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James Schmaeling Obituary
James David Schmaeling, "Jimmy," loving son, brother and friend, passed away peacefully in his sleep on Oct. 22, 2010 at the age of 18. He was born on Dec. 2, 1991.
Throughout his life Jimmy loved to smile, laugh and bring joy to everyone he came in contact with. He brought joy and touched people's hearts with his smile. Jimmy enjoyed school, standing in his stander and watching exercise videos. He enjoyed flirting with girls, riding the bus to school, day trips, shopping, cooking, and watching his sister's softball games. Jimmy always wanted to be the center of the party.
Some of his favorite family vacations have been house boating on Lake Powell, trips to the grandparent Schuler cabin at Big Bear Lake, road trips to Seattle, Wash., and overnight trips to grandparent Schmaeling home in Redondo Beach. Recently Jimmy went on a wonderful trip to Disneyworld with his family on a wish granted to him from Make-a-Wish Foundation. Jimmy lived his complete life in Ventura where he came in contact with great teachers, teacher aides and physical therapists from Easter Seals, Tri-Counties Regional Center, Penfield, De Anza, Ventura High School and Dorothy Boswell School.
The family wishes to thank the many teachers, family, friends and students that brought joy to his life.
He is survived by his mother, Cindy, and father, David; brother, Thomas, and sister, Susan; grandparents, Dan and Eunice Schmaeling, Heinz and Anne Schuler; Aunt Catherine, Uncle Robert, Uncle Dan and Aunt Grace, Uncle Patrick and Aunt Heidi; cousins, Elizabeth, Katie, Brian, John, Gabrielle and Jackie.
Rosary Service will be at 7 p.m. on Tuesday, Oct. 26 at Joseph P. Reardon Funeral Home in Ventura. Funeral Services will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Wednesday, Oct. 27 at Sacred Heart Church in Ventura. For maps, directions to ceremony locations and to sign the family's guestbook, please contact Joseph P. Reardon Funeral Home, 643-8623.
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Memories and Condolences
for James Schmaeling
Sponsored by Your Mom and Dad-We will love you forever.
cindy schmaeling
October 20, 2020
My dear boy, I love you and think of you daily. Love always Mom
October 21, 2019
You are forever in my HEART- mom
October 8, 2015
thinking about you Jimmy, I miss your smile
Susie
Twila Woodward
May 31, 2015
Jimmy,
The memories that I have of your smile make make me happy to have known you. I always enjoyed your sense of humor and will remember just how adored you were by so many people but especially your sweet family.
Smiles Forever,
Twila
David Hynes
May 29, 2015
Jimmy you were an amazing friend, you acted so happy so happy at school everyday you are always remembered in my heart, I hope you're getting your wish to walk up in heaven, I want to see you again someday my friend.
cindy schmaeling
December 2, 2014
Jimmy my boy, happy birthday. I miss you so very much. You are always in my thoughts.
Love you always,
mom
May 27, 2014
My sweet Jimmy James. I have been thinking about you more today so I thought I would just write you a note. I LOVE YOU.
Mom
October 29, 2013
What a special boy you are Jimmy! I will never forget your smile,
Twila
October 22, 2013
Jimmy my sweet boy. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I miss your big smile and those big eyes. Keep your good watch over us here.
-Mom
October 22, 2012
My sweet boy Jimmy. Another year gone by and I miss you so. I think of you daily and miss your sweet bright eyes.
Forever in my Heart
Mom
December 3, 2011
Jimmy my sweet boy. For your birthday we took your school friends bowling and they all had a great time. Great memories and stories told. They miss you all so very much. Your were the shining star in the class. Your will be remembered always. I miss you so much and time has not helped me. You are in my thoughts daily and I just want to hold you again. I know you are in heaven with the angels and I will hold you forever in my heart.
Love to you always,
Mom
October 22, 2011
My sweet Jimmy. It has been a year you you left us and my heart is still so heavy with sorrow. I miss you dearly and think of you daily. I miss your sweet smile and happy eyes but I will hold you and see you again in Heaven someday. I love you, Mom
Stephanie Hodge
September 18, 2011
It's been almost a year and I still find myself looking to see you. You grace my dreams from time to time and my heart always. I hear you whisper in my ear and feel you close. I was truly blessed to be part of your world even for a little while it is a gift I can never repay. I love you.
November 10, 2010
Dear Cindy - Mary emailed me and told me about Jimmy. I'm the one who came to your house for the wish granting with Mary.. Jimmy had such a beacon of light on his face when he smiled. I remember how his eyes twinkled and I just thought I wish I could just squeeze him so hard. He was so sweet. I too have lost a son, Lonnie, (he was 19) so I can truly say I know how you feel. It's the worst pain a mother could ever go through. I never questioned God why, I just wanted Lonnie to be happy and not be in pain any more. I know God is the only one who can explain all this and believe me when I get to heaven I will definitely ask him. Just know that I feel privileged to have met him and I'm so glad you got to go to Disneyworld with the family. I can just imagine how much he smiled! Take care and if you ever want to talk just drop me an email. Love, Joyce Bustrum
November 10, 2010
Your Canadian cousins have been in shock since we found out yesterday morning about your loss. I am still trying to find the words to describe how profoundly sad we are. I spoke to my kids last night when I got home and told them about Jimmy’s passing and we all just couldn’t believe it.
