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Connie Boyer
July 17, 2009
Trevor,
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything please know you have many friends you can lean on, who will be there to support you.
Connie Boyer
Kaye Phillips
July 13, 2009
Trevor, Spencer, and Claire,
I am so sorry for you loss! My heart breaks for you! Barbie was an incredible person and will be missed by everyone she ever touched. She was talented, smart, loving, and giving.
My prayers are with you and the rest of the family.
Greg Allen
July 13, 2009
Trevor,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Plese let me know if we can help in any way.
Patty Crump Starnes
July 13, 2009
My heart is breaking for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. We lost an angel, but heaven has gained one.
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Lana Perkins Gladden
July 12, 2009
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Venida Henderson
July 10, 2009
Carmen,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. God bless you all.
Steve & Sue Alexander
July 10, 2009
Trevor - we were so sorry to hear this news. Others have said it here - Barbie lit up a room every time she entered. It must be comforting to know that she is out of pain and in a much better place. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your children during the very difficult time.
sharon williams-johnson
July 9, 2009
Crawford and Dickie. I am truly sorry for your loss. I know that God will give you comfort and peace to sustain you during this time and always. Love
July 9, 2009
Crawford and Dickie, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Daughters are special people. Please accept condolences from me and my Sisters, Dorothy, Priscilla, Selma Brown and Rosetta Williams. Sincerely Juanita Brown, (formerly Street)May God Keep You.
July 9, 2009
May God comfort you in your time of sorrow.
2 Corinthians 5:8 We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.
Karen Mason (Turner), Class of 1987
Nokomia Archer
July 9, 2009
To Mr. and Mrs. Crawford Brown,
We are sorry to hear of the loss of someone so special. My prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
James and Nokomia Archer
John Schultz
July 9, 2009
To the Cumberbatch and Brown family:
Carmen,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. Barbie will forever be in your hearts.
Amanda Kelly
July 9, 2009
May God be with you and your family.
Loving memories live on forever.
July 9, 2009
Our prayer is that cherished memories wil bring you peace.
Milton & Mariana Johnson
Paul Ormand
July 8, 2009
I remember Barbie from school when we had a class together in the gifted program at NKHS. She always had an infectious smile that just lifted you up if things weren't going your way and was someone who always saw the best in each of us. Like so many others, we lost touch after leaving school, but I know she will be missed as she was a bright light in the life of anyone who had the honor or knowing her.
My deepest sympathies go out to the family that morns her. Our prayers are with you.
Caroyn Spruill Pryor
July 8, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Cheryl Ellyson
July 8, 2009
I am sorry for your family's loss, there are no words to replace the pain....You and your Family remain in our prayers
Edgar Allen
July 8, 2009
Crawford, Dickie and Family
We're sorry that we cannot be with you at this time.
Deepest Sympathy
Edgar and Nora Allen
Craig Cotman
July 8, 2009
To the Cumberbatch and Brown family:
Carmen,
You have our deepest sympathy on the passing of Barbie. Be strong and continue to lean on the Lord. You will be in our prayers.
Craig and Monica
Mia Pollard
July 8, 2009
To the Cumberbatch and Brown Family:
My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. It's hard losing someone so dear, so revel in your memories of her and know that she is resting in a better place. Peace be with you.
Class of 1986
Cynthia Thibodeaux
July 8, 2009
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Barbie. Although we never got a chance to meet face to face, I can say that she was a wonderful person. She was always gracious, kind, professional and just plain nice. You have my deepest sympathy.
David Nelms
July 8, 2009
Trevor and family:
My heartfelt condolences go out to you during this very difficult time. While I did not know Barbie well, I do know that she was a terrific person, who was able to light up a room and put a smile on the face of everyone she came in contact with. Please cherish the good times you had with her and rest assured that she is now at peace and resting in a better place. Also feel comfort in the fact that the thoughts, prayers, and support of many, many friends and acquaintances are with you as you work through this difficult period.
"Buddy" Brown
July 8, 2009
Carmen,
I was so sorry to hear about Barbie's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take comfort and know that God will see you through.
Carl Grunert
July 8, 2009
Trevor,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Elaine and Dave Preddy
July 8, 2009
Trevor,
In the few years I've known Barbie, I have been in awe of her inner strength, beauty and spirituality. I know you, Claire and Spencer will miss her earthly presence, but she'll be watching over you and her beautiful children with great joy and peace. Please know that Dave and I are thinking about you in your time of grief.
