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Jeffrey ALRED Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Lyn Cotela
August 27, 2023
Still think of you, Jeff. May you be at rest and may your beloved Family find comfort in knowing you are at peace. The VCU girls joined me in NYC last month; sweet conversations about you and fond memories & laughs shared. You’re unforgettable, Big Red.
August 24, 2012
One of the nicest people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. The world is a better place because of all that Jeff taught us. I miss his smile!
William Chenault
October 5, 2011
I will never forget the fun we had back in the day, 30 years ago..But he was always Jeff as nicest person you would every want to meet. I know God has a plan for you up there. Miss you
John Snellings
September 25, 2011
Cathy, Chandler, Kelsey, and the Alred family: We are deeply saddened by the news of Jeff's passing. What a marvelous man! He never had an unkind word for anyone. Sheryl and I both met Jeff at BOVACO years ago. He was always smiling. Jeff will be missed by so many. His legacy will live on forever.
Our thoughts, prayers and love go out to each of you during this sad time.
May you know Jeff is no longer suffering and is at peace with his God.
Our Love now and always,
John and Sheryl Snellings
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Lori Nuchols Moore
September 7, 2011
To the Alred family, I am so sorry for your loss. I first started working with Jeff back in the Bank of Virginia days. He will be greatly missed - that smile and sense of humor. He was always a joy to be around. Cathy - you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. Lean on God and he will get you all through this. I feel very blessed to have had the opportunity to know Jeff.
Andy Warner
September 2, 2011
It is with a very heavy heart to write this condolence. Jeff was terrific. He had smiles galore and hugs that wouldn't stop. Scott and I had the best time with him in the choir. My mom also loved Jeff dearly. Now they can sing in the heavenly choir together (when he is not fishing). Our deepest sympathy and our heartfelt prayers go to you, Cathy and the children. We love you and miss you all. Jeff, we love you and will miss you dearly. Andy, Scott, and Michael Warner
Laurie Breeden
September 2, 2011
Is it possible to be a better person for just having known someone? If that person was Jeff – YES! Every life he touched, ever so gently, benefited in one way or another, from his touch – or his bear hug! No man loved his family more. Please know, dear Cathy, CJ and Kelsey, that you are always in my prayers. I know that you know Jeff is Home.
Lori Collea
September 2, 2011
Cathy.I was so saddened when I heard from yvonne h at capone tbat jeff had passed away. You both were inspirational to me. Jeff was such a ray of sunshine at work and will truly be missed. Love and prayers to you and your family.
Lori Collea
September 2, 2011
Cathy.I was so saddened when I heard from yvonne h at capone tbat jeff had passed away. You both were inspirational to me. Jeff was such a ray of sunshine at work and will truly be missed. Love and prayers to you and your family.
Chris Herting
September 1, 2011
I met Jeff a little over a year ago. He was not in my immediate department at Capital One; however, he knew I was a new face. He was one of the first people I met – he walked right up to me. He wanted to know about me and my family. I was humbled by his kindness and sincere effort to make me feel welcome. We both shared a love for the Washington Redskins. I looked forward to talking with him every week.
I appreciate how much he cared about people. He was a positive force who could make the most negative person smile. Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers. He touched the lives of many and he will be remembered fondly. I will always remember his smile and kindness.
Dean Cobb
September 1, 2011
To jeffs family, I am sorry for your nt to nloss.I worked with Jeff at pleasants hardware a long time ago,we also went on vacation to va beach alot. Jeff was a great guy and lots of fun to be around. I have not seen Jeff for a few years but he was still the same guy. Rest in peace my old friend.
Kathy Lowry
September 1, 2011
May God continue to bless you all. My heart goes out to the family as you deal with the loss of Jeff. What an amazing man and example he was to us all! My prayers are that God will comfort you as only He can. May He attend your every need in the days and weeks to come.
Bridget West
September 1, 2011
Words cannot express how much Jeff's positive & inspirational attitude will forever be missed here at CapOne. I can truly say that I am honored to have had an oppurtunity to work with such a motivated individual who never wore a frown.
