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Thomas Haen Obituary
Thomas C. Haen
of Binghamton
Thomas C. Haen, 63, of Binghamton, died unexpectedly Friday evening at Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital. He was predeceased by his parents, Irvin and Anita Haen; and his nephew, Kevin Loftus. He is survived by his loving wife, Donna (Flynn) Haen, Binghamton; two children, Tammy Thompson and her fiance, John Sponable, Endwell, and Tommy Haen, Syracuse; four stepchildren, Kelly and Jacob Potak, Fox Island, Wash., Pamela Flynn-Smart, Owings Mills, Md., Megan and Bryan Ferkol, Buford, Ga., James Flynn, Akron, Ohio; his granddaughter, Natasha Thompson, whom he treasured; two special stepgranddaughters, Alexandra and Sophia Potak; two sisters and brothers-in-law, Patricia and Thomas Ahern, Scranton, Pa., Donna and Michael Stuchlak, Archbald, Pa.; three nephews, Brian and Alisa Loftus, Nazareth, Pa., Michael and Nicholas Stuchlak, Archbald, Pa.; a great-niece and nephew, Amelia and Brandon Loftus, Nazareth, Pa.; also several cousins. He was a member of St. Christopher's Church and was an usher for many years. He was a graduate of the University of Scranton. He worked for the New York State Department of Education as a Senior Rehabilitation Counselor at VESID and BOCES. Tom was a dedicated volunteer at Our Lady of Lourdes Hospice. He was an avid walker at Otsiningo Park and Port Dickinson Park. Tom was a true gentleman to everyone he met. He always put the needs of others ahead of his own. Tom will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
A Memorial Mass will be said Wednesday at 10 a.m. at St. Christopher's Church. The family will receive friends at the J.A. McCormack Sons Funeral Home, 141 Main Street, Binghamton, Tuesday, from 4 to 7 p.m. Expressions of sympathy in Tom's memory may be made to Our Lady of Lourdes Hospice Program, 4102 Old Vestal Rd., Vestal, N.Y. 13850.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Haen
laura vlosky
November 20, 2007
"Life goes on, though good men die. Life goes on, I forget just why."
John Sponable
November 18, 2007
Say not in grief that he is no more,
but say in thankfulness that he was.
A death is not the extinguishing of a light,
but the putting out of the lamp because the dawn has come.
THERESA KULESA
November 15, 2007
Judy,
Thank you for all the many years of great memories. Tommy was a great brother-in-law and friend over the years. Deeply saddened by this sudden loss. Together you both are responsible for the 3 loves of his life. He talked of them always with great joy!!! Tommy Jr, Tammy, & Natasha will carry on all his great attributes and that great welcoming smile!
Love your sister
Greg & Veronica Palmeter
November 14, 2007
Tom,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. We just heard today and apologize for not being at the services. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jan Houseknecht
November 14, 2007
Donna,
I am so very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I will hold you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Kathy Clark
November 14, 2007
Many people pass through our lives, but only few make a lasting impression. Tom was one who made an impression on my life. I knew Tom as a co-worker through NYS VESID. His humor and resourcefulness was a welcome addition to the workplace. I will always remember his smile and willingness to help others....my deepest condolences to his family and friends.
Robert Waffle
November 13, 2007
Sorry to hear of Tom's passing, he was a very nice gentleman and a great compliment to Donna. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at this time.
Deb Sponable
November 13, 2007
To Donna, Tammy, Tom, Natasha, and John--
Warmth, compassion, an eagerness to look after others, and smiles are Tom's legacy to the world, and he has passed them down to you. I will always remember him in the living room making others comfortable with his laughter and gentle presence.
Know that there are so many who are holding you deep in their hearts during this difficult time. With love always.
Rochelle Klieger
November 13, 2007
Donna,
We were saddened to hear of your loss. Tom was such a gentleman and we enjoyed meeting the two of you and hearing your stories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rochelle & Karen
Laura Murphy
November 13, 2007
To the family of Tom Haen,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of a truly wonderful man. Our family has all had the pleasure to know Tom. He always had a smile and a friendly word for everyone. He is a true gem and one of a kind. He will be greatly missed by all and we will especially miss seeing him at St.Christopher's.
Dick and Judy Murphy
Kevin and Laura Murphy
Kelly Rainboth
November 13, 2007
John Tammy and Girls....My prayers are with you. I was shocked to hear about your loss. I know how much he meant to you and how much your going to miss him.
Sprague Rient
November 12, 2007
It is very rare to find a person with such kindness and selflessness in his soul as Tom had. He was a complete gentleman. I am privlidged to have known him.
Lisa Bierre & family
November 12, 2007
Tammy, Natasha, and Donna,
We were saddened to hear of your loss. We enjoyed meeting Tom and know how much you all loved him. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you all during this time.
Kathi Bailey
November 12, 2007
Donna and family, I am stunned to hear of Tom's passing. I knew Tom through NYS employment, St. Christopher's and of course, the way he could walk circles around me at Otsiningo Park. He could power a small town with his energy. His smile and kind heart will be missed. My heart goes out to you Donna, I know that he IS the love of your life. Something I heard from someone just a few days ago, "ALWAYS BLESSINGS, NEVER LOSSES"; may that keep a smile on your face and love in your heart every day and especially through this very difficult time.
Kristy Hubbert
November 12, 2007
Tammy and family,
I am sorry to hear about your loss, my prayers are with you and your family.
Annie and Chris Layton
November 12, 2007
Although we only had the pleasure to know him for a few years, Tom was truly one of the most kind and gentle men we have met. With his constant smile and gentle disposition, he had a way of making people feel at ease. Most importantly, we witnessed the joy he brought to my Aunt Donna's life and to have seen that was truly special. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Aunt Donna and all of Tom's family and loved ones. He will be missed and remembered.
Pammy Flynn
November 12, 2007
Tom was one of the gentlest and kindest men I have ever known. He made my mother happier than I have ever seen her, and I feel very grateful to have been able to call him a friend and stepfather. He will be missed by all who were lucky enough to have known him.
Kathleen Ruddy
November 12, 2007
To all of Tom's family I would like to express my sympathy. I have know Tom since we were kids on Pittston Avenue.
Kathleen O'Donnell Ruddy
Alexia Vlosky
November 12, 2007
Tom was truly one of the kindest people I have known. He brought so much happiness to my Aunt Donna over the last few years and for that, I will always be grateful. Tom will be missed dearly by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family.
Julie Vlosky
November 12, 2007
Tom was a wonderful person. I am glad I was given the chance to know him. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family especially his children and wife. Aunt Donna I am thinking of you and love you.
Michele, Andy & Sarah Munson
November 12, 2007
I am so sorry to here of Tom's passing. I just saw him last week at the harvest dinner. He always had a smile on his face!
Tom always talked to my husband,daugher and I. The world lost a true gentleman. He will truly missed at St.Christophers.
Your family is in our Prayers.
WOODLAND DENTAL
November 12, 2007
TOM WAS A WONDERFUL MAN! HE WILL BE TRULY MISSED! FROM ALL OF US AT WOODLAND DENTAL!
Barbara Sponable
November 12, 2007
What a shock it was to learn that Tom will no longer be with us! I pray that God will comfort Donna, Tammy, Tom and Natasha, as well as the rest of the family. He made a difference in the world, and his smile was a special one! I know the memories you have will be cherished! He will be missed!
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