Everlasting be her memory.
Mia Pollard
July 8, 2009
To the Cumberbatch and Brown Family:
My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. It's hard losing someone dear to you, so revel in your memories of her and know that she is resting in a better place. Peace be with you.
Class of 1986
Mia Pollard
July 8, 2009
To the Brown and Cumberbatch Family:
My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. It's very hard losing someone so dear to you, but revel in your memories of her and know that she is resting in a better place. Peace be unto you.
Class of 1986
Roberta Daniel-Vann
July 8, 2009
May you be encouraged by the knowledge that God is always with you.
May God continue his Blessings upon your family.
Jason Blount
July 8, 2009
My sadness is beyond words. Barbie was like a sister to me and I loved her like one. I feel lucky just to have known her. May God bless the Brown and Cumberbatch family.
Bill Cooksey
July 8, 2009
Trevor -
I am so sorry. I can only imagine what it is like for you and your family. Please know you are in my prayers.
Bill
Dawn Harris
July 8, 2009
My thoughts and prayers to the family. I worked with Barbie many years ago and what a peaceful and pretty lilly she was. Her smiles, laughter and presence will be missed. GOD has a new angel.
Jennifer Harper
July 8, 2009
Carmen,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please believe that God will see you through.
July 8, 2009
Barbie was a beautiful, talented daughter, wife, mother and child of God. Through her book she has left a wonderful legacy for all that knew her. Carmen, Trevor, Spencer, Claire Mr. and Mrs. Brown you are in my prayers during this difficult time.
Debbie and Linwood Boroughs
Cyndi Courmier
July 8, 2009
Trevor, So very sorry to hear about "B". What a wonder of a woman Barbie was. Hopefully our sorrow will turn to joy knowing she had a grand entrance and a huge celebration for her return home. Love Cyndi, Allan, Becky and Rachel
Robbie Price
July 8, 2009
To Carmen and Zack..we are so sorry to hear about Barbie's passing on. She was and still is a beautiful person. Keep her memories in your pocket.
Jenny Derr
July 8, 2009
Trevor,
While I haven't seen you and Barbie in years I was so sad to hear of your loss. I hope that memories of happy times will guide you through the sad ones ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ronnie,Robbie,Raven Price
July 8, 2009
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Kevin McLaughlin
July 8, 2009
Trevor, Barbie was truly one in a million. Smiles followed wherever she went. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kevin and Alison
Sharon (Glesner) Brown
July 8, 2009
Trevor - I was so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.
Michael Wilson
July 8, 2009
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Cathey Jackson
July 8, 2009
Trevor,
With a sadden heart, I offer my sincere sympathy to you and your family. Please Know that God has choosen a beautiful rose in Barbie to add to his garden. May the joy of her memories continue to give you peace.
Charlean Murray
July 8, 2009
Carmen,
I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Barbie. May the stregnth of the Lord be with you and your family at this diffucult time. If there is "anything" I can do please don't hesitate to call.
Melissa Threatt
July 8, 2009
Trevor and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. May God bless you and keep you now and for ever. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
(Former Circuit City Co-worker)
Gwen Keeton
July 8, 2009
To the Cumberbatch and Brown family:
Barbie was such a beautiful person who will be missed I'm sure by all. Hold fast to your memories and remember that one day we will all see her again. May God bless you and keep you always.
Eric Lewis
July 8, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Henry Weldon
July 8, 2009
Trevor,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My Gods sprint lift up you and your family during this difficult time.
Deborah Gaddy
July 8, 2009
Carmen, You all have my deepest sympathy. I know this is a very difficult time but have comfort in knowing that GOD will see you all through this and remember His plan is far greater than we could ever imagine. God needed another angel to carry out His plan and Barbie was chosen. Please be strong and know she is with you always
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Thinking of YOU during this time:
The VITA's Twins
Robert & Barbara Sayles
July 8, 2009
Crawford, Dickie, Carmen & the Brown Family,
May you find strength and comfort in the precious memories you cherish. Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to you.
Deborah Workman
July 7, 2009
I worked with Barbie at MCI and she was a hard worker and always pleasant. I heard of her illness through mutual friends and have kept her and her family in my prayers. May her memories bring smiles to her family and friends, and God give you comfort and strength in the days ahead.
