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GERALD T. E. GONZÃ�LEZ A unique and extraordinary New Mexican, passed away Tuesday, November 1, 2011 at the age of 68. He was born in Las Vegas, New Mexico, grew up in Santa Rosa, New Mexico and he cherished the childhood memories of the ranch at Pintada, New Mexico, living out of doors, herding sheep, and cooking beans and meat in the traditional way, in a pit. Gerald started an extraordinary adult life when he graduated with a Bachelor of Science in mathematics from Highlands University at age 19. Shortly thereafter, he joined the United States Air Force and eventually flew 100 combat missions over North Vietnam and 26 missions over South Vietnam, piloting the F-4C Phantom II. He received the Air Medal and 13 Oak Clusters for his Vietnam service. Back in the states he became a respected flight instructor and mentor to hundreds of budding pilots. After leaving the Air Force, Gerald was admitted to Harvard Law School and graduated with a J. D. in 1976. He returned to New Mexico and began a remarkable and distinguished career in law and government, including positions as Director of the Civil Division of the New Mexico Attorney General's Office, Chief Staff Counsel for the Public Service Commission, General Counsel of the Department of Finance and Administration, General Counsel of the Public Employee Retirement Association, and Santa Fe City Attorney, among others. Although many might consider the foregoing to be a satisfying and complete life's work, Gerald did not. He went on to become Chief of Staff for (then) Representative Tom Udall in Washington, DC, Santa Fe County Manager, Director of the State Bureau of Elections, and a media representative and majority legal analyst for the New Mexico Senate. Many will recall that Gerald's office overlooking the Senate Chamber at the Roundhouse was a magnet at any time of the day or night for dozens of close friends to gather and share thoughts, stories, memories and Gerald's warmth. Gerald was a lifelong historian, focusing on Southwest history and culture (and specifically of New Mexico's unique crypto-Judaic heritage) and the rich history of his own family and ancestors. His contributions to the collective knowledge are some of Gerald's most enduring legacies, which he generously contributed to the City of Santa Fe's recent 400th celebration. Gerald delighted in his loving wife Carey, family, friends, gardening, music, books, historical research, and living life to the fullest. This remarkable life was unfortunately cut short by illness. His family and friends will cherish memories of a warm, open, positive, and spiritual person whose ties to his family, culture, language and history made him a part of all of us and a reflection of New Mexico. Gerald will be missed. He is survived by his wife, Carey; son, Christopher Earnest González of Dallas, TX; son, Miguel Howe; daughter, Amber Darling of Lubbock, TX; granddaughter, Timber Darling; stepsons: Robert Deacon of Washington State, James Baker and John Baker, both of Texas; stepmother, Bibiana González of Taos; sister, Joyce Martinez of Taos; uncles, Joe Martinez of Santa Rosa and Rudy Martinez of Albuquerque; aunts, Delia Sanchez and Amelia Wallace of Albuquerque; and numerous nieces and nephews; great nieces and nephews ;and cousins. A Memorial Service will be conducted at 2 p.m. Saturday, November 5, 2011, at St. Bede's Episcopal Church, 1601 S St. Francis Drive in Santa Fe. Inurnment with military honors will be conducted at the Santa Fe National Cemetery at a later time. His family has requested that in lieu of flowers, donations be offered in Gerald's name to: Amber Care Hospice, 660-D St. Michael's Drive, Santa Fe, NM 87505. Rivera Family of Santa Fe Funeral Options 417 E. Rodeo Rd Santa Fe, NM (505)989-7032

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Published by Santa Fe New Mexican on Nov. 3, 2011.

