Tom McKNIGHT

Tom McKNIGHT obituary, Midlothian, VA

Tom McKNIGHT

Tom McKNIGHT Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Jan. 3, 2010.
MCKNIGHT, Tom, though he passed away in Richmond on December 20, Tom was a true New Yorker at heart. After graduation from Fordham, Tom joined the Marine Corps, serving in Vietnam as an H-34 helicopter pilot. After his discharge, Tom worked for Pfizer for 34 years and served in the Marine Corps Reserves flying H-46's and H-53's, retiring as Colonel. Tom was a true renaissance man: A voracious reader, and passionate about the arts, politics, history, geography, carpentry, inventing, gardening, cooking, oil painting, and restoring old Jaguars. He was a dancing fool, and loved a good party and conversation. As Scout Master, he was so proud that 10 of his cubs went on to become Eagle Scouts. Tom was a proud papa, husband, son and brother. He leaves behind his wife, Carol; and their fantastic kids, Lauren, Emily and Guyon; and daughter-in-law Kim. He loved his mother, Olga Schern; his brothers, Roger and Howard; his sister-in-law, Rosemary; and his nieces, Krissy, Claudia and Christine. A Memorial Mass will be said for Tom at St. Edward's Catholic Church at 12, Saturday, January 9, 2009 with casual dress. Interment will be at Quantico National Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project or the Boy Scouts.


This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Tom McKNIGHT's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

December 28, 2024

Melvin Katz posted to the memorial.

December 28, 2023

Mel Katz posted to the memorial.

December 28, 2022

PATRICIA CARPIN posted to the memorial.

Melvin Katz

December 28, 2024

Nightly, Tom is remembered to me in my prayers. Although the years have passed, the memories have not faded. In Tom´s passing, WE have lost a man of great character. In life we meet many who we make impressions on us. None more so than Tom. My life was and is enhanced by my time with Tom. Even today, I think of Tom often and the impact he had on me and my family. I will forever cherish my memories of my friend, TOM.

May G-d Bless Tom and his family.

Mel Katz

Mel Katz

December 28, 2023

Tom worked for me at Pfizer. He was a true renascence man. I pray for hm nightly and miss him terribly. He was and is my friend.

PATRICIA CARPIN

December 28, 2022

Dearest CAROL,
With a still grieving and heavy heart, I continue to remember the joy and delight that was your TOMMY.
Having reread the guest book from eleven years ago, I realized the impact he made in such a short time on the AMBASSADORS. We all saw the kindness that shone through this renaissance man. And also because of him, we met and are enjoying our friendship, CAROL.
With loving remembrance,
Patricia

Melvin Katz

December 28, 2022

Carol: The years have passed since our friend Tom left us. I assure you that his memory has not passed for me. Every evening I pray and Tom is ALWAYS in my prayers. In looking back at the writings of memory that myself and others have left, I felt that in this year I needed to express again my love and admiration for Tom and YOU. May G-D Bless his soul in heaven.

With a GREAT AFFECTION

Mel

Mel Katz

January 2, 2011

Tom, we have missed you so much. I think of you almost daily and have sought to be of comfort to Carol. Elsie and I had many years of memory with you and we still do today.

Love to you my friend,

Mel

Azi Chegini

January 1, 2011

One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure its worth watching.”

And dear Tom, yours was worth it.

Bala Goenka

February 5, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Harry Loving

February 4, 2010

As an old Labs guy and a former military helicopter pilot myself, I held great admiration for Tom. It's sure hard to understand why these things happen to such great people. I do have faith that Tom is at peace and rests with God. Donna and I will keep all of you in our prayers, fully believing that you will be comforted by the love shown by friends, family, and the Lord. May the Lord bless you and keep you, and lift His countenance upon you and give you peace.

Harry and Donna Loving

January 14, 2010

13 January 2010

Dear Carol and Family,

We ask the Good Lord to welcome Tom with His choir of Angels for he certainly deserves a golden entry thru the Gates of Paradise. I had the great pleasure of working several Ambassador programs with Tom, an well as several times when my wife and you and Tom got together at Pfizer award trips. Tom IS a Man for All Seasons for all the right reasons - a patriot as Colonel in the USMC flying wing and as an outstanding salesperson - with all the qualities of a real gentleman as well as a wonderful husband and Father. May he rest in the Elyssian fields as he rightly deserves Peace and Happiness for all eternity.

Our prayers are with you - Peace.

Prayerfully, Ann and Frank Elsner

Douglas Erbele

January 12, 2010

Condolences to you, Carol, family and friends. In addition to our contact at various Pfizer launch, Masters, and other meetings, Tom and I enjoyed the bond of service; Marine and Navy, sharing Active duty and reserve sea stories whenever occasions offered the opportunity to laugh over these experiences. The sadness and pain are here now, but the laughing smile will always warm the memory.

