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Ashtyn Rea Obituary

HERRIN -- Ashtyn Rea, 21, died Saturday, June 11, 2011, in Memorial Hospital of Carbondale.

She was born Feb. 23, 1990, in Coronado, Calif. Ashtyn was employed by Herrin Security Bank and was a student at Southern Illinois University Carbondale.

She is survived by her parents, Wally and Kim Sizemore Meneese of Herrin; grandparents, Gene and Suzie Sizemore of Herrin, Margaret and Roger Meneese of Herrin; two brothers, Wade Rea of Herrin, Kody Rea of Herrin; one sister, Shelina Meneese of Herrin; uncle, Steve Sizemore and aunt and uncle Jennifer and Todd Ruzich of Marion.

Other survivors included best friend, Ally Sims of Herrin; cousins, Austin and Hunter Sizemore of West Frankfort, Cody Meneese of Herrin and Dakota Blockley of Herrin; and several other aunts, uncles and cousins and several close friends.

Services will be at 1 p.m. Tuesday, June 14, 2011, in Van Natta Funeral Home in Herrin, with the Rev. Ralph Brandon officiating. Inter-ment will be at Herrin City Cemetery. Visitation will be from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Tuesday at the funeral home.

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Published by The Southern Illinoisan on Jun. 13, 2011.

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Billie Huff

July 13, 2012

So many wonderful tributes to a life that ended much too soon. You should be very proud reading the comments of the young lady you raised. She impacted many lives and I know is still missed by all. Life doesn't always seem fair, but when those things happen to us, sometimes we are meant to be a help to someone else along the way.I believe that's what Ashtyn would want, is for you to help someone else deal with tragedy as I'm sure she would have done herself. We never cease to remember those we lose, but just learn to cherish the wonderful memories all the more.

Calyn Dover

June 23, 2011

I went to school with Ashtyn, although we were in different crowds, I was thinking several weeks ago about where I would be if I would've talked to someone new or if I've had any impact on anyone ever; and Ashtyn came across my mind, so when I heard about her tragedy I was speechless. I recently lost my step-dad, and I have to tell you that it doesn't matter how many times someone says "I'm sorry for your loss," it just doesn't amount to much;as I'm sure family and close friends of Ashtyn have figured out or at least had the brief feeling. I am sorry that I missed many chances in my high school days to improve my life and help someone else in the process. Including going out of my way to talk to or help someone I normally wouldn't. Every Saturday I've been trying to do some walking, trying to get others to join me, but every one is always too busy. So if anyone would like to join me this Saturday June 25 at the Herrin Security Bank by the ATM at 10:00 am (to subway and back to ATM) in rememberance of Ashtyn or for any reason at all, you are welcome to. If this sounds rude or not necessary, I'm sorry it truly is not meant to sound as such.

Ginny Lambert

June 15, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kaylee Mezo

June 15, 2011

'blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.'
Matthew 5:4

my heart cries out for Ashtyn's family. in Jesus name, i pray for comfort, strength, and healing during this time. take refuge in God's hands. He'll always be there. God bless you all <3

Debra Horn

June 15, 2011

thoughts and prayers go out to Ashtyn's family and friends. She was a very bright, beautiful young lady. Ashtyn always had a smile on her face and was always nice to everyone. She will be missed by many.

June 15, 2011

Prayers for the family. And prayers for the carterville police officer that tried to save her. God bless!

Jamie Elders

June 14, 2011

Glad I was able to have known her, She was a great person. sorry for your loss. prayers are with family and friends.

Brittany Tindall (Bush)

June 14, 2011

So sorry for the loss, she was such a kind hearted person in High School. prayers go to family and dearly close friends.

