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Anna Wikander Obituary

Anna Paulina von Stietz Wikander

December 18, 1923 –


                        January 9, 2014


Berkeley, California


 


Born into a Dutch sugar plantation family in Malang, on the island of Java, Indonesia, Anna immigrated to the United States with her parents George Edward Gerald von Stietz and Gerarda Cornelia Van Zjyll de Jong von Stietz and newborn sister, in December 1927. Leaving behind a privileged life, while her father looked for land to settle his family, for their first 6 months, Anna and her sister "Gerry" lived in San Francisco with her mother who learned to do the domestic chores of daily living, including learning to cook and to change diapers. After running a dairy farm near Merced - where her mother learned to milk cows - the family eventually moved to Berkeley. Her mother always considered living in America "a very hard life."


 


In her early school years, Anna's talents at playing piano and oil painting were recognized and they distinguished her throughout her life. She met her future husband, Russell Eric Wikander, in homeroom at Berkeley High School, where, to get his attention, she put out her foot and tripped him when he was walking between the rows of desks. He thought she was cute, but told her he didn't like the way she styled her hair!


 


Anna, a mid-termer (Berkeley families may remember mid-termers), just days after the attack on Pearl Harbor, graduated from Berkeley High School. The graduation ceremony was held at the Oaks Theatre on her eighteenth birthday, December 18, 1941. Many in her class, herself and future husband included, enlisted in the armed services: many of her classmates never returned home.


 


Anna always said that serving in the Women's Army Corps was a life changing experience. Her talents as an artist were put to great use, illustrating military brochures, and she played the piano nearly every evening at base parties. She became a lifelong coffee drinker, because in the bitter cold Iowa winters - getting up at 5am reveille - a mug of hot coffee would warm her hands. In December 1945, Anna married Russell Eric Wikander in Willimantic, Connecticut, and they eventually settled in Berkeley, California. Her husband often marveled that they ever met at all, considering the geography that separated them at birth – she in Indonesia, and he in Groton, Connecticut.


 


Anna taught her children to play piano and each child took up a separate instrument. Holiday celebrations always included music and singing. Looking back, she regretted, while her children grew up, that she didn't set aside a room just for her artwork – maybe this would have encouraged her kids to include art in their own lives and to receive the pleasure she did from painting.


 


A talented woman whose family meant everything to her, she was predeceased by her husband of 63 years in 2006, and her sister, Gerarda von Stietz Nelson, who died in 1967. Besides dozens of oil paintings and several pianos, Anna leaves her four children and their spouses: Russell Eric Wikander, Jr. (Maureen), Hilma Wikander Jones (Mark), Bill Wikander (Jan) and Paul Wikander (Carrie), 10 grandchildren; Mark, Erica, Madeline and Caitlin, Nathan, Steven and Sara, Linnea and Spencer, and Jonas; and 3 great grandchildren Brian, Vanessa and Jackson.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jan. 13 to Jan. 14, 2014.

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Jeanne Bronk

January 31, 2014

Dear Hilma and Eric,

I just learned today on my return from Australia that your Mother, and my dear friend, passed away while I was gone. I am so sorry. Your Mother was such a good friend to me for many years. Please accept my condolences, and also my condolences to Bill and Paul and the respective families.

Rachel Laws

January 27, 2014

I will always remember your mother. Anna and Russ were so kind and welcoming to me. She will be missed.

Phylli FRUZZETTI

January 19, 2014

I did not realize all of this about Anna, even though I knew she was an extraordinary person. I will miss her, and want to extend my sincere condolences.

Carl Ibsen

January 18, 2014

So sorry for your loss.

January 15, 2014

Dear Hilma,
We are sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. What a full and interesting life she lived! Her legacy is living on today through her family. Our prayers are with you and your family and know that time will ease your pain of loss.
Barbara and Gary Routh

Denise Stubblefield

January 15, 2014

Beautiful article and what a remarkable, full life. Our prayers are with you.

January 14, 2014

Dear Hilma,
My first thought when I opened the attachment was "wow, you really look like your mom...so beautiful and such a kind smile." She lived an amazing life with perseverance and determination.
Now, I realize where you get that " Can Do" spirit. She lives on through you.
Bonnie O.

Mario Moratorio

January 14, 2014

Dear Hilma, sorry for your loss. Glad to hear that your last visit with your Mom was a happy one!! Hugs, Mario

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