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for Maury Owens
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Patsy McCall
January 4, 2009
Something wonderful has happened. You all know that Maury had a way of living "all out" with a little drama and spice always added to any endeavor....results being just a bit more dramatic than the norm. I guess he's still at it.
At the end of the year, I told a good friend my intention to plant a tree, donate a bench for a park or something to create a space where I can be prayerful or thoughtful with memories of Mo. She gave me the name of a friend of hers who is building a labyrinth at Lichgate on High Road and needs financial sponsorship. I contacted and confirmed intent with the labyrinth artist, Kathy Weiss. Heck of a site more of a project than a bench, right?
If you are interested, there is a Democrat article with photos, dated 12/23/07 about The Lichgate Oak and Lichgate has its own website. The Jepsen Institute owns and maintains Lichgate, a special place of natural life and beauty in Tallahassee, which has fairytale-like qualities including the cottage which is a replica of homes in the Black Forest of Germany and a huge oak that is one of Tallahassee's finest.. People come to the oak to wonder about life.
You may recall that our Maury's birthday was 12/23, same as the Democrat article...one of many synchronous parts of this story and there are more including the fact that, as a teenager, Maury hung out in the woods at Lichgate.
This labyrinth will mean more to the memory of Maury than you can imagine.
According to the Democrat article, a "lich gate" refers to a roofed gateway at a cemetery entrance, where coffin bearers could set down a casket and wait for the clergy. The lich gate on High Road was the first structure erected on the property by the owner, Dr. Laura Jepsen who passed on Christmas Eve, 1995.
This is my first attempt to write about the labyrinth and I want to request any financial support any of you may offer toward building the labyrinth. A plaque will be made to show that this effort was financed by family and friends. If you want to donate, please contact me at wevalueseniors.com or send a check, made out to the Jepsen Institute (for labyrinth). It will be tax deductible. My address is 2121 Croydon Drive, Tallahassee 32303. Feel free to call 850-385-5784.
Many blessings for the New Year to you all.
Patsy McCall
May 27, 2008
This guest book is an incredible way for me to stay connected to memories of my son, Maury and his many friendships. I miss him so much. It hurts. Someone told me that sometimes when we cry, it's our heart spilling over with all the love we feel. My heart spills pretty regularly and, more and more, I feel the love. I'm grateful for the little time we had, Maury. I would so love to see you once more. Your Mom is thinking of you and praying for you...as always.
Trent Wilson, Sr.
April 23, 2008
Maury,
You were "my brother from another mother" and I loved you. We had a lot of good times and I will cherish them forever. It was your visit to me in Chicago that persuaded me to get my ear pierced, which I never thought that I would do. We laughed our butts off that day. By the way, I still wear it and it will always remind me of you as it does to this day.
You touched more lives than you were aware of and I am sure that you are doing the same in heaven. I pray that in spite of the situations in your life, you were able to have some peace. We will see each other again....I'm sure of that. We never always understand God's purpose or plan for our lives, but I am sure that he brought you home to brighten the day of someone else who needed it. You were a giver and a lover of life and you will forever remain in my heart, my dear friend.
I will look over and keep in touch with Erin and Rachel as they continue to grow. I will always be their crazy Uncle Trent. Rest in peace my friend and leave some fish in the heavenly lakes for me.
Lisa Doxsee
September 21, 2006
I saw a Maury look alike in traffic yesterday, I broke into tears...
Lisa Doxsee
August 3, 2006
Mom Patsy, what a beautiful entry you wrote! I know that Steve Miller song well! I'm so glad for you to have Loretta to be your strength, what a truly great friend! Let's get together soon and let me scan those pictures for you that we discussed! I'm still tearing up the attic looking for mine!
