Barbie Nichelle Brown Cumberbatch

Barbie Nichelle Brown Cumberbatch

Barbie Cumberbatch Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Jul. 7, 2009.
CUMBERBATCH, Barbie Nichelle Brown, 40, went home to be with the Lord on July 4, 2009. She was preceded in death by her maternal grandmother, Lillian Williams; and paternal grandfather, Sterling F. Brown. She leaves to cherish her memory her loving husband, Trevor Cumberbatch; two children, Spencer S. and Claire M. Cumberbatch of Richmond; parents, Lillian and Sterling C. Brown; one sister, Carmen Jacobs, all of New Kent; devoted in-laws, Monica and Goulbourne Cumberbatch of New York; a paternal grandmother, Martha E. Brown of New Kent; and a host of loving relatives and friends. Remains rest at March Funeral Home, 2110 E. Laburnum Ave., where viewing will be held on Wednesday, July 8, 2009 from 9 a.m. to 8 p.m., and where the family will receive friends from 5:30 to 7:30 pm. Funeral services will be held on Thursday, July 9, 2009, in the March Funeral Home Chapel. Rev. Milton Hathaway Officiating. Interment New Elam Baptist Church, New Kent, Va.


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July 17, 2009

Connie Boyer posted to the memorial.

July 13, 2009

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July 13, 2009

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Connie Boyer

July 17, 2009

Trevor,

I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything please know you have many friends you can lean on, who will be there to support you.

Connie Boyer

Kaye Phillips

July 13, 2009

Trevor, Spencer, and Claire,
I am so sorry for you loss! My heart breaks for you! Barbie was an incredible person and will be missed by everyone she ever touched. She was talented, smart, loving, and giving.

My prayers are with you and the rest of the family.

Greg Allen

July 13, 2009

Trevor,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Plese let me know if we can help in any way.

Patty Crump Starnes

July 13, 2009

My heart is breaking for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. We lost an angel, but heaven has gained one.

Lana Perkins Gladden

July 12, 2009

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Venida Henderson

July 10, 2009

Carmen,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. God bless you all.

Steve & Sue Alexander

July 10, 2009

Trevor - we were so sorry to hear this news. Others have said it here - Barbie lit up a room every time she entered. It must be comforting to know that she is out of pain and in a much better place. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your children during the very difficult time.

sharon williams-johnson

July 9, 2009

Crawford and Dickie. I am truly sorry for your loss. I know that God will give you comfort and peace to sustain you during this time and always. Love

July 9, 2009

Crawford and Dickie, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Daughters are special people. Please accept condolences from me and my Sisters, Dorothy, Priscilla, Selma Brown and Rosetta Williams. Sincerely Juanita Brown, (formerly Street)May God Keep You.

July 9, 2009

May God comfort you in your time of sorrow.

2 Corinthians 5:8 We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.

Karen Mason (Turner), Class of 1987

Nokomia Archer

July 9, 2009

To Mr. and Mrs. Crawford Brown,

We are sorry to hear of the loss of someone so special. My prayers are with you and your family.

Sincerely,

James and Nokomia Archer

John Schultz

July 9, 2009

To the Cumberbatch and Brown family:

Carmen,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. Barbie will forever be in your hearts.

Amanda Kelly

July 9, 2009

May God be with you and your family.
Loving memories live on forever.

July 9, 2009

Our prayer is that cherished memories wil bring you peace.

Milton & Mariana Johnson

Paul Ormand

July 8, 2009

I remember Barbie from school when we had a class together in the gifted program at NKHS. She always had an infectious smile that just lifted you up if things weren't going your way and was someone who always saw the best in each of us. Like so many others, we lost touch after leaving school, but I know she will be missed as she was a bright light in the life of anyone who had the honor or knowing her.

My deepest sympathies go out to the family that morns her. Our prayers are with you.

Caroyn Spruill Pryor

July 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cheryl Ellyson

July 8, 2009

I am sorry for your family's loss, there are no words to replace the pain....You and your Family remain in our prayers

Edgar Allen

July 8, 2009

Crawford, Dickie and Family

We're sorry that we cannot be with you at this time.

Deepest Sympathy

Edgar and Nora Allen

Craig Cotman

July 8, 2009

To the Cumberbatch and Brown family:

Carmen,
You have our deepest sympathy on the passing of Barbie. Be strong and continue to lean on the Lord. You will be in our prayers.

Craig and Monica

Mia Pollard

July 8, 2009

To the Cumberbatch and Brown Family:

My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. It's hard losing someone so dear, so revel in your memories of her and know that she is resting in a better place. Peace be with you.

