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Dr. James V. JOY III

1964 - 2018

Dr.  James V. JOY III obituary, 1964-2018, Spokane Valley, WA

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James JOY Obituary

JOY, Dr. James V. III Dr. James V. Joy III, best known as Jim, died Thursday, November 1, in Ushuaia, Argentina in a skiing accident while on his journey to Antarctica to ski all seven continents. Jim was 54 years old and leaves behind his beautiful wife, Lori and daughters, Katie and Audrey. Jim was born on May 12, 1964 to James V. Joy, Jr and Clare Joy. Jim was born to the delight of his parents, after having three daughters, and to carry on the family name. His grandfather, James V. Joy Sr., was born in County Kerry, Ireland in 1898, the second youngest of 17 children. JVJ Sr., was said to have taken out an article in the local Connecticut paper to praise God for the birth of his namesake and hand out cigars to the world! Jim grew up in Darien, Connecticut and attended Holmes School and St. John-St.Thomas More School for his elementary school years, and with his family formed his strong Catholic faith. He graduated from Darien High School in 1982 and attended Fordham University with a dual major in both Biology and Philosophy. A member of the Mimes and Mummers at Fordham, Jim was both an actor and director. He also started the Fordham Outdoors Club, an important aspect to a school located in the Bronx, New York. After graduating from Fordham with high honors in 1986, Jim went on to attend the College of Physician and Surgeons at Columbia University. Jim excelled and graduated in the top of his class while at the same time acting and directing plays at Columbia. Jim had his internship at Greenwich Hospital in Greenwich, CT and residency at the University of Washington in Seattle. Jim met the love of his life, Dr. Lori Frank Joy in 1992 at the University of Washington. Jim and Lori were married in Billings, Montana in his wife's home town surrounded by hundreds of friends and family. Their first daughter, Katherine "Katie", was born in 1999 followed by Audrey in 2001. Jim's first passion was his family and his multitude of friends. The family resides in Spokane, Washington where Jim was an anesthesiologist with Anesthesia Associates for many years. Jim loved puns so the fact that both he was Dr. Joy, alleviating the suffering of hundreds, along with his wife, Dr. Lori Joy who is an OB/GYN, was not lost on anyone. Jim was preceded in death by his father, James V. Joy, Jr and his father-in-law, Nick V. Frank. He is survived by his mother, Clare G. Joy of Darien, Connecticut, his three older sisters, Louise Joy (Gary Lewis) of Austin, TX, Susan Joy Minker (Marc) of Naples, FL, and Mary Joy Paul (Joe Middelburg) of Golden, Colorado, and his mother-in-law Hilda Frank of Billings, MT, brothers-in-law Robert Frank of Columbus, MT, Dan Frank (Lori) and Tom Frank (Cathy Jo) of Billings, Brian Frank (Becky) of Joliet, MT and sisters-in-law Brenda Frank of Pflugerville, TX, and Michelle Hill (Curtis) of Great Falls, MT and numerous nieces and nephews. Jim touched his community with his care for others, love for the outdoors and adventuring, great intelligence and wisdom, generous and kind spirit, and for his deep, powerful love for his family. He was a spark, and through his life, he set the world on fire. We will miss him very, very much. A Rosary will recited at the Hazen & Jaeger Valley funeral home at 6 pm on Sunday, November 11 and a Catholic Mass on Monday, November 12 at 11 am at St. Aloysius Church. Both are located in Spokane, Washington. In lieu of flowers, donations would greatly be appreciated to Second Harvest Food Bank of Spokane or the Gonzaga Prep Food Drive. https://www.gprep.com/apps/pages/ index.jsp?uREC_ID=990734&type=d&pREC_ID=1306926

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Published by Spokesman-Review from Nov. 7 to Nov. 11, 2018.

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Áine Joy

November 19, 2018

Lori, Katie, Audrey, and extended Joy family, we send our deepest condolences to you all. Jim was a light that burned brightly, a lover of life and a liver of life - his enthusiasm and positivity brightened our June 2018. May the Lord bless him and keep him. May He make his light to shine upon him, and may He be gracious unto his soul.

richard oeser

November 14, 2018

I'm deeply saddened to hear of Jim's Passing. He was a great mentor as I started my anesthesia career with Anesthesia Associates. His caring and leadership will be missed.

Janice Abramson

November 14, 2018

I was sadden by the news of Jim's passing. I will miss seeing him come the theatre. My thoughts and prayers go to his family

barbara lingo

November 11, 2018

Heartfelt condolences to the family of Dr. Joy. I worked at Deaconess in the recovery room and have many memories of our times working together. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time and he will be greatly missed by so many.

Isaiah Dalager

November 9, 2018

My heart aches for The Joy family. Jim was an amazing man. He had a true caring heart for his patients and the staff he worked with. My fondest memories of Jim were how he could light up a room with his Big eye Deers. May God embrace you all with comfort and love and my dearest condolences for your loss. I will continue to keep you all in my heart and prayers during this unimaginable time

Crystal Carter

November 8, 2018

You will be greatly missed Dr. Joy. It was a true honor to work alongside you and call you a friend. Prayers of comfort and peace for Lori, Katie and Audrey.

Crystal Carter

November 8, 2018

You will be greatly missed Dr. Joy. It was a true honor to work and learn along side of you.

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Carol Gibson

November 8, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss Dr. Joy and family. Your husband was a wonderful anesthesiologist. I am sending lots of prayers

Vince Zimmer

November 8, 2018

Lori and family...so saddened to hear of Jims' passing...what a wonderful and talented person that defined the words..."Good People"..thoughts and prayers to you all

Chris Anderson

November 7, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss, Lori and family. Jim was a wonderful man and a great doctor, and he will be missed.
Chris Anderson MD

Kim Griego

November 7, 2018

Our sincere condolences to the family of this beloved man. Lori, Katie and Audrey, my heart aches for you as I lift you up in prayer, but know that he left behind what seems to be a wonderful legacy. Lean on your faith, family and friends in your time of sorrow, and treasure all of the beautiful memories you made together over the years.

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