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Randall Farnham Obituary

WATERBURY - Randall David "Muff" Farnham, 49, of Farr Road, passed away unexpectedly at the Central Vermont Medical Center in Berlin on Monday, Jan. 18, 2010. Born in Montpelier on June 10, 1960, he was the son of William Earl and Mary (Austin) Farnham. Randy was previously married to the former Stephanie Alexander.

Randy attended Mt. Everett Regional School in Sheffield, Mass., and at the age of 16 returned to Vermont where he was employed for over 20 years on the Paul Percy Farm in Stowe. For the past eight years Randy has worked as a service technician and driver for AmeriGas in Waitsfield. In addition, he also operated a snow removal business.

In his leisure time, Randy enjoyed riding his Harley Davidson, going for long scenic drives in his pickup, all types of family activities including barbecues and enjoying time with his son and grandson. Generous and kind, Randy often put other people's happiness and needs first.

Randy is survived by his son, Nicholas Farnham of Stowe; his grandson, Mason Farnham of Stowe; his parents, William Farnham of Cornwall Conn., and Mary Farnham of Great Barrington Mass.; two brothers, William Farnham of Hyde Park and Mitchell Farnham of Housatonic Mass.; his companion, Jennifer Chaput and her children, Joshua and Jordan, all of Waterbury; as well as nieces, nephews and extended family. A sister, Linda O'Keefe, predeceased him.

A memorial service celebrating the life of Randy Farnham will be held from the Wesley United Methodist Church in Waterbury on Saturday, Jan. 23, at 11 a.m. with a reception to follow in the church dining room. The family requests that flowers be omitted; rather memorial gifts would be appreciated to the charity of one's choice. To send online condolences please visit www.perkinsparker.com. Assisting the family is the Perkins-Parker Funeral Home and Cremation Service in Waterbury.

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Published by Times Argus on Jan. 20, 2010.

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December 19, 2010

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December 18, 2010

it's been almost a year and it doesn't seem possible. there isn't a day goes by that i don't think of my dear friend.i miss our phone calls the most. i still keep the cell numbers in my phone and call them once in awhile just for the heck of it. i know this, God has taken a great soul home, and i know randy will be at the big birthday party next week with some sort of a great philsophy or gift to share with Jesus.
Merry Christmas my friend
love always, and i look forward to the day we meet again.

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December 11, 2010

I kept my promise

July 19, 2010

wish you were still here for nick..i hope and pray your watching over him and that you and dad are fishing some where having fun..

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Karen Sharpwolf

February 8, 2010

Randy had to come to our house twice in the last few months late night and on a holiday to help us with a propane problem, in fact he had come the day before he died. Though it was after hours, he came with a smile and reassurance. He was kind and friendly and we were sorry to hear of his passing.

Jennifer Chaput

February 5, 2010

My Sweetheart, My Darling, My Randy
Oh! how I miss you. It has been almost three weeks now and it seems' to me that it was only yesterday you were taken from me(us). My heart is full of sorrow and my bed pillow full of tears. The boys miss you soooo.... I don't know how I can go on without you, I'm trying to be strong because I know that is what you would want for me. The plans we had for this summer, marriage and a summer vacation are now a part of the the other dreams we had. I will always remember the romantic getaways we took, going to N.H. on the motorcycle and to N.Y. to the casino we had so much fun. The times we went to MA. and visited your family. Oh! how you loved the ocean! We sat on the beach at 3:00am under a beach umbrella in the rain and drank our coffee listening and watching the waves as they rolled in. The children and I will remember the family trips we took and will cherish those memories forever. You brought so much into our lives over these last years of your life,and living with you daily you brought laughter, stability, wisdom and so much joy and love. We are so thankful to God who brought you to us and blessed us with you. I can't believe your gone it hurts soooo much. You instilled many things and molded the boys and don't worry about little Jordan River both the boys will become good strong men and make you proud. One of your phrases "close the book" the one you lived by and anyone who knew you well enough heard this quite often as you would reflect on situations of the past or present while giving advice or sharing an opinion. Joshua had told you about a month ago about how he almost "closed the book" and you smiled at him and told him that he had made you proud. You were a man with a big heart and full of compassion for others and you loved God. Thank you for all of the memories, and the laughter we shared and for loving us. We will always love you and miss you forever. I will see you again one day my love!!!

Love Eternal,
Babydoll/HoneyBunny

Duncan McDougall

January 29, 2010

I was very surprised and saddened to learn that Randy has passed away. He used to deliver propane to our home in Waterbury Center. If I was around when he arrived we would catch up. He was a very nice guy who was interested in our family, and told me about his life. I was sorry when we stopped seeing him. He seemed like a very nice, down-to-earth, friendly guy. He will be missed.