My deepest condolences goes out to his family that I know Jeff sincerly loved and cherished.
Gail Farmer
September 1, 2011
Cathy & Family
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. I worked with Jeff at Bank of Virginia /Signet/Capital One. Jeff nickname for me was "Homey" I played all the lottery numbers for the dept!! He will truly be missed.
Lisa
September 1, 2011
Jeff was such an amazing person and kind hearted. I only recently found out of his illness and have been praying for him to find peace and I know now that he has that. My thoughts and prayers go to his family, he loved his family very much and talked about all of you often. He will truly be missed by many.
Elise Camp Selby
August 31, 2011
so sorry to hear about Jeff. I knew him at VCU. He was a frat brother of my brother Andy Camp.Jeff was a great guy and friend to many.
Andy is out of the country currently but I know he will be saddened by this news of Jeff. May you find peace during this time. Elise Camp Selby
Lyn Cotela-Schuman
August 31, 2011
Heartfelt condolences to the Alred Family. I met the vibrant and feisty Jeff 31 years ago at VCU. Blessed to have kept contact with him throughout the years. I will always remember his adoration for his family and am proud to have known the fine man he was. “You will always hold a special place in my heart, Big Red. May your beautiful soul rest in eternal peace. Volare con gli angeli."
Matt Hines
August 31, 2011
Jeff will truly be missed as he was one of a kind: an honest, caring, and true family man.
During our annual golf outing, Jeff was always the level-headed voice of reason and positivity - time and again he made us smile, laugh, and really appreciate being together. Most of all, he shared wonderful stories about his family and never forgot to ask about others. That's what I will always remember about him.
Condolences to his loved ones during this difficult time.
Cindy Herndon
August 31, 2011
Cathy and Family,
I grew up with Jeff and his sisters in Spring Meadows. I also worked with he and Cathy at Bank of Virginia/Signet/Capital One. He had a nickname for me, it was "Woo" and I will never forget it. He was a wonderful person to know and he will be greatly missed by all that knew him.
Karen Griscom
August 31, 2011
Cathy & family,I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort
Rowlin Robinson
August 31, 2011
To the family of Jeff Alred, I started working with Jeff back in the Bank of VA days up until it become known as Capital One. He was such a special person to know and as a boss he showed the love of God in his leadership. I was sorry to hear of his passing but knowing we he is now with the Lord. I pray that God will give you strength to get through this time.
Steve and Valerie Reese
August 31, 2011
We met Jeff at Providence United Methodist Church. Jeff pitched for the Providence softball team. You and Gary kept everyone laughing. You always had a smile and a kind word. You will be greatly missed. My condolences to your awesome family.
August 31, 2011
I worked at Capital One from 1999-2005 and would run into Jeff occasionally. He was always so friendly and helpful. My condolences to his family. God bless you.
Pat Johnson
Priscilla Brightwell
August 31, 2011
Sorry to hear about Jeff.My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.Jeff was my boss when I worked at Capitol one.
Holly Ford
August 31, 2011
Jeff will be missed dearly by so many people. I am honored to have worked with him and will never forget the honestly and true passion he exhibited in everything he did. His smile was as bright as the sun. We are all better people for knowing him!!!
Dawn Imholte
August 31, 2011
Jeff was my second manager at Capital One back in 1999/2000 and he was one of the kindest people I've ever known. My heartfelt condolences go out to his family, and I pray for strength for them in the days to come. Not often do we get the privilige of knowing people as good as Jeff, and God has a greater plan for him now.
Kelly King Horne
August 31, 2011
Jeff added warmth to every room he was in and Providence United Methodist was blessed with his living demonstration of love and faith. He was always ready with a great bear hug. He will be missed. My prayers go out to Cathy, CJ, and Kelsey.
Pam Tuskey
August 31, 2011
I had the privilege of working with Jeff at Capital One many years ago. He was generous with his smiles and words of encouragement, and his favorite conversation topic was his family. My deepest condolences go out to the Alred family. Rest in peace, Jeff.
