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Thaddeus Banks Obituary
Thaddeus Bernard Banks Jr., 22, of Vallejo, passed away suddenly on Friday following a motorcycle accident. He was born in Hayward.
Thaddeus worked at Scotts Fertilizer Company for nine months and Safeway for three years.
Thaddeus loved life, fishing, camping, basketball, lifting weights, being with friends and riding.
He was preceded in death by great-grandparents, Hazel Lee, Alexander McMaster Sr. and Hazel McMaster.
He leaves to treasure his memory: his parents, Thaddeus Sr. and Karen Banks; sister, Angel S. Banks; brother, Tyler M. Banks; love of his life, Briane Lewis; grandparents, Lavon Banks Sr., Ruthie Bible, Alexander McMaster, Betty
McMaster; great-grandfather, Reverend William S. Lee; and countless aunts, uncles, cousins, great-aunts and great-uncles.
Visitation will be held today, Nov. 11, from 4 to 8 p.m. at Skyview Garden Chapel, 200 Rollingwood Drive, Vallejo. Services will be held at 11 a.m. Friday, Nov. 12, at 11 a.m. at Church on The Hill, 210 Locust Drive, Vallejo, officiated by Pastor Phillip Green.
Arrangements by Skyview Memorial Lawn, Vallejo.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thaddeus Banks
Shawn Wilson
January 1, 2021
I never met you but I was there in the hospital with my infant son when your parents found out that you didn't make it. I heard the deep pain your family felt that day. My heart ached for them. I prayed for your soul to be at peace that day and still do. Ten years later I still remember you and your family and keep you both in my prayers.
Joi Williams
November 4, 2019
Tj, 9 years later you are still sorely missed. Your kindness and sense of humor were one of a kind. Looking forward to seeing you again in heaven.
Chelsy Brooker
December 10, 2010
TJ i remember you from high school you were so nice, and then id see you every time i got my gas, so tall... rest in paradise, may God be with your family..
November 20, 2010
The Banks Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss; My heart and prayers are with you during this time of bereavement. May God give you strength and comfort.
Claudia M. Paige and Family
November 16, 2010
TJ...my heart weeps for you--you were so young and so full of life. I remember you from a young boy--my son's Chuck & Jerry's friend and NJB Basketball teammate all the way through high school. You will always be a part of our lives as Vallejo was home to us and we all grew as family (the sports knit us together). You always had that special glow--you were kind and respectful towards grown ups. And I loved the way you would rebound that ball! I am going to miss you dearly, I said a prayer for you and your family the moment I heard. I am still in shock.
To Coach Banks (as the boys used to call you), Karen, Angel, and Tyler: our deepest sympathy go out to you. Words just do not even seem enough at this very deep sad time to let you know that we care. Please know that you are in our prayers and we will continue to lift you up.
May God be with you and keep you close in his care. The Jackson Family- Charles, Pamm, Lil Chuck, Jerry, and DeAndre. (Vallejo Family/Friends-Elk Grove, CA)
Jennifer Desaulniers
November 16, 2010
Dear Tj, I did not know you that well, only from working with you at safeway,But I knew you well enough to know that you lived your young life the best you could. Although you are not alive in the flesh,you are alive in the hearts and souls of all of your loved ones. I know you shall be looking down on them all from heaven.
Dear Karen,
I know these words may not comfort you now, but the Lord has a plan for us all, Live the rest of your life like TJ would have wanted you to, Please stay strong, Stay close to the Lord, and take comfort in knowing that your son shall ALWAYS be with you, and one day, when it is your time to go home, you will once again be with your son.
My Deepest Condolences,
Jennifer Desaulniers.
Denise Jones
November 15, 2010
Tate, Karen, Angel & Tyler: We are all deeply saddened. No words can express the pain of losing a child. Please know that we love you and are praying that each day gets better.
Denise, Joe, Brandon & Bryan
Lisa, Matthew & Alexis Evans/Gentry
November 15, 2010
Coach Banks, Karen & Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Bernard. I haven't seen him since NJB days. My deepest condelences to all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Darlene Carpenter
November 14, 2010
Karen, Angel and your family I am so sorry to here about Thaddeus Jr. I never had the pleaure to have met him, But having known Angle and Karen from Dr. Gerstein's office . I am sure he was a wonderful person. My deepest condolences in your loss. May God Bless and Keep you in his hands at this sad time.
