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Rene Mallen Obituary

Mallen, Rene Marguerite (Wilhelm) of Rye, New Hampshire died on August 14, 2011. She was born on February 3, 1950 in Albert Lea, Minnesota. She entered college as a National Merit Scholar and graduated Phi Beta Kappa and summa cum laude in 1971 with bachelor degrees in English and German from Macalester College in St. Paul, Minnesota. At Macalester she met her husband of 38 years, Edward B. Mallen. She is survived by her admiring children, son Michael Mallen, daughter Lauren Mallen Arcoma and son-in-law Peter Arcoma. She is also survived by her five sisters and brothers, Gervaise Wilhelm, David Gerald Wilhelm and Allison Wolf, Randi (Wilhelm) and Timothy LaFleur, Thomas and Amy Wilhelm, and Michael and Michelle Wilhelm. Rene was the daughter of the late Lester Wilhelm and the late Helen (Anderson) Wilhelm of Glenville, Minnesota. She also will be missed by a host of other relatives and friends. Together with her husband, Rene lived in Minnesota, New York, Kentucky, Wisconsin, Connecticut, Andover and Boston, Massachusetts before recently moving full-time to Rye, New Hampshire. Rene began her career in publishing at G.P Putnam and Sons as an assistant editor before holding the position of editor at Pastime Magazine. She taught English on the undergraduate level at Adelphi University, Nassau Community College, University of Kentucky (while pursuing a PhD) and the University of Wisconsin. She professionally translated books from German to English to refresh and utilize her German language skills. In 1976 she turned her talents to business and joined IBM. She spent many years working in human resources with various organizations including Mercedes Benz and the United Way of Massachusetts Bay. Most recently, Rene was Vice President of Human Resources, SPHR at the American Cancer Society, New England Division. Rene was a devoted wife, mother, sister and friend, an amazing listener, a voracious reader, a lifelong student, and a selfless individual in every way imaginable. She enjoyed gardening, cooking gourmet meals, and photographing family and friends. She led the design and construction of her familys home in New Hampshire. She was known to many on Wallis Sands Beach, the Surf Club and Abenaqui Country Club. Funeral Services have already been held. Donations in Renes memory may be sent to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen Street, Framingham, MA 01701.

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Published by The Hanover Mariner from Aug. 17 to Aug. 24, 2011.

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Mary Ann Hoffman

December 3, 2011

Ed,

I just learned of Rene's passing through the Mac alumni magazine. I remember her well from Macalester and what a wonderful, talented, and warm person she was. My thoughts are with you and your family as you cherish your memories with her and hold her in your hearts as you move forward.

Warmly, Mary Ann Hoffman

Ned B

November 25, 2011

Ed, oh Ed,

I shall be drinking some rye in honor of Rene'.

You see. ,,,there are words and yet no words. There is only grace and love.

Dive deep, my friend... swim back to the surface and find a new breath of life.

Bless you and your family,

Ned Mac 1971
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Mark Welshons

November 15, 2011

Ed

Just read in the Mac alumni magazine of Rene's death. Please accept our condolences on your loss. I remember when you two starting dating so very long ago. While it has also been a long time since we last were together, she was a wonderful person.

Cassie Tooley-Cordero

September 2, 2011

Love to the Mallen family, our thoughts are with you..even though heaven may rejoice in her presence, we here will miss her! .Love, Cassie Tooley Cordero and family

Lori Fresina

August 23, 2011

I just learned of Rene's passing today and am so very sorry. What a shock. Like so many others, I was lucky to have been part of the ACS family while Rene was there. Though it's been years since we worked together, I have remembered her fondly and always as a class act. My thoughts and prayers are with her loved ones.

Anne Smith

August 22, 2011

I knew Rene not only from the class of 1967 (Albert Lea, MN), but also "way back" in 3rd grade and on! She was a wonderful person and will be missed. My sincere sympathy to her family and friends.

Bill & Michele Carey

August 21, 2011

Ed, we were so saddened to hear this news of Rene's death. You, Michael, and Lauren have our deepest sympathy.

Carolyn Katzin

August 20, 2011

Rene was my personal coach in the American Cancer Society's National Leadership Development Program. She was an exceptional listener, mentor and friend. I feel so blessed to have had her in my life and hope to do her memory justice.

