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Robert & Ellen Pierce
August 2, 2007
Lisa and family,
I just found out about Jay after all this time and felt compelled to leave a note. Anyone who worked with Jay would almost certainly remember him as one of the most influential people in their careers. He was larger than life. My wife met him just once back in the Forte days and remembers today exactly what he looked like and what he said in their 10 minute conversation. It didn't surprise me. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bert & Jane Lucas
November 14, 2006
Dear Lisa:
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and the children for this untimely loss of such a bright spirit, husband, partner, father, and friend. Peace be with you.
Phyllis Woods
October 31, 2006
lisa and family,
I am so sorry about Jay.
The two of you made me feel so welcome each time Mary brought me to your house.
I pray that you with the help of God and your family that you will get through this trying time.
Eric Sindelar
October 30, 2006
I only knew Jay for about a month, yet we became friends immediately. I believe that you only meet a few very special people in your life, and Jay was one of them for me. I had just had a beer with Jay on 10/13 to discuss business opportunities between Intel/oQo in Palo Alto. He was so excited to meet his family at his favorite place (the bike shop) and then go for dinner. I can't believe that he is gone.
My deepest condolences to the Shiveley family.
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Jean Smith
October 26, 2006
Dear Lisa,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and the kids. We are so sorry for your loss.
John and I have such fond memories of skiing with Jay, and you both welcoming us into your home.
Please take good care of yourself, and know you are in our thoughts.
John and Jean Smith
Cevin Petersen
October 26, 2006
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the family and friends of Jay from the Minnesota State University Track Alumni.
Jay was a great athlete (all-american), teammate, friend, and we will miss him.
Jeannine Johnson-Hehir
October 26, 2006
For years I bragged about placing the first sales rep in Minneapolis for Oracle, Jay Shiveley! Being able to say I've known Jay and worked with him over some years has been a true honor. I think of him often and have used my "Jay Story" as an example to many people on how to succeed in life. He truly was gifted. My heart aches for your families loss. May the memories of Jay give you strength through this sad time.
Rob Gorlin
October 25, 2006
Lisa,
My family and I are thinking of you and the kids as you absorb this shocking loss. Jay was an extraordinary character, and I enjoyed our time together at Forte very much. We had lunch just a couple of months ago, after not seeing each other for several yeas. He was very excited about the new company, his biking, Keaton's skiing, and the family's other goings-on. It was great to see him so happy and fulfilled. We will all miss him very much.
Krissy Resman(Shiveley)
October 25, 2006
Dear Jay,
You were the best uncle in the world. I love you so much. Thanks for everything.
Bob & Nancy Hebrink
October 25, 2006
Our thoughts go out to the many friends and family memebers that will miss Jay.
Reynaldo Gil
October 25, 2006
Please accept my deepest condolences and sympathy.
I knoew Jay from my time at Vitria.
John Hogan
October 25, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I meet Jay back in his cross country and track days at Mankato State University.
Tushar Shah
October 25, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathies. Jay was both a mentor and inspiration to me during my days at Vitria.
Ryan Boroughs
October 25, 2006
Lisa,
My heart dropped to the floor this afternoon when I heard the news. My thoughts are with you and Keaton.
Ryan Boroughs
John & Diane Wilcox
October 24, 2006
We were heartbroken to hear of your loss. Jay was a great man, we admired all of his accomplishments. Lisa, you and your children will be in our thoughts and prayers, that you may find comfort and peace.
Love,
Sue Clifford
October 24, 2006
Lisa,
We are so very sorry to hear about Jay. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids.
The Cliffords
Nicki Hutzul
October 24, 2006
Lisa,
I am thinking about you and the children all the time. I am so deeply saddened for you loss. I know Jay is in a better place and just worrying like heck about you and the children. Take care of yourself.
Jeanine (Trudeau) Lauer
October 24, 2006
To the Shiveley Family,
I was saddened to hear about the loss of Jay. I grew up across the "garden" from Jake & Karen, Jay, Sabrena, Lee Ann and Tim in Springfield, Minnesota. You have such a wonderful family and should be proud of what a profound impact Jay made on so many people's careers and lives. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Michael Levinthal
October 23, 2006
Lisa-
Kathy and I just heard the news this afternoon - we can't tell how much we were shocked. Our entire family is thinking about you and your family. Park City will miss the wonderful spirit and energy that Jay brought to town on a regular basis. We miss him and will always keep him in our thoughts
Christine Ingalls
October 23, 2006
Jay was an incredible talent. I had the utmost respect for him in the early days of Vitria. My thoughts are with his family.
Chuck Ramsay
October 23, 2006
Dear Lisa,
The news of Jay's passing just reached us today. On behalf of all your friends at Mount Holyoke, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Warm regards,
Chuck Ramsay
John Biundo
October 23, 2006
Lisa and Family,
My deepest condolences and sympathies. Jay was one of a kind. He had a profound effect on my life and career, as well as that of countless others, and we will never forget him.
You are all in Laurie's and my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
John Biundo
Brian Smith
October 23, 2006
Lisa,
We are truly sorry for your loss. Jay was an amazing person, with incredible drive and clarity and a gift for motivating and teaching others.
In working with Jay for many years, he would speak of you often. You and the children were always a source of great pride and happiness to him.
Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.
Brian & Nancy Smith
Scott Simmons
October 23, 2006
Lisa - Jay was an amazing man and I feel privileged to have known and worked with him – my sincere condolences to you and your family
Glenna Graupmann
October 23, 2006
Dear Karen and Jake:
We are saddened by your loss. We will have Lisa and the children in our prayers. May you know the wonderful reward he has received in heaven and that he is at peace.
Uncle Warren and Aunt Glenna
Gordon Simpson
October 23, 2006
My deepest sympathy.
It is hard to think of so much energy and intelligence taken away too soon. I know not being with his family will be his greatest frustration as it was when he was working.
He'll be missed.
Rudi Wever
October 23, 2006
To the Shiveley family,
My heart goes out to all of you for your tremendous loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Jay touched so many lives in so many wonderful ways. Everyone misses him.
Mark Halverson
October 23, 2006
Lisa, our hearts and prayers reach out to you and your family. Jay has touched so many people. I worked with Jay both at Oracle and Forte. He was an incredibly talented person and it was a privilege to work with him and learn from him.
Pat Drummond
October 23, 2006
Lisa,
I am so sorry to hear about Jay. I loved that man. Denise and my thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids.
Pat Drummond
Kent KaSICA
October 23, 2006
I am truly saddened by your. I wish you and the family nothing but the best. My prayers go out to you.
David Vancina
October 23, 2006
Jay was a tremendous source of energy in the early days at Vitria. I'm sorry to hear this sad news, and extend my condolences to his family.
Duncan Bennet
October 22, 2006
Lisa
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children in your time of
grief. May your memories bring you comfort - Jay certainly gave a group
of us in Australia some wonderful memories from our days at Forte.
mike payne
October 22, 2006
Jay was a fantastically driven and commited man. He was an inspiration to work with and for, truly truly a sad loss. my condolances to his family and friends.I will always remember his energy, commitment and values.
Our thoughts are with you,
Mike,Sue,Isabella, Christian and Alexander
Sean McMahon
October 22, 2006
Dear Lisa,
I am so saddened to hear about Jay and so sorry for your loss. I was one of Jay's sales guys at Forte and Jay had a profoundly positive impact on my career.
With deepest sympathies,
Sean McMahon
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