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David H. Ellingson CHESAPEAKE – David H. Ellingson, 45, of Country Club Blvd., died Nov. 14, 2008. Born in Concord, Calif., Aug. 20, 1963, he grew up in Las Vegas, Nev. He was the son of Ken and Carol Ellingson. Upon graduating from high school, he joined the U.S. Navy in July 1981. Mr. Ellingson was a master chief for 27 honorable years. Master Chief Ellingson is survived by his wife, Lou Ann Ellingson of Chesapeake; his daughters, Andrea and Alicia Ellingson of Las Vegas and Christina Duba of Chesapeake; his granddaughter, Riley Duba; his brother, Scott Ellingson; and other friends and family. A memorial service will be held Friday in Naval Station Norfolk at 1 p.m. Burial will be private. Twiford Funeral Home, Chesapeake, is handling arrangements.
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Scott Ellingson
November 14, 2023
Hey Bro, it's been quite sometime since I last wrote to you. I wish you were still with me/ us. I could of used your help this past 2 yrs. When I lost my leg I almost checked out , it tried to kill me but it wasn't my time. What a game changer it has made my life. I think of you everyday and wish you were here. I love and miss you bro , We will meet again brother, I'll take care,and you as well. Your bro Scott.
November 15, 2019
Dave you were an inspiration for us all, enjoyed out tour together !
November 14, 2019
Today...still...I feel the loss of you. Remembering you today not with sorrow but with gratitude, friendship and unmeasurable love.
Aeveen, Joe, and kids
December 19, 2012
I cannot believe it has been four years,it seems so much less. You are missed by all,we still sit on the deck and expect to see you coming out of the shed,or using your smoker,bringing Joe a beer.. We miss you, rest in peace our friend..
November 14, 2012
Four years ... they seem to have gone so fast, and so slowly at the same time. Thinking of you, and remembering your laugh, your kindness, and the special light you brought to my world.
Lou-Ann Ellingson
November 14, 2012
4 Years today.. I still miss coming home to you.. I miss our friendship.. our laughter.. our Love.. our Life together... I miss YOU! I can't say it gets any easier as the years pass.. I think I just get stronger. I'm still "paying Life forward" as much as I can.. You are truly missed my darling husband and all that We can hope for is that you have found peace.. peace in your heart and soul and in the ever-after. I'll continue to love you always,
Wife XOXO
September 13, 2012
Navy CPO Nite - always makes me think of you.
Karen Carpenter
August 23, 2012
Dave, We all miss you so much.Hope you can see your beautiful daughters from above. We love you!
August 21, 2012
Happy Birthday, Dave....you are missed more than words can say.
August 21, 2012
Happy Birthday my Good Friend.
August 20, 2012
Happy Birthday DAVE. I love you and miss you. Love Dad
One of lots of memories Riley will cherish.
Christina Duba
January 17, 2012
Hey dad I still think of you often and miss and love you just as much as the day you left our lives. Love you! xoxo
December 26, 2011
You are never far from our heats - especially this time of year. Sleep in Peace, Dave...
Karen Carpenter
November 16, 2011
David, we all miss you so much! I didn't know about this book until just yesterday.We will see you again, and you will always be in our thoughts and prayers. We love you!
November 15, 2011
November 14th is a Day I hate to remember. You left us way too soon. Love Dad
November 14, 2011
Three years, and it all still seems so unreal. You're the biggest reason I appreciate every gift this life has to offer. Missing you today as much as ever.
Lou-Ann Ellingson
November 10, 2011
My Dear Husband, I'm sitting here at work, not able to concentrate.. my eyes trying not to swell with tears.. thinking of you.. of our life we shared.. the crazy laughter you brought into my life... our deep friendship.. and our fairy tale Love we shared. This next week is not only the week all those who love you so much lost you.. but it would of been our 17th Wedding Anniversary.. I'm doing my very best.. I'm working hard, keeping things up on the house, just still taking one day at a time. Wishing you were here to be my handyman.. you sure loved tinkering in the garage or taking on a project... and probably the only man who actually ASKED his wife to give him a "honey-do" list! ha! But I miss you dearly, I'm not sure what my future holds, but I know for sure you were a "one of a kind" kinda guy! I'm sorry you left us all, I'm sorry you probably look down upon us all and are soooo sorry too. You are always in our thoughts and especially this month those who love you and miss you most will have you in their hearts. I love you always, Wife xo
August 21, 2011
Happy Birthday Dave. You are missed more than you could ever know. Love Dad
August 20, 2011
Thinking of you today, Dave, on your birthday. Playing some Zeplin and toasting you with some of the Capt. Missing you....