Class of 1986

Cynthia Thibodeaux

July 8, 2009

I was so sorry to hear about your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Barbie. Although we never got a chance to meet face to face, I can say that she was a wonderful person. She was always gracious, kind, professional and just plain nice. You have my deepest sympathy.

David Nelms

July 8, 2009

Trevor and family:
My heartfelt condolences go out to you during this very difficult time. While I did not know Barbie well, I do know that she was a terrific person, who was able to light up a room and put a smile on the face of everyone she came in contact with. Please cherish the good times you had with her and rest assured that she is now at peace and resting in a better place. Also feel comfort in the fact that the thoughts, prayers, and support of many, many friends and acquaintances are with you as you work through this difficult period.

"Buddy" Brown

July 8, 2009

Carmen,
I was so sorry to hear about Barbie's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take comfort and know that God will see you through.

Carl Grunert

July 8, 2009

Trevor,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Elaine and Dave Preddy

July 8, 2009

Trevor,

In the few years I've known Barbie, I have been in awe of her inner strength, beauty and spirituality. I know you, Claire and Spencer will miss her earthly presence, but she'll be watching over you and her beautiful children with great joy and peace. Please know that Dave and I are thinking about you in your time of grief.

Everlasting be her memory.

Mia Pollard

July 8, 2009

To the Cumberbatch and Brown Family:

My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. It's hard losing someone dear to you, so revel in your memories of her and know that she is resting in a better place. Peace be with you.

Class of 1986

Mia Pollard

July 8, 2009

To the Brown and Cumberbatch Family:

My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. It's very hard losing someone so dear to you, but revel in your memories of her and know that she is resting in a better place. Peace be unto you.


Class of 1986

Roberta Daniel-Vann

July 8, 2009

May you be encouraged by the knowledge that God is always with you.

May God continue his Blessings upon your family.

Jason Blount

July 8, 2009

My sadness is beyond words. Barbie was like a sister to me and I loved her like one. I feel lucky just to have known her. May God bless the Brown and Cumberbatch family.

Bill Cooksey

July 8, 2009

Trevor -

I am so sorry. I can only imagine what it is like for you and your family. Please know you are in my prayers.

Bill

Dawn Harris

July 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers to the family. I worked with Barbie many years ago and what a peaceful and pretty lilly she was. Her smiles, laughter and presence will be missed. GOD has a new angel.

Jennifer Harper

July 8, 2009

Carmen,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please believe that God will see you through.

July 8, 2009

Barbie was a beautiful, talented daughter, wife, mother and child of God. Through her book she has left a wonderful legacy for all that knew her. Carmen, Trevor, Spencer, Claire Mr. and Mrs. Brown you are in my prayers during this difficult time.

Debbie and Linwood Boroughs

Cyndi Courmier

July 8, 2009

Trevor, So very sorry to hear about "B". What a wonder of a woman Barbie was. Hopefully our sorrow will turn to joy knowing she had a grand entrance and a huge celebration for her return home. Love Cyndi, Allan, Becky and Rachel

Robbie Price

July 8, 2009

To Carmen and Zack..we are so sorry to hear about Barbie's passing on. She was and still is a beautiful person. Keep her memories in your pocket.

Jenny Derr

July 8, 2009

Trevor,

While I haven't seen you and Barbie in years I was so sad to hear of your loss. I hope that memories of happy times will guide you through the sad ones ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Ronnie,Robbie,Raven Price

July 8, 2009

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Kevin McLaughlin

July 8, 2009

Trevor, Barbie was truly one in a million. Smiles followed wherever she went. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kevin and Alison

Sharon (Glesner) Brown

July 8, 2009

Trevor - I was so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.

Michael Wilson

July 8, 2009

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Cathey Jackson

July 8, 2009

Trevor,
With a sadden heart, I offer my sincere sympathy to you and your family. Please Know that God has choosen a beautiful rose in Barbie to add to his garden. May the joy of her memories continue to give you peace.

Charlean Murray

July 8, 2009

Carmen,

I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Barbie. May the stregnth of the Lord be with you and your family at this diffucult time. If there is "anything" I can do please don't hesitate to call.

Melissa Threatt

July 8, 2009

Trevor and Family,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. May God bless you and keep you now and for ever. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
(Former Circuit City Co-worker)

Gwen Keeton

July 8, 2009

To the Cumberbatch and Brown family:

Barbie was such a beautiful person who will be missed I'm sure by all. Hold fast to your memories and remember that one day we will all see her again. May God bless you and keep you always.

Eric Lewis

July 8, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Henry Weldon

July 8, 2009

Trevor,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My Gods sprint lift up you and your family during this difficult time.

