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for Jacob Benesh
August 3, 2019
Keep your hearts filled and thoughts of Jacob with you always❤
Dont let go of the memories.
Sandy Fritz-Gerke
October 5, 2010
I just learned of Jake's passing in the UWRF Alumni notice. I had several classes with him and he was always full of humor and alot of fun. I am so sorry for your loss and may all your wonderful memories bring you comfort.
Chris Clark
August 19, 2010
Brad -
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Hold tight to the wonderful memories... Sounds like he was a very special young man who will be missed by many.
Angela D
August 15, 2010
So sorry for your loss. May the Lord of all comfort be your strength.
Kelly and Shannon Dorr
August 13, 2010
Brad and Family,
Shannon and I are very sorry for your loss. May your memories bring you comfort and God's loving arms surround you and carry you during this time. Praying for all of you.
Anna Wagner
August 13, 2010
I didn't know Jake well, but he was a student director for state arts-in when I was in it for 2 years. I remember him being very encouraging and consistently positive. He was always joking around and had a great smile. I also remember the celebration service during prep week when he helped lead the service. You could really he loved God and he lived life to the fullest.
Jennifer Nicklay
August 13, 2010
I did not know Jake personally, but it was not possible to be in the Minnesota 4-H program at the same time without knowing who he was. Jake had a phenomenal presence on stage and off, and there is no way I will ever forget his smile. My thoughts and prayers are with all those who were close to him, and I grieve for those of us left behind because such a shining person was taken to God's side much too son.
Jennifer Nicklay, Carver County 4-H Alumni
Trese Sorensen
August 13, 2010
Brad,
Please know that you are very much in my thoughts and prayers at this time of sorrow.
Trese
Dave Hanson
August 13, 2010
Words are not sufficient to convey my condolences to Jake's family. Knowing Brad from golf, I can only imagine what a fine young man Jake must have been. From what I have read, Jake was really a special guy.
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy. Jake's family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Dave and Janet Hanson
Aleta Maaske
August 13, 2010
Brad I am so sorry to hear about the tragic accident about Jake. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jim and Aleta Maaske
mary Lee
August 12, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Andrea Anderson
August 12, 2010
We were neighbors of Jake and his family for many years in Browns Creek...we were devasted to hear of his sudden departure. We have so many wonderful memories of Jake, including one recent visit to our home during Halloween..his beautiful smile and good nature was the same as when he was a young boy...
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to his family and friends at this difficult time...
Fondly, Dana, Andrea, Kryssa and Westin Anderson
Lynda Koren
August 12, 2010
Brad,
I was saddened by the tragic death of your son. May you have the strength to weather this very difficult time, knowing he is with Jesus. My prayers are with you.
Wendy Kloek
August 12, 2010
May Jake be remembered not in death but in the wonderful path he chose in life. Our prayers are with you all at this time.
N W
August 11, 2010
I didn't know Jake but I knew some of the kids he taught and led for the 4H choral/drama group that recently debuted at the Washington County Fair. They were all devasted by the loss of Jake and held it together on Friday as they dedicated the shows to him to "pay it forward" as Jake taught them. He will be very much missed.
Jean Parvey
August 11, 2010
My heart goes out to you DeAnn and all of Jake's family at this most difficult time. May God give you strength and comfort at this time.
August 11, 2010
Brad and Family,
Loren and I extend our deepest heartfelt sympathy to you all. Pat and Glenn; Becky, Beth and families. As a classmate of Brad's and Becky's, we feel the pain a family has to endure. Let us help carry that sorrow. Your Son must have been an amazing person.
Loren and Patty Olson (Crookston, MN)
Lisa O' Brien
August 11, 2010
Brad and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my constant thoughts and prayers.
Lisa
Lynne Rousseau
August 11, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you DeAnn. I remember the two tow headed boys when visiting your home. I recall talking about Jakey and Nick when we traveled together for business. As you know, your friends around the globe are supporting you during this time. It is a pleasure knowing Jake was such a fine young man.
Norm Carlson
August 11, 2010
Jake:
As a former neighbor, I have many fond memories of Jake when he was growing up. He was a wonderful young man with tremendous potential. We'll all miss him very much.