Doug Kennedy

August 19, 2011

Thank you, Rene, for enriching the lives of those who knew you - for a long time or only for a moment. May the peace of God which radiated in your life remain now to comfort those who are left to remember and miss you! I will recall many moments from elementary school that Rene made special for all of us lucky enough to have known her.

Laurie Peterson

August 19, 2011

We from the Albert Lea Class of 1967 are so very sad to hear of Rene's death. She was definitely a star among us. My sympathy to you who were lucky enough to be her loved ones.

Jo Ann Ledbetter

August 19, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with Rene's family and many friends. She was a beautiful person and I am blessed to have worked with her at ACS.

Debbie Jordahl Beighley

August 19, 2011

My heartfelt sympathy to you all! Rene was a friend and schoolmate from elementary through High School. I have great memories of being invited by her to ride the school bus home with her after school during those elementary years to just 'hang out' and play. She was a star among us in High School. Her life successes are so impressive - but not surprising - as she was always 'head and shoulders' above most in her intellect, friendliness, positive cheeriness and kindness. May you continue to sense her presence and be blessed with grace and peace during this sorrowful time.

Mary Sidor

August 19, 2011

I look back on the pictures of our 3rd grade class...and just find this hard to believe. It is hard to lose a classmate that you were with for 10 years...my sympathies to her family. I only have good memories of Rene and being with her family in Albert Lea. May she rest in peace. All my prayers for her family and friends.

Debborah Smith

August 19, 2011

Rene was an amazing individual. She had this amazing ability to bring out the best in everyone. And no matter how busy she was she always took/made time to assist her collegues. Rene spoke of you, her family all the time. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. She will be missed by all of those who were blessed to have known her.

Cindy Lewis

August 18, 2011

My deepest condolences go out to Rene's family, friends and co-workers. May you find peace in the difficult days ahead and cherish the memories you hold dear.

David May

August 18, 2011

We are deeply saddened to learn of the passing of our classmate and friend from Albert Lea High School, Class of 1967, Albert Lea, Minnesota. Our sympathies and prayers go out to her family and friends.

Margi Bjerke Hatch

August 18, 2011

It's been a very long time but your smiles with the twinkles in your eyes back in those high school days were delightful. Thank you for your friendship. You've blessed many and now may God bless you.

MaryEllen Giombetti

August 18, 2011

My gosh, I am so sorry to hear this. I worked with Rene for many years at the ACS and she truly was a great person and someone who's conversations I thoroughly enjoyed. As a colleague and friend she was always helpful. And she was very funny too. I loved sitting in her office and talking with her about her family. She always spoke so highly of all of you. We would talk about art, dogs and many other things. She will be missed by many people. What a wonderful woman and such a sad loss. May you all find strength in knowing how much she loved you.

Victoria & Stephen Costello

August 18, 2011

Ed, Mike, and Lauren,
This is an incredible shock to me and my family. I cannot express the sadness I feel for you. Rene had many incredible gifts. When she spoke to you it was like you were the only person in the room. Her passion for life and her ability to effortlessly give so much of herself was pure and natural. If it is true that it's not the years in your life, but the life in your years, your loving mom and wife will be with us forever. We are all better people to have known her.
Your family will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Ken Gordon

August 18, 2011

To the Mallen family: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences.

Thomas Sellers

August 18, 2011

Terry Ann and I want to express our sympathy to Rene's family and to all her colleagues at ACS. I had the opportunity to work with Rene both at ACS and at the United Way and know that she will be missed.

Susan Richter

August 18, 2011

Dear Family of Rene,
There is nothing I can say to take away your pain.Your Rene made a lasting impression on those of us who were priviledged enough to have known and worked with her. Rene was one of a kind and will never be replaced.
Please know that all those who were blessed to have worked with her, share in your devastating loss. Susan Richter

Judith Meinhardt

August 18, 2011

My deepest sympathy to Rene's family. Rene was a pleasure to work with and will be greatly missed. I will always remember her smiling. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Robin Popp

August 18, 2011

With sadness and with great respect for a wonderful and talented soul, I send my deepest condolences to the Mallen family. May you find peace and comfort in one another.