Susan Lentini
August 31, 2011
I worked with Jeff at Capital One about 6 years ago. I was fortunate enough to run into him last year and he greated me with a hug and we chatted like it's only been a few days since we last saw each other. He was such a nice, sincere and caring person. My prayers go out to his family, especially his children and wife. He always spoke so highly of them and loved them dearly. You will be missed Jeff.
Karen Caruthers
August 31, 2011
Cathy, CJ, and Kelsey -
I was honored to have known Jeff. I will remember him for his exceeding kindness, sly humor and his complete devotion to you. These qualities will stand as a testament to the man he was, and a shining example for us all to follow. Know that you remain in my thoughts and prayers throughout this most difficult passage.
Robin Bowers
August 31, 2011
I will miss your smiling face Jeff. You were such an inspiration to me spiritually and such a great friend to me and my son. Our prayers to Kathy, CJ and Kelsey.
Sincerely,
Robin Bowers
Bill Mann
August 31, 2011
I also worked with Jeff at Capital One. We could sit around and talk about the Redskins for hours. He was not only my manager but a good friend. He always taught me to put family first in life. He will be deeply missed.
Amy and Randy Mott
August 31, 2011
Heartfelt condolences to the Alred family. We did not know Jeff nearly as long as we wish we had. He was and will always be an inspiration to our family. It is so hard to believe he is gone and we are deeply saddened. He will be missed.
Cindy Marshall
August 31, 2011
Jeff was such a wonderful, delightful person... He was a very good friend to all of us in the Ellis Family. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his very special family.
Sincerely,
Cindy Marshall
Stacy Muse
August 31, 2011
I worked with Jeff at Capital One. He was such a wonderful person to be around. Rest in Peace my friend. Prayers goes out to your family.
SHERRY ANDERSON
August 30, 2011
EXCELLENT
Nancy Brobston
August 30, 2011
Jeff was sincerely a family man and absolutely beamed when he spoke of his family. I had the pleasure of working with Jeff at Capital One on various occassions. Even after we parted ways he would ask how my children were doing by name. He was a great leader and also showed it was okay to have a compassionate side. Jeff will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Vicki Gartner
August 30, 2011
I worked with Jeff at Capital One and he was extremely kind and always smiling. He was so special and I will miss seeing him at Capital One. Find comfort from all the kind words written here about Jeff.
Susan Martin
August 30, 2011
I know Jeff from growing up in Spring Meadows. His sister Cindy and all of us used to play ball and act like usual soon to be teenagers. A great guy always up for a game of ball. Coming from a strong church going family and a Mom who stood stong in her church ways. Just a great family overall. Though I left early to go live in the country w/ my father I never forgot the love, fun and just general growing up we all shared during those few years. Certain things come along in our lives that make lasting impressions. Jeff was one of those folks along with all of his family. He always came to see my Granny and bring his children when he came home. I'll never forget how she loved those visits and talked about them for days after he was gone. It's great how neighbors across the street from each other can form bonds that last forever though we grow up and go our seperate ways, still our parents keep us all connected. I always heard and knew that Jeff was a man of God. A Good Father, Husband, Brother,Son & Friend. Though years were cut short he never lost his faith, love of life and a man whose legacy leaves all I know,knowing a truly good man for all to admire.
All I could think of after his passing was that everyone's prayers were answered but maybe not in the way we as humans wanted but in a way God set forth for all admire! He IS TOTALLY HEALED now and I'm sure his children and family will know his presence forever.
Wendy Martin
August 30, 2011
The Alred Family- I was heartbroken to learn of Jeff's passing. We were co-workers at Capital One for many years, but more importantly he was a friend. He always had a smile on his face and time to share a moment and chat. I remember he was one of the first people I told when I found out I was expecting twins. He was so excited for me and shared in my happiness. I remember when he and Cathy were expecting each of their children and how he was so excited because he always wanted to name his daughter Kelsey. We were recently able to connect online and I am so grateful that we were able to exchange a few messages. Thoughts and prayers to Jeff's family and friends. Rest In Peace my friend. -Wendy Clark Martin
Kimberly McRae
August 30, 2011
Everytime I saw him at work he always had a smile on his face and was always very happy and in a great mood. He will be truly missed. To his wife and kids, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Norma Lambeth
August 30, 2011
Cathy,
Please accept my condolences and may the memories of your time together help get you through the coming days. If I can help please let me know.
