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Scott McFarlane Obituary
Scott John McFARLANE Scott died at the age of 49 on March 4, 2011, surrounded by his family. Born on January 15, 1962 in Seattle, Scott spent most of his life in the Greenlake area. Survived by his parents, Robert and Marlene McFarlane; sister, Shawn (Shane); brother, Steve (Kate); his nieces, Danielle and Danica; and nephew, Gavin. Scott was a sweet kind man with a gentle soul. He loved spending time at the family cabin on Whidbey Island where he found peace and serenity. Scott was a talented artist who excelled in multiple media. He was very adventurous. He lived in Hawaii, sheared sheep in New Zealand, traveled the United States, spent time in India, lived on a sailboat, sailed from Maui to Tahiti and even traveled with the Cirque du Soleil. He accomplished quite a lot in his short life. Life dealt Scott many misfortunes. He fought them all bravely, but in the end cancer was one battle he could not win. We love you Scotty, you will be missed by many. Funeral Service will be held Saturday, March 12th, at 1:00 p.m. at Hoffner Fisher & Harvey Chapel 508 North 36th St., Seattle Interment, Holyrood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made in Scott's name to Hospice c/o Evergreen Healthcare Foundation, 12040 NE 128th Street, MS #5, Kirkland, WA 98034-3013. Please sign the on-line Guest Book at www.Legacy.comTo plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Scott McFarlane
Laura Ellis
April 27, 2011
Scotty was a very good friend. He was kind and patient and fun. I am so grateful to Scotty for his role in introducing me to the Monastery. When I first arrived at the Monastery in 2004 Scotty was attending Rinpoche. He was so easy going and relaxed, and made it easy for me to relate to Rinpoche. We used to go out to lunch with Rinpoche and Scotty would often ask Rinpoche the questions I was too shy to ask. I can't express how important this was in my process of becoming Rinpoche's student and I will always be indebted to Scotty for his kindness. Rinpoche enjoyed Scotty as a companion; a relationship that I have not seen repeated since. He had the rare quality of being completely himself and informal yet still attentive and respectful of Rinpoche as his teacher. He was a great role model for me. I remember he showed me a text called ‘The Fifty Verses of Guru Devotion'. Scotty exemplified these verses. I have missed him these last few years and will continue to miss him. He was a wonderful person.
Carolyn Massey
April 27, 2011
I feel like Scotty and I were true friends. We did everything together: we went walking in the woods, we went driving, we worked at the Monastery, we went to the movies, we had coffee and tea, we did all the camping trips. I sincerely treasure Scotty’s friendship - every minute – then and now - I still do. Every time I saw Scotty I was happy to see him and I feel he was happy to see me. We did everything together and we did nothing together. We would hang out and just talk and relax and just accept each other. I feel very lucky that I had a friendship like that, and, especially since I wasn’t there for Scotty at the end, it was very comforting, and I’m very grateful that Scotty has a truly supportive and loving family and many friends like me that will always love him, will always appreciate him and will miss him until they die too.
Dave Shotwell
April 20, 2011
Bob, Marlene and Family, I'm very sorry to hear of Scott's passing. I will hold onto my many fond childhood memories playing football and baseball at Greenlake with Scott, Steve, Bob, Lynn and the rest of the neighborhood gang. I wish you all peace.
Ashley Toney
April 20, 2011
Scottie and I were good friends through Sakya Monastery. We studied philosophy together and discussed many topics. I will miss him greatly and feel for his family's loss. I feel blessed to have know him.
JAMES JOHNSON
April 10, 2011
MARLENE AND BOB I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.WE WILL MISS SCOTT VERY MUCH. THE POOR GUY DID NOT HAVE A VERY GOOD LIFE.I HOPE HE IS IN ABETTER PLACE NOW. LOVE BROTHER JIM .
March 31, 2011
Marlene and Bob: it is surely my misfortune that I never met this wonderful son of yours..with love , Cousin Richard Donahue
June and John Esposito
March 28, 2011
Dear Marlene, Bob and family,
How saddened I am for you at the passing of your precious son, Scott. As I read all the wonderful things said about him, I wished I had known him. He was so loved and he brought much joy to you all.
I pray for you all dear friends. Asking our Lord to comfort you in your deepest grief. I pray that your fondest memories of Scott will bring you much peace knowing his love for you will carrying you through these difficult times.
Our love and sympathies are with you.
Andy Thomas
March 15, 2011
Scott was a true friend, and a gentleman. He was always his own person. Hearty condolences to the family.
Bev and Don Swanson
March 15, 2011
Marlene and Bob
Words can't heal you but I want you to know we are thinking of you.He was so handsome and led an interesting life. Now he is free from pain.. I want to give you both a big hug but we will see you.. Please except our sympathy..
Leni Tsoukalas-Pena
March 14, 2011
Dear Bob, Marlene, Shawn and Steve, I will always remember Scott to be the most kind, brave, courageous and wonderful human being. I want to express my sincerest condolences and I share in your grief. You're like family to me, my heart goes out to all of you.
Marlene Chaney
March 13, 2011
Bob, Marlene and family,
I am so sorry we are so far away that I never had the opportunity to meet your son, Scott and family. I have a Scott too. My deepest sympathy to you. I will remember you in my prayers and thank God your Scott is at peace.
Marlene (Abruzino) Chaney
Penny Heiss
March 12, 2011
Bob,Marlene,Steve,Shawn and the rest of the family, how blessed we all are to have had Scott in our lives. That beautiful smile, what a kind person. Our love and prayers are with you all
John Jesse
March 11, 2011
Marlene,Bob, Shawn and Steve,
Scott was an amazing man from an amazing family. My thoughts are with you.