Charlie Kemp

June 14, 2011

I was really shocked when I heard this she waited on me at the bank every Friday. I will always remember the last conversation I had with her and I would like to share it with you I said you know what I like about you most is and she said now what can that be and I said you don't need make up as your so pretty with out it and she said your right I don't have any on. I said see ya next Friday she said I will be here. She will be missed by so many such a nice young lady. Thes is just so sad.
Charlie Kemp

Becca Keeling

June 14, 2011

TODAY IS MY SON'S SECOND BIRTHDAY AND THEY ARE PUTTING A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN TO REST THAT WENT TO SOON. I WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH ASH AND I WILL ALWAYS MISS PLAYING BALL WITH YOU AND THE YEAR WE WON FIRST PLACE. GOSH I REALLY MISS YOU AND WISH IT WASN'T YOU THAT HAD TO GO AND SO SORRY I CAN'T BE THERE TODAY I AM TOO FAR AWAY

Rebecca Keeling

June 14, 2011

Ashtyn Was a Great Friend, i loved playing ball with her and she was always a true and honest friend, you will be deeply missed,

Vicki Williams (Pedigo)

June 14, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in my prayers.

Meaghan Steelman

June 14, 2011

To the family and friends of Ashtyn, I am so sorry for your loss. She was a sweet girl with a smile always on her face and a laugh you could hear from a mile away. I got the priviledge of knowing Ashtyn through summer softball when we were younger. We graduated in the same class at Herrin and also had some classes at John A and SIU together. Just know now she is in a better place where no harm can be done and God is with her. We all now have another angel to watch over us. Her memory will never be forgotten.

Sally Sanders

June 14, 2011

Kim & Wally,
I just found out about your tragic time. I am so sorry, my prayers and thoughts are with you. May the love of your friends & family carry you through your grief. Sally Sanders

steve frattini

June 14, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss...Ashtyn was a great kid and a pleasure to know, both on and off the ball field, thru the years.

Stacy Linton

June 14, 2011

No words can adequately describe your loss. Ashtyn had a light inside her that shone brightly. It surrounded her family and friends in a warmth that was filled with love. She was such a beautiful young woman and will be greatly missed. To Shelina, Wade and Kody, my heart goes out to you, but know that Ashtyn will always be with you. I am so sorry for your loss.

Brandy Shadowens Tyner

June 14, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

June 14, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. She was a sweet and beautiful young lady that will be missed by many!

Kori Walker Vagner

Melissa (Strunk) Neal

June 14, 2011

I'm so very sorry for your loss and will keep your family in my prayers.

Courtney Cole

June 14, 2011

She was a sweet girl who will never be forgotten. She was always a pleasure to be around. I'm glad I got to know her from having classes with her in grade school, playing softball in the summer, working at DQ, and even having classes with her at Logan and SIU. She will be deeply missed by all. You're in my prayers

John and Jamie Yancey

June 14, 2011

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Karen Yusko

June 14, 2011

Kim and Family, Please know how sorry I am. Know that God is watching over Ashtyn and all of you now. I hope as time passes you will find peace in the memories you all created together. God bless and keep you, Karen Yusko

Carole McCuan

June 14, 2011

Ashtyn was a kind,sweet warmhearted woman. I can only imagine how sad you are all feeling at the moment. May you find strength in each other and may your memories of Ashtyn always be a part of your lives.

Sherry reichert

June 14, 2011

Kim, I'm so sorry to hear of this tragic news. We haven't seen each other since high school. I wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers have been with you as soon as I heard.

With heartfelt condolences, Sherry (Short) Reichert

Nicole Clawiter

June 13, 2011

"If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane I'd walk right back up to heaven and bring you home.... When things were dull you made them fun... Now keep heaven lively and I'll see you some day."

She touched many lives and will never be forgotten. From summers of playing softball till classes in college. She'll be deeply missed. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

June 13, 2011

God be with all of you's

David Stucker

June 13, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the family.....

Shawn Banks

June 13, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with Ashtyn, her family and friends. Ashtyn was a wonderful person and will be missed.

Billie & Jack Huff

June 13, 2011

Kim & family, I can't begin to tell you how saddened Jack and I are at your loss. We've no child to lose, but have lost parents and understand some of the pain. Ashtyn was a beautiful vibrant young lady and you have so many wonderful memories. Those memories and God will see you through this rough time. Let him wrap his arms around you and rest in his peace. When we are too weak and weary, that's when he carries us.

Heather Jennings-Charlet

June 13, 2011

Wally and Kim- I am so sorry for your lose. Ashtyn was such a beautiful girl. I remember when we were neighbors and all the little girls on our street came to my Ashton's birthday party and thought it was so weird that we had two Ashton/Ashtyn's on our little dead end street. I will be praying for your family that you can find peace through all of this.