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Ron Deyhle

October 28, 2024

Where do we get such fine men. I am blessed to have known you and call you my friend. New Mexico misses you. Ron Deyhle

Ron Deyhle

October 28, 2023

Gerald and I spent many hours in the cockpit together. A fellow New Mexican and we are all better for having known this fine man. Ron Deyhle class 70-02

Ron Deyhle

October 28, 2022

Speedy think. of you often and miss you terribly. You and I survived Flying over North Vietnam. I will see you when I cross over the river. Ron Deyhle

Ron deyhle

October 28, 2020

what a great guy. Miss him every day. A fellow fighter pilot. Ron Deyhle

November 13, 2011

Gerald was a great primo and friend to our family (Silvino Ortiz family) in Garfield, Loma Parda New Mexico. He loved to come down and talk to the people,(his people) down in theranchos. He was a humble and caring person. Even though my father "Silvino" was not an educated man and spoke little english, Gerald always treated him with dignity and respect. Of course, Gerald was one of us. His family was very proud of him. My mom remembers how my great grandma Zelfa Apodaca Gonzalez recounted our family history to him and how he always came by to visit her when he was down visiting the ranchos that his ancestors settled. His ranch is next to our place and we could never have asked for a better neighbor. My father "Silvino" passed away in June from pancreatic cancer. We feel your pain and loss. Gerald is now resting with his ancestors and friends who have gone before him. Que en paz descanse primo Gerald.

Silvino Ortiz family
Garfield, New Mexico

November 12, 2011

Dear Gerald's Family,
I met Gerald over the phone and emails because we shared a common passion - family history. He seemed like a wonderful person and I wish I had met him in person, but I met him in spirit. I will miss sharing our history with him. Peace be with you. Love, Prima Vera Lucero Las Cruces, NM

Arlan Anderson

November 10, 2011

Gerald and I were Instructors in "A" Flight at Reese AFB,TX. He was a great instructor and friend. I have many wonderful memories of our camping trips to his uncles' ranch near Santa Rosa, NM. Their wonderful hospitality to us “Gringos” was greatly appreciated and enjoyed. Gerald will be missed by all who knew him and I pray for God's blessings on his family and friends in this time of mourning.

Patti Carbonell

November 10, 2011

It was truly an honor to have Gerald as part of our family and it made me happy to have him as my brother-in law. He was the most facinating person I have ever had the priviledge to talk with. He had great stories and I hung on his every word. Just about the kindest, loving person I have ever known. My heart goes out to his entire group of friends, co-workers, family and my sister Carey for this great loss. I will miss you Gerald and think of you often....may peace be with you. The heavens got an angel.

Lewis "Doc" Wasson

November 8, 2011

I remember Gerald from our childhood days in Garfield,NM. He, Pat Criswell and me and my brothers played together. We all thought Gerald was the smartest kid we ever knew.

Frank Leuck

November 8, 2011

"Speedy" as we called him, and I were insturctor pilots together at Reese AFB, TX in the last 1960s. We were in the same squadron and had many flying experiences together. I consider him a true gentleman and of the greatest level of honesty. To Speedy I say, "I'd fly on your wing anytime!?

Libby Dover

November 7, 2011

I had the privilege of working with Gerald on the Santa Fe 400th. He was always so kind to me and the people around him – we always found ourselves saying “I hope Gerald is at this meeting!” He was so passionate about his family, history and community – what a wonderful soul and what a wonderful legacy to leave.

Jo Bradshaw

November 6, 2011

Gerald was my dear friend. I really loved him. We had many things in common. Among them, red chiles, reading,the history of New Mexico and the love of the Basenji dog. I miss you Gerald. Carey, I love you too.

Ron Deyhle

November 5, 2011

Gerald was my T-37 instructor pilot training 1968. We kept in touch through the years and I will miss him terribly. He always had a smile on.

Ruth Ortiz

November 5, 2011

I had the opportunity to work with Gerald at the legislature and he was an exceptional person - trustworthy, compassionate
and always acknowledged a person with a smile and greeting no matter how busy or rushed he might be. My condolences to the family. He will be missed. Ruth S. Ortiz

November 5, 2011

Gerald was my friend and fellow genealogist.It was a privilege to work with Gerald when I was chairman of the PERA Board. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and family.

Albert J. Gallegos, Santa Fe,New Mexico

Joe and Lorraine Campos

November 4, 2011

We will miss you Primo Gerald. Rest in Peace with the ancestors. Jose Campos and Lorraine Aguilar.

sherry tippett

November 4, 2011

It was my great honor to know and work with Gerald. I will miss his warmth and joy. He has contributed a great deal to the state of New Mexico and will be greatly missed.

