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Lillian McCants Obituary

Lillian H. McCants VIRGINIA BEACH - Lillian H. McCants, 104, went to be with the Lord Jan. 25, 2009. She was born Jan. 24, 1905, in Gates County, North Carolina, the daughter of the late Robert J. and Estelle B. Hare. She was a member of Baylake United Methodist Church. Lillian was preceded in death by her loving husband of 39 years, Rudolph C. McCants Sr. and son, Rudolph C. McCants Jr. Lillian was a beautiful and gracious lady. She loved her family deeply and will be missed by all. Left to cherish her memory are her daughter, Carlyn McCants Stevenson and husband Kendall of Virginia Beach; son, Donald Glenn McCants and wife Jacki of Glen Allen, Va.; granddaughters, Glenna M. Spradlin and husband David of Atlanta and Victoria M. Keranen of Indiana; grandsons, David K. Stevenson and wife Jean of Virginia Beach, Ronald K. McCants and wife Laura of Portsmouth, Donald G. McCants Jr. and wife Kelly of Richmond and Matthew R. McCants and wife Rachel of Richmond; 10 great-grandchildren and other loving family members. A funeral will be held Wednesday at 2 p.m. in Rosewood - Kellum Funeral Home, Virginia Beach, with a private burial in Greenlawn Memorial Gardens, Portsmouth. The family will receive friends in the funeral home today from 7 to 8 p.m. The family would like to offer a special thanks to all of the employees of Sentara Village for their exceptional and compassionate care and also their gratitude to the Sentara Hospice Program for their loving care. Memorials may be made to the charity of your choice or the Sentara Hospice Program in Lillian's name. You may offer condolences to the family at www.mem.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jan. 27, 2009.

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Gayle Benefield

February 26, 2009

Although I was not able to spend much time in her company, it was wonderful being able to meet with her and other family members in Edenton, NC. We spent an afternoon discussing genealogy. She was a remarkable lady. (Ernestine's Daughter)

Jean Stevenson

January 28, 2009

I will always remember "Gammy" with a smile. She opened her heart to me and to my children as her own and we loved her as though we knew her our entire life. She was above all a friend to me as we shared so much about our lives with one another. I am so thankful for having had the opportunity to be close to her. Her 104th Birthday will always remain special to me. She asked me if it was Saturday and I told her it was and it was her Birthday. To that she smiled and asked me how the family was. She always wanted to know how everyone was.
I will miss her dearly but with great love and respect for a woman who lived a life that was worthly of an eternity with the angels.

Kendall Stevenson

January 28, 2009

Mom..You are to me, not my Mother
in law, but my mother. Having been
with you since I was 15 yrs old, makes it so. I will always remember
your love for me, and cherish all the
other memories.
Kendall

Elaine Doughty Burkhart

January 27, 2009

My dear Aunt Lillian, the one to help me feel a touch of my own mother's "hands". I will forever treasure every moment spent with her, be grateful to her for all the family treasured history memories, her deep & special love, I know she had for me, & for "just being there, at all times".

Carlyn, Ken, & my dear relatives, we will grieve together for now, but we will find laughter in the days & years ahead as we reminisce & share our special times together w/this amazing women. I will not forget her saying to Carlyn, when told on Sat., "Mom, today is your 104th. birthday", & the reply back, "Not another one".

She gave life & hope to those who knew her, her mind remained sharp, she lived a good life.

THELMA BURNS-BYNUM

January 27, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Karen Pearson

January 27, 2009

I am very sorry to hear about Mrs McCants passing. I know she lived a very full life and was adored by her family. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Matthew McCants

January 27, 2009

Grandma,
We love you & we will miss you. Our family will not be the same without you. Rest in peace.
Love,
Matthew

David Stevenson

January 27, 2009

I've always known her as "Mom", and she has always been a wonderful grandmother and the center of the family. Mom always devoted her life to family and to caring for others. As her former pastor, Ted David, said "She lived every day of her life to the fullest". I have no doubt that she still will. She was determined to reach her 104th birthday and made that known at a celebration in her room last Saturday. May her memory live always.

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