Christina Duba
June 1, 2011
Thinking of you today. Love and miss you very much! xoxo
Paige Medrano
December 17, 2010
Thinking of the entire Ellingson family. Love to you all at this time of year and always
Eddie Holmes
December 15, 2010
We were talking about Dave today here at FRCSE, what a great guy to hang out with and he would always make us laugh. Merry Christmas to you and your family and we'll see Dave again in heaven. Dave keep an eye on us !
Marsha Ryninger
December 9, 2010
Lou Ann,
Thinking of you at this time of year, and praying that God will flood you with His love and comfort.
Blessings to you and your family,
Lou-Ann Ellingson
November 15, 2010
Two years seems like such a long time when you say it out loud.. it seems like such a short time when you miss and love someone... Wish you were here with all of us. xoxo
November 14, 2010
It has been two years since you left us for a better place. I miss you and think of you every day. Love Dad
November 13, 2010
Two years which have seemed like a lifetime. Hanging on by a thread - especially around this time of year. Missing you today as much as the first day.
Scott Ellingson
November 13, 2010
Hey Bro,tomorrow will be the 2nd yr.that you stepped above us.Everyday since,i stop and take a moment to remember our lives together n growing up.It makes me smile,and reminds me to continue foward in life.I miss you bro,along with everyone else.Youll never be forgotten. Love Ya,Scott.
Lou-Ann Ellingson
September 28, 2010
Dearest husband, not a day goes by that I don't miss you and think of you. Life just isn't the same without you. We are all doing our very best to make you smile down upon us with pride and love. XO
Christina Duba
September 12, 2010
Went to the walk yesterday, thought of you and how much I wish you were here. Love and miss you Dad xoxoxo
Scott Ellingson
August 23, 2010
Hey Bro,Happy Birthday! Dad & I were out at your site,on your B-day.Miss you Bro.
Love Ya,Your Bro,Scott.
August 20, 2010
Happy Birthday, Dave. We all miss you very much.
Chuck and Catherine Meredith
May 6, 2010
Dear Ellingson Family,
I just learned of Dave's passing and wanted, like so many others, to extend my deepest respect and heartfelt sympathies to your family. My husband, Chuck and I both were stationed with Dave in VP-49, what seems like a million years ago. I cannot remember a time that Dave wasn't smiling or joking around with all of his crew. I don't think I ever heard a harsh word from him. Although, we lost touch with him after leaving Jax, we often thought of him with the kindest regard. We knew that if we ever needed anything, Dave would kindly give the shirt off his back if he thought it would help. Even now, as I write this I feel a lump well up in my throat and tears come to me thinking of your overwhelming loss. He was an inspiration to many and he will sorely be missed. To us he was "Super Dave" and that's how we will always remember him. I pray Our Heavenly Father will continue to comfort you and give you peace.
Christina Duba
March 19, 2010
Hey dad, Just wanted to drop a line and let you know I was thinking of you. I love and miss you bunches!!! xoxo
Christine Ferrino
January 13, 2010
To the Ellingson Family, I just learned of the loss of a very special person I lost touch with, I knew many years ago. I am so sorry for your loss but he will live on in our heart's and memories forever.
Marsha Ryninger
December 11, 2009
Dear Lou Ann,
I've just recently learned of Dave's passing away and I want to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I only knew Dave for a short time while I was exercising at the Norfolk gym in 2003. During that time, Dave was always such an encouragement and always willing to help those around him.
I know you must be proud of Dave's many accomplishments and his unselfish life. Let God guide you as you take the time to grieve and to heal, knowing Dave touched many lives for good. I count it an honor to have known him.
May your cherished memories of Dave help you through the days, weeks, and years ahead and bring you comfort, and may God flood you with His love and strength.
Blessings to you all.