The kids all remember Jimmy from the trip we took to California a few years back. I recall my sister Sue at dinner joking with Jimmy and his wonderful infectious laugh. Even Gabriel, who was only 5 back then, said he remembers Jimmy being so happy with such a great smile. I read the obit this afternoon and was very touched. He was a wonderful boy and his passing has touched us deeply.
God bless you and David, Suzie and Thomas… You are all in our thoughts at this difficult time.
My heartfelt condolences,
Helene, Natalia, Martin and Gabriel
November 10, 2010
Cindy and family,
Words can not express the sadness felt for your loss of your son.
I know a piece of your heart is missing, but what a wonderful gift Jimmy
gave everyone who had the fortune of meeting him. He was always happy
and when he wasn't smiling I was blessed in discovering how to make him laugh.
It showed me that despite all the hardships in these times of trials and tribulations,
to cherish your children each and every day that we have with them.
Thank you for your strength, kindness and love for these past 19 years, for being role models to all us other families that take every day and every breath for granted.
Our thoughts and prayers our with you
-Love
Gerry and family
November 10, 2010
On behalf of my parents and family,
I want to offer you our deepest sympathies.
On a personal level, Cindy, I am so sad to hear
about Jimmy. We have spoken on the phone
about him and my friends' son.
This is quite a shock and I never
imagined that this would ever happen.
I am so sorry and I know
you have the support around you,
so please ask for help when you, your husband
and kids need it because you have a
great family and I am sure
that they will do anything for you!
Just remember that Jimmy is now in heaven,
at peace & in a better world.
My sympathies again to you and your family.
Love Sandy & family
XoXo
November 10, 2010
My heart is breaking for you all. I'm so sorry to hear about Jimmy. Please accept our deepest simpathies and find strength in your family and love for one another.
Love,
Carolyn, Bill and family
November 10, 2010
Hello Cindy, David, Tommy and Suzie:
We were deeply saddened when we learned of your loss. Our deepest sympathies. Stella and I were in Ventura twice in the last few years and had the pleasure of seeing you and getting to know you as well as the Manning family and thoroughly enjoyed our visit. Even though communication with Jimmy was difficult, there was a certain something that one could grasp when he looked at you - his eyes said it all. His passing was sudden and is not easy to accept. Our prayers are with you all.
Stella and John Weisnagel
Lisa Anglin
October 29, 2010
Dear Mr. & Mrs Schmaeling and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I didnt know Jimmy but my nephew has CP & is 18 years old. I see Jimmy's smile in my nephew smile. I wished I would have known him & you so that I could learn how to be a better Aunt. Maybe one day we will meet & you can tell me all about Jimmy. He sounds so much like Dylan....Blessings to you. Lisa Capelli-Anglin (Ventura)
Bobbie & Peighton
October 29, 2010
My sincere sympathies to you and family for your loss. I had the privelege of meeting Jimmy and Cindy because my daughter and Susie were classmates quite a few years ago. Having a child with disabilities was not an easy thing for me as a single mom,but when I first met Cindy, I must say you are a true inspiration to me. Jimmy I got to meet by chance and was so touched by his smile. I am truly sorry for your loss,may God Bless you and may your memories of Jimmy stay in your hearts always.
Renee League
October 29, 2010
Dearest Dave and Cindy, Thomas and Susie, Our hearts go out to you, Grandparents, the Mannings, and all of the many who loved James. He is dancing in the heavens and making the stars even brighter with his smile! May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family. Our Prayers....Mark,Renee, Jordan, Brittany, Caleb and Seth League
October 27, 2010
Our sincere sympathies for your loss. I remember the love and great caring that you and your family offered Jimmy when I visited California a few years ago. I hope that your good memories will help you get through these sad times.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
S John Weisnagel (Uncle Stanley's son) and family. Québec City, Québec, Canada
Kirk Davenport
October 27, 2010
I am sorry I don't know this young man, but after reading his obituary and the many wonderful testimonials, I wish I had been blessed to know him. It is obvious that he is very loved! I recently lost my best friend in the whole world--it is hard, very hard. She is walking with God, Jesus, and her Mom now. I know she is happy and I am so proud of her. I will pray that Lisa will come forward in Heaven to meet "Jimmy", welcoming him with the same love and affection she always had for everyone! God bless you all, and God bless this young man.
Olga Hernandez
October 27, 2010
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Schmaeling and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I thoroughly enjoyed Jimmy's smile each school morning. His eyes spoke volumes to me. The day before I was lucky enough to be in his classroom! I won't forget that day! I envision him now in God's Glory looking down upon all his loved ones and friends with his trademark smile! You will all be in my prayers through a novena for him. God Bless you!
