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John Christopher Fiore

John Christopher Fiore obituary

John Fiore Obituary

John Christopher Fiore, 55, of San Luis Obispo, passed away Sunday, Nov. 14, 2010, at home with family. John was born in Providence, R.I., but lived most of his life on the Central Coast after having earned an MBA from Cal Poly. He worked in the local software industry but his life took an unexpected turn when he was diagnosed with leukemia in early 2005. A gifted writer, John chose to turn what would have been a devastating experience for most of us into a positive force in his life, and the lives of others, when he decided to chronicle his cancer journey publicly in the form of his blog, "Holy Cow, I Have Leukemia!" His tremendous will and irreverent sense of humor in the face of the unrelenting progress of his disease informed and inspired all who read his story. Just months after bone marrow transplant in 2008, John finished the Santa Barbara half-marathon with the Central Coast TNT team to raise funds for the Leukemia Lymphoma Society. He was a "cancer warrior" proudly victorious in battle after battle and only surrendered his fight when he decided the disease had taken too much of him. John was known for his generous heart and quick wit. He was a friend and mentor to many who knew him and worked with him. An enthusiastic wordsmith, he solved the Daily Jumble in seconds, beat most of us handily at Scrabble and loved a good verbal spar.  He was a poet and raconteur who left us a legacy of his writing and poetry. John loved all games, be it a good game of backgammon, a game of cribbage with his friend, Michael, family games at holidays, or a hand of poker with friends or strangers. A natural athlete, he coached baseball and basketball for his boys. He enjoyed surfing and golfing and pitched a mean softball. John found comfort and spirituality in the majesty of nature and spent many happy days traveling, camping, hiking and backpacking. He loved his family and raised two exceptional sons, of whom he was extremely proud.''John is survived by his wife, Dana; sons, John and Michael; brother, Frank; sisters Joanna, Lisa and Leslie; and an extended "karass" that loved him for the unique man that he was. He was preceded in death by his parents, Frank and Grace Fiore of Rhode Island. A reception and memorial service will be held in his honor at 2 p.m. Sunday, Dec. 5, 2010, at Rose's Landing on the Embarcadero in Morro Bay. In lieu of flowers, please donate to: The John C. Fiore Memorial Scholarship Fund at San Luis Obispo High School, 1499 San Luis Dr., San Luis Obispo, CA 93401. In his own words, John "was the flash of lightning you didn't see, except when the room lit up." We will miss your light in the room, John, but will hold it, always, in our hearts.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Nov. 23, 2010.

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Vance Davis

May 19, 2011

John was the best.

Carole Wing-Truesdale

December 6, 2010

Dana and family, I had the pleasure working with John through the different acquisitions of Arcada Software thru Veritas. Joe Seebach, Marshall Barton, John Fiore, et al held the CPG family together. There is not one person that attended the Memorial from the CPG-family who had not benefited from the guidance of these mentors. I was only able to attend the Celebration of John's Life for a short time, as I had to return to San Diego,for which I apologize. The light of life we are given may be extinguised at any time, but the footprint of memories always remain in our hearts. Blessings to you and your family.

December 5, 2010

John: We're burning this candle and then another and then another until we can see you again......love!!!

Bev Schalwitz

November 30, 2010

Remember the good times Dana. It does seem to soften the aching heart. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Chrys Barnes

November 28, 2010

I knew John as a fellow tutor with the SLO Literacy Council and then when he played Juror #5 for me in 12 Angry Men in February 2010. He did a GREAT job in the production, lending such an air of realism and truth to his character. Juror #5 is a guy from the streets whose knowledge of knife fighting ultimately provides a hugely important clue to the accused boy's probable innocence. John played the part with much grace and commitment. It was a pleasure knowing him. And what a poet!

Lisa and Paul Mahoney

November 27, 2010

It has been many years since we had the pleasure of John's company. His charm, quick wit, and incredible smile are what we remember the most. The recent pictures of John on his blog remind of that, happily, some things never change. Thank you, John, for sharing all of yourself throughout your courageous battle. And reminding us, throughout, what is real and true in this life. Our prayers and love flow from our hearts to Dana, John, and Michael, as well as all the family and friends, back here on the east coast.

November 27, 2010

We will treasure our friendly chats with John about golf, his many amazing traveling adventures, his expert advise on our landscaping problems and many more subjects. He was always a willing helpful neighbor and ready to reach out and help his fellow man. Thank you John, you will be missed. Ed & Jenn Carija

November 26, 2010

Dana and Family,
You have my most heartfelt sympathy.
Pat Lund

Marian Farris

November 24, 2010

Dana,John and Michael and family back east,
Your Dad and brother was a good man; very dedicated to his family and true friends (much like my own brother Mike). He also lived life on this earth to the fullest.
I am sorry you lost him right before Thanksgiving but I know you will be thankful for the lives he loved, touched and shared with others.
I am so happy I got to see him in Arcata at Michaela and Damien's wedding. He will be missed by all that had the priviledge of getting to know the real John and who loved him.
You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
I think John's blog will inspire to start my own.
We send our love and sympathy.

Sandy Gilliam

November 24, 2010

So sorry to hear of John's passing. He was amazing and fought strong and hard, he was a good man. My love and prayers go out to his family. Dana I love you and send you hugs and prayers!

November 23, 2010

"Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there...I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow...
I am the diamond glints on snow...
I am the sunlight on ripened grain...
I am the gentle autumn rain.
Do not stand at my grave and cry -
I am not there...I did not die..."
Remembering John each day in the beauty that surrounds us.
Love to Dana, John Jr and Michael.
Patricia Gundert

Angela McNulty

November 23, 2010

John touched my life last year during the holiday season. My father, mother, and I met John at a cancer support group at Sierra Vista Hospital. My Father was battling small cell lung cancer at the time. John lit up the room (and those present) with his words, both poetic and comedic. But more importantly, his presence glowed through the love, compassion, and dignity he showed for others. He was at peace with the world. I am blessed by my memories of John and thankful that he touched our lives. My prayers are now with him and his family.

John as Juror #5, "12 Angry Men," Feb 2010

Rev Curt Miner

November 23, 2010

It was an honor and a pleasure working with John on "12 Angry Men" back in Jan/Feb, and to dedicate our production of "Under Milk Wood" to his memory this past weekend ... I trust he enjoyed the show from his celestial box seat!

Debbie Gordon

November 23, 2010

St. Augustine--
"People travel to wonder at the height of mountains, at the huge waves of the sea, at the long courses of rivers, at the vast compass of the ocean, at the circular motion of the stars; and they pass by themselves without wondering."

John never passed himself by! He knew who he was and he marvelled at the world around him.

You will be missed John, by your family, your friends and those whose lives you have touched!

My love to Dana, John Jr, and Mike--stay strong when you can!

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