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Phyllis Eliot Obituary

Phyllis A. Eliot, of Paradise Valley, Arizona and a summer resident of Orleans passed away unexpectedly on Friday, February 15, 2013. Beloved wife of 40 years of the late Dr. Robert Eliot, MD. Loving companion of Earle B. Kaufman of Orleans and Paradise Valley, Arizona. Phyllis was born October 14, 1931 and raised in Medford, Wisconsin, graduated from the Stout Institute (now university of Wisconsin-Stout) and was a Registered Dietitian. She collaborated with her late husband on a number of books including the 1984 publication, Is It Worth Dying For, a popular study on the effects of stress on the heart and how lifestyle could control it. She was the Managing Trustee of the International Stress Foundation which supports the continuing medical education programs held annually for the past 36 years at Jackson Hole, Wyoming. She was well traveled and had a wide circle of friends in Orleans, Jackson Hole, and Paradise Valley who enjoyed her hobby of wonderful creative culinary achievements. She leaves her children William Eliot and Susan Eliot of Paradise Valley, AZ; her sisters Lorna Tweedie of Shell Point, FL and Emily James and husband Bill of St. Louis, MO; and grandchildren Robert and Paige Ponomar. Contributions in her memory may be made to your charity of choice.

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Published by The Cape Codder from Feb. 20 to Feb. 27, 2013.

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Philip Leavitt

February 23, 2013

Phyllis was a friend and a wonderful person - always positive,cheerful and willing to help her community. She will be missed.

Donna Nicholson

February 22, 2013

Mrs. Eliot was a wonderful woman and I am so blessed to have known her and her husband, Dr. Eliot. She will be missed.

Gloria Martin

February 20, 2013

I have known Phyllis for around 30 years, and once helped her at a meeting in the Tetons. She was a very energetic, intelligent, and attractive woman. My late husband Larry spent over 20 years in her home on Saturdays, helping her husband Dr. Robert Eliot build and run their huge model railroad. I will miss her e-mail notes and phone calls. My condolences to her son Bill and daughter Susan, and her other loved ones; may God give each of you peace.

Dan Martin

February 20, 2013

Phyllis was a very classy woman, and a nice person. She made me feel at home in her homes over the last 34 years. I enjoyed her lunches too. I know my Dad Larry Martin enjoyed her and Doc's company & friendship very very much. She was a very respectable person. I will miss her. My prayers go out to her family and friends.

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