Mel Kalagian
November 20, 2009
Dave, I know we went our seperate ways after high school, but you were always my best friend. I remember the time I went to visit you in Beeville TX. We had such a great time. Of course I stood out a little, since I had loog hair back than. I remember the night we spent at one of your friends off base and cooked up those big steaks and drank to many beers. I still remember how I felt the next morning. Dave I thought of you and the first years of you being with the Lord. We miss you and still am very confused of why you left us so soon. Oh ya. Remember the 69 El Camino and we were up at the caves and I was instructed by the police to leave and I left with my date and your girl friend. You were so pissed at me. There are so many memories. To many to write down. I love you man and miss you. One more thing dave. I meet your daughters for the first time in many years and you did good my friend. Both are very beautiful smart woman. I also gave them your ceramic bust and share a little back ground on it.
Ken Ellingson
November 14, 2009
It doesn't feel like a year since we lost you Dave. I went to your resting place on Wednesday, Nov 11, Veterans Day to share a beer with you, and put a red poppy on the wall. You are missed very much by all of us and loved as well. I really miss our talks about NFL Football every Sunday. Love Dad
November 14, 2009
Hard to believe a year has gone since you left. There are no words to express the feelings of loss and sadness that still linger.
Christina Duba
November 13, 2009
Tomorrow will be the 1 year mark and it still feels like yesterday that you were taken from us. You are still missed as much as you were the day we lost you, the memories are still as vivid as the day they were made, and our love for you is still as great. i love and miss you dad xoxo
September 11, 2009
Dave it was a strange summer not seeing you out back; mowing, smoking your famous ribs, and sharing a beer with your weekend warrior friends. We miss you; know you will forever be in our hearts.
Much love,the Irish lass and the Marine.
Ken Ellingson
August 21, 2009
Dave we miss you this day, which would have been your 46th birthday. I was out to your resting place yesterday and shared a bud lite with you. Love Dad
August 20, 2009
Happy Birthday, Dave. We miss you more than words can say.
Dave & L.A Vacation 2008
L.A. Ellingson
April 27, 2009
My darling husband, it's been 5 long months. I'm still awaiting your return from this long deployment you've been on. My rational mind knows you won't be returning to me at the 6 month mark. We miss you terribly and know that you are with us every step of our days and the quiet moments we are alone. I know you feel our love as we do your's. I'm getting my strength in knowing you are proud of me and your daughters for staying focussed on what life brings us and that enables our ability to move forward w/ pride and determination to succeed and to assist in bettering the lifes of others. That's what you did, my love. You gave all yourself to those who needed you and we, your family, friends, and shipmates will do the same... in your honor.
You are so very much loved.
xo wife
Bob and Donna Jorge
January 1, 2009
The number of people that come into and out of your life during a 20 year career in the Navy is almost countless. For me the single most important friend I had in those 20 years was Dave. When I think back to my early years in the Navy my last thought is always of Dave and I water skiing in Maryland while dodging the jellyfish. He was a positive influence and the source of many happy memories for Donna and I.
To his family, take comfort in knowing that the love, respect, and admiration you had for him was shared by the many people who were lucky enough to have Dave as a friend. To me, he will always be the icon of the good people in this world. That is how I will always remember him.
Alicia Ellingson
December 17, 2008
Dads are meant to hold your hand,
Be there for you more than any man.
Dads are always in your heart,
Even if you’re very far apart.
Dads are always half of you,
It’s remembered by the big feet you accrue.
Dads love fast cars and fishing things,
And beating up boyfriends who pull at heartstrings.
Dads might not always been seen with the eye,
But you remember him most before you cry.
Dads encourage you to do what you want,
And being so proud of you with every flaunt.
Dads sometimes forget that you’re proud too,
For each accomplishment and good virtue.
Dads will always be in mind and soul,
And visit in dreams to keep in patrol.
Dads are dads alike but for me,
My dad was the best dad there could be.
Lou-Ann Ellingson
December 3, 2008
Dearest family, friends, and shipmates, I cannot express my deepest gratitude for all your comforting words and stories. My husband was truly blessed to have had you in his life as you were blessed to have him in yours. Thank you very much.
Jason and Leslie Descans
December 1, 2008
I only met David a couple of times in my life, I will always remember his smile, and his kindness. I will miss my cousin David very much, I only wish we could have known each other better. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Ellingson Family.
