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Ruby E. Gravely VIRGINIA BEACH - Ruby Elliott Gravely, 94, passed away at her residence Jan. 13, 2009. Born to the late George and Cora Elliott of Rich Square, N.C., she moved to Norfolk and graduated from Maury High School in 1933. In 1938, she married the late Wilbur A. Gravely, and their union lasted 63 years. In 1972, they moved to Virginia Beach where they became active members of First Baptist Church. She was a member of the Princess Anne Women's Club and her local garden club. She is survived by a son and two daughters, William Gravely and wife Pat of Culpeper, Va., Donna Hartley and husband Doug of Tiburon, Calif., and Diane Gravely of Virginia Beach. She is also survived by two grandchildren, Todd Gravely and his wife Melissa, Lisa and her husband Byron, all of Richmond, Va.; and one sister of Virginia Beach. Her joy in later years became her five great-grandchildren, Will, Ben, Matthew, Ruby and Sofia. She was also preceded in death by one brother and four sisters. The funeral will be held in Woodlawn Funeral Home, 6329 E. Virginia Beach Blvd., Norfolk, Saturday at 11:30 a.m. with Pastor Jay Smith presiding. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy can be made to your favorite charity in her honor. Condolences may be offered to the family online at www.woodlawngroup.com.



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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jan. 15, 2009.

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Nina Russell-Buffington

February 3, 2009

Pat,
So sorry to read about the passing of your mother-in-law. You were my fourth grade teacher at Occoquan Elementary School. May God continue to bless you and your husband and ease your heartache during your bereavement.

Kristen Privett

January 15, 2009

Dear Lisa and family,
Having only been around Ruby a few times, but I remember her as a class-act, witty and a genuinely caring lady. I know nothing I can say will make this time any easier, but I send hugs to you ALL during this difficult time.
Love,
Kristen

Lisa Smith

January 14, 2009

Dear Bill, Diane and Donna,
I will always remember your Mom as the neighbor with a kind word and friendly smile and laugh as we talked so many times over the years. I've missed seeing her walk by the house on her morning jaunt, in any sort of weather. I will only have the fondest memories of your Mom. Peace to each of you, family and friends, as you recall the years and years of having Ruby in your lives.

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