Anne O'Shaughnessy

January 11, 2010

I only had the pleasure of meeting and working with Tom once through the ambassadors program in New Orleans, but I gained a true sense of his values, integrity and generous spirit. It was a pleasure to work with him, he was a lovely man. I hope his much loved family gain comfort from knowing how widely he was regarded, by so many.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Anne

January 11, 2010

Daerest Carol we only met you and Tom briefly last autumn during our visit to Richmond and we found you a delightful and loving couple, enjoying your company and laughter.We were devasted to hear of your loss.
Thinking of you at this very sad time
Mary & Les. England

January 10, 2010

McKnight Family,

My thoughts and prayers go to you at this difficult time. Tom was an amazing colleague and friend and will be missed deeply. May the wonderful memories you have of your husband, father and friend bring a smile to your face. I know my memories of him will.
God Bless and love to you all.
-Dani Kimball

Melvin Katz

January 10, 2010

Carol, Lauren, Guyon and Emily:

I was so glad that I participated in yesterdays Mass for Tom. I know he would have been so proud of all that was done in his name. There was such a strong outpouring of friends, and family. I will miss him terribly. He was such a rock to many and to me he was my dear friend. Please know that Elsie and I will do anything that you need us to do in the coming days. We are comforted in your strength as a family and know Tom is at PEACE.

We love you all very much,

Elsie and Melvin Katz

David Gray

January 10, 2010

Carol and Family,

Tom was a great friend and mentor. If the number and quality of friends are a measure of a man's wealth (and I believe they truly are), Tom's wealth far exceeded those who measure their wealth by material possession. Tom was a great inspiration in how one can get and give the most of life as a husband, father, and friend. Know that you, Lauren, Emily and Guyon are in our thoughts and prayers.

Abby Van Schaften

January 9, 2010

Carol, Lauren, Emily,and Guyon-
I'm so sorry about your loss. Tom always spoke very highly of you all. I thought the world of Tom and looked up to him. He was a true gentleman, always had a smile on his face, and had a great sense of humor.

Ron & Barbara Lester

January 9, 2010

Dear Carol:
Please accept our deepest condolences with the passing of Tom, Barb and I both enjoyed his wit, knowledge and his down-to-earth approach to many of life's issues. He was always the true Gentleman!
Our prayers are with you,
Ron & Barbara Lester

Azadeh Chegini

January 8, 2010

What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.
Dear Carol, may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

Carolyn Extine

January 8, 2010

Tom's passion for life touched all who met him. I consider myself blessed to have been his friend. Sadly missed will be his stories of, & obvious love for, his family, his quick wit, and contagiously postitive attitude . May you know God's strength as you continue on the journey.

Bob Mangone

January 8, 2010

I knew Tom through the Ambassador Program and working a few conventions together... he was a man of principle, intergity and compassion... My prayers go out for Tom and the Family at this most difficult time,,, Bob Mangone

January 6, 2010

Carol & Family:

He was a gentleman; it was a pleasure to have met and served with him. You are in our prayers.

Semper Fidelis!

Joe Bisbing, Ocean City, NJ

Phil Mascolo

January 6, 2010

Dearest Carol,

Barbara and I want to offer our deepest sympathy and prayers for you and your family on Tom's passing. He will be missed by many.

Phil Mascolo Ambassador

Tom Russell

January 5, 2010

Carol:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Tom was a terrific friend and colleague.

Tom Russell, Ambassador

Ashley Abercrombie

January 5, 2010

I worked in the same district with Tom for several years at Pfizer. I have fond memories of him during our district meetings and dinners - both for his business insight and his quick sense of humor.
It was with great sadness that I learned of Tom's passing. I send my deepest sympathies and prayers to Carol and his family.

Ellen Kaslow

January 5, 2010

Dear Carol,
I was the Regional Office Coordinator for Frank Waldron, Dick Reggio, and Bill Wingardner. I am now retired and living in Etowah, North Carolina. I was so saddened to learn of the passing of Tom. Mel Katz was kind enough to let me know. Please know that Tom and you and your family are in my prayers. I offer you my sincere sympathy.
Fondly,
Ellen Kaslow

David Savage

January 5, 2010

Guyon
Just a simple note to express our sorrow and sympathy for your loss. We hope you will always keep the memory of your Dad with you, especially all the good times . They can be that lasting treasure.

David Savage
BHS

Charlie Henson

January 5, 2010

Carol,
It is with deep sadness, that Nancy and I,learned of Tom's death. We had enjoyed getting to know ya'll and we were looking forward to visiting with ya'll in Texas. You have an open invitation to come whenever you are ready. As a fellow Marine,I will miss visiting with him. God bless you and be with you on your journey in life.