Roy Jordan
July 7, 2009
Trevor, my heart goes out to you and the children. May you find comfort in the knowledge that Barbie has returned home to be with our Lord and Savior.
Irvin D. Melvin
July 7, 2009
My prayers are with in such a difficult time. I know Gods love is able to sustain you. With love your cousin Rev. Irvin D. Melvin and family.
Mel and Vicky Rose
July 7, 2009
Trevor,
You and your family have been constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I received weekly updates from Carmen at work and would always tell her to let you know that I asked about you all and that I was praying for you. Please know that you have our deepest sympathy and that we share a special bond because we share the same wedding date. Just as in years pass, I will always think of you and Barbie on April 12th. May God bless you, Spencer, Claire, Carmen and the rest of your family and may He rock you in the comfort and peace of his loving arms forever.
Doris Taylor
July 7, 2009
My prayers go out to the Brown/Cumberbatch family. I was searching for someone else and came across the information on Barbie. I remember her smile, just not sure from where - our paths have crossed. Remember God will not put no more on you than you can handle. I know she is in a better place. Be Blessed!
Tammy Washington (Brown)
July 7, 2009
I was deeply sadden to hear about Barbie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together.
God Bless All of You. CLASS OF 1986!!
Pam Morgan
July 7, 2009
We did not know Barbie that well, but in the time we did know her she was the sweetest person I've known. I'am so sorry for your loss. My God be with you and the kids.
God Bless
Pam Morgan & Family
Leila Chrisitan-Holmes
July 7, 2009
Thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. Barbie is a beautiful young lady. May your memories of how she lived her life comfort you at this time.
Stacey Moody, Sr
July 7, 2009
My prayers are with the entire family. Barbie was a wonderful person. She will be greatly missed. May God continue to be with the family.
July 7, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I am better for knowing Barbie and feel blessed to have built a relationship with her. She will be forever missed and never forgotten.
Jenn from Stony Point
July 7, 2009
May it help to know that friends will often think of you, not only at this time but in the days that follow, too.
Love you Dickie
Glo and Floyd, Williamsburg, VA
July 7, 2009
To The Brown and Cumberbatch Family, my deepest condolences are with you during the loss of your child, mother, wife and friend. With God and your everlasting memories, you will get through this difficult time. May God bless each of you. Maggie Carter McClure-Richmond,VA
Paul & Karen (Scott) Ormand & Family
July 7, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this difficult time. We went to high school with Barbie. May God's love comfort you.
christie burton
July 7, 2009
my thoughts and prayers are with you
old classmate from new kent
christie burton
Ewha Castro
July 7, 2009
Barbie was a truly beautiful person inside and out. My heartfelt condolences. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Michael Gray
July 7, 2009
I want to express my condolences to the Brown family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Chad MacPherson
July 7, 2009
Trevor, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Emrol Lindo
July 7, 2009
Trevor, Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved wife. May God comfort you and your family during this time. We will keep you in our prayers.
Pudney Pitts
July 7, 2009
Trevor and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Barbie. I cherish the memories of working with Barbie at AT&T and also talking with you, Trevor, whenever you called into the office. She was a sweet, wonderful person that I will never forget. I have ordered several of her books and can't wait to get them and give them to my young nieces and nephews. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your dear children.
Angela Walker
July 7, 2009
I am so blessed to have known Barbie. She has been such an inspiration to me and was beautiful inside and out. One could easily see God's grace through her. Trevor, please know that we have you, Spencer and Claire in our prayers. May the Lord give you strength.
Gwendolyn Hurt
July 7, 2009
My deepest condolences from our family to yours. Trevor, prayers of strength to you and your children to get you through this tough time.
Jessica Hanna
July 7, 2009
Trevor, Spencer and Claire,
Have no doubts that she is watching over you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now. Please call if you need anything.
Much love,
Jeff, Jessica & Jake Hanna
Shawn Rutledge
July 7, 2009
My condolences are with you and your family.
Shawn Rutledge
Natalie & Ed Dentel
July 7, 2009
We were terribly saddened to hear of the loss of such a wonderful, vibrant woman. Barbie brought smiles and joy wherever she went. Trevor, our hearts are with your family.