Doris Sassoe
October 27, 2010
Dear Cindy and Dave:
Words cannot express what is in my heart but I will try. Because Jimmy brought such joy and love into your life, he made you the beautiful people that you are. Jimmy made you great! He gave you uncompromising love and you returned the same. Jimmy made you strong and because of Jimmy you conquered all obstacles thrown in your path. I admire the both of you so deeply -- a lesser person would never be able to fill your shoes. I question if I could. May God continue to bless the both of you because he already blessed you with Jimmy.
With much love,
Karen Hemming
October 27, 2010
I will always remember your precious son when he came to Dr Browne. I felt like we could carry on a conversation just by looking into Jimmy's eyes. You will miss him so much and I hope that your many memories will be your comfort. Sincerely, "Nurse" Karen
October 27, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this sad time in your lives. May your memories of Jimmy bring you peace and comfort in the days ahead. Linda and Allen Rich ( Channel Islands, Ca.)
Sue Bleho
October 27, 2010
Dearest Cindy and David,
We were so sorry to hear the sad news of Jimmy's sudden death. His big smiles and infectious laughter is what I remember best of our trip to California already six ago, but also how much love was in your home,especially from his very attentive and devoted siblings, Thomas and Susie.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sue and the Bleho family
Carolyn Weisnagel
October 27, 2010
Dear Cindy,Dave Thomas and Susie,
We're so sorry for you all. Families are amazing collections of people that touch each other in special ways. I know you'll find strength in all of the memories and love you shared. Our hearts are with you.
Love, Carolyn,Bill,Nathaniel and Caitlyn
The Hall Family
October 27, 2010
Dearest Dave, Cindy, Tom and Susie:
Our hearts are heavy with sadness for the loss of your precious son/brother Jimmy. May the love and support from everyone around you help find solace, and the blessed memories of the beautiful life you shared help find peace. As it was beautifully stated at Jimmy's rosary, your family took such loving care of Jimmy during his life, now Jimmy will be your special angel looking out and caring for you all. He knew how much you loved him, may you know how much we all love you!
With all our hearts,
Ghada Albawab
October 26, 2010
Dear Cindy and Dave, I am so sorry to hear about your loss, may God grant you peace and courage, and his memory live forever.
Deirdre Jeff Justin and Stephen Strayer
October 26, 2010
Dave Cindy Thomas and Suzie.. We are so sorry that Jimmy is no longer with you. I know that he is dancing in Heaven, just wish we could see it. He is with you always. You are an amazing and beautiful family and muched loved by your community and friends...
deirdre strayer
October 26, 2010
Dave, Cindy, Thomas and Suzi... Tonight I am sitting here thinking of ALL of you. You are a rock in an ever changing world. I am heart broken because I will miss Jimmy, and seeing you with him at church, or school everywhere.... He made me laugh. He filled me with such joy. Thank you for sharing Jimmy with us.
Joel Plotkin
October 26, 2010
Dear Dave, Cindy, Thomas and Susie,
Our prayers and wishes are with you and all of your family members. We are so glad that you came to visit us recently so we could spend precious time with all of you. We are with you in spirit and your family will be in our prayers.
Joel, Rita and Carrie Plotkin
Matthew Miller
October 26, 2010
Dave & Cindy, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in my families thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Barbara Ortiz-Lee
October 26, 2010
Dear Dave, Cindy, Thomas & Susie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Your family is a true inspiration to our community, the amount of love and compassion you had for Jimmy is a wonderful example for all of us.
It has been a pleasure to have our children grow up together and we appreciate the wonderful friendship that has grown between our families.
May God Bless You!
Love The Lee Family,
Don, Barbara, Elliot & Reilly
Kathleen Harding
October 26, 2010
Dave & Cindy, My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. ~Kathleen Harding
Patsy Sanchez
October 26, 2010
Dear Cindy, Dave, Tom and Susie,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. Jimmy was a charming your man, always with a smile on his face. I think that's what he will be remembered for the most, his BIG smile. He has his wings now and he's soaring with the angels looking down on all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Janie Del Real
October 26, 2010
Dave, Cindy and Family:
We are sorry for your loss. I am praying that your faith will help you through this very difficult time and help you to know that God's purpose, whatever it may be, is at work. I pray that you will find the strength to get you through your grief and sadness.
Sincerely
Janie, David and Amanda Del Real
Mary & Brad Lopez
October 26, 2010
Dave & Cindy,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Mary & Brad Lopez
Twila Woodward
October 26, 2010
Dear Dave & Cindy Tom & Susie,
Jimmy was dear to our hearts, and we will always remember to smile and laugh
as we recall his big beautiful expressive eyes,that radiated his fun loving sense of humor, as he always lit up a room with his warmth, please be reminded that Jimmy is in Heaven, as we all will be able to be with him one day. Your in our thoughts during these difficult days to come. Love, Scott, Twila, Tanner,Lexi Woodward
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