Teresa Garcia

August 17, 2011

My deepest sympathies to Rene's family. Please know her reach was far and wide and deep, and she will be remembered so fondly. Her smile was just wonderful. She was kind and smart and funny and warm and helpful. I will miss her.

August 17, 2011

We were so shocked and saddened by Renee's sudden passing.We so enjoyed her company. She will be greatly missed. Your family is in our hearts. Mark & Renee Romanowsky

Linette Handschumaker

August 17, 2011

My condolences to the Mallen and Wilhelm families. As you struggle to live your lives in the face of this unspeakable loss please know that Rene was a wonderful colleague, an invaluable resource in her work, and a genuinely incredible woman filled with laughter and light. Even though our time together was short, I am happy to have known her. May you find solace in the coming days, weeks and months.

Jill O'Malley

August 17, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Rene was a wonderful person to work with. She will be so greatly missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Angela Lee

August 17, 2011

To the Mallen & Wilhelm family, I express my sincere condolences. I worked with Rene virtually at ACS. EVERY experience I ever had with Rene was a pleasant one. She will be missed.

Cara Bauer

August 17, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Rene was such a wonderful person and will be greatly missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Cook

August 17, 2011

Very sad to hear the news of Rene's passing. My deepest sympathies to Rene's family & many friends.

Debbie Dameron

August 17, 2011

I am so very sorry to hear about the death of Rene. She was the first person I spoke with, being interviewed over the phone, beside Randy. Her professionalism really impressed me and made me excited to work for ACS.

Holly Maki

August 17, 2011

I am broken hearted over the sudden passing of Rene, and send my deepest condolences to her friends and family. She was a respected member of the ACS family and will be deeply missed.

Claire Fauth

August 17, 2011

My heart goes out to Rene's family, friends and co-workers. I so much enjoyed working with her at the American Cancer Society - she was so knowlegeable, helpful and supportive, and most of all she was a great person. You are in my prayers.

Karen Rouse

August 17, 2011

Deepest condolences to Rene's family and many friends. All of us in Rene's ACS family are stunned and unspeakably saddened by her passing, and will miss her smile, her steady hand, her compassion for others. We learned so much from her, and enjoyed every minute of it. We will keep her -- and the family she adored -- in our thoughts always.

Judy Iwanski

August 17, 2011

So sorry to hear the sad news. Rene was one of the finest collegues I've had the pleasure of working with.
With sympathy to the Mallen family.

Al and Cindy Espinola

August 17, 2011

We were sad to hear of Rene's passing. We have many fond memories of sharing our times at the boy's hockey games.
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Pamela Ritchie

August 17, 2011

I am deeply saddened to hear of Rene's passing. Please accept my condolences. Rene was such a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.

Marelyn Collazo

August 17, 2011

With sadness, I express my sincere condolence to her family. What an extraordinary and intelligent woman. She always greeted us with a genuine smile and had a sincere appreciation of all around her. It has been an honor to work and cross paths with her at ACS.

Susan Stumpf

August 17, 2011

I pray your family will eventually find peace in the wonderful memories you share.
Rene's ACS family will miss her greatly!

Terri Santos- ACS

August 17, 2011

I too am so very sorry for your loss. I have looked to Rene for guidance and assistance so many times over the years. Each time I was struck by just what a "good soul" she was. Such a gentle, fair and respectful way about her. She will be deeply missed.

Yumna Ali

August 17, 2011

I was so sad to hear the news of Rene's passing. I always enjoyed Rene's company and insight, and enjoyed working with her very much - my deepest condolences to all the Mallen family on your loss.

Crystal Brown

August 17, 2011

What a loss to the world! Rene was wonderful, gracious and smart and will be missed by everyone at the American Cancer Society.

Sue Hansberry

August 17, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I looked up to and respected Rene as an HR professional, and enjoyed her gentlenss, intelligence and sense of humor as a friend. I will miss her deeply.

Thomas Family

August 17, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss and want you to know that we are all thinking of you.

Joel Forman

August 17, 2011

I was saddened to hear of Rene's sudden passing. I enjoyed working with her at ACS. She will be missed by family and friends.

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