Sally and Wayne Hughes
March 11, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
One of Scott's chalks, I love it
Fred and Peggy Knierim
March 11, 2011
Bob, Marlene, Steve and Shawn,
Fred and I are praying for your family. Scott will be greatly missed by us, he was a loyal friend and such an advnenturist. He will be in hearts forever.
Much love to all of you.
Rudy Heiss
March 11, 2011
To the McFarlane Family, my memeories of Scott always bring a smile to my face. He was a great friend to me in high school, and will be missed by all. My family's thoughts and prayers will be with you all.
John Litzenberger
March 11, 2011
My deepest condolences to the McFarlane family and all of Scott’s loved ones. He left an indelible impression on all who knew him and will be missed dearly.
March 10, 2011
Bob, Marlene, Shawn, Steve and the rest of the family, I will always cherish the times I spent at the Mcfarlane house. Scotty was always kind, generous, and very talented. We will all miss him. I am sending you my love and prayers, Edna Eng
Doug and Mary Nelson
March 10, 2011
Bob, Marlene and family -
we are so sorry for your loss and our prayers are with all of you. We wish you comfort and peace and you are in our prayers.
mike skeel
March 10, 2011
bob,marlene,shawn,steve I am so sorry scott was wonderful person and good friend he will be missed !
James Raptis
March 10, 2011
Marlene, Bob, Shawn and Steve; Scott was lucky to have such a loving and caring family. His life was an adventure that everyone that knew him got to share.
Jim Reed
March 10, 2011
I knew Scott way back in the 1970's. We played football together on the Greenwood Boys Club, His brother Steve played basketball with me and their father was our coach. I haven't seen any of the Mcfarlane's in a long time. I think about them a lot and wondered how they are doing. I am deeply saddened about Scotts passing, i remember him as a great athlete and always fun to be around. My condolences go out to the Family.
Debbie Croskey
March 10, 2011
Dear Bob, Marlene, Steve, & Shawn - I just heard of the loss of Scott and cannot tell you how shocked and saddened I am to hear he's gone. I'm so sorry to think how devastating a loss this is in your family. Scott was a beautiful person and a joy to have known - along with the rest of your wonderful family. You are all in my thoughts with my deepest sympathy. I wish you peace and love and strength to you all in this time of grieving.
Teresa Emery Torrence
March 10, 2011
My heartfelt condolences to the McFarlane Family and friends. May you find comfort with one another and in your cherished memories of Scott.
Joni Mitchell
March 10, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss; Scott was such a special man. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nancy Lauterbach
March 10, 2011
We may enter and leave this world seemingly alone; but in between, we clearly have each other. Thank you for sharing some of that time in between with me Scotty. We will truly miss you and your kind spirit.
timmi harrop
March 10, 2011
i loved scotty deeply and cared for him so very much. i will miss him greatly but am relieved he is no longer suffering. sail away my sweet soul xoxoxo
Lisa Lewis
March 10, 2011
I hadn't the chance to speak with scotty in many years to my regret. My memories are what a nice, always smiling, sometimes guiet person he was. This is truly such an early loss of a very loved man! My heart goes out to STeve, and my prayers and sympathy to the whole McFarlane family.
Lynne Pedersen
March 9, 2011
Marlene, Bob, Shawn, and Steve
I will miss Scott's strong spirit and beautiful soul, and his love for adventure. I will always have fond memories of growing up with him in the "hood." My love and prayers to you all.
Pam Eastman Clark
March 9, 2011
My condolences to the McFarlane family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Janel Metcalfe
March 9, 2011
I will miss Scott's gentle heart and beautiful soul! I will keep Scott in my heart.
Mailyn Wilkinson
March 9, 2011
Dear Bob,Marlene,Shawn,and Steve
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Scott was a wonderful man, a great kid and that is a reflection on you. Hold on to all the wonderful memories you have. We are all lucky to have had him in our lives......
Love to you all
Val Patrick
March 9, 2011
Bob and Marlene I am so sorry to read about Scott today. You both are in my thoughts.
Darlene & Wally Rogers
March 9, 2011
Sending love and prayers to Our Lord and Scott's family. He is at peace. May you be comforted knowing this.
Chuck & Gloria Griffith
March 9, 2011
Our heartfelt sympathy to you Bob and Marlene, and all of the family. Your loss is shared by many. May peace and comfort come to you in the days ahead, and leave only the sweet memories.
Val Patrick
March 9, 2011
Bob and Marlene. I am so sorry to read about Scott. My thoughts are with you.
GREGORY BINONGCAL
March 9, 2011
MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO THE MCFARLANE FAMILY
Lorena Herrmann
March 9, 2011
Shawn and family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. It is never easy to loose a loved one. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Lorena Herrmann
Diane Ronsano
March 9, 2011
What a beautiful obituary and tribute to Scott, you can definitely feel how much he loved and was loved by all of his family. My deepest sympathy and love to you all.
Martha Foster
March 9, 2011
Marlene and Bob,
I am truely sorry for your loss.
I know you will miss him a great deal.
He will never die as long as you keep him in your hearts and memories. He will stay in mine.
My prayers are with you and your family
March 9, 2011
We are so sorry to hear about Scott's passing. Sending you all our love and prayers.
Gary and Carol Hazlegrove
Monika Lirio
March 9, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss of a great man. My prayers to your entire family.
Pete Thomas
March 9, 2011
There is nothing I can say to change how you feel, but you love you all, Steve, Shawn, Bob and Marlene. Scott was always the most loyal and respectful, a great friend and a person I looked up to.
Bill Oliver
March 9, 2011
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Nancy L Hedrick
March 9, 2011
My sincere condolences to Bob and Marlene and their family. Wished I could have been there to help. Love you all
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