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Tonya Capello Obituary

A native and resident of Baton Rouge, she died Wednesday, Aug. 3, 2011, at Woman's Hospital. She was 42 and a nurse for 17 years. She was most recently employed with Lakeview Home Care. Visiting at Rabenhorst Funeral Home East, 11000 Florida Blvd., on Sunday, Aug. 7, from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m., with recitation of the rosary at 7 p.m. Visiting at St. Pius X Catholic Church on Monday, Aug. 8, from 9 a.m. until Mass of Christian Burial at 11 a.m., with the Rev. Frank Bass, celebrant. Interment in Greenoaks Memorial Park. She is survived by her father and mother, Edmund J. and Dolores Boudreaux Capello; a daughter, Brittany Ann Barcelona; a brother and sister-in-law, Sean Paul Capello and Tami Dugas Capello; two nieces; a nephew; godmother, Lillian Magee; and former husband, Louis Barcelona. The family especially thanks Woman's Hospital, the 6th floor nurses and staff, and Dr. Fort and his wonderful staff. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the American Cancer Society.

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Published by The Advocate from Aug. 5 to Aug. 7, 2011.

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brittany barcelona

September 3, 2011

I will never forget the last weeks of your life. You couldnt get out of bed and stayed at mawmaw and pawapaws for weeks. I would come see you every week as much as I could. I remember laying in the bed with you as we both slept. I remember watching that 70s show with you which you loved and still with all the pain you were going through you laughed at. I also remember when you stayed in the hospital and I stayed the night with you. You said "poor darling its was hard for her to sleep" because the nurses had to come in and out a lot but honestly I didnt mind at all It was worth staying there by your side with you. Most of all I will never forget the day before everything got horrible, the day that was your last to be able to talk to us. The way you were acting you knew it was your last you were so happy to see me in the room and Ill never forget the smiles you gave me like never before. The way you were acting you knew. You told me "your always hungry when you here" and laughed. Words cant describe but that day I will never forget how happy you were to see me it was like you just knew and were saying your goodbyes. I love you mom you will always live on with me.

When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child

brittany barcelona

September 3, 2011

Some mothers are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same, and most mothers kiss and scold together

brittany barcelona

September 3, 2011

My life began as a baby waking up to my moms face.

brittany barcelona

September 3, 2011

When you loose someone you love you gain an angel whose name you know

brittany barcelona

September 3, 2011

A mother is she who can take the place of all others but whose place no one else can take

brittany barcelona

September 3, 2011

Such a beautiful and strong person who went through so much and did not deserve any of it. I wish so bad I could have taken all of your pain away.

brittany barcelona

September 3, 2011

I love you mom

brittany barcelona

September 1, 2011

mother and daughter

brittany barcelona

September 1, 2011

we look so happy together

brittany barcelona

September 1, 2011

Me and you when I was just a little girl

brittany barcelona

September 1, 2011

Brittany Barcelona

September 1, 2011

I still can't belive your gone I never thought it would happen like this and especailly this soon. I regret so much not taking every opportunity to show how much I loved you. Ill never forget all the fun we had together. When I was little and you use to play around with me and give me piggy backs, when you use to make candy apples and chocolate covered strawberries for me and we did scrap books together, every fun ride to school with you when we would sing and dance to music, and how we would always watch scarry movies together that was your thing scarry movies. Its those little things I will always cherrish. Ill also never forget everything you did for me. Everytime I think of you I think of you smiling and laughing and being funny and happy like you always were. Mom, you went through so much pain that no one ever deserves. Im really sorry for all the pain you had to go through you don’t know how bad I wish I could have just taken all your pain away and made you all better. I dont know anybody who could have hid that pain and stayed strong like you did. Your such a strong women and your definitly a saint in my eyes. I know you will always be with me, watching over me, in my dreams, and protecting me. I love you so much no matter how much time passes it will always feel like just yesterday you were here with me. I love you moma!!

