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SANTORO
Thomas A. (Tom) “T”
Thomas A. Santoro, 65, of Maumee, Ohio, was tragically killed in a biking accident while vacationing in California with his wife on Friday, May 20, 2016. Tom was born in Toledo, Ohio, on October 23, 1950, to Tony and Mary (Palombi) Santoro. He attended Holy Rosary School and graduated from Cardinal Stritch High School in 1968. Tom earned his Bachelor's in Education at the University of Toledo in 1975. His teaching and coaching career began at Cardinal Stritch High School, where he taught English and Health and was an Assistant (Offensive Line coach) for the Cardinals from 1974-1979. Tom taught English and was an Assistant (Offensive Line Coach) at Tiffin Columbian High School from 1980-1982. Tom devoted the remainder of his 29 year teaching and coaching career to Central Catholic High School. He taught English, Health and Multi-Media and was Senior Class Advisor from 1982-1998 and served on the Local Professional Development Committee from 2001-2008. Throughout his years of coaching at Central, he served as Offensive Coordinator, Offensive Line Coach, Defensive End Coach, Special Team's Coordinator and Quarterback Coach. Tom was Central's Head Coach from 1994-1999. For many years, Tom worked at Camp America Football camp in Oxford, Ohio, Offense-Defense Instructional Football Camp in California and UCLA's summer football camp. Coach Santoro retired in 2011, but still volunteered on the football staff performing various duties. His love for Irish football never ended. Over his years in coaching, Tom had seen many young men make it to the collegiate and NFL levels.
Tom was a member of the Northwest Ohio Football Coaches Association, starting in 1982, serving as president from 1994-1995 and 2006-2007. Tom served on the Birmingham Hall of Fame Advisory Committee from 1995-1999 and proudly served on the Maumee-BG Elks (Lodge 1850) Scholarship Committee until the time of his death.
He was proud of being inducted into the Birmingham Hall of Fame in 1993, receiving the Ohio High School Football Coaches Association Sportsmanship award in 1994, the National Football Foundation Toledo Chapter Coaches Award in 1994, the Italian-American Sports Hall of Fame Regional Football Coach of the Year in 1994, and the first ever awarded, National Football Foundation Tom Amstutz Assistant Coach of the Year Award in 2010.
During his time at Central as a classroom teacher, his students may have at first questioned what his obsession was with the TV show The Wonder Years. Those students would soon understand the relevance of his teachings and learn life lessons. If you ask any of his past students or athletes what they learned from Mr. Santoro, the overwhelming response would be, compassion, kindness and to live life to the fullest.
Aside from being a teacher, coach and mentor, Tom was a loving and caring family man and friend to many. He enjoyed a variety things such as, caring for his roses, daily NY Times crossword puzzles, watching the History Channel and TCM and obviously, biking. He biked all over the U.S. and in Italy. One of his other favorite shows was The Big Bang Theory. Tom was a true “ride warrior” frequenting Cedar Point as Platinum pass holder and was a member of the Great Ohio Coaster Club. He loved cars and car care. He dreamed of one day owning a red Ferrari.
On June 20, 1998, Tom married his best friend and soul mate, Susan (Hauenstein). Together they would travel throughout the United States, Europe and the Caribbean, making many close friends all over the world. Waikiki became their second home for most of the winter. This is the place where together they would find laughter with their Ohana, relaxation and a healthy, active lifestyle. His love for teaching and coaching was very dear to him, but what was truly most important to Tom was spending time with his wife, family and friends. Although T was taken from us too soon, his smile, goodwill and genuineness will live on forever.
Tom is survived by his wife, Susan; sister, MaryElyse (Dale) Stickel; nephews, Andy (Erin) Stickel, Brian Stickel, Garrett (Kylie) Hauenstein; niece, Chloe Hauenstein; brothers-in-law, Eric (Abby Jones) and Michael Hauenstein; aunts, Fran, Jean, Marlene; cousins, Jim, Larry, Tony, Gary, Tim, Marsha, Joanie, Anna Marie, Joe, Paula, Mark, Rex, John, Anne Michelle, Michael, Julie, Frank and Sara; great-nieces, Claire, Brooklynn, Brenna and Gracelynn; great-nephew Carter; feline companions, Enzo and Sophia and many loving and caring extended family members. Also left to cherish his memory are hundreds of coaching friends, former students, players and friends around the world. He was preceded in death by his parents and father and mother-in-law, Hank and Lucy Hauenstein.
Friends and family may visit Eggleston-Meinert & Pavley Funeral Home, 440 S. Coy Rd., Oregon, Ohio 43616 on Friday, June 3, 2016, from 4:00 - 7:00 p.m. On Saturday, June 4, 2016, the family will greet friends starting at 11:30 a.m. until the time of the Celebration of Tom's Life at 1:00 p.m., which will take place at Central Catholic High School, in the Sullivan Center, 2550 Cherry St., Toledo, OH 43608. T always stated that he wanted people to wear Aloha attire to his Celebration of Life, so please dress accordingly to honor him. Interment will be private.
The family requests no flowers. Tom's family requests donations to the Ride of Silence (www.wearetraffic.org), Central Catholic High School football program, Maumee-BG Elks (Lodge 1850) Scholarship Fund or to the charity of the donor's choice.
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As published in The Blade

