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Mary Throup Obituary


Mary Ann Throup
formerly of
Apalachin, N.Y.
Mary Ann Throup passed away Saturday, October 11th, at Wilson Hospital after suffering a long illness. She is survived by her husband, Edward; daughter, Nancy; and son, Timothy along with his wife, Lesley and children, Melissa, Mackenzie and Thomas. She is also survived by her brother, George Nagorny. Mary Ann grew up in Oakland, Pa., went to college at Harpur and received her undergraduate, masters and doctorate in economics from Binghamton University. She taught economics at Broome Community College and Marywood University. She was one of the founding members of the Park Terrace Community Methodist Church and was very involved there for many years. In her retirement years she lived in Florida and in New York State. She spent most of her time volunteering for charity groups. She and Ed had wonderful memories of traveling in the U.S.A. and Europe.
There will be calling hours at Park Terrace Community Methodist Church, Apalachin, on Friday, October 17, 2008 at 10:00 a.m. followed by a memorial service at 11:00 a.m. Donations can be made to the Arthritis Foundation, P.O. Box 96280, Washington D.C. 20077.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Oct. 15 to Oct. 16, 2008.

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Pam Brayton

November 4, 2008

Hello. I had Ms (Dr? it seems?) Throup as a professor at BCC. i just wanted you to know that she was one of the first people in my young adult life that really made a difference for me. i was an angry, nuetral teenager who had no interest in being at BCC or had any belief that i had anything that special to offer or receive. And in something that doesnt happen very often in college, Ms Throup took extra time to be interested in me, convinced me to be a tutor, helped me to believe i was talented and gave me a whole new insight to what was going on around me. she was warm, caring, smart, happy, and was so truly interested in everything. i used to think "why is this lady so HAPPY?" she truly gave me a new outlook, and new confidence. she was one of the few special people from that very important time in my life. i thought you'd like to know that about her.

Barbara Wilber

October 22, 2008

Dear Ed,
I was very sad to hear about Mary Ann going home. Lisa just called me at work. I can't seem to find your phone #, so please call me @642-8808 or work is 754-7900 X350.

October 17, 2008

Dear Ed and Family,

We are so saddened to learn of Mary Ann's passing. She achieved many accomplishments and gave of herself to many,along with her enthusiasm and always with a smile. We have fond memories as neighbors in the Terrace and attending all those VHS football and track events.

With All our Sympathy,
Ken & Deanna Inman, Bradenton, Fl.

Don Dunham

October 17, 2008

When I began teaching at BCC twenty-three years ago, Mary Ann made me feel welcome. I will always be grateful for her support and encouragement. May God bless her.

Patricia Seketa

October 16, 2008

I was very sorry to hear of Mrs. Throup's passing. I had her for economics at BCC, more years ago than I care to remember but she made it most enjoyable, and left an indelible impression upon me.

Jim & Nancy Riley

October 16, 2008

Ed & Family
We were sorry to hear of your loss. Mary Ann was a very special person. God Bless you and your family during this time.

alan

October 16, 2008

It’s difficult for me to separate Mary Ann from Ed. They were together when I first met them and I can scarcely recall ever seeing one without the other. Ed and Mary Ann, that’s just the way it is. Physical presence alone can not separate a union as strong as the one they together forged.

I was a long haired high school junior, athletic but not an athlete, an average student, a little rough around the edges. In many respects, almost the exact opposite of Tim. But we became fast friends during our junior year at Vestal HS. Most parents would have cringed if they saw me walking up the driveway but not Ed and Mary Ann. They opened up their home and their hearts. In a time of my life when I needed security and stability they provided it. Their kindness and generosity was boundless and without reservation. I felt safe and loved in their home as I’m sure everyone that has ever been there has.

My most endearing memory of Mary Ann was how she used to make lunch for us when we’d take the boat (The Mary Ann) to the river for a day of water skiing. She’d take an entire loaf of Wonder Bread and make bologna sandwiches. Two slices of bread, a little mayo, one slice of bologna (she was an economist after all), and she’d put them all back in the original plastic bread bag. Tim, me, Jim, Barry, Ray, Marty would eat those sandwiches all afternoon. They tasted wonderful to us.

I am so very glad that I was able to share just a little bit of this extraordinary woman’s life. My sincere condolences go out to the entire family.

If it’s any help, I will offer this to you Tim and you Nancy; as the son of a remarkable mother that is now gone, I can tell you that the day will come when your thoughts of her will bring nothing but warmth and joy. She gave you so much when she was alive and she gives still. You’ll find you have an inner strength and peace that you didn’t know you had. Your mom gave it to you, and although it may be her final gift to you, it will be with you always.

October 16, 2008

Mary Ann was such a blessing to know and to have her in the choir was always a pleasure. I have many good memories of her wit and helpfulness during my time at Park Terrace.
Ed, the two of you meant a great deal to us and our lives were certainly enriched by knowing both of you.
Lewis and Barbara Hoffer

Ed and Linda Gibel

October 16, 2008

Dear Ed,
We feel honored to have known Mary Ann; she was such a dear and wonderful person. Take comfort in knowing she's now happy and healthy in Heaven where we will all look forward to seeing her again someday. God bless you.
With love, Ed and Linda

MARLENE DANIELOWICZ

October 15, 2008

DEAR ED,
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN AT THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME IN YOUR LIVES. MARY ANN WAS A JOY TO HAVE KNOWN; A VERY SWEET AND CARING PERSON. SHE WILL CERTAINLY BE MISSED.
GOD BLESS,
JOHN & MARLENE DANIELOWICZ

Carol and Jim Ryan

October 15, 2008

Dearest Ed,
Our deepest sympahy on your loss of Mary Ann. Remember our spouses are a great tribute to who we are. She has left you and many, many others with a great legacy.

Clem & Marge Stiving

October 15, 2008

Ed and Family
Sorry we had to receive the saddening news of your wife and mother Mary Ann's death. Marge and I want you to know we feel deep sorrow that this inevitable life event had to happen to Mary Ann. We hope this message will help in the celebration of Mary Ann Throup's Life. Marge and I will certainly pray for you and may God bless all of you.

Jane Wolfram

October 15, 2008

My thoughs and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. God Bless you All.

Dick Yale

October 15, 2008

Ed & Family:

Sincere condolences for your loss. Mary Ann was very helpful to our daughter, Jackie, in her Economics Class in Broome, when we lived in Apalachin and attended Park Terrace.

Best Regards, Dick & Nancy Yale

Bryant and Audrey Hudson

October 15, 2008

Dear Ed,
This is a very difficult time for you and we are saddened by Mary Ann's passing. We know she is in a good place and that God is putting her to work even now. She was a great support to us in our ministry at Park Terrace, as were you. Thank you for all you have done and we thank Mary Ann in absentia for all she has done, especially for being good friends to all who know you, especially us.
God be with you,
Bryant and Audrey Hudson

Renae Current

October 15, 2008

Ed,

So sorry to hear of your loss. I have so many memories growing up with you and Mary Ann at Park Terrace. All the pancake breakfasts and chicken bbq's...and I will never forget washing the windows at your house!! What wonderful role models we had with you both.

Len & Carol Shellhammer

October 15, 2008

Ed & family> we are so sorry to hear of your beloved passing. We have memories of all the senior proms and how Mary Ann liked to dance etc. We will keep all of you in our prayers for months to come.

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