Deborah Gaddy

July 8, 2009

Carmen, You all have my deepest sympathy. I know this is a very difficult time but have comfort in knowing that GOD will see you all through this and remember His plan is far greater than we could ever imagine. God needed another angel to carry out His plan and Barbie was chosen. Please be strong and know she is with you always
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Thinking of YOU during this time:
The VITA's Twins

Robert & Barbara Sayles

July 8, 2009

Crawford, Dickie, Carmen & the Brown Family,
May you find strength and comfort in the precious memories you cherish. Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to you.

Deborah Workman

July 7, 2009

I worked with Barbie at MCI and she was a hard worker and always pleasant. I heard of her illness through mutual friends and have kept her and her family in my prayers. May her memories bring smiles to her family and friends, and God give you comfort and strength in the days ahead.

Roy Jordan

July 7, 2009

Trevor, my heart goes out to you and the children. May you find comfort in the knowledge that Barbie has returned home to be with our Lord and Savior.

Irvin D. Melvin

July 7, 2009

My prayers are with in such a difficult time. I know Gods love is able to sustain you. With love your cousin Rev. Irvin D. Melvin and family.

Mel and Vicky Rose

July 7, 2009

Trevor,

You and your family have been constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I received weekly updates from Carmen at work and would always tell her to let you know that I asked about you all and that I was praying for you. Please know that you have our deepest sympathy and that we share a special bond because we share the same wedding date. Just as in years pass, I will always think of you and Barbie on April 12th. May God bless you, Spencer, Claire, Carmen and the rest of your family and may He rock you in the comfort and peace of his loving arms forever.

Doris Taylor

July 7, 2009

My prayers go out to the Brown/Cumberbatch family. I was searching for someone else and came across the information on Barbie. I remember her smile, just not sure from where - our paths have crossed. Remember God will not put no more on you than you can handle. I know she is in a better place. Be Blessed!

Tammy Washington (Brown)

July 7, 2009

I was deeply sadden to hear about Barbie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together.

God Bless All of You. CLASS OF 1986!!

Pam Morgan

July 7, 2009

We did not know Barbie that well, but in the time we did know her she was the sweetest person I've known. I'am so sorry for your loss. My God be with you and the kids.

God Bless
Pam Morgan & Family

Leila Chrisitan-Holmes

July 7, 2009

Thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. Barbie is a beautiful young lady. May your memories of how she lived her life comfort you at this time.

Stacey Moody, Sr

July 7, 2009

My prayers are with the entire family. Barbie was a wonderful person. She will be greatly missed. May God continue to be with the family.

July 7, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I am better for knowing Barbie and feel blessed to have built a relationship with her. She will be forever missed and never forgotten.
Jenn from Stony Point

July 7, 2009

May it help to know that friends will often think of you, not only at this time but in the days that follow, too.
Love you Dickie
Glo and Floyd, Williamsburg, VA

July 7, 2009

To The Brown and Cumberbatch Family, my deepest condolences are with you during the loss of your child, mother, wife and friend. With God and your everlasting memories, you will get through this difficult time. May God bless each of you. Maggie Carter McClure-Richmond,VA

Paul & Karen (Scott) Ormand & Family

July 7, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this difficult time. We went to high school with Barbie. May God's love comfort you.

christie burton

July 7, 2009

my thoughts and prayers are with you


old classmate from new kent


christie burton

Ewha Castro

July 7, 2009

Barbie was a truly beautiful person inside and out. My heartfelt condolences. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Michael Gray

July 7, 2009

I want to express my condolences to the Brown family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Chad MacPherson

July 7, 2009

Trevor, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Emrol Lindo

July 7, 2009

Trevor, Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved wife. May God comfort you and your family during this time. We will keep you in our prayers.

Pudney Pitts

July 7, 2009

Trevor and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Barbie. I cherish the memories of working with Barbie at AT&T and also talking with you, Trevor, whenever you called into the office. She was a sweet, wonderful person that I will never forget. I have ordered several of her books and can't wait to get them and give them to my young nieces and nephews. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your dear children.

Angela Walker

July 7, 2009

I am so blessed to have known Barbie. She has been such an inspiration to me and was beautiful inside and out. One could easily see God's grace through her. Trevor, please know that we have you, Spencer and Claire in our prayers. May the Lord give you strength.

Gwendolyn Hurt

July 7, 2009

My deepest condolences from our family to yours. Trevor, prayers of strength to you and your children to get you through this tough time.

Jessica Hanna

July 7, 2009

Trevor, Spencer and Claire,
Have no doubts that she is watching over you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now. Please call if you need anything.
Much love,
Jeff, Jessica & Jake Hanna

Shawn Rutledge

July 7, 2009

My condolences are with you and your family.
Shawn Rutledge

Natalie & Ed Dentel

July 7, 2009

We were terribly saddened to hear of the loss of such a wonderful, vibrant woman. Barbie brought smiles and joy wherever she went. Trevor, our hearts are with your family.