Ruthie Banks-Bible
November 14, 2010
Bernard: Although U R Not hear in person with us, U will wlways be n our hearts. I love U as if U were my own,not just a part of me. I'll see you at the Pearlie Gates. I no U R with the FATHER N HEAVEN. LOVE U. GMom
November 13, 2010
My heart is aching after reading about this sudden news. My last memory of Thaddeus Jr was back when he was in Middle school playing NJB. My condolences to the family during this time. God will be there for you & your hearts will heal more & more each day. I wish I could've been there to give my support but I didn't know. I shall hold the memory of a chubby face boy running up & down the basketball court in my heart. Sharen Etienne-LeBeau (Vallejo
November 13, 2010
The whole Songey family is so sorry for your loss. May God's love cradle you in your sorrow.
Valarie Baker
November 12, 2010
My heart goes out to the family for their loss and I will continue to keep all of you in prayer. Bernard was always a mannerable and pleasant young man with a great smile. He will be truely missed.
Jeanne Guanzon
November 12, 2010
I knew you as Ty at Safeway and you were always professional and pleasant to me and other customers. I will miss that great smile of yours! God bless you and your family!
LaRoy Griffin
November 11, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Willette Green
November 11, 2010
Karen/Tate
With heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
May God keep you and your family in his care.
Willette ( Greta sister)
November 11, 2010
A LOST IN THE FAMILY IS A LOST! I DIDN'T KNOW YOU BUT I'M SURE YOU WERE A GREAT PERSON, SO SORRY WE HAD TO LOSE YOU AT A YOUNG AGE BUT GOD KNOWS BEST! MAY YOU RIP! LOVE ALWAYS EKESHA LEE THE DAUGHTER OF THE LATE (DUANE LEE)
JOHN AGUAYO
November 11, 2010
A TEY SO SORRY 2 HEAR ABOUT YOUR SON I CAN STILL REMEMBER WHEN THEY WERE SO LITTLE ON WALNUT ST.STAY STRONG FROM A OLD SCHOOL FRIEND JOHN AGUAYO AND FAMILY
Jocelyn Montez
November 11, 2010
God bless Thaddeus and the family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Cherise his memories and always keep him in your heart.
Catherine Walker
November 11, 2010
We pray that God will wrap His arms around the family and carry you through the difficult times today, tomorrow and always.
Our deepest sympathy.
Aunt Cat,Uncle Frank and family
Chloe Taylor
November 11, 2010
"Five Minutes" ( RIP: Bernard Banks)
If I only had five minutes the day you passed away, I would've had time to tell you all the things I needed to say.I never got to tell you how much you mean to me, or that you were one of the best cousins, better than any man could be. I would have said I love you. If I only had 5 minutes, the evening that you passed away,I'd give you one last hug so tight & I'd kiss your cheek ..lil cuz RIP.
November 11, 2010
To the Banks Family,
Our Heartfelt Sympathy, and Prayers are with you at this difficult time. You are a wonderful and loving family, and I know that God will see you through. Gods love and healing powers will sustain you. If our family can be of any assistance, please let us know.
God Bless and Keep you in His Loving Care,
The Walker Family (Kenneth, Cynthia and Kenneth II)
C. Raleigh
November 11, 2010
My deepest condolences go to your family. As a family member or friend somehow you were able to touch our hearts with your personality. RIP
Robet Gerard, Sr
November 11, 2010
To The Banks Family: You have our deepest sympathy. We are remembering your family in our prayers: Robert @ Gloria Gerard(Albert Jones cousin in Beaumont, Tx
Joi Williams
November 11, 2010
You are truly missed.
Rest in Peace.
Joi Williams
November 11, 2010
Thaddeus,
You were truly an angel,
I will always remember our Senior year Economics class, you really made the class worth remembrance. I will never forget the laughs that we had together, your smiling face, nor your dead on Flavor Flav impersonations. You were taken before your time and you will truly be missed. You and your family are in my prayers. I know we will meet again.
November 11, 2010
To the Banks Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. TJ was such a great kid. Thoughtful, loving and respectful. My sons ejoyed playing with him in NJB.
The Lawson Family, Vallejo
Skyview Memorial Lawn
November 10, 2010
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Ange Taylor
November 10, 2010
I remember your smiling face back when all of you were playing NJB...like you were seriously on your way to the pros! It was as if you, along with some of the others, were never gonna stop growing. You will be so missed by your family, your former teammates, and your friends. Everyone will go on, but they will do so with such a huge empty place where you once were! I know that Justin and Angelina enjoyed your friendship and both will miss you dearly! I wish there was something I could say or do to ease this agony from your family but I know in my heart that this is not possible! They all loved you fiercely...and they always will!
