Phyllis Harding

Phyllis Harding

Phyllis Harding Obituary

Published by Angelus Funeral & Cremation Traditions on Nov. 12, 2010.
HARDING, Phyllis Andrea, 77, died peacefully on November 8, 2010. Known for her singular wit, her intelligence, and her generosity, Phyllis will be greatly missed by her family and the many friends who enjoyed her company during her life. Although born and raised in Minnesota, Phyllis spent most of her adult life in Virginia, including Falls Church, Bedford and Richmond. Her passions included, in no particular order, reading nearly a book a day, listening to opera, a steady supply of coffee, her church, the New York Times crossword puzzle, traveling the world, her three children and four grandchildren, playing bridge and trivia on the internet, and her cat. Phyllis was predeceased by her husband, Lawrence in 1996 and her daughter, Caroline, earlier this year. She is survived by her daughter, Janet Copeland; son, Mark Harding; sons-in-law, Peter Copeland and Rex Scudder; grandsons, Zach and Chris Copeland; and granddaughters, Linnea and Miranda Harding-Scudder. A memorial service will be held Sunday, November 14 at 3 p.m. at The Church of the Epiphany (Episcopal), 8000 Hermitage Road, Richmond. In lieu of flowers, Phyllis requested that donations be made to either the Lamb's Basket Food Pantry of Richmond or the Church of the Epiphany's Lire Parish Support Group to support the building of a permanent church in the village of Lire in the Sudan.


This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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Darlene Witthans

November 6, 2022

Sweet Phyllis.......Missing you. You're thought of often & are ALwAYS in my heart**** Each year our families trickle down to fewer members but the warmth; love; & memories remain. Will never forget your hearty laugh when I told you members of the police dept. created a "crime scene" when one investigator whacked a horse fly against a window. It was photographed; outlined in chalk; & surrounded by crime scene tape. LOVED that I could bring you a good giggle Most of all, loved your kind/caring heart!!~ Enjoy the ANGELS & please greet Grandma Emma & my parents for me....till I see you all again. God Bless!!~~~~

Darlene Witthans

November 6, 2021

Still missing you, Cousin Phyllis & your sense of FUN**** Ancestry.com has recently put me in touch with people you may have known, or wanted to know. You're forever in my Heart & often in my thoughts. Hope you're having some good laughs in Heaven with our Dear Grandma, Emma & that my Dad, your uncle Myron, is taking you fishing!!~~~~ Love from the planet earth....till I see you again....... ~Darlene~

Darlene Witthans

November 6, 2019

Can't believe it's been 9 years now since your left us, Phyllis. I'm so PROUD to have called you my cousin. Most of all, I miss your LOVING heart**** You made time for people you cared about & made us all a little happier with your off-beat sense of humor. Thanx for not only being an INCREDIBLE cousin, but a WARMHEARTED Friend!~ This world needs more people the caliber of YOU+ Hope you're enjoying your Favorite aria in Heaven* Love, Darlene

Darlene Witthans

November 15, 2010

Janet, Mark, Peter, Rex, & Grandkids: Our Heartfelt thoughts as we all say goodbye to our beloved Phyllis. She was a loving cousin & a CHOSEN Friend* Her brilliant mind was matched by her hearty sense of humor...which was a TREAT to experience!!!!~~ And her devotion to family was unparalleled. I will miss our "family historian" & the colorful stories of our offbeat grandmother, that she knew so well. :o) Hayley's forever indebted to her act of kindness when she learned the "sprout" sang opera!~ There's no other PHYLLIS on this earth------we've all been BLESSED by the PLEASURE of her company. Rest now, Dear Cousin--you've earned your Wings* LOVE YOU!!!!!!

November 13, 2010

Janet and Mark,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your mother will be greatly missed.

Wanda Hunt

Maryann nuckolls

November 12, 2010

Janet and Mark,
What a privilege it was spending time with your mother. She was a fun loving, giving person who enjoyed so many of lifes adventures. She lived hard, loved hard and laughed hard. Her children and grandchildren were the source of her pleasure. Now she is with our sweet Caroline, where together they are rejoicing in a painfree everafter, her tubes left behind, she breathes clearly now, and is holding hands with your Dad and sister, preparing a place where we will all enjoy her company again some day. What a life well lived! How much richer we all are for having known her. xoxo maryann

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