We love you Maury!! Have you danced with Marilyn Munroe yet? You will always be in our hearts! I see my brother David also signed this guestbook! Very nice! xxoo
David Doxsee
August 2, 2006
I first met Maury back in the 80's at social settings, usually sports on the tube at friend's houses, and he acted like we were best friends, after I just met him!" How's Lisa doin'? You feelin' alright? What's going on?" etc., etc. Then, he applied for a job in 1989 with the FL DOI, and I was to interview him as his possible supervisor. When he saw me he lit up with a huge smile, laugh and hug, and said he would be the best consumer complaint analyst I could imagine. Of course, I was ready to hire him on the spot, but it had to go through the steps. Asst director says "he'll be gone as soon as something better comes, then we'll have to look again. See if he'll give us a year for sure." When I told Maury, he said "Hell yea I'll give you a year!" He was the best complaint handler I've ever seen, and 2 weeks prior to his one year anniversary, I got a call from Highway Safety, a man said he interviewed Maury for a job, and is he really the man he appears? I said, " you mean his enthusiasm for the job, his eagerness to do his best, etc.? Yes, that is the real Maury!". I knew he had the job, and I would be looking for his replacement. He gave his two-week notice that day, gone in one year, good to his word. He was a great guy and friend, that I see touched others like me. Danny, I wish you and all of the family comfort in how Maury was liked and respected, indeed loved as well, like my own brother. God bless all of you.
Bob Brandewie
August 2, 2006
Maury: You and I went way back…playing softball together on a number of teams, hunting at WP Woodberry Club (remember how aggravated I was at you for killing those two bucks one evening out of the same stand) and fishing on Lake Jackson many, many times (I hear’m calling). Whew!
I was on your team encouraging you to go back to school for your degree and even hired you until you could find a “real job”. You saw my boys, Brooks and Brett grow up.
I counseled you thru divorce and encouraged you develop a strong personal relationship with Christ…. I told you he would not forsake you…and you see now that was good counsel. Even though we parted ways about six years ago I am so glad you continued to walk in God’s light. No….we were not perfect or pretend to be, but we knew your salvation was assured.
Family: I didn’t take a moment to say hello at the service, because I didn’t want you see a grown man cry.….you knew I was at the funeral…that’s all that matters. I can’t tell you how sorry I am. I had the opportunity to reunite with Maury the Thursday night before he passed on Tuesday after many, many years. It was a wonderful rebuilding experience. As it was with Maury, once a friend…always a friend. You all know I will miss him too. My best to you.
Valita Widdop
July 18, 2006
To Maury's Family and Friends,
My husband and I purchased our home from Maury and Leah in 1995. What should have been merely a financial transaction turned into a much more personal one. Maury was such a terrific person you couldn't help but like him immediately. Through the years whenever we'd see him he'd ask about "his" house.
They say a friend is someone who touches your heart. Maury touched our hearts. He spoke so honestly of his love for his family.
Although I'm sure most of the posts on here are from people who were closer to Maury than we were, I did want all of Maury's family and friends to know that even with strangers, he was very special.
May God comfort all of your hearts until the day you see Maury again.
Danny Owens
July 17, 2006
My heart truly goes out to all of you who knew my brother. I am absolutely amazed at the lovingness and kindness of all who have talked to me and written since his death. I must say, it is still unbelievable to me that he is no longer with us on this earth.
Gary, thank you so much for your contribution. It will serve as a living memorial and testimony to Maury and all he cared for. Maury spoke to me many times about your friendship with him. He loved you. I look forward to meeting you soon and sharing some stories.
Lisa, my wife and I will be posting some photos very soon so stay tuned and thanks for your caring and consideration.
Thunderbox, thanks for the memories. Those were the days my friend, I'll never forget the jam on your front porch that beautiful day. We rocked the neighborhood.
To everyone else, I encourage you to visit this site and share your memories as often as possible. It has been a great catharsis for me personally. I wish all of you peace and the love of God.
Danny
Patsy McCall
July 16, 2006
Dear friends and family,
This past Friday I finally released Maury from my little mind to God's very Own Mind, and now I am better. That may sound strange but it is very much what happened. For these days since his death, not one day would pass without some gripping and agonizing feeling about his passing. It was as if a hand reached inside my brain and into my body, pulling and pulling until the agony was so terrible I would wail.