Bill and Jolynn Galloway
December 1, 2008
Mrs. Lou Ann,
Our hearts and eyes are are full of tears. We pray for your strength and courage to carry you on. May God shed his love and grace on your family now more than ever. My wife and I both served with Dave in VP-5 and as I am certian you know, he was a very special man. His kindness and joy to everyone helped us each and every day. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Jennifer & Nicholas Sofes
November 27, 2008
I wish there were words I could say or actions I could do to help heal the pain. That will only come with time. I will always remember David and he will live on in our hearts forever. Everyone in the Ellingson family our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Laura Davis
November 26, 2008
LA, I am so sorry & saddened to hear about Dave. I was in VP-49 with you guys, Dave was my LPO. I know he will be missed greatly. My prayers are with you & all your family. (back then I was AD3 Fletcher)
Robert Braswell
November 25, 2008
Ellingson family I am so sorry for the loss of a great man. He really inspired me and touched the lives of many. May God Bless you all.
Luv The Braswell Family...
Ken Ellingson
November 25, 2008
Thanks to all of Daves' friends and shipmates for your kind words. I was very proud of him. Thank you to the US Navy, they take care of their own. May you rest in peace and always have calm seas. Love Dad
Scott Ellingson
November 25, 2008
I wanna say Thank You for all the wonderfull emails about my Brother! I will miss him dearly,and will always look up to him as my Hero! I LOVE YOU BRO ! Love always,Scott...
KATHLEEN (ELLINGSON) DESCANS
November 25, 2008
I will always remember the good times watching David & brother, Scott and their cousins, Denise & Richard swimming in our parents pool as they were growing up. To my brother, Ken and nephew Scott-I love you very much and grieve with you. David left us much to soon. To
Lou Ann-my heart goes out to you,
I know what a wonderful person David was! To his beautiful girls-remember the good times and know he will always be with you. God bless you all and know we will all be
together again one day!
Pamela Cantrell
November 24, 2008
May God walk beside you in your time of need. My heart goes out to you. I did not know Dave. I am a friend of his brothers in Las Vegas. I cannot express the deep sorrow I have for you and your family. I will pray for you to find some peace. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. I am sorry that I don't have any words that might ease your pain. I am so very sorry.
CPO(RET) Eddie and Linda Holmes
November 23, 2008
Ms Luanne, Our hearts go out to you and your girls. I served with Dave in VP5 from 2000 til his xfer. He was a great guy to be around and he brought laughter to work each and every day. He will be missed here in Jacksonville by all his friends and co-workers. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Anita Lillibridge
November 22, 2008
LouAnn and Family,
I am sorry to hear about Dave. He was a true friend who I worked with and took advice from for many years during my Naval career. Whoever he met, he touched their hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to call.
God Bless you all.
Suzy Jordan
November 21, 2008
LA and family,
Dave has been a great mentor, shipmate and friend in my life. He started way back when in 1993 in VP30 and has continued on over the years. He has talked about you and the girls in the highest regard and loved you all very much. My life would not be the same with out his friendship and encouragement. He is loved and respected by all who have had the honor to serve with him. He will be missed and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jennifer Nowlan
November 21, 2008
Lou Ann and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Russ and Jan Lenherr
November 21, 2008
Lou-Ann,
We are so sorry to hear about Dave. We are just around the corner from you, please let us know if we can do anything. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Tanisha Holland
November 21, 2008
Lou Ann & Family,
My heart breaks for you and my prayers are with you during this incredibly difficult time.
Daniel Vaughan
November 21, 2008
Dear Ellingson Family,
You are in our prayers. I am saddened by this loss. I was fortunate enough and even more blessed to have worked for him at VAW 121. It was my first duty station in Virginia. He welcomed me with great enthusiasm and looked out for me no matter what. I could not have been any more proud to serve my country. I have a genuine respect for him. He will definitely be missed by those for the lives he has touched.
JACEK RYKALA
November 21, 2008
Dear Ellingson Family,
I have only know Dave for a short 6 months at the Wing and Dave always made me feel so welcome. He never failed to say hi to me when I walked by his office and I will surely miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with you at such a devastating time. God bless you.
Big Bro James & Pauline Wachtel
November 21, 2008
Sis,
The world is a very sad place right now but always remember we love you. Dave touched so many and will be missed but not forgotten. Our hearts are there with you.
Patricia Lindsay
November 21, 2008
Lou-Ann and Family....You are in my thoughts and prayers. May the strength which lies within you carry you through during this difficult time.