Lynn and Kristy Jensen
July 7, 2009
To Trevor, Spencer, and Clair Bear,
We love you guys and pray that peace will find your hearts. Barbie is rejoicing with Jesus in Heaven right now and that is so great. Although I wish she were here to enjoy life...she is not in pain anymore! She was such an inspiration. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you! God Bless!!
Becky DeCamps
July 7, 2009
Trevor, I am deeply sadden by the loss of your wonderful Barbie. My prayers are with you.
July 7, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. I went to high school with Barbie and have not seen her in many many years but wanted to extend our condolences.
Jennifer Salyers (Drewery) and Family
Peggy Shumaker
July 7, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Barbie and you Trevor and the children. God Bless all of you.
Cyndy Healy
July 7, 2009
Trevor-My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.
Ed McCracken
July 7, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to Barbie's family. She will be greatly missed.
Cassandra Washington
July 7, 2009
To the Cumberbatch and Brown Family, Our prayers are with you in your time of bereavement. Earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal. Barbie knew the battle wasn't hers it was the lords. My deepest condolences are with you.
Paul and Stef from MCI
July 7, 2009
Trevor, Spencer and Claire - You and your families are in our thoughts and prayers. We were deeply saddened to hear about Barbie and will always remember her as one of the best friends and Moms we've ever known. Trevor - we will help you in any way we can.
Joe Crump
July 7, 2009
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Remember that God will comfort each of you - continue to lean on him. Whatever we can do please dont hesitate to call upon us.
Much Love,
Joe & Penny Crump & Gabriel Smith
Wayne and Karra Graves
July 7, 2009
Trevor, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. It was really nice working with you and Barbie (my go to lady at AT&T) while at Circuit City. May the peace of God be with you and your family.
July 7, 2009
In loving memeory to a beautiful and loving wife, mother and dear friend. As we are all sadden with heavy hearts. My thoughts and prayers to all that knew and loved you. You were such a beautiful person that will always be remembered.
I will chereis the memories that we shared together as friends always.
Donna Harlow & Jeff Will - Mechanicsville, VA
Grier Harlow
Teresa Dobson-Brown
July 7, 2009
To the Cumberbatch and Brown family:
My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. I will always remember her bright smile and kind spirit. I will cherish my most recent memory of her which is the children's book she wrote titled " Blessings come from Kindness." I will share this book with my son Noah and some day his children. I leave you with this Psalms. May it give you comfort.
Psalms 23
The Lord is my sheperd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
Amen
Steve Fox
July 7, 2009
Trevor,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless all of you.
Nancy Tomlinson
July 7, 2009
Carmen, I am so sorry to hear of the death of Barbie and know that she will be greatly missed by you and your family, but she suffers no more. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you and I know she is with you all in spirit.
Erin Parrillo
July 7, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Barbie and her family.
Tolm & Linda Toombs
July 7, 2009
May God's strength and love be with you and your family at this time. We are so glad that Angela and Barbie were good friends and got strength from each other during their battle. Know that you were and are in our prayers.
Levi & Jane Gross
July 7, 2009
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Dolores, Morgan and Paige Jessee
July 7, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
"It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone, for part of us went with you, the day God called you home."
Jack & Wanda Phillips
July 7, 2009
Trevor, we were deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Barbie. Please know that we are keeping you, Spencer and Claire in our prayers and thoughts.
Lee West
July 7, 2009
Trevor, Spencer, and Claire - Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you right now. There is one more angel in heaven looking over all of us.
Love,
Lee, PJ, Hannah, and Peyton West
john vaughan
July 7, 2009
Trevor,
I just wanted to say that i am deeply sorry about your loss. I met Barbie and yourself back in the Circuit city days and it was a great time knowing both of you. I hope somehow you can keep and great smile that you always have and rememeber the great times. I wish you and your kids the best. Feel free to call if you would like to catch up ( 400-3314 )
Michael & Fran Tehan
July 7, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sherry Matheny
July 7, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers be with you in your time of sorrow as there is no greater bond than that of a parent and child. As the weeks past and life's routine returns,your memories will abound and shall bring you peace and happiness for the life that was shared.
John Coleman
July 7, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
mary patterson
July 7, 2009
Barbie was a joy to all who knew her. She is with the lord now and pain will be no more. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
arthur clarke
July 7, 2009
Carmen, iam very sorry for your loss,please give my condolences to your family at this most difficult time.
Barbara Brown
July 7, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
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