time with them as well. Survivors include children, Timothy Downer of Frankfurt, Ky., Debbie Downer of Ypsilanti, Mich., Dawn Callahan of Cape Coral, Fla., Kevin Downer of Ottawa, Mary (Bill) Marcille and Erin (Greg) Barker, both of Rockford and Bridget (Rob) Buysse of Washington, Ill.; she was Nanny to Leslie Simonovich, Greg Callahan, Ben Simonovich, Robby Buysse, Alex Buysse and Sam Buysse; and her dear friend, Barb Finnegan of Denver. Predeceased by her husband on Aug. 3, 1996, and her parents. Marilyn wanted to thank everyone at Holy Family Church who helped her over the years, including those who helped her count, the statement stuffers and all of the fantastic co-workers. Her family would also like to thank the nurses and staff at OSF Saint Anthony Medical Center that provided loving care for her, especially Noel and Tera who gave so much comfort to her and the family during her final hours. Mass of Christian Burial at 11 a.m. Monday, Oct. 1, in Holy Family Catholic Church, with Msgr. Thomas E. Bales and the Rev. David E. Beauvais con-celebrating. Private family burial in Sunset Memorial Gardens Cemetery. Visitation from 3 to 5 p.m. Sunday, Sept. 30, in Fitzgerald Funeral Home & Crematory, Mulford Chapel, 1860 S. Mulford Road, with a prayer service at 4:30 p.m. Visitation also from 10 too 10:45 a.m. Monday at the church. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Caprenter's Place, 1149 Railroad Ave., Rockford, IL 61104. Express condolences and share memories at www.fitzgeraldfh.com.

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Published by Rockford Register Star from Sep. 29 to Sep. 30, 2012.

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Larrick Larrick

September 23, 2020

The photo of Marilyn brings back so many beautiful memories. She was an amazing champion of those in needs, a true guardian angel to men and women who were homeless. As we recall the gospel message, "Whatsoever you do for the least of these, that you do unto me," we know Jesus greeted Marilyn with a big hug and THANK YOU for all she did for "Him" through her kindness and generosity to the poor. Miss her dearly.

Renee' McCormick

October 4, 2012

I was so very saddened to hear of Marilyn's death. She was the heart and soul of her beautiful family and they meant the world to her. My love and prayers go out to all of you. She will be greatly missed.

Ed/Jeanne Rudnicki

October 4, 2012

Marilyn was a wonderful person and a joy to be around. She had a kind word for everyone. Our condolences to her family. She will be missed by Jeanne and I and her family. Ed/Jeanne Rudnicki

Karen Wisdom

October 3, 2012

Downer Family,
What a wonderful person she was. I have such fond memories of her and hangin around the Downer house! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Karen Thomas Wisdom

October 1, 2012

What a friend the homeless men and women in Rockford had in Marilyn! She was their champion in raising resources for services but the greatest gift she gave was her warm and loving smile! Our deepest sympathy to Marilyn's loving family...they were the center of her universe. She will be missed. Treasure the memories. Kay Larrick, Carpenter's Place

Joyce Dagnon

October 1, 2012

Sorry for your loss to the whole Downer clan.. Kevin i would of loved to see you hope you are good..if you are in the 815 give a call take care of each other.. you are in my thoughts and prayers....

Linda Dick Ludka

September 30, 2012

My prayers go out to your entire family...I remember the love you all shared.

Suely Dauphin

September 29, 2012

My sincerest condolences go out to the Downer family on the loss of their Mother and Grandmother. Mrs. Downer was a great lady and will be greatly missed.

Ed & Mitzi Dick

September 29, 2012

Rest in Peace!

Barb Davis

September 29, 2012

My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to Marilyn's family and her grandchildren for their loss. I knew Marilyn from the Coumadin Clinic and she would always have stories to share about her wonderful family and the grandchildren she loved so much. I will truly miss her smiling face. I know God has another angel sitting beside him.

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