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ADLER, TOM Tom Adler, a noted civil rights and criminal defense lawyer, died on August 23, 2010, at the age of 72 at his home in Hillcrest. Tom courageously battled Parkinson's Disease for 14 years. Tom was a founding member of the Criminal Defense Bar Association of San Diego, serving as its first president from 1979 to 1982. He was also a long time member of the Criminal Defense Lawyers Club of San Diego, serving as its president in 1990. He was very active member of the California Attorneys for Criminal Justice. He served on its Board of Governors and its Executive Committee from 1983 to 1990. An avid educator and mentor, he taught numerous trial advocacy workshops for criminal defense, public defender and civil rights lawyers. He was an adjunct professor at the University of San Diego School of Law teaching Trial Techniques and Lawyering Skills for many years. He was a frequent lecturer and panelist for the California and San Diego Bar Associations and Continuing Education of the Bar programs. Tom was an active member of the ACLU for many years and the Tom Adler High School Journalism Award is given by the ACLU of San Diego and Imperial Counties to a high school newspaper that has demonstrated a dedication to the cause of civil liberties. Also, there is a California Defense Bar Association Scholarship Award which is given annually in his name, in recognition of his commitment to justice and legal education. In addition the San Diego Criminal Defense Bar Association and the Criminal Defense Lawyers Club give a scholarship each year in the name of Tom Adler to a deserving criminal defense attorney to attend the National College of Criminal Defense in Macon, Georgia. In the 1980's, Tom transitioned from criminal defense to civil litigation involving police misconduct, sexual harassment, Medi-Cal fraud and employment related matters, recovering many significant and ground breaking verdicts over the years. Tom was named Trial Lawyer of the Year by the San Diego Trial Lawyers Association in 1993. When forced to retire from trial practice because of the Parkinson's Disease diagnosis, Tom remained active first as a mediator and a rbitrator and later as a social activist and philanthropist. He founded the Adler Institute for an Open Democracy and sponsored the Guido Adler Piano Jazz Competition (a statewide competition for high school students.) Born in Vienna during the beginning of the Nazi occupation of that city, he worked tirelessly to recover family assets stolen by the Nazis . His investigation culminated in writing the book "Lost to the World" (Xlibris Press) and successfully recovering a manuscript given as a gift by Gustav Mahler to his grandfather Guido Adler, the founder of the science of musicology. The proceeds from the auction of the manuscript were donated to charity. Tom was an avid photographer. Some of his work, which he entitled "Alley Art", was exhibited at the Lyceum Theater in February 2010. Most recently, he worked on portrait photos of dear friends. Tom was known to all for his humor, his bravery, his creativity, his generosity and his passion for justice. He is survived by his wife Judge Louise De Carl Adler, his sons Ethan Adler of Albuquerque, NM and David Adler of Del Mar and his stepson Jordan Malugen of Mexico City, Mex. He will be remembered with love and respect by his family, colleagues and friends. Tom's remains will be cremated and his ashes scattered at a place of special significance to Tom. A celebration of his life will be held on Saturday, September 25, 2010, between 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. at the San Diego County Bar Association, located at 1333 Seventh Ave., San Diego. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Parkinson's Disease Association of San Diego, 8555 Aero Dr., San Diego, CA 92123 or the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research, 90 Broad St., 10th Floor, NYC, NY 10004.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Aug. 29, 2010.

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January 2, 2014

Thinking of Tom and Louise, and remembering the lovely company and lofty view on a perfect New Year's Day morning.

Dr Robin O'Neil

January 7, 2013

As an outsider I was no less touched by the passing of Tom Adler. My research into the Mahler family and the Third Reich was enhanced by reading his book 'Lost to the World'.

September 22, 2010

The loss of Tom is a real loss to our community of mediators. He was able to deal with the hardest issues with kindness and a light touch that empowered people.
Barbara Filner, NCRC Training Institute

Robin Seigle

September 21, 2010

I was very sorry to learn of Tom's death. I met him when he took mediation training from National Conflict Resolution Center (previously known as San Diego Mediation Center) and I was one of the trainers. I was very impressed with his skills and encouraged him to take the advanced program to receive an NCRC mediator credential. He enjoyed it and became a volunteer mediator. We valued his service to the community as a smart and compassionate mediator. All of us at NCRC who knew him send our deepest sympathies to Judge Adler and both of their families.

Chris Haberman

September 16, 2010

Tom and I shared a house back in 1971 in Hillcrest when we were involved in a non-profit org. This was before he had become an attorney. Tom was quite a few years older than I was, but he treated me with respect and as a friend. I remember that Tom was incredibly funny and smart. I was pleased to attend his law school graduation. My thoughts and prayers go out to Tom's family. I'd like you to know that many of us from that era in Tom's life still have fond memories of him that linger to this day.

Gregg Robinson

September 5, 2010

My deepest sympathies to Judge Adler, family members and friends. I wish you all well during this sad time. God bless you.

Lillian Lim

September 4, 2010

I was just a "baby" prosecutor on two cases with Tom, which he probably had no reason to remember given his illustrious career, but I never forgot over the years because he was kind and fair to me while still being a zealous advocate. His legacy, beyond his family, are the thousands of lives, like mine, he touched in such a positive way.

Chuck Sevilla

September 3, 2010

Tom was one of life's treasures. A man of many interests, everything he did, he did well. It was always a pleasure to be in his presence. His book, Lost to the World, was a metaphor of his life: a dogged determination to right a grievous wrong. His loss will be felt because there aren't many like him. He will be sorely missed.

Susan Kelley

August 31, 2010

Louise, so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

August 31, 2010

Merzy joins me in sending our sincere sympathy.

Russ Eisenberg

Joan Feeney

August 31, 2010

Dear Louise,

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved husband Tom. I met him several times with you at NCBJ and FJC events, and I admired your close relationship and your dedication to each other. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Joan Feeney

Werner Hanak

August 30, 2010

I am very sorry and sad to learn about Tom Adler's passing. I met Tom during the preparations for our major exhibition "quasi una fantasia. Jews and the City of Music" that we produced together with the Vienna Festival in 2003. Tom was very helpful in establishing his grandfather Guido Adler as a major character for this exhibition. Through him I learned a lot, not only in terms of music history but also about life. It was also great to see him at the opening in New York in 2004. I always admired him a lot in his fight to get back the manuscript of "Ich bin der Welt abhanden gekommen". Now he is lost to world.

Let me send you in the Name of the Jewish Museum Vienna our deepest condolences. I kindly ask you to forward them also to the family.

Kathi Diamant

August 29, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was a wise and gentle man, and I am honored to have known him. I will miss him, and be grateful always that our paths crossed as often as they did.

Laura Uematsu

August 29, 2010

Tom Adler was my best friend, a true father-figure and a grueling mentor to me. His dry sense of humor and his sense of justice kept me on my toes! I learned that I can do anything that I put my mind to -- as long as I work hard and stay focused. I am forever indebted to him. His impact reaches far and wide. My family & I will miss him deeply. Rest in peace, my friend.

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