Norma Lambeth
David Peters
August 30, 2011
Cindy, so sorry to hear of your brother's passing. Based on what you have told me he was a hell of a good man, brother and father. I will toast a drink to him tonight in appreciation for what he brought to this earth. As we have spoken, the good truly do die young.
Brad Long
August 30, 2011
Jeff was a great man and a true friend. Although we lost touch over the years I can clearly remember the great times that we shared at VCU and the years that followed. I have read this guest book and it is inspiring to see how many peoples lives Jeff has touched in such a positive manner. My heartfelt condolences go out to the family and all of the many friends that will miss him.
Tricia Guthrie-Lane
August 30, 2011
I had the pleasure of working with Jeff on numerous occasions and echo the sentiments of everyone who has written before me.
?Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower, We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind." -William Wordsworth
August 30, 2011
Our sincerest condolences to the Alred and Shafer Family, on the loss of Jeff. May Peace, Faith and Strength be with you all! Our prayers are with you. Love, The Zubrens, Palm Beach Gardens, Florida
Kai Strother
August 30, 2011
Jeff was my first manager when i started at Capital One back in 1998. "Alred" (as I always called him) always had a smile on his face and stayed positive. Even in our later years at the job, when I saw Alred, we always have genuine conversation. My prayers and deepest sympathy goes out to the Alred family.
You're home Alred...and you'll truly be missed.
Michael Turner
August 30, 2011
Jeff was the man who took me on as a brand new college graduate and shaped me into his likeness as a manager. While I can never say I achieved his abilities with people, I can say that he changed the way I worked and helped me be successful. But, it wasn't his impact on my work life that was the greatest, it was his impact on my personal life that affected me the most. One day at Capital One in 2001, he mentioned after seeing me interact with a co-worker that he could see the two of us having a future together. His words touched a cord in me and sparked the idea that later became my marriage. The day before Jeff's death Kelley and I celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary and I can honestly say that we probably wouldn't be together today if he hadn't shared his insight with me so long ago. I will forever be thankful for Jeff's soft spoken but powerful words. You will be missed Jeff. You were a great man!
Ned Kimbrough
August 30, 2011
Cindy, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. The good Lord must have needed a GOOD man. He is now resting with God and pain free...my thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. I know it is hard to deal with, but you will always have the memories...
John Ayers
August 30, 2011
Dear Cindy and family, My heartfelt condolences go out to you all. I did not know Jeffrey personally but I know if he was a brother of Cindy he was a special person. Cindy, it has been years since we were connected, however I always, and always will, love you for just being you and treating me kindly with your sense of humor and loving, caring ways. Ask your Mom if you don't remember me --Bev is a good friend to my Mom, Muriel Ayers. You and I used to paint the town red in Richmond back in the eighties. You are a beautiful person. I pray that you and your family find the strength and stillness you need to get thru this. Love you always, John Ayers
Jennifer Stith
August 30, 2011
Hello Cathy: I am not sure if you recall me or not, but both you and Jeff were my supervisor at one point at Capital One (I was Jennifer Robertson at the time). I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. You have my deepest condolences. I will keep you and your family in my prayers as you go through the healing process. I know he will be missed tremendously.
August 30, 2011
I was honored to have known Jeff. His kindness, humor, faith and complete devotion to his family and friends will always stand as a testament to the man. Cathy, please know that you and the children will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Karen Caruthers (Richmond, VA)
August 30, 2011
Jeff - so sorry that u had to leave us mortals behind. I know u r smiling down on us, and r relieved of ur pain. Ur many good deeds, words, actions, have not gone Un-noticed; and I am sure u r being rewarded Eternally - God Bless.