On Friday, my dear friend, Loretta, (who has been with me since the Saturday following his death) asked me if she could remove his cremains from the stairway (where I left them when they were delivered to the house) and place them at a higher level, on the loft above the living area beside the window. Once again I felt that brain/body pain. As she talked through my tears about moving his ashes into the light, to higher ground, she asked me if I would like to participate. She pointed out that I could use this thought to consciously replace the painful thought. She asked if I would like to make it a ceremony. So, we did, and I even included the Steve Miller band CD that Maury loved and a song called "The Joker". It starts off with "Some people call me Maurice" and I am soooooo glad he introduced me to this song as if it was all about him. It even says "Momma, momma, don't you worry." We lit a candle just for him and carefully delivered his ashes and the candle to a higher place, concluding with a prayer for his peace and the peace and love of the family. It was a powerful moment.
With love in my heart for my son and for all who knew him. This memory book has given me great comfort.
Patsy
Lisa Doxsee
July 16, 2006
It's me again...I was certain that I had a great picture to share with everyone, and now I can't seem to locate it! I think it would be great to look at some old pictures of Maury, especially since Gary Smith has maintained this guestbook for life, thank you! Danny, or anyone that has pictures of our Wonderful Maury, and would like to scan them in for his Photo Gallery, please e-me and I'll be glad to help.
Bimal Patel
July 15, 2006
To Owens Family
It was sad day for me when I received a call from Patsy on 7/6/06. Maury and I were business associates and became good friends.
I shared many things with him and now all that is memories to treasure. I lost a dear friend.
Maury, RIP brother
Bob Thurston
July 15, 2006
I remember Maury as Danny’s little brother when Danny and I had a rock band in high school. Several years later when I was working the School of Music at FSU, I took a phone call and was pleasantly surprised to hear “grown up” Maury on the other end; he had his degree and was hard at work. We chatted awhile – that joyous voice and rowdy laugh were his and his alone, and they brought back good memories, as they do now. My deepest sympathies to Patsy and Danny, and to all of Maury’s family.
Carol & Sierra Miles
July 13, 2006
Maury certainly was one of a kind & it's very sad that he was taken at such a young age. He always managed a wave & smile when he passed by in the neighborhood. Maybe it's a reminder of just how unexpected life can be. Everyone should cherish those we love, looking past imperfections & being more forgiving of the mistakes we all make. I too hope Maury has now found the peace that he deserved while he was here. Our condolences to Erin, Rachel and to his family.
Laura Cassels
July 13, 2006
On the 4th of July, my sister Carol and I were talking about a few great people who touched our lives forever, and Maury was one of them. He had such a beautiful spirit! Heartfelt condolences to my old friend Danny and to Patsy, and hello to the old gang. Sweet Maury, we love you. Laura and Carol
Scott and Clare Herrick
July 12, 2006
Patsy and Dick, and all of Maury's family, our hearts and prayers are with you, when words cannot express what we want to say. God Bless and Comfort you.
Charlotte Reddick
July 12, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will truly miss Maury. He was a very good friend as well as a good coworker. We all loved him but God loved him best.
Beverly Dodson
July 11, 2006
Dear Ms. Patsy, Danny, Leah & girls, I am so sorry to learn this late of Maury's passing. I'm still in shock. I first met Maury about almost 29 years ago at funeral of a mutual friend that he went to school with and my Mother had worked for the friend's Dad. Next thing I knew we hit it off and planned to go skiing at Lake Jackson. We even dated for a while. Then we both found out that our Mothers had gone to school together (Glenda Hough Shelfer). Over the years we would some how see each other and get back in touch. It seems like just the other day Mother and I were just wondering about Maury. I will truly miss him, he was a ray of sunshine in parts of my life. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all. If you need someone to talk to I'm just a phone away. (539-5790). God Bless!!
Inga Jones
July 11, 2006
We will miss Maury ,it was too soon for him to go!! But we know he is in a better place.
Maury and Bro (brother-in-law Jerry)and Al sure got into trouble sometimes :-)
Maury don't let anybody pull you finger up there :-)
We love and miss you !!