I will never forget your smile and laugh

Brittany Barcelona

September 1, 2011

Jeff and Claire Kruszka

August 28, 2011

To the Capello family: Jeff and I would like to express our deepest sympathy and condolences.
We were saddened to hear of Tonya's passing as we had just seen her this past May. We are now thankful that we got to experience her laugh and sunny smile one more time.She will be missed.

Maggie (Duhon) Parkinson

August 24, 2011

Mrs. Delores, Mr. Edmond, Sean, & Brittany...Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear about Tonya. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May she rest in peace and love with the Lord...

Ernest and Skeet Shelton

August 20, 2011

We are so sorry to hear about Tonya's passing. She was my mother's home health nurse and a very good one, too. Tonya was comforting and nursing my mom when she needed comforting, herself. Dad would make his famous apple cake to send home for Tonya and her daughter. She will be greatly missed.

tabitha james

August 18, 2011

to the family i am so sorry for your loss i have known ms tonya for four years i used to work with her she always had encouraging words to say to me she was always there when i needed something she will be deeply missed she was an excellent nurse who always put her patients first she was always smiling even when she was down in her illness she is now in a better place

Dorothy Barcelona

August 9, 2011

Brittany,Louie,Mr. & Mrs. Capella and Sean, There are no words I can
say to ease your pain. I pray just knowing that Tonya has no more suffering and is in the arms of God will be a confort to you. God bless and keep you. Love Yall . Dorothy Barcelona (maw maw,mama & friend)

Brad Lambert

August 8, 2011

My sincere condolences go out to your family. May God comfort you in this difficult time.

John & Anne Moseley

August 8, 2011

We are very sorry to hear of Tonya's passing. Our prayers go with you.

August 7, 2011

Dolores and Edmond & Brittany, I am so sorry to hear of Tonya's passing. Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to your family. May God bless and comfort you....Mary Lee Mabile (Schriever, LA)

Lori Crooks & Sheridan Campanile

August 7, 2011

Mr. & Mrs. Capello & Brittany: I am so saddened to hear about Tonya's passing. My first memories of Tonya is in kindergarten at St. Pius & then onto RHS. I will never forget her huge laugh and always smiling. I have ran into her over the years & she has never changed. Our daughters are friends as we were years ago. My heart goes out to you and Tonya is in my thoughts and prayers as the tears are now as I write this. Our sincerest condolences. Rest In Peace My Friend.

Trisha Prilleux

August 7, 2011

When I heard the sad news of Tonya's passing, I immediately began thinking of the great childhood memories we shared. Tonya was a person that was filled with so much joy and laughter. I will never forget her laugh and smile. You will truly be missed by so may people, but you will never be forgotten. My heart is just breaking for the Capello family. I love you all and I know God is going to help you get through this difficult time.

Dana Godso-LaCombe

August 7, 2011

To the Capello family,
I am so sorry to hear of Tonya's passing. We were friends from junior high until graduation. Lost touch over the years after graduation but tried to keep up as much as possible. She will be dearly missed and a special ANGEL in HEAVEN ABOVE. Know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.

Christy Fremin-Olsen

August 7, 2011

Slumber parties, scary movies, CYO dances, big hair, lots of make-up are just a few of the memories I have of you. You were always so full of laughter and life. I am blessed to have known such a genuine soul as you. Rest now my friend. Mr. & Mrs. Capello and Sean, my deepest sympathy to you, Tonya was one of a kind and I will remember her always.

Harold Capello

August 7, 2011

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. our hearts go out to you and your family.
Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to your family. May God bless and give you confort.
Barbara and Harold Capello

August 7, 2011

Please accept our sincere sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.

Rae Rita Acosta
Beryl Acosta Woods Napoleonville LA

Jerry Lee and Gail Sales

August 6, 2011

We send our deepest sympathies and we are so sorry to hear this news. You and your family will be in our prayers and thoughts.

Judy Pujol

August 6, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about your daughter, may Our Lord welcome her into the home He has prepared for her. You are in my prayers.