Guy Adamson
August 30, 2011
Jeff and I started out at Bank of Virginia Bankcard way back in the old days when Pat Kirby was running the Adjustments Dept.Jeff was my best friend in those days . He always was able to turn an otherwise bad day into a fun event. We had many good laughs together during our lunch breaks in the cafeteria where we would dicuss our female coleagues,especially one MISS "Priddy" who would become his life partner and mother of his children. Jeff was a class act in every measure. The world was a better place for having him in it and all of us that knew him are blessed to have had such a kind and decent and funny man in their lives. I know he will go on to a better place.
Teri Reibsamen
August 30, 2011
It's so hard to accept the fact that Jeff is no longer with us. He was a true inspiration to many and very genuine at heart. I had the pleasure of knowing Jeff from Capital One over the past 16 years. It never seemed to matter how much time had passed from when we last saw each other. I was always greeted with a huge smile and a desire to want to know what I was up to.
Cathy - like others here have mentioned, he was so proud of his family and beamed when he spoke of any of you all.
There is no doubt that Jeff touched many lives and will be remembered always. I don't think I can walk down the halls of Capital One and not think about Jeff. I am so grateful for the time we were able to share together. Rest in peace my friend.
Floyd Menezes
August 30, 2011
Please accept my sincerest condolences. Jeff will always be remembered for his kind nature and positive attitude...he will be missed by many. May the good Lord give you strength and courage at this time.
Cynthia Bailey
August 30, 2011
Jeff - You have been and always will be such an inspiration to others. Your smile and kindess, these memories are everlasting in my heart.
Cathy and Family - I know there’s nothing I can say or do to make this okay. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rebecca Collier Talley
August 30, 2011
Father I Pray For Cathy,Chandler and Kelsey,give them wisdom during this difficult life change.We thank you for strength,this change can make the best of us very weak.Give understanding as they ask, why now.Father give
, peace in weeks to come when all the nice people are gone and reality starts to wear thick. Father we thank you for divined Faith to see The Alred family through in Jesus Name Amen!!!
August 30, 2011
My deepest sympathies. Jeff was one of a kind and will be truly missed.
Sallie Elliott
August 30, 2011
Cathy, CJ, Kelsey and family - I am so sorry about your loss. I echo what everyone has said here. Jeff was always smiling and never failed to speak to anyone he passed by. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Chris Melton
August 30, 2011
I worked with Jeff for several years at Capital One and I can honestly say I am a better man for having the honor of knowing him. My deepest condolences to the Alred family.
Jessica Johnson
August 30, 2011
My heart goes out to Jeff's friends and family because we will all miss him, his kind words, and great smile here on earth but I hope you find peace that he is with Jesus.
Emily Frank
August 30, 2011
Jeff - I will miss your warm smile, positive attitude and your strong faith. You and your family are in my prayers. Em
Frank Cheatham
August 30, 2011
I was sorry to hear about Jeff's passing.
I knew Jeff from working with him at Capital One. Jeff was an extremely nice guy and it was a pleasure to work with.
My prayers and condolences go out to the family.
Travis Smith
August 30, 2011
I had the pleasure of working with Jeff for several years at Capital One. He always had a smile and always stopped to talk when we passed in the hallways. He was a great man, an will truly be missed.
GAYNELLE MORRIS
August 30, 2011
My deepest condolences to Ms Alred (who taught my son in school) and all of Jeff's family. Jeff and my daughter Kim were friends growing up and then I had the privilege of working with him at CapOne. Such a kind, sweet, and loving young man. Always had a special spot in my heart. Jeff, my brother Bobby is there with you now. You and he have so much in common so grab his hand and he to will be with you always. God bless all
Carol Anderson Norman
August 30, 2011
Cathy & Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. May wonderful memories of Jeff help you through the difficult days ahead.
Pointing the way.