Jerry,Inga,Catherine and Dylan
Sandy Densmore
July 11, 2006
To Danny and Family-Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. It's not for us to understand God's plan. Maury is in a better place. Love, Casey and Sandy Densmore
Ric Jernigan
July 10, 2006
Patsy,Leah,Danny,and family,I have meny years of fond memories of Maury not once can I remember ever seeing him in a bad mood. And without fail whenever our paths crossed it allways meant a big smile and a big hug.Maury and I shared some funny little sayings over the years one of which came from Too Tall. I know with all my heart Maury is looking down on us smiling and saying "be particular" God bless you all you are in my prayers.
Karen Seda
July 9, 2006
Danny, Amy, Kelly, and Rebecca,
So very sorry to hear about Maury!!!
I can't even begin to imagine your pain. Peace be with you!
"Mourn not too long that he is gone,
but rejoice forever that he was!"
Your cousin, Karen (Owens) Seda
June Densmore Harris-McNair
July 9, 2006
Dear Patsy, Danny and Family:
I know there are no words to express the depth of your sorrow having lost my own Danny John. I feel sure that God in His Infinite Wisdom, has another Special plan for Maury. Just close your eyes and think of a happy time you had together and Maury will be right there with you. I promise....Maury is only a "thought" away and will live within your heart for all of your days. I know my Danny is with me every minute of every day... It will be hard but God will give you the strength you need. You are in my thoughts and my prayers. (Casey, Wanda June and Danny John Densmore's mom)
June Harris-McNair (Tallahassee)
850-575-7628
[email protected]
Gary Smith
July 9, 2006
I'll miss the dinners, the boat rides and the phone calls but most of all I'll miss you.Good freinds are hard to come by and you where one of mine. Save me a space close by!!!!
Carolyn McGlamory-Neel
July 8, 2006
Kelly and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.
You are all in my prayers.
God be with each of you.
I didn't know Maury, but if his personality was anything like Kellys, he was well worth knowing.
Charles Kimber
July 8, 2006
My deepest condolences to the family.
It is my sincere wish that you find among the treasure of memories those little nuggets that can sustain you in the loss of Maury.
Debbie & Matt Fort Knox Storage
July 8, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Will Fassig
July 8, 2006
First met Maury while working for the Department of Education in college. We played on a few softball teams together (Deep South Yanks, Jefferson County Deerflies (great name, huh?), and Allen's Mechanical. Had a grand time playing ball and Maury's brother Danny joined in as well with Allen's Mechanical. Maury had a heart of gold and I never saw him in a bad mood. He was a good fella and will be missed by all that knew him.
Lisa Doxsee
July 7, 2006
I adored Maury! We went to school together at Leon, and always laughed and laughed with one another! I didn't see him again for many years, then when we ran into each other at Albertson's, we laughed and hugged again. He was such a GREAT guy, he will be sorely missed! Just know that God has some major plans for Maury, and needed him right away...what a wonderful place to go. See you again, friend, one day...your friend, "Dox".
Amy Kirchgessner-Horner
July 7, 2006
My condolences to Maury's family. I think Maury left an impression on every person he met. Personally, I knew Maury best about 28 years ago. We lost touch after high school, running into each other only 3 times after that, with the last time less than a year ago. I will remember him forever!
David Eaton
July 7, 2006
Our family sends its deepest sympathy to Patsy, Danny, Erin, Rachel and family. In my many moves to and from Tallahassee, Maury and I always seem to cross paths. He'll always be remembered by me.
Will Fassig
July 7, 2006
I first met Maury while working at the Department of Education while in college. We became friends and played on a few softball teams together few the years, the majority of the time with Allen's Mechanical. Had a pretty good club back in the day, and Maury's brother Danny joined the club as well after a few seasons. We had a grand time playing ball. Maury had a great, big heart of gold. Hard to remember him ever being in a bad mood or negative through our times playing ball. He was one heck of a fella and will be dearly missed.
Debbie Belk-Malowany
July 7, 2006
Dear Patsy, Danny and Family,
I cannot even imagine Patsy the grief that you must be feeling having lost Maury. I pray that you find your strength in God during this painful time. God Bless you all and I am thinking and praying for you. Please contact me if there is anything I can do.