Billie & Jack Huff

June 13, 2011

Kim & family, Jack and I have been so saddened by your tragic loss. We've never lost a child, but have lost parents. Ashtyn was beautiful and vibrant and you have so many wonderful memories. Those memories and God will get you through this tough time. Let him wrap his arms around you and rest in his peace. When we are too weary and weak to walk, he will carry us.

June 13, 2011

God bless.

Topper & Jane Hamby

June 13, 2011

Gene & Suzie We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Chastity Hutton

June 13, 2011

My prayers go out 2 her n her family shes an awesome person and 2 b around ur sadly missed but never forgot god bless.

Sincerly,
Chastity & Timothy Tubbs

breanna trammell

June 13, 2011

My prayers go out to ashtyns family God Bless you all ! I love you Ashtyn you were a beautiful young lady ! You will be really missed but never forgotten !

Darin Olmsted

June 13, 2011

To the family of Ashtyn, I wanted to tell you how sincerely sorry I am for your loss. I am not a friend nor family member, however I had been in the emergency room with my mother that evening and was hurting for your family. Know that there are many prayers going out to you and your family and also the many friends she had...God Bless you all!!!

Sami Kern

June 13, 2011

My heart goes out to all of you. I won't say "loss" because you really didn't lose her nor is she lost. She is just waiting in a new place now. May God Bless You All and you are in my prayers.

June 13, 2011

Kim, I am so sorry for your loss. Ashtyn was a beautiful girl with a beautiful smile, her memory will go on 4 ever!

Jack, Kim, and Aaron Anderson

Tina Crum

June 13, 2011

Remembering Ashtyn smiles and laughter she brought into our lives! I'm so sorry Kim and family! You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Heath, Kristin & Travis Crum mom Tina

June 13, 2011

Prayers for her family

Carolyn Johnson

June 13, 2011

Kim & Wally,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. She was a wonderful young lady and will be missed greatly.

Amy Duncan-Crow

June 13, 2011

Kim,Wally and family, I was so saddeded to hear of your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

andrea haney

June 13, 2011

i'm sorry for your loss. you will be in my prayers.

Bailey Scott

June 13, 2011

Ashtyn, u were such a beautiful kind young woman, lots of friends an family.. very sad ur life was cut short. My thoughts an prayers go out 2 ur family.. save me a spot wit the good lord above.

Carol Baldi

June 13, 2011

Kim - My heart goes out to you. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

heather sizemore-williams

June 13, 2011

U will b dearly missed ashtyn I know we weren't close but ur my family and my friend may u rest in peace

liz wimberly

June 13, 2011

I remember u from the bank u were always smiling ...u will be missed..my condonces to the family

Julie & Cassie Cook

June 13, 2011

Prayers to family and friends. We were blessed to have Ashtyn in our lives. She had a smile that could light up the room. Heaven just received another angel.

matt and alleisha schuetz/dryden

June 13, 2011

our prayers go out for the freinds and family we know you will be greatly missed by all who knew you we send our sympathy

Brenda and John Duncan

June 13, 2011

We express our sincere sympathy to the family! Words can never express how sorry we are that this unfortunate accident occurred.. May God Be with You all as you go through this difficult time!

Jim Starnes

June 13, 2011

Wally and Kim ... Ashtyn was one of my students at Herrin High School, and she was a pleasure to have in class. I saw her many times at the bank; she was always smiling and never failed to speak to me and ask how I was doing, even when she wasn't waiting on me herself. I'm so sorry. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

joy laffoon

June 13, 2011

I am shocked & saddened by the loss of your beautiful family member.My familys' thoughts & prayers are with all of you.

liz wimberly

June 13, 2011

I remember u from the bank u were always smiling ...u will be missed..my condonces to the family

Gynelle Baccus

June 13, 2011

Dear Kim and Wally,
We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. We are praying for you during this tragic time. Love, Gynelle and Don Baccus

Mary Smith

June 13, 2011

Youll never be forgotten Miss Ashtyn Rea!! <3

raeanne walters

June 13, 2011

ashtyn you will be missed by alot wish i wasnt so far away to come and say my good bys but you will be in my thoughts as well as your family its hard to believe that something like this could happen to a great person like you you will be missed

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