Brenda Canada

January 5, 2010

Carol, I am so very sorry for your family's loss. I knew Tom professionally. He was always kind and considerate. He talked of his family and his love for you guys often. Warm regards,

Frank Compagno

January 4, 2010

Dear Carol and Family: I had only known Tom through my association in Pfizer's Ambassador Program as well. There were so many things on which Tom and I were able to connect - religion, family values, work ethic, politics, military service, art, and cooking. Pam and I are deeply saddened with Tom's passing and offer our prayers and thoughts for you during this difficult time. We were priviledged to have had the opportunity to spend time together with you and Tom in New Orleans. We will always cherish the laughter and stories we shared. Tom's death will be measured not by how much he loved, but rather by how much he was loved by others. God bless Tom.

Tim VanDuzer

January 4, 2010

Carol and Family,
I had the pleasure of working with Tom this past year at a convention and I have talked with him many times in the Masters program with Labs/Specialty. He will be missed, mightily, by his friends and aquaintances. He was a nice man with a very kind heart. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Erin OBrien

January 4, 2010

Dear Carol and Family,

I only knew Tom for three years through our Ambassador Program, but I can't tell you how fortunate I feel to have had the honor to work with him and get to know him at least a bit over this time. His genuine kindness and generostiy of spirit brightened my day whenever I received an email from him or had the chance to speak with him directly. He was and is truly a special soul. His legacy with Pfizer's Ambassador Program will live on in our fond, fond memories of him. My love and prayers are with you and your family upon the loss of your cherished husband, father and family member.

January 4, 2010

Dear Carol and Family,
My sister, Claudia Boyce, informed me of Tom's untimely death. Please accept Becky's and my sincere thoughts and prayers for all of you during this sad time.
Semper Fidelis,
Jeff Pickett, USMCR (Ret)

Tom Hewes

January 3, 2010

Carol and Family,

It is with deep sadness that we Ugly Angels bid farewell to an exceptional man, a beloved shipmate, and an outstanding Marine Officer.

He now goes to join the thirty-three Ugly Angels we left behind in Vietnam. May they rest always in peace.

Semper Fidelis,

Tom Hewes, President Emeritus, Ugly Angel Memorial Foundation

Carol Farley

January 3, 2010

Dear McKnight Family,
We are saddened to hear of the untimely passing of Tom. We knew him as a loving husband and father.Although we have not seen each other in awhile, we will cherish the memories of our families time together with good company, food, drink and playing kids. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and may God keep you in the palm of his hand. Love the Farley Family-Carol, Skip, Lindsey & Jess.

Carol Farley

January 3, 2010

Dear McKnight Family,
Our family is saddened by the untimely loss of Tom. We knew him as a loving husband and father and will cherish the great memories of our times together with good company, food, drink and kids playing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Although it has been awhile since our families have been together, please know we think of you all often. May god keep you all in the palm of his hand. Love the Farley Family- Carol, Skip, Lindsey & Jess.

PATRICIA CARPIN

January 3, 2010

SLAINTE!
TO THE WONDERFUL FAMILY AND LIFE THAT TOM CREATED AND LOVED. AND FROM AN OLD IRISH SAYING - "EVERY HAIR ON HIS HEAD TURNED INTO A CANDLE AND LIT HIS PATH TO HEAVEN"

MICHAEL AND PATRICIA CARPIN

Tauri Roselli

January 3, 2010

May this couragous man rest in Eternal peace. May his family be comforted by his strength in life and knowing he is with God, and watching them and cheering them on from Heaven. I never had the pleasure of meeting him, but through a dear friend, Bill Palmer, I feel I must salute him. Rest in the Eternal light of God.
Tauri and Duke Rosell, NY

bill palmer

January 3, 2010

Carol & family
Tom was one of the nicest persons i have ever met in my life time. I know I am and may other are going miss him. Your family's personal loss is greater than anyone could concieve.

Curt Hornstra

January 3, 2010

Condolences and prayers for all his family and friends. May your memories of him bring comfort to you during these trying times. God bless.

January 3, 2010

We celebrate Tom's remarkable life; he certainly left this world a better place. Our prayers and with the family to continue his legacy of enjoying life, and helping his fellow man.
Robbie and Chandler Williams

Showing 1 - 40 of 40 results

Make a Donation
in Tom McKNIGHT's name

How to support Tom's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Tom McKNIGHT's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sponsored

Sign Tom McKNIGHT's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

December 28, 2024

Melvin Katz posted to the memorial.

December 28, 2023

Mel Katz posted to the memorial.

December 28, 2022

PATRICIA CARPIN posted to the memorial.