Julie Trask
November 21, 2008
LouAnn,
I am so very sorry for the loss of Dave, your husband and best friend. He was a fun-loving man, a great joy to be around. PLease call if you need anything.
Julie and John Trask
Shana DuBois
November 21, 2008
Lou-Ann and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
~ Shana
Bob Cote
November 21, 2008
Lou Ann and family,
Dave and I were together at the SEA class 108. Although never served together in our Navy except for 9 weeks at the SEA I can tell you that the short time knowing him has been a blessing with his friendship that continued past 2003.
A Shipmate will be missed by many! May he rest in peace and be blessed that he served our United States Navy.
Jon Slichter
November 21, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers
April Champagne
November 21, 2008
LA
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts as you go through this difficult time.
Andrew and Kathleen Degitz
November 20, 2008
Lou-Ann and Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We have many wonderful memories of our times together. Dave was an amazing friend who was always there for us whenever we needed him. We are always just a phone call away. We love you very much.
Marc & Nancy White
November 20, 2008
Lou Ann and Family,
We just want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if you need anything.
Jon Meador
November 20, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Anthony Pangelinan
November 20, 2008
Ellingson family, My heart goes out to you in this time of sorrow. Master Chief Ellingson was a role model and a mentor to me while i was in VAW-121. Not only did he look after his sailors, he also made us feel proud of what we do. He inspired me to do the best that i could and when i was in trouble the fact that he was disappointed in me was far worse than any punishment the navy could give me. I looked up to him as the type of sailor and person i wanted to be, and i still do to this day. May he rest in peace and blessings be with his family during this hard time. I will proudly be at service on friday with my head high knowing that i was mentored by such a honorable man. sincerly AD2(AW) Anthony (Pang) Pangelinan
Gregg Blann
November 20, 2008
LA, I wish to send my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Dave and I go way back and I have such fond memories of working with him. He was and will always be a good man. You and your family are in my prayers and may God watch over you and bless you.
(AMCS Retired)
John Bandor
November 20, 2008
LouAnn,
I am deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Dave. He was a true shipmate. Peace be you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
(AFCM ret.)
Dan "STRETCH" Dendauw
November 20, 2008
Lou Ann and family,
I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Words can not express the loss of a loved one. May God keep you safe, strong and bless you.
I. Conlin
November 20, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies during this most difficult time. I knew Dave while deployed with the Airwing on board the GW. He was passionate about "HIS" Navy, and lived for his sailors, Chiefs Mess and his family. Words cannot express the feelings of loss and sadness. He was one in a million, and will be greatly missed. He made such a difference in the quality of our lives by just knowing him. May God grace you with his comfort and his love. Know that Dave will live on in the faces of his children, and in the hearts of us all.
April Romero
November 20, 2008
Dear Lou-Ann and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Please let us know if you need anything and we'll be there.
The Romero Family - April, Steve, Jayden & Payton
Lori Youngsma
November 20, 2008
Lou-Ann, Christi, and Family-
I am so sorry for the loss of Dave, he was a wonderful husband, father,neighbor and friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Matthew Morrison
November 20, 2008
Lou-Ann,
If there is anything you need, I am just up the road. My thoughts are with you and your family.
~Matt
Jennifer Robinson
November 20, 2008
Lou-Ann and Family,
I wanted to take a moment to express my sincerest empathy for what you're going through and the loss you've suffered. It is during times like these that you need friends and family the most, so please know that I am here for you and that you and your family are in my thoughts.
Jennifer Robinson
Tracy New
November 20, 2008
Lou-Ann and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss.
Robin Squirrel
November 20, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jennifer Mayo
November 20, 2008
Lou-Ann and Christi,
You are both in our daily thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Jen and Rob
Susan Blake
November 20, 2008
Lou Ann, I was so saddened to hear of Dave's passing. I only met him the one time in person, but felt like I knew him from your wonderful stories of your fun times together, riding bikes, cooking, competing in your weight loss and sharing the love of your little granddaughter. I know you have lost the love of your life and my heart goes out to you. Please extend my sympathy and prayers to your family--you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
- Susan
Jennifer Murphy
November 20, 2008
Dearest Lou Ann,
I am so sorry for your loss. We will be there for you with anything you need.
Love,
Keith & Jenn Murphy
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