Lynn and Kristy Jensen

July 7, 2009

To Trevor, Spencer, and Clair Bear,

We love you guys and pray that peace will find your hearts. Barbie is rejoicing with Jesus in Heaven right now and that is so great. Although I wish she were here to enjoy life...she is not in pain anymore! She was such an inspiration. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you! God Bless!!

Becky DeCamps

July 7, 2009

Trevor, I am deeply sadden by the loss of your wonderful Barbie. My prayers are with you.

July 7, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. I went to high school with Barbie and have not seen her in many many years but wanted to extend our condolences.
Jennifer Salyers (Drewery) and Family

Peggy Shumaker

July 7, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with Barbie and you Trevor and the children. God Bless all of you.

Cyndy Healy

July 7, 2009

Trevor-My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.

Ed McCracken

July 7, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to Barbie's family. She will be greatly missed.

Cassandra Washington

July 7, 2009

To the Cumberbatch and Brown Family, Our prayers are with you in your time of bereavement. Earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal. Barbie knew the battle wasn't hers it was the lords. My deepest condolences are with you.

Paul and Stef from MCI

July 7, 2009

Trevor, Spencer and Claire - You and your families are in our thoughts and prayers. We were deeply saddened to hear about Barbie and will always remember her as one of the best friends and Moms we've ever known. Trevor - we will help you in any way we can.

Joe Crump

July 7, 2009

Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Remember that God will comfort each of you - continue to lean on him. Whatever we can do please dont hesitate to call upon us.
Much Love,
Joe & Penny Crump & Gabriel Smith

Wayne and Karra Graves

July 7, 2009

Trevor, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. It was really nice working with you and Barbie (my go to lady at AT&T) while at Circuit City. May the peace of God be with you and your family.

July 7, 2009

In loving memeory to a beautiful and loving wife, mother and dear friend. As we are all sadden with heavy hearts. My thoughts and prayers to all that knew and loved you. You were such a beautiful person that will always be remembered.
I will chereis the memories that we shared together as friends always.

Donna Harlow & Jeff Will - Mechanicsville, VA
Grier Harlow

Teresa Dobson-Brown

July 7, 2009

To the Cumberbatch and Brown family:

My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. I will always remember her bright smile and kind spirit. I will cherish my most recent memory of her which is the children's book she wrote titled " Blessings come from Kindness." I will share this book with my son Noah and some day his children. I leave you with this Psalms. May it give you comfort.

Psalms 23
The Lord is my sheperd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

Amen

Steve Fox

July 7, 2009

Trevor,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless all of you.

Nancy Tomlinson

July 7, 2009

Carmen, I am so sorry to hear of the death of Barbie and know that she will be greatly missed by you and your family, but she suffers no more. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you and I know she is with you all in spirit.

Erin Parrillo

July 7, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with Barbie and her family.

Tolm & Linda Toombs

July 7, 2009

May God's strength and love be with you and your family at this time. We are so glad that Angela and Barbie were good friends and got strength from each other during their battle. Know that you were and are in our prayers.

Levi & Jane Gross

July 7, 2009

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Dolores, Morgan and Paige Jessee

July 7, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

"It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone, for part of us went with you, the day God called you home."

Jack & Wanda Phillips

July 7, 2009

Trevor, we were deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Barbie. Please know that we are keeping you, Spencer and Claire in our prayers and thoughts.

Lee West

July 7, 2009

Trevor, Spencer, and Claire - Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you right now. There is one more angel in heaven looking over all of us.

Love,
Lee, PJ, Hannah, and Peyton West

john vaughan

July 7, 2009

Trevor,

I just wanted to say that i am deeply sorry about your loss. I met Barbie and yourself back in the Circuit city days and it was a great time knowing both of you. I hope somehow you can keep and great smile that you always have and rememeber the great times. I wish you and your kids the best. Feel free to call if you would like to catch up ( 400-3314 )

Michael & Fran Tehan

July 7, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sherry Matheny

July 7, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers be with you in your time of sorrow as there is no greater bond than that of a parent and child. As the weeks past and life's routine returns,your memories will abound and shall bring you peace and happiness for the life that was shared.

John Coleman

July 7, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

mary patterson

July 7, 2009

Barbie was a joy to all who knew her. She is with the lord now and pain will be no more. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

arthur clarke

July 7, 2009

Carmen, iam very sorry for your loss,please give my condolences to your family at this most difficult time.

Barbara Brown

July 7, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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