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Published by The Blade on May 29, 2016.

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David Coombes

May 24, 2019

Hi Susan. Gladys and I have many times thought of you folks. The Southern Caribbean Cruise, of 2014, that we met you both will always be remembered and cherished. Not so much for the Cruise, as it is for the absolute fantastic experience we gained from meeting you and Tom. Then again in Waikiki when we eagerly were able to make arrangements to meet with you both. We are so very saddened on Tom's tragic accident. We wish you the best Susan and look forward to the next time we can see you. Our love and prayers are with you.

Richard "Mac" McEntee

September 15, 2016

Coach, Mahalo for being such a good friend! We will never forget you at Dukes!

June 5, 2016

Really sorry to hear about Coach... He will be missed here in Waikiki... Great man.
- Sean McLoughlin, Waikiki

Kris (Becker) Obliske

June 4, 2016

So sorry for your loss. T was the best. He taught me how to pump gas back when we worked together at the gas station (or in the oil business, as he used to tell people) He was like a big brother to me back then, lots of good times. I always smile when I think of him and I will never forget him. RIP T.

Doug Karns

June 3, 2016

I am so sorry to hear about this loss. He is dearly missed.

Gladys & David Coombes

June 3, 2016

Dear Susan
We feel so very privileged to have met you and Tom. Our hearts are filled with sadness over Tom's sudden death. We are sorry we are unable to attend the Celebration of Tom's life. Know that you are close in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this most difficult time.
You have our most profound sympathy.

Darlene Burke

June 3, 2016

Susan, the greatest loss ever after waiting so long for perfect love. May your friends and family share their love and strength with you through this difficult time. My prayers and deepest sympathy, Darlene

Bill & Nancy Fust

June 3, 2016

Sorry to hear of the tragic loss of such a fantastic person. I am proud to say that I had the privilege to have known Tom. We went to Cardinal Stritch together. He was such a wonderful and caring person to everyone he met. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and his family. He probably has all the angels wearing Hawaiian shirts by now.
He will surely be missed.

Mike and Kari O'Shea

June 3, 2016

I'm so sorry to hear of this tragic loss. Our prayers are with your family

Fran Weinblatt

June 2, 2016

Susan,
My thoughts are with you at this sad time. May your memories be a blessing in the months ahead.

June 1, 2016

Susan,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Annette Tolley

Gabe & Annette Simon

May 31, 2016

Tom was the warmest, friendliest and most caring person you would ever meet. He came from a family that made you "love your neighbor" because they loved you...just as Tom did. We are saddened to learn of Tom's passing and send our sincere condolences to the family.