Stacie Marie Firmin-Haynes

August 6, 2011

I met Tonya many, many years ago in junior high. I was new and she made me feel welcome. She always had me laughing and just enjoyed being in her presence. I think of her often even though we lost touch on and off thru the yrs. Lots of very fond memories! God bless her soul and grant peace to her loved ones.

Marty & Cynthia Ourso

August 6, 2011

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Celeste Singleton

August 6, 2011

Remember

Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation

Scott, Virgin and Drew Theriot

August 5, 2011

Aunt Dolores and Uncle Edmond, Brittany, Sean and Family:
Most deepest sympathies to you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brian Brady

August 5, 2011

Dearest Tonya, Fate placed us together in many classes through junior and senior high school just due to alphabetical order, but that doesn't mean you automatically get along with someone. I am proud to say that knowing you was the exception. I didn't know when we first met how truly lucky I was to be near someone who deserved to be called 'one of a kind' in the best way possible. I will never forget, through the years, all the smiles and laughter we were lucky enough to share. You held the distinction of being the first date I ever had, but more importantly, you had the all-important title of "friend forever." Though I am filled with tears at the moment, I will always picture you smiling. I know you are now in a place where you will be smiling forever. I will never forget you and I WILL see you again someday. Love always to you.... My sincerest condolences to the Capello Family.

D.J. Dufour

August 5, 2011

Rest in peace my friend, you will be deeply missed. My sympathy and condolences to your family.

Holly Story

August 5, 2011

Her kind heart and big smile has touched so many lives. I'm fortunate to have known her & worked with her.

August 5, 2011

Iam so sorry to hear of Tonya's passing.My heart goes out to all of you,knowing she is free from pain is a comfort and keeping your memories of her close to your hearts will ease the pain some what of losing her. I will miss that radiant smile of hers,and will cherish my friendship I had with her.It was always a pleasure to see and talk with her.I can still remember all the times we had dance class football games,Octoberfest,locking Sean out the house,I could go on and on.These are the memories I will keep close to my heart.You now have a special angel in heaven watching over all of you she will especially be watching over her little girl.My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
Love,
Cindy Estep

Delores Kitts-Jordan

August 5, 2011

With deepest sympathy,former co-worker

D'Lyn Luna Bollinger

August 5, 2011

Aunt Delores, Uncle Edmund, Sean & Brittany, We were so sorry to hear about Tonya. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We love you... D'Lyn and Family, Duane and Family

Elaine & Mark Perault

August 5, 2011

We were saddened to hear of your loss.
Please know how very sorry we are.

Yvette McCay

August 5, 2011

Mrs. Capello & Brittany, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how close your family is. I pray that God will comfort you at this difficult time.

Yvette McCay

Danny& Cindy Rome

August 5, 2011

Edmond,Deloris, Sean and Brittany we are so sorry to hear about Tonya our prayers are with all of you.

August 5, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Because she was your child, I know she must have been a beautiful person. My thought and prayers are with you.

Pat Blanchard, Plaquemine, LA

Jerry & Candy Riles & Family

August 5, 2011

Edmond, Delores & Sean,
We are so sorry to hear about Tonya. You are all in our hearts and prayers.

Michael Bourg

August 5, 2011

Edmund and Deloris, please except our most sincere and heart felt condolences for your great loss. May God Bless Tonya with forever existance with Him in His Heavenly Kingdom. Sincerely Michael & Kim Bourg

AICU Staff, Woman's Hospital

August 5, 2011

We are very sorry for your loss. Our time was short with Tonya, but thank you for allowing us to take care of your loved one in her time of need.

Kenneth and Judy Blanchard

August 5, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Shirley Chaney

August 5, 2011

Edmond & Delores, sorry to hear of your loss.

Verna & Ronnie Turner

August 5, 2011

We were so sorry to hear about Tonya. I remember her beautiful smile.My heart goes out to all of you and our prayers are with you. We will keep all of you close to our heart. Love you guys, Verna and Ronnie Turner

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