Mike Wyatt
August 30, 2011
The brightest of lights often burn out way too fast. Jeff Alred, my friend, shared his light with everyone he met. Jeff appreciated life, lived it fully and constantly built others up regardless of the situation he himself was facing. I am so proud to be his friend and know that my own light is brighter because of Jeff.
Way back in the early 90's Jeff encouraged me to take up golf as a hobby. His stories of good times and camaraderie led me to a lifelong joy of the game. In 1996 Jeff and I started an annual golf tournament, affectionately known as the "Kirby Cup" where the grandest prize goes to the most average of golfers. For the past 14 years, except one when Jeff was on a church retreat, he and I have gotten together to play in the Kirby Cup - with our pals Matt Hines and Tom Abraham we won the coveted Medal of Mediocrity an unprecedented FIVE times. I will truly miss those precious days when after the hustle and bustle of getting 100+ golfers out on the course I could slide into the cart beside Jeff, catch my breath and we would catch up and count all the blessings in our lives. Now that is true fellowship.
To Jeff's family - thank you so much for sharing Jeff with his work family at Capital One. Jeff made an impact everywhere he went in the company - in productivity and in hearts. He bragged on each of you, from Mom and Dad to Cathy to CJ and Kelsey - and at no times was his smile larger or eyes brighter - Jeff knew he was blessed.
Felecia Jones
August 30, 2011
Our heart felt condolences to Cathy, C.J. and Kelsey from Boy Scout Troop 862. We will always remember Jeff for his smile, generous nature, and fairness. We will never be able to replace you.
Kathy McConnell
August 30, 2011
Knowing Jeff was to know kindness, peace, gentleness. It has been a privilege to work with him and he will be missed so much. My prayers are for the Lord he served to keep you wrapped up in His love and comfort.
August 30, 2011
Jeff was a very good friend of mine, we sang together in the choir at Providence United Methodist Church. He was one of the most amazing people I have ever known, He touched our lives in more ways that I can ever put in words. I will miss his smile, his laugh, his bear hugs and his friendship! He was an inspiration to everyone he met. His faith never ever waivered, no matter what. He fought his final battle with cancer with strengh and dignity which is not surprising because that was the way he lived his life. We love you Jeff! My prayers and love are now and will always be with Cathy, CJ and Kelsey. We are here if you need us, Always. (Julie Fleshman, Richmond, VA)
Jean, Al, Heather and Nicole (Pickles) Riekers
August 30, 2011
What can I say about our dear, dear friend, except he will be missed. His laugh, that beautiful smile and the hugs. Oh the hugs!!! If there are any fishing ponds in Heaven, I hope he catches a big one for Al...
Danielle Joyce
August 30, 2011
Jeff's family is in my prayers. I worked with Jeff and he was one in a million. Always a smile and something to talk about. I never questioned his faith and admired his committment to Christ. He will be missed by so many!
Jane Santore
August 30, 2011
I had the pleasure of working with Jeff a few years ago at Capital One. I have wonderful memories of our conversations about our kids. He was a very kind and caring person.
Pamela Clarke
August 30, 2011
I knew Jeff briefly at Capital One; he came across as a very nice and easy-going guy. I was very sorry to hear about his passing. My condolences to his family and friends.
Pamela Hollis
August 30, 2011
To Jeff's family (Sherry and Don) our thoughts and prayers are with you...
Julie Loving
August 30, 2011
Jeff was one of the kindest men i know..He would always chat with me..making sure my kids were doing well..I never saw him without a smile on his face..He will be missed..My thoughts are with his family during this difficult time..I was blessed to know him
Pam Mallory
August 30, 2011
The loss of someone so special is difficult to bear. Jeff's friendship and presence made those who worked with him at Capital One blessed to have known him. Find comfort in knowing you are all in our hearts at this time.
Bill Sturman
August 30, 2011
I worked with Jeff at Capital One for several years and he is one of my favorite people that I've ever worked with. He was an extremely kind hearted and faith oriented man who treated everyone with kindness and respect. I am extremely sad to hear of his passing, but I feel blessed to have been part of his life. My prayers are with his family. Bill S
Mike Jones (from Church)
August 30, 2011
Jeff Alred was a truly amazing man. I never met anyone who loved being a husband and father as much as he did. He will be greatly missed. To Cathy, C.J., and Kelsey, you guys are in my prayers. Love to all of you!
