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Paul Haffner Obituary

MERIDEN - Paul M. Haffner, 56, died Thursday, March 15, 2012 at Masonic Healthcare in Wallingford after a courageous battle with cancer.

Born in Rockville Center, N.Y. on March 18, 1955, he was the son of Alice Lipple Haffner, of Meriden and the late John Haffner. Paul graduated from Sewanhaka High in Elmont, N.Y. Mr. Haffner was self-employed and was a parishioner of St. Joseph Church. He enjoyed golfing, hunting, fishing, hiking and of course spending time with his grandchildren.

Paul is survived by Ann Hoag, his partner and best friend; three daughters, Kimberly Cassista and her husband, Justin, of Plainville, Maureen DiSorbo and her husband, Joseph, of Hamden and Kathleen Hoag, of Hamden; a son, Timothy Haffner, of Meriden; and four grandchildren, Jackson Cassista, Connor Haffner, Ella and Max DiSorbo. He is also survived by three brothers, Mark Haffner, of Meriden and John Haffner and his wife, Dixie and Matthew Haffner and his wife Mary, all of Long Island, N.Y.; four aunts, Joan and Margaret Haffner both of Pennsylvania, Dorothy Haffner and Helen Carroll, both of Long Island; and several nieces and nephews.

A funeral service to be held on Monday, March 19, at 9:45 a.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main St., Meriden and at 10:30 a.m. at St. Joseph Church for a Mass of Christian burial. Burial will be at the convenience of the family.
Family and Friends may call at the funeral home on Sunday, March 18, from 3 to 7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to St. Jude Children's Hospital, P.O. Box 1893, Memphis, TN 38101-9950

Paul's family would like to thank Dr. Kathleen Bober-Sorcinelli and staff for all their special care given to Paul. For online condolences please visit www.jferryfh.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record-Journal on Mar. 16, 2012.

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Peggy Carroll Boehme

March 25, 2012

Ann and family - We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Cheryl and Jim Bannan

March 23, 2012

Katie,Tim,Kim and Ann words can not describe how it feels to loose a wonderful man like Paul. I remember the day when both Paul and my late husband Jim Mitchell were dealing with the cancer at the same time. Paul and Jim are both our HEROS! They sure fought a tough fight and taught us all how to be STRONG like them. They are both watching over all of us and having a HELL of a time together. They have finally met each other. I can say he was a great "MR.DAD" to Cristina. She will never get over loosing two HEROS in her life. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Love you all.

March 19, 2012

Mark, we are sorry to hear of your brothers passing. Our thoughts are with you. Jim&Jane Roccapriore

Patty Chandler

March 18, 2012

I was very sorry to hear of Paul's passing. We met many years ago when the children were at Nathan Hale School. I am happy, though, to know that he was able to experience the joy of being "Grand." My prayers are with you all at this difficult time. I will remember Paul with much fondness.

Amyjo Reid

March 17, 2012

I am very sorry for your loss.

Gene Carroll

March 17, 2012

Please accept our condolences. Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family. Paul will be remembered as a very special person.

March 16, 2012

Leslie smith and all Kim's co-workers are so sorry to the whole family for their loss of a beloved loved one!

Ronni Dunagan

March 16, 2012

So sorry to hear about your loss. What a brave battle he fought...thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family

March 16, 2012

Katie, Tim and Kim and all of the family so sorry for you loss. We are here for you all of you need anything all. Ashleigh, Kevin and Taylon Bernier.

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