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Elisabeth Sheldon Obituary

Sheldon, Elisabeth

Lansing, NY: Elisabeth was born in Lagrange, IL during a blizzard on January 19, 1918. She passed away in her home on February 11, 2013. She was raised near Chicago and Boston by her father, Ralph Hazlett, who worked in Industrial Relations and her mother, Jean Vanderlaag Hazlett. She had an older sister, Lois, and a younger brother and sister, Don and Ruthie. She attended the Art Institute of Chicago for five years, then taught at Todd School in Woodstock. She married sculptor Robert Moir and they had a son, Paul Anthony Sheldon-Moir. She and Robert later divorced. She attended a French class at the University of Chicago where she met George Sheldon. It was love at first sight and they were married at her family home. They moved to Washington DC for George's position with the State Department and had two girls, Ayne and Connie (Joanna). They then moved to Saigon, followed by Izmir, Florence, Washington DC, and Algiers, spending about two years in each place. Elisabeth taught English as a Second Language in Saigon and Izmir and continued to work as an artist. She had successful shows of her oil landscapes in all these cities. When George got his position as a professor of Linguistics at Cornell, they settled in Ithaca. They bought an old farmhouse in Lansing and Elisabeth, now in her fifties, created a beautiful garden where she grew and sold plants for ten years. She later lectured extensively, sharing her knowledge of plants and gardening. She wrote articles for horticulture magazines, and three books about horticulture and gardening - A Proper Garden, The Flamboyant Garden, and Time and the Gardener - two of which won three national awards. She also wrote an as-yet unpublished account of three 19th-century women writers, and in recent years she wrote her memoirs. She was actively involved with the Auraca Herbarists in Ithaca and various horticultural and gardening organizations. Elisabeth is survived by her brother and her two daughters. Her family and friends will miss her bright bold spirit, her drive, and her crisp humor. If you knew and loved Elisabeth we invite you to make a donation to Cornell Plantations in her name - www.cornellplantations.org or 607.254.4727.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Feb. 15, 2013.

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February 4, 2014

You are always with me...in loving memory, Ayne

Summer phlox

January 19, 2014

With George

January 19, 2014

January 19, 2014

Remembering you with much love on your birthday! Bacioni, AB

ruth rogers clausen

June 24, 2013

I only just discovered that Elisabeth had passed away. I have been thinking a lot about her recently-such a beautiful lady and a real plants-person. I wrote about her for Horticulture magazine and am glad that she was honored in the horticulture community. She left her mark on many garden enthusiasts. Thank you Elisabeth.

Beverly Abplanalp

March 5, 2013

Dear Ayne & Johanna.
One Valentine's Day, my former husband gave me the heart warming gift of taking a perennial class with Elisabeth. What an extraordinary joy and I have kept her well worn hand out all these years. The privilege of having your parents as neighbors provides me with many colorful memories that only fellow artists and gardeners can fully know. Elisabeth will be fondly remembered throughout my lifetime and beyond for her many contributions to gardens, gardeners, and art lovers around the globe. You have my heartfelt condolences.

Sean Smith

March 5, 2013

A more remarkable woman has never lived.I loved her and will dearly miss her

Nancy Ramage

March 5, 2013

Dear Ayne and Connie, I really loved your mother, and treasure the many laughs we shared and the wonderful conversations over many many years. You have Andrew's and my deepest sympathy. Fondest thoughts, Nancy

Elisabeth & Joanna

Ayne Sheldon

March 5, 2013

Elisabeth & Ayne

March 1, 2013

Wedding day

March 1, 2013

March 1, 2013

hart

February 27, 2013

dear ayne, connie, and yoanky, we also feel the pain, as you know we are also still grieving thru our recent loss of a very close relative. i'm so sorry, as when i was there 3 yrs. ago at your home, i remember how feisty and alert she was. she will be remembered for her books and her beautiful gardens she created. ayne i know your care for your mother was not easy, but there you were giving your love and attention. thank god for that! just remember she really had a good life, and her memory will live on. our condolences. love, nina and mike

Dagmar e Famiglia Testino

February 17, 2013

Carissima, le mie più sincere condoglianze, ti siamo vicini.

Alice Grow

February 16, 2013

Dear Ayne, Connie and Joanna, Your mother was a dear friend of my mother Helen Grow. They had many good times with the Corner Bookstore crowd and visits over tea. My mother and I had great admiration for Elizabeth. Her painting, travels, sharp wit and wisdom made her a lively friend. Her affection and caring, a dear one.
Many months ago I spoke with Connie about Elizabeth's care, but the distance was too far for me to become a member of the team. I hope you found enough help that your health has not been effected too much. I have first hand knowledge of this, as my father Emery died in December at 97 years old. Do take good care of yourselves and each other. You are in my thoughts and Elizabeth will ever be a person in my life through her books, paintings and memories. My best regards, Alice

Yoanky Lopez

February 15, 2013

Hugs and kisses, Yoanky

Ayne Sheldon

February 15, 2013

Love you and miss you so much...

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