Dana
August 30, 2011
Jeff was a wonderful man. He and my brother Daryl Scruggs were very good friends years ago and I enjoyed Jeff very much at Capital One. He will be truly missed and was great example to us all!!
Melissa Allen
August 30, 2011
My condolences go out to the Alred family. May god bless you all.
Bill Thompson
August 30, 2011
Jeff was a great friend to me and my wife Caroline. He was a generous and loving Man and we will miss him greatly!
Chandra Boone Capital One Family
August 30, 2011
Jeff was a wonderful guy and will truly be missed by all. He always had a smile on his face and always had time to stop and chat. Jeff was very caring and always cared about the well being of everyone around. I will miss being able to just stop and chat. My prayers go out to his wife, children and the rest of his family. I know this is a very difficult time but rest assured he is watching over you guys to keep your safe. Rest in peace, Jeff.
August 30, 2011
In The Bonds Jeff.
Wump, Pt '90
Dionna
August 30, 2011
Jeff was my manager years ago and made an impact on my life. He was one of the kindest men that I have ever known and I will remember the words of encouragement and spirituality that he shared with me. I will miss him.
Tracy Bettis-Slater
August 30, 2011
To Jeff's Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Jeff at Capital One and he was a wonderful guy and friend. I will miss his laugh and the advice he gave me when we first started working togehter. Rest in peace.
Donna Gilleland
August 30, 2011
To Jimmie and his family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May our Lord Jesus Christ comfort you during this time.
Jack & Donna (Madison) Gilleland
Kathy Carr
August 30, 2011
Very sorry to hear that Jeff passed away. I worked with Jeff at Capital One and he was one of a kind. Exceptional person that will be missed. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family
Sue Bowler
August 30, 2011
To the family, Jeff was the manager that anyone would want to have. I missed out talks in the morning. I pray that God will give you the strength you will need to get through. He will truly be missed.
August 30, 2011
Jeff was indeed adored by everyone; he was passionate about everyone he iinteracted with & everything he touched . He will be missed.dearly. Jeff S.
Tim Nelson
August 30, 2011
Jeff was a great man, coworker and friend. I take comfort knowing that Jeff is good hands for Eternity. May God Bless the Alreds, family members, and friends during this time.
Karen Harris
August 30, 2011
Rest in Peace M'Friend. You will truly be missed by all.
Karen Joyner
August 30, 2011
I worked with Jeff way back in the Signet days and he was one of the most personable people I have ever met in my life. You could tell he just had a kind heart and was a really great person. I never saw him without a smile on his face just like this picture! He was truely a one of a kind person, you know, the type of person you rarely meet in life. It was a privledge to have known such a wonderful human being! My condolences to the family.
Sandy Marsh
August 30, 2011
To Jeff's family,
No words can express my heartfelt condolences during this time of sorrow. Jeff was a wonderful man, who made many laugh, did his best at everything he tried and will be greatly missed. We truly shared some funny times while sharing a office an few years back. May God bless your family.
Sandy Mullinax
August 30, 2011
My deepest condolences to his family for their tremendous loss. Jeff was adored by all of his friends at Capital One. His bright smile & friendship will be missed. Rest in peace my friend.
August 30, 2011
Jeff, I will miss our talks, laughter and time together. You were a great friend to me.
John A.
Sharon Wood
August 30, 2011
To Jeff's Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Jeff at Capital One a few years back and he was a great guy. May God bless you in your time of sorrow.
Glen Henrichs
August 30, 2011
Jeff, you are with Jesus now and Jesus will be with us during this difficult time.
Cathy, Chandler and Kelsey your husband / Dad was a great man and he will miss you as much as you miss him. He will be there with you in every thing you do in life, look for it, and trust me they are there with us.
Please know that all of us have had and will continue to have you in our prayers.
The Henrichs
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