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Elaine Duffy Obituary

Elaine Sabadini Duffy of Tewksbury died Saturday, June 28, 2014 after a long battle with cancer at the Sawtelle Hospice House in Reading. Formerly of Malden, Elaine was 76 years old. Born September 17, 1937 in Boston at St Elizabeths Hospital, Elaine was a long time resident of Malden. Her parents were Alfred and Helen Sabadini of Malden. She married the late Brendan Duffy of Boston on August 27, 1960 at St Josephs Church in Malden and they were married for 51 years. They moved to Tewksbury in 2003 where they resided until their passing. A 1955 graduate of Malden High School and of Chamberlain Junior College, Elaine worked at the Malden District Courthouse, the Middlesex County District Attorneys office and the Massachusettss Attorney Generals office for many years. She loved her work and her co-workers and was well liked and respected at her job. She was also employed by the Malden YMCA in several positions and enjoyed being at the Y and at Camp Madaca with friends and family. She also had many friends and neighbors who she was very close with. She also volunteered at the Franciscan Center of Andover and at St. Leonards Parish in Bostons North End. Elaine is survived by her sons and their families: Marko and Carla Gasparello Duffy of Tewksbury and Kevin and Sharon Duffy of Malden. She is also survived by adoring grandchildren Geena, Marina, Sophia and Kieran. Elaine is remembered by loving cousins Debbie Panchella, Donna Purtell, Danny DiChiara, Dean DiChiara and Dennis McLaughlin and nieces and nephews Gifford Duffy, Elizabeth Ashwood, Joanne and Catherine Hirschman and their families. The funeral was held from the A. J. Spadafora Funeral Home, 865 Main Street, Malden on Thursday, July 3rd at 9 a.m. followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at Sacred Heart Church, 297 Main Street, Malden at 10 a.m. Relatives and friends were respectfully invited to attend. Visiting hours were Wednesday, July 2nd from 5-8 p.m. Interment was private. The family has requested that in lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Brendan and Elaine Duffy Collegiate Scholarship Fund c/o Malden High School, 77 Salem St. Malden, MA 02148. Elaine was a woman of strong faith and loved to be surrounded by her lifelong family and friends and will be remembered as an amazingly devoted grandmother. Thank you to all who shared the life of this wonderful woman, wife, mother, auntie and nana. For directions and guestbook visit www.spadaforafuneral.com

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Published by The Malden Observer from Jul. 1 to Jul. 8, 2014.

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Karen Luongo

July 14, 2014

As a former teacher and student at MHS, I would like to express my sympathy in the passing of your mother.

July 2, 2014

Lainey will always be a treasure to me, since I am the oldest cousin. Uncle Freddie and Aunt Helen were a joy to visit - such a happy household! They would invite the whole family every summer for a full day at Malden - then Uncle Freddie would drive us all back to Jamaica Plain - A treasured memory for me! Along with the Needham gatherings. Cousih Claire

Marko Duffy

July 2, 2014

Thank you all for the kind words…. Much appreciated. Debbie I think we should have a family reunion this summer. Bocci would be a requirement… I have great memories of being in Needham and much of how I feel about family was shaped at that house. Hope all is well… Thank you all...

George Lyons

July 2, 2014

Condolences to the Brendan and Elaine Duffy Family at this saddest of times. God bless your parents, they were amazing.

Ed and Natalie Lemberg

July 1, 2014

To the Duffy family: So very sorry to learn of the passing of Elaine. I met her many years ago while commuting from Malden to Boston for work. She was such a beautiful person who will be missed by all.

MaryAnn Szufnarowski

July 1, 2014

To the family of ElaineDuffy: Deepest sympathy on Elaine's passing. I was part of a group of five that went to the Boston Symphony with Elaine. She had such an outgoing personality and a great sense of humor. It was always a pleasure to be in her company. She certainly will be deeply missed by many. Elaine and her family will be in my prayers.

Debbie Fabbri

July 1, 2014

Dear Marko and Kevin,
I have wonderful childhood memories of your mom. She was a special woman, with a great smile who always kept me laughing. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
Deb Fabbri

Debbie Fabbri

July 1, 2014

Dear Marko and Kevin,
I have wonderful childhood memories of your mom. She was a special woman, with a great smile who always had me laughing. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
Deb Fabbri

Phyllis Landwehr

June 30, 2014

As a former student of your dad, Marko, back in 1967-69, hardly a day went by when Mr. Duffy did not mention you or your Mom in such a loving way. So sorry for your loss, and my prayers are with you all. Memories are forever. Phyllis Mambuca Landwehr, MHS '69.

June 30, 2014

Dear Kevin and the Duffy family,
Please accept our sincerest sympathies and know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
John and Kerri Floramo

June 30, 2014

I have special memories of your mom Marko and Kevin. Sincerest sympathy to you and your families.
Kathy Sainato

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