January 29, 2010

Randy was a good friend, and a great addition to our family. About seven years ago Jennifer said that she had met a wonderful man, and that she wanted her best friend to met him. So I met Randy , and he was a big bear on the outside, but on the inside he was kind, gentle and loving. He was always willing to help out a friend in need, and generous to a fault. I will always remember how we would joke around, and play practical jokes on one another. I will also remember the motorcycle rides we all took together, Randy and Jennifer on one bike and Shawn and I on another one. There was one trip we took together that I will never forget. It was to Massena,New York. It rained the entire trip, which was three days long, but we all had the best time, and just enjoyed being together. That is what Randy was all about, his family and friends. Randy we will always remember your smile and your laugh. You will be greatly missed

Sandy Sullivan

Linda Cullum

January 24, 2010

I just read the Valley Reporter and was shocked and deeply saddened by the news of Randy passing. I just saw him 2 weeks ago! I saw him a lot actually over the years here. He was a very nice person and we have good talks. I met him when I first moved to Moretown in 2000 and needed help with my heater. He had only come to pump the gas but he was committed to getting my heater going. Over the years he was helpful in that way at the various places I lived that had issues. Never charged me. He had a warm voice and good feeling energy. My skittish dog took to him right away when she would not let anyone else near her...one of the last conversations we had was how he had trained a new driver but he wasn't sure if he was going to make the grade. "Can't be a chicken driving these trucks in the weather and roads we have here", he said...and yes you sure saw him driving in all types of weather on all types of roads. He always made it. So he touched me and others thru his work and we grieve. I can only imagine how his family is coping; I wish you the best and very sorry for your loss. God Bless you and RIP Randy...I will surely miss you...

stephanie mclean

January 24, 2010

well Randy the funeral is now over and i want you to know how i will always love you. we shared together the only child you had, and your legacy and memories will forever live on through your child and grandchild..i hope your some where beautiful,peaceful and doing what you loved most ...i pray you continue to watch over your son and guide him and your grandson when they need you...god bless you and i know how very proud you are of nickle pickle...as you would have called him..i will see you again someday...

Eric Harley Boy Bates

January 23, 2010

Randy "Big Dog "
You were and always will be my best friend. I guess you were The Big Dog because i would follow you around like a little puppy dog. All of the B.B.r.s. and all the Harley rides we took . Somany rides we had planed to take You are the reason I know have a harley , to see you face light up when I pulled up on that harley-davidson road king and to know you were a major part of that . that is what you were all about to see frieds happy and to just be apart of it was great. Randy you are my best friend and I love ya bro I Miss you so verry much!!! May all your Days be warm and sunny And save a Ride for Me. Your Harley Hogger Brother Eric

Brenda Hudson

January 23, 2010

Randy was a wonderful and kind man. He made a great addition to our community here on "The Hill". Everyday as I walk in the woods behind our homes and see the road he made with his tractor and the wood that he cut, I will think of him. Randy was freqently found on his tractor going up and down the road scraping here, pushing there. I think that he would have eventually made Farr Road an entire new road! It is still hard for me to beleive that he is gone. To Jennifer and the boys, you know that we are here for you should you need anything at all. Rest in peace Randy.

January 22, 2010

Our condolences go out to Randalls family and friends we are sadden to hear what happen to Randall may God confort you during this time of sorrow R.I.P randall Sue and( Crystal,Joshua,Samantha LaBarron) East Peoria IL

January 21, 2010

you had more people in your life that loved you way more then you ever knew you will be missed " muff " god bless your son and grandson in this tough time they will go through

Tyler White

January 21, 2010

He was a kid at hart we will miss seeing him at ICS and a round the valley. may you rest in peace.

stephanie mclean

January 20, 2010

the one thing i will never forget about Randy is the life we once shared together and the amazing son that we will share forever......

Bruce & Katie LaBarron

January 20, 2010

I knew Randy from years ago, He was a good man. Thou I haven't seen or spoke to Randy for many years, I remember the kind of person he was. He will always be with us and never be forgotten. Life was way to short Randy, But I am thankful to God for Blessing us with you my friend.Rest in peace and God Bless You and God Bless your Family, Friends, and All who's lives you touched.You will be greatly missed.

andy notte

January 20, 2010

i'm not sure what i can say about randy that truely defines who he was. I worked with him for two years at amerigas and became very close friends with randy. my wife and i had several bbq's at randy's house with him and jennifer and the boys. randy became more like an older brother to me and often gave me his opinion on the ways of life. he helped me through some tough times in my life, and for that has touched me and my wife's life forever. i will never forget my friend and what he did for me. i loved him like a brother. anyone that had the honor of knowing randy will tell you he was the kindest man anyone will ever know. You are forever in my heart my friend.

andy "dummy" notte

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