May 30, 2016

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Tom TD Talbott

May 30, 2016

To my Great friend: I also write for Tom Greer,
who has also passed but he too was Tom's great friend.
"you were very special in our years together and you made real fin impressions on any and all that you touched".
Your friend,
Tom TD Talbott Cardinal Stritch
1978-82

Mark Narges

May 30, 2016

Tom:
You will be missed. I'll always remember what you taught me at Stritch. You were the {BEST} coach!!! May the angels welcome you with open arms.

Jason Waters

May 29, 2016

Coach, thank you for your guidance, thank you for sharing your knowledge and passion for the game. You are a gentleman and a mentor, who selflessly gave to players and coaches alike. I, like many others, am blessed to have met you. Fair winds Coach.

Kelly Simenc Class of '93

May 29, 2016

God Bless you Mr. Santoro. You were one of my favorite teachers and I will remember you always. You will be forever in my heart. Love to you and your family during this difficult time.

Patrick Drlik, CSHS '79

May 29, 2016

Coach Santoro is remembered for his compassion for others and for his intensity and dedication for the things he cared for. Prayers are extended to his family.

Victoria Laverde

May 29, 2016

Honoring Coach Santoro for his great contribution to Central Catholic. Prayers for his family from the Laverde Family: Alex '03, Veronica '04, Maria del Carmen '06

Barb Myers

May 29, 2016

Peace & love.

Janet Vezner

May 29, 2016

My deepest sympathy is extended to Mrs. Santoro and the Palombi family for the loss of this wonderful and caring man. I hope that his example will inspire everyone to emulate his behavior and view his life as a gift to the world and those who knew him to cherish forever. jan vezner

Bob Drewior

May 29, 2016

Susan I'm Praying for you. Your friend from Wednesday Supper at Olivet Lutheran Church
Bob Drewior

Joseph Meyer

May 29, 2016

My deepest sympathy and prayers to the family. I went to Cardinal Stritch High School but didn't know him. I was in the first class of 1965. I live in Mesa, Az. but check the obits daily to see if any friends or Knights of Columbus are in. He will be missed by many but remember is is in a better place now and not suffering.

Elaine Chapman

May 29, 2016

Love you and Susan so much!

Norma Littin

May 29, 2016

(4 EVER IN R ♡ MR. SANTORO)
Thank you for being a one of a kind friend/mentor/teacher/coach to 3 generations of Littins. Words can not describe how much you have touched our family especially my parents Howard & Diana. Our thoughts & prayers go out to his loving wife Susan & their family. May they find comfort & sanctuary surrounded by they loved ones & close friends.

John Bergener

May 29, 2016

Central Catholic and the city of Toledo have lost an ambassador of friendship and joy. T was one of the last truly nice guys in the coaching profession on any level. The list of people who called him friend was thicker than a phone book. His sudden passing must mean a higher power needed his wonders more than we did.

May 29, 2016

T.
Thanks for everything, especially your friendship.
You're in His hands.
duane schooley

Jon Ueberroth

May 29, 2016

One of my favorite and most memorable teachers. Godspeed, Mr. Santoro..you are one of a kind...

Larry & Rita Kerstiens

May 29, 2016

Susan, our hearts are broken as yours is! We were the lucky.ones who got the privilege of having this wonderful man come into our lives through knowing you. There is not much left to say about him that hasn't already been said by hundreds. Everyone loved him and Susan was definitely his better half. Our hearts are heavy with his loss much too soon, but know that God has a special plan for all of us. Tom will continue to look down from heaven and smile when he sees his strong, beautiful wife make her way through the rest of her life. Tom will always be with us and everyone else he knew. Our prayers and sympathy go out to Susan and the entire family. His legacy is strong so he will never be forgotten just admired and adored. Love from your friends, Larry & Rita

Jim Pitzen Sr.

May 29, 2016

R.I.P. 'T

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