Norm Carlson.
August 11, 2010
To Jake's family; We met Jake at family gatherings with Mary and Jim, and Otto and LaVonne. We only met Jake a few times but it felt like we knew him for forever. Jake was an amazing young man, I have never met anyone quite like him, his goodness shone from within and lit up the whole room. We are all blest to have known him. Our prayers are with you all. Janeen and Chuck Stenso, Moorhead MN
August 11, 2010
We are so sorry to hear about Jake. He and Adam were great friends - all the way back to BS Troop 169, and on through HS. We will always remember his huge smile, and the happiness that he brought to lives of people around him. May God and your friends and family help you through this difficult time - and we thank God for having had Jake in our lives. John, Karen, Adam and Chris Bower
Patti Isaacs
August 11, 2010
Jake and my son, Emilio, got to be buddies as little kids. I remember many sleepovers and days when they crashed around the woods exploring or crawled around on the floor playing with Brio trains and Matchbox cars. When they got tired they ate hot dogs and watched Thomas the Tank Engine videos, giggling and teasing each other.
They played soccer together through high school. When I think of Jake, I think of his 1000-watt smile, his goofy sense of humor, his great kindness and his zest for life.
I'm so sad that he is gone, and my heart aches for the whole Benesh family. I feel privileged that we were lucky enough to have him be a part of our lives. We will never forget Jake.
August 11, 2010
Benesh Family,
Our son was at 4H camp about five years ago and had Jake (Taco) for a counselor. He enjoyed his enthusiasm for 4H and his humor. He was an inspiration for many young 4H'ers. May God comfort you knowing that Jake is in the arms of his Savior and that he was a faithful servant to so many in his 22 years. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary Olszewska
August 11, 2010
I babysat Jake and Nick when they were children. Both were such great, happy children. Jake will be missed by all who spent time with him throught his life. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
Annie
August 10, 2010
I knew Jake through Anoka County 4-H, first when Kayla Schiltgen was directing the winter camp and he came to help teach how to swing dance, and then again when he was the assistant directer for summer camp. He had a great sense of humor and was a lot of fun to work with. We'll miss him a lot.
Scott & Kim Smith
August 10, 2010
May the Lord Jesus bless the Benesh family, We knew Jacob from Stillwater Adventure Club & and as family friends, Jake was a very special young man & We will remember the great times & how Jacob was the bright light in our group, always happy & positive. He loved fun. That is what I remember most about Jake! God Bless you Jake! We must rejoice in the good times & in the not so good times!
Janelle Johnson
August 10, 2010
This is my daughter's first time in 4-H and the Arts-in Program. She met Jake for the first time at encampment in July, and what an honor that turned out to be. Hearing what wonderful things everyone has to say about Jake saddens me that he won't be here to have such an amazing, positive influence on her life as he has had on so many others. Sounds like he was an amazing young man and had much left to contribute to our children and everyone he met. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Tom Sam Alli Azzone
August 10, 2010
Jake was always a great boy with Troop 169 B. S. A.. He always eagerly went along with the plan of the day. He always had a smile and never, ever complained about anything, and never gave anyone a bad time. I always thought he would be a success in life. I haven't seen him since he was about 15. Please know the Azzone family grieves for your loss.
Chuck and Lori Hansen
August 10, 2010
Jake has a special place in our hearts. Our son, Joe, met Jake at the State Arts In program and then had the privilege of being his roommate for 2 1/2 years in college. And then at graduation we were able to take a picture of Joe and Jake together. This is a treasure to keep. Our prayers are with you all.
Debbie Brown
August 10, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to your family on the loss of this tremendous young man. Our family was in Washington County 4-H for many years and we all remember watching Jake perform on stage at county and state Arts-In. He was so enjoyable to watch on stage - full of enthusiasm and talent!
Our hearts and prayers go out to your family. The Brown Family from the Mariner's 4-H Club
Lew & Judy Stein
August 9, 2010
Dear Family,
We did not know Jake but read the article in the Sunday Pioneer Press about what happened and our hearts go out to you. Jake seemed like a wonderful man and most certainly a son to be proud of. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss and cherish the wonderful memories.