Vaya Con Dios Mijo~ Ange
Ange Taylor
November 10, 2010
Keep smiling on those of us who will miss you!
Just Me... Tina T.
November 10, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
November 10, 2010
November 10, 2010
Condolences to the Banks family. TJ was very beloved by the MIT family. I have such good memories and will hold you and yours in my prayers. Mrs. Morgan
S Palmer
November 10, 2010
All our love and prayers are being sent to the family and friends to get through this difficult time. Our heart is breaking for you and hope time and memories will get you through until it doesn't hurt to breath.
The Palmer Family, Danville
Scott Verzi
November 10, 2010
Sorry to hear about Bernard he was a great kid. My prayers go out to you and your family. He will be missed greatly. I'm there if you need me.
Scott
ANDREYA TURNER
November 10, 2010
MAN TJ I CANT BELIEE THIS HAPPENED TO YOU.. YOU WERE A GREAT FRIEND AND CO WORKER.... I CAN REMEMBER ALL THE LAUGHS WE SHARED AT SAFEWAY AND AT DVC LOVE YOU ALWAYS
~DREYA
David & Marie Yerzy
November 10, 2010
Our deepest condolences go out to the family, and parents of Thaddeus Jr.
He was a fine young man, who represented the Love of family, and what can be accomplished when parents, and family care to nurture a young person, to where they then become the epitome of goodness. Hopefully other young people who knew him will carry on his spirit, and keep him alive in their hearts.
To the parents, rejoice in the fact that you raised an exemplary young man, who through your guidance was a credit to the human race.
The love you gave to him will surround you the rest of your lives, as will, the spirit, and the beauty that was his life.
David & Marie Yerzy
November 10, 2010
Our deepest condolences go out to the family, and parents of Thaddeus Jr. He was a fine young man, who represented the Love of family, and what can be accomplished when parents, and family care to nuture a young person, to where they then become the epitome of goodness. Hopefully other young people who knew him will carry on his spirit, and keep him alive in their hearts.
To the parents, rejoice in the fact that you raised an exemplarey young man, who through your guidence, was a credit to the human race.
The love you gave to him, will surround you the rest of your lifes, as will, the spirit, and the beauty that was his life.
Atons
November 10, 2010
Too all the Banks family .We are sorry for your loss, if theres is anything we can do for your family we will .Love ya The Atons
Cynthia Reed
November 10, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Karen LeDee-Lewis
November 10, 2010
Thaddeus will truly be missed by our family. He was such a pleasant young man who enjoyed life. We, the Lewis Family, of Fresno, Ca. enjoyed 'Thad', during family outings; jet skiing, boating, dinners, and most recently football games. My sons, Christopher & Donavon, have always embraced Thad just as he embraced them. I will certainly miss the big hugs from a gentle giant, and the "Hey Auntie, how are you?" greetings that I received each and every time we had the pleasure of seeing Thaddeus. He was a no frills guy. He slept in any available spot,even given his stature,he ate and drank what we did without fuss, and yes he thought he was the domino's champ:-). Mr & Mrs. Banks, I had the pleasure of meeting you at a family gathering...it was a pleasure. Thank you for raising a fine son who added so much joy to our lives. However, I can not imagine what you are feeling right now, but I pray that you find comfort in the arms of God. "In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths." Proverbs 3:6.
Respectfully submitted, Karen LeDee-Lewis/ (Auntie)
Yolanda Johnson
November 10, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in this difficult time. Thaddeus was a wonderful young man, son, brother and so much more. We will continue to keep all of you in our prayers.
God Bless you,
Fred, Yolanda, Dominique, and Charron Johnson
David & Marie Yerzy
November 10, 2010
Our deepest condolences go out to the family, and parents of Thaddeus Jr. He was a fine young man, who represented the Love of family, and what can be accomplished when parents, and family care to nuture a young person, to where they then become the epitome of goodness. Hopefully other young people who knew him will carry on his spirit, and keep him alive in their hearts.
To the parents, rejoice in the fact that you raised an exemplarey young man, who through your guidence, was a credit to the human race.
The love you gave to him, will surround you the rest of your lifes, as will, the spirit, and the beauty that was his life.
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