Debbie Belk-Malowany
(850)875-1800 Lake Talquin
(727)504-2355 Cell
Donna Brandewie
July 7, 2006
Owens Family,
Although I now live in Atlanta, I was deeply saddened today when I received word of Maury's death from my son, Brooks Brandewie, of Tallahassee. Our family enjoyed knowing Maury for many years and will remember him as friendly, upbeat, and positive. His energy and zest for life will be missed.
With deepest sympathy,
WANDA MONK
July 7, 2006
TO SUCH A CLOSE FAMILY A LOSS LIKE THIS CAN NOT BE PUT IN TO WORDS, I JUST WANT YOU ALL TO KNOW THAT I FEEL BLESSED TO HAVE ALWAYS FELT LIKE PART OF YOUR FAMILY. I LOVED MAURY AS A BROTHER AND WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM AS A FUN LOVING AND WONDERFUL PERSON. YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS.
Wanda June Monk
Jennifer Spann
July 7, 2006
To the Family of Maury;
I am sorry for your loss and may God be with you in this time of need. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. He will be missed.
Sincerely,
Kathy Jones-Folsom
July 7, 2006
I am so very sorry for what you all are going through now and in the days ahead. Maury was a wonderful person and will be missed by all.I remember the times we would "cram" for college exams together - all hours of the night! He was a great help to me. I am praying for you all that God will give you strength to endure and carry on! Please let me know what I can do. May God Bless you. With love, Kathy Folsom
Lisa Mobley
July 7, 2006
I worked with Maury when he was employed with the Dept. Of Highway Safety. I am so sorry to hear of his passing.
Please accept my prayers and deepest sympathy.
Carmen Hancock
July 7, 2006
Previous entry..I forgot to check to receive a notification.
Carmen Hancock
July 7, 2006
Maury was a very special brother-in-law, we loved him very much. It is just so unreal that he is gone, he has constantly been on our mind and in our hearts. He is going to be missed terriblely by everyone. The kids are talking about all of the things that he had taught them while they were growing up. He was a special uncle.
With all of our love,
Al, Carmen, Alex, Ashley, Adam & Anders
Reed Mahoney
July 7, 2006
The earth is a lonelier place today, but Heaven is surely brighter with that smile.
I will miss my friend.
To Leah, Erin and Rachel - please know that you are in our hearts and prayers.
Love, Reed, Lisa, Dylan and Corrie.
Anne Bodiford
July 7, 2006
My condolences go out to the family. Maury will always be remembered.
Skip and Valita Widdop
July 7, 2006
Leah and Maury's Family,
May God comfort your hearts at this very sad time. You are all in our prayers.
James Giordano
July 7, 2006
As I stood behind the counter of Mike's Beer Barn he said "who needs the roommate". This is where Maury came into my life. He came to be known to me as "Luff". I came to be known as "Jimmy" to him. We went through many things together, both as roommates and as friends. Many a good time was spent riding in my 54 Ford pickup. As we both got married and started our families we still saw each other several times a year. We some how lost touch with each other but were able to re-establish our friendship in the last couple of years. Only again to loose touch with each other. My you rest in peace my friend and one day we will again be able to laugh and share stories in a place better than here on earth. "JIMMY"
Denise Johnson
July 7, 2006
Maury was a wonderful friend to me and I will really miss him. I hope he finds the peace that he so richly deserved.
James Jackson
July 7, 2006
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. My family and I will remember Maury as a kind, free spirit that we share many fond memories of our time in the neighborhood. ** The Jackson Family **
vicky coleman
July 7, 2006
My name is Vicky Coleman and I will always rememeber Maury becuase we worked together at DHSMV and I had never flown before and Maury and I had to fly to Osceola County with our job. If it had not been for Maury giving me incouragement I would have been scared to death, I got the impression he wasn't really thrilled with it either. I was so shocked to hear of his death, my thoughts and deepest symphathy are with you all. I pray that GOD will give you the comfort and strentgh to see you through.
Erma Slager
July 7, 2006
Dear Erin & Rachel,
I am so very sorry about your dad. My own dad died shortly before I turned 15, so I know personally, how difficult this time is for you and the rest of your family. You are both precious young women and I love you very much. If you ever need someone to talk to who has "walked in your shoes," please call me. I'll be there for you.
Love,
Erma
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