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Richard Vandemark Obituary

Richard "Dick" Vandemark 66, passed away July 19, 2013 of complications from bulbar ALS. Dick served in the Vietnam War as a member of the U.S. Marine Corps and co-founded the Mindful Veterans Project, a non-profit that teaches mindfulness-based stress reduction to veterans suffering from PTSD. Before that he worked with Project PPEP to establish rural health clinics, directed Pilot Parents of Southern Arizona, a peer support group for parents of special-needs children, and with his friend Jay, managed Blue J's Bistro on University Boulevard and Worldwide Small Change Foundation, a private non-profit which supports programs to feed poor women and children. Dick was an accomplished martial artist in Wing Chung Gung Fu and was proud to be known as "The Quakers' Marine" for his vigil at weekly protests of the Iraq and Afghanistan wars. He is survived by his wife, Tina Lee; son, Aaron Vandemark; brother, George Vandemark; sisters, Valerie Meyerhoff and Lisa Vandemark; nieces, nephews and friends near and far. Preceded in death by sisters, Catherine Vandermark and Helen "Sooky" Kozik, both of whom also died of ALS. Donations in Dick's memory can be made to the Mindful Veterans Project at www.purple-mountain-institute.org. A Memorial is being planned for late fall. "Every moment is a place you've never been before."

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Jul. 28, 2013.

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Jeet Bhatia

April 5, 2014

I am so sad to know of dickies passing away. I was searching the Internet to connect with him. I know he had found peace thru the practise if mindfulness which I have tried to cultivate. He was my first Americsn friend and left a lasting impression on me. Not a day passed that I did not think of him. Somehow I assumed he was mad at me. I was do wrong. He had evolved so much. I am I tears. I write a story of my first year in American and his story is thd most touching for me. I would like to post if if someone shows me how. Tina I treasure the memory of the time we spent together. Please communicate with me if you can. Jeet

Steve Buck

August 11, 2013

Tina and family,
Very sorry to hear about Dick. He was a true gentleman and a pleasure to hike with in the outdoors of Southern Arizona - and his devotion to veterans was truly unique.

laurence sage

July 30, 2013

In reading about your life, I am only sorry that I didnt meet you in person. May your important work continue!

July 29, 2013

Thank you for being my oldest and dearest friend. You showed me how to live and also how to die bravely. Semper fi, Dickie. Peace and love.
Rit

July 29, 2013

Condolences on the loss of a compassionate, insightful and inspirational human being.
- John Peck, Ajo

Connie Dent

July 28, 2013

You were my friend Kay's "baby brother" and as such, held a special place in her heart - which I also came to know and understand. From great hardship comes great things - you were living proof of that, taking your Nam experiences and the health of your only son and creating good things that will live on well beyond you. Good job, Dick! We should all be so inspired by our passions. You are definitely missed by all who had the privilege of knowing you.

Teri Davis

July 28, 2013

Thank you for being my pal, Richard. I hear your voice every day reminding me to "breathe in, breathe out, and feel the sun on my skin." Your journey into and out of hell helped all of us. Rest in the peace you fought for and deserve.

Nina Trasoff

July 28, 2013

The world has lost a unique, passionate man whose commitment to changing the world went far beyond words to consistent actions. My thoughts are with Tina, Aaron, CT and the rest of the family who have lost someone so dear to them.

July 28, 2013

with all may love always, Lorri

Jeffrey Crane

July 28, 2013

I knew you as "Uncle Dick" and a friend whose laughter will be hard to forget. Your kindness was packed with compassion and thought and was always a highlight when I was in town. Thanks.

C.T. Revere

July 28, 2013

You will be missed terribly and most assuredly remembered with love by so many. Rest in peace, my uncle, godfather and dear friend.

July 28, 2013

Goodbye, my friend. I know we'll get together later to share some wine and tell each other of all the adventures we've had since we were last together. Peace. Burgess

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