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Anne Friedman Obituary

Anne A. Friedman NORFOLK - Anne Altenhaus Friedman, 79, passed away Jan. 30, after a short illness. Anne was predeceased by her husband of 53 years, Thomas and her parents, Isaac and Pepi Altenhaus of Antwerp, Belgium. Anne is survived by her four sons, Barry and his wife Linda Peck, Brian and his wife Ingeresa, Bruce and Emily and Bobby; and her six grandchildren, Neal, Cole, Sarah, Rachel, Elli and Ethan. She also leaves behind her dear younger sister, Mina and her husband Norman; as well as many relatives and friends who will always miss her infectious humor, personality and smile. Anne retired after more than 20 years with Virginia Beach Social Services, but her favorite job was raising and treasuring her children and grandchildren. Anne was a survivor of the Holocaust who lost her parents at an early age. Despite this tragedy, she had a positive outlook on life and was always grateful for the gift of life and family. She gave freely of her time educating others about the tragedies she and her sister experienced by speaking to countless schoolchildren over the last 30 years. Anne recorded her story in her memoir, "My Name is Anne Too." Arriving with her sister in 1946 as an orphan, who spoke not a word of English, Anne quickly adapted to her new country and forged a remarkable life that speaks for itself. Anne may have given birth to four boys, but through her loving and kind spirit she was a mom to many. Services will be held Sunday at 2 p.m. in Ohef Sholom Temple, 530 Raleigh Ave., Norfolk. The burial will follow at Bnai Israel Cemetery on Cromwell Road. The family will sit Shiva at the home of Barry and Linda, 5612 Shenandoah Ave., Norfolk. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Anne's honor may be directed to the Holocaust Commission, 5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200, Virginia Beach, VA 23462-4370 or to the charity of your choice. H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Norfolk Chapel, is handling arrangements. Online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jan. 31, 2009.

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Marilyn Tuccillo

February 15, 2009

I was lucky to have known your Mother for 22yr. Not only did I do her hair, she was my dear friend. I will miss her deeply.You will all be in my prayers..........her Family was her life..........she loved you all so much.

LynneDee and Allan Weiman

February 2, 2009

Dear Barry, Bruce, Brian, Bobby and family,

We were so sorry to hear about the passing of cousin Anne. She was a wonderful, loving woman and our hearts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
All our love,

Terri Colby Barr

February 2, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your lovely, spirited mother. She was a bright light and a wonderful lady. My condolences to all of you at this time of sorrow. I'm sorry I am so far away and cannot come to see you during shiva.

Julie Resh

February 1, 2009

Our condolences to Anne's family. Anne was a wonderful, caring friend who was loved, and will be missed.
Julie, Robert & Janet Resh

Rev. Michael Smith

February 1, 2009

May the grace of God be with the family in the time of their sorrow.

Lyle Weiser

February 1, 2009

We share in the loss of a sweet lady whom we loved. Our Auntie Anne.

Our heartfelt condolescences go out to Barry, Brian, Bruce and Bobby and their families.

Laura and Lyle Weiser

Beth Tompkins

January 31, 2009

My Other Brothers: For the past 21 years I have had the privelage to call your mother "Mom". Never was there a more loving and kind woman. The love we shared has always made me feel blessed to have had her a part of my life. You are in my thoughts, my prayers and my heart.

Suzi Stevens

January 31, 2009

My husband and I offer our condolences to the boys, their families and Anne's sister and her husband. Anne's bright spirit and outlook on life is her legacy to all who were privileged to have known her.

Martha Moxley

January 31, 2009

Anne was a mall walker where I met her. I enjoyed being her friend for many years and will miss her deeply.

Love,
Martha Moxley

Martha Lee Cash

January 31, 2009

Dear Barry, Brian, Bruce, and Bobby,
and to all of Anne's dear family,
I am lifting you all up in prayer asking our Dear Lord to comfort you during this most difficult time in your lives. Anne has meant so very much to me--she was one of my dearest friends at Social Services and the memories go quite deep. I, too, will miss her humor and sincere love. May God grant all of you courage and strength as you face the coming days and may your recollection of the many wonderful things your mother did during her lifetime keep you encouraged.
Love from a friend,
Martha Lee Cash

Jeffrey Lefcoe

January 31, 2009

I don't see much of the boys or Linda these days as I live in Durham but my best wishes go out to the family. Enjoy the memories for they are the sweetness, not a day goes by I don't think a lovely thought of my mother who passed away over 20 years ago.

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