Lee Peters

November 4, 2011

Gerald has been my friend for over 30 years and he is, in a way, responsible for me finding my wonderful wife of almost 30 years. Gerald and I enjoyed talking New Mexico history and geneologies. I will always remember the big smile and that unique laugh that he always had. I will miss Gerald greatly.

Hyacinth Salas

November 4, 2011

Gerald was a Renaissance man! He was open to all of life and was constantly searching for truth and love. As Gerald would say, "Here's to love."

November 3, 2011

It was my privilege to have worked with Gerald when he was Santa Fe County Manager and I was Chief Deputy for Santa Fe County Clerk Valerie Espinoza. I found him to be knowledgeable, accommodating, friendly and classy. I will miss his smile and congeniality. New Mexico has lost a good man.

Shirley Hooper-Garcia
Former Secretary of State

Natalie Sapien-Trujillo

November 3, 2011

I met Gerald when I was 11 years old, that was 45 years ago. I will always consider him my brother, and my friend. Con carino mi hermano, Natalie Sapien-Trujillo......

Jose Villegas

November 3, 2011

Don Gerald T. E. Gonzales earned his wings with God. I will always keep him in my heart and light his candle at night and for his familia. I met Don Gerald T. E. Gonzales at the state archives many years ago and we share alot of about NM History. He was definitely the historian of New Mexico History at the best. Don Gerald T. E. Gonzales was instrumental in the implementation and defending the Police chaplaincy program for our law enforcement officer's and thier families in Santa Fe County. Don Gerald T. E. Gonzales, rest in peace. Mi Manito Hermano as always.
Bendiciones,
Jose L. Villegas, Sr.
Police Chaplain

Daryl Schwebach

November 3, 2011

Dear family and friends of Gerald:
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time, and I hope that you are comforted by fond memories of Gerald. I will never forget Gerald lending a hand and an ear as I moved to Santa Fe as a single father. By then, I had already known him as a friend and had worked with him for many years at the Attorney General's Office. We both went on to many other things after that, but he always remained my friend.
He possessed such a depth of character, sincere, honorable and kind, always caring, with a smile and a chuckle. Even now, I feel him consoling and comforting me as I grieve his loss! Gerald, we will forever carry you in our hearts as you have touched so many! You lived life to the fullest, and I am better for having known you. I will miss you!

Shirley Montano Ulibarri

November 3, 2011

Familia de Gerald Gonzales,
Our sincere condolences at this sad time. Hold on to the memories and share them with each other. The thoughts and memories will help you heal and keep Geralds spirit alive. Uncle Alcario and Aunt Stella loved him and always bragged about all of his many accomplishments. I never met Gerald but I feel like I knew him . Gilbert and I (Shirley) were in Santa Rosa just recently and he showed us a beautiful collection of pictures of your family. Uncle Alcario was beaming with pride.
May Gerald rest in peace .
Gilbert and Shirley M. Ulibarri

November 3, 2011

I am with a heavy heart this morning and I want to say I am sorry to your family and my prayers and love go out to your family.. I know for sure you are flying above the eagles and you are higher than you have ever been I want you to have a safe journey and my friend I will miss your great smile and I say and salute you with honor,, my prayers and love are with you on this trip and I know you will come back safely.. ronald r beserra alabuquerque, n.m

Marie Ozila Serrano Ortega

November 3, 2011

There are no words that can console the grief that Gerald's family and friends are experiencing. He was truly a wonderful person who had wonderful talents and skills. Excellence was his norm! I am grateful to have shared our growing up days all the way through college and occasionally through the years beyond. He was a primo who treated me like an extra sister and thus his name for me was "Sis". He cherished family enough to stop by to visit whenever he was in town, or buzz the skies above Santa Rosa! Once he even surprised me with a quick stop in California one afternoon long, long ago in his snazzy Corvette just to say, "Hi". He kept the family connection as well as the family history - and then handed out copies!
My heartfelt sympathies to Carey and his children and to Joyce and her family, as well as his tios and tias. Rest in Peace, Gerald, you will never be forgotten. Love, "Sis"

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