Michelle Turgeon
August 9, 2010
Jake and I met one night at a rehearsal for a fundraiser for the theater dept., he was just the kind of person that you met and wanted to be friends with. Jake and I had quite a few chances to hang out and the experiences were always memorable because he knew how to make a person laugh. He will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends at this difficult time.
Bonnie
August 9, 2010
I still think of Jake as a little kid. One day, Justin came home and announced that he would like a little brother ... just like Jake. I'm sure that feeling eventually passed :-), but Jake was always very special to both of us.
Avis Peters
August 9, 2010
Jake was an inspirational young man who left a mark on everyone he met. The Washington County 4-H program lost a wonderful mentor for the members of our county. He was especially activie in the 4-H State and County Arts-In programs. He was loved by all.
Theresa Luther-Dolan
August 9, 2010
Jake was always so kind to me... mother of an "Artsy" You and your smile will truly be missed. I am so glad for all the memories of you in the "Artsy" family. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
Kristine Krinke
August 9, 2010
I still can't believe this happened. I went to elementary school with Nick and Jake at Withrow. I always saw Jake riding around on his bike at the River Falls campus as I walked to my classes. He was always so full of life. He will be greatly missed. My prayers go out to the Benesh family.
Kelsey Anderson
August 9, 2010
This page was created by Legacy.com - and that's just what you are, a legacy. In the midst of my grief, I can't help but smile, knowing you are rocking out in heaven. I am so blessed to have known you. God's Blessings to you and your family.
Rachel Hafele
August 9, 2010
You were truly an amazing human being...keep smiling in heaven... I will miss you always.
Rachel Hafele
August 9, 2010
Jake was a good friend of mine. I met him at the beginning of our senior year of college. He was one of the best people I have ever met. I am so sorry for his family. You are in my thoughts and my prayers and I know that Jake is one of my guardian angels. He was on Earth and now he is in heaven. Thank you for being my friend Jake, you always knew how to put a smile on my face. There is a large spot kept for you in my heart.
August 9, 2010
I really miss you, Jake. Your smile and constant energy were contagious. It was SO much fun to play music with you - especially on the float this year at Lumberjack Days. You were a pillar of faith. The kids loved you, the adults loved you, we all loved you. There is comfort in knowing that you are with Jesus. See you again, my friend!
Kim Hackworthy
August 9, 2010
My prayers are with you. I loved Jake's smile. What a wonderful child you raised. Whenever we ran into each other I'd get a quick update of his life. I loved how he loved life. I recall one night (5th grade) he planned to sleep over than at 11:30pm he and Alex came into my room. He asked if I could bring him home because he wasn't used to going to sleep so early. So I got up and drove him home. What fun he was in soccer. He was a great young man. My heart aches for you.
Shae Seivert
August 9, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. I had the privilege of watching Molly when she was younger and getting to meet your family. Our entire Legends neighborhood is thinking of you and is there for anything your family may need.
Shae Seivert (Gary & Kelly)
Cindy Trefethren
August 9, 2010
Jake was truly an amazing young man who touched the lives of so many. I remember his remarkable smile and presence when he entered a room... he just had that magic charisma. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family, DeAnn. Just remember that your friends care so much and we are here when you need us. Jake will always be remembered!
Cathy/Andy Mahler
August 9, 2010
Our hearts and prayers go out to the Benesh family. I still see him as the little boy the first time he spent the night at our house for an overnight. He had a hard time going to sleep while Matt slept, so I stayed up with him. The next morning we celebrated with pancakes and he was so happy. Many more overnights followed.
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August 9, 2010
I never knew Jake. I did however know his older brother Nick, we graduated together in 2002! I am so very sorry for the loss of your son and brother! My prayers go out to you and your family at times of this difficult loss!I want the Benesh family and friends of the family know that I was at the Washington County Fair on Saturday night listening to the Dweebs, when a group of the 4H kids came up and dedicated "Sweet Home Alabama" in remembrance of Jake! Although I was never close with Jake it really hit home and was an awesome song to remember someone who touched the lives of so many people! RIP Jake you will be missed by many people who love you!
Thoughts and Prayers to the Benesh family! You are in my prayers!
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