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Helen Kay Obituary

KAY, HELEN B., (CORBETT) 73, of Linden Road, Barrington, passed away unexpectedly at Lancaster General Hospital, Lancaster, Pa., on Saturday, August 9, 2008. She was the beloved wife of the late F. Roy Kay, Jr., to whom she was married for fifty years.

Born in Philadelphia on November 17, 1934, Mrs. Kay was the daughter of the late William J. and Helen B. (Drain) Corbett, she lived in Barrington for 32 years.

Helen was the bookkeeper and office manager at Cain and Divver Insurance Company in Pawtucket, R.I. through 1997 when she retired. She was a communicant of St. Luke Church in Barrington, and a member of the Rumstick Rollers Bowling League.

She is survived by four daughters, Helen K. Gelinas, and her husband George, of Pliezhausen, Germany; Sharon K. Messore, and her husband, Michael, of Barrington; Susan K. Pendleton, and her husband, Craig, of Saco, Maine; and Jennifer K. Anchukaitis, and her husband, Mark; twelve grandchildren, and by a brother, John H. Corbett, of Cheltenham, Pa. She was predeceased by two brothers, William J. Corbett, Jr., of Lancaster, Pa., and Leo F. Corbett, of Glenside, Pa. She was also the grandmother of the late Christopher J. Messore.

Her funeral will be held on Saturday, August 16, from the W. RAYMOND WATSON FUNER AL HOME, 350 Willett Avenue, Riverside, at 8:45 with a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Luke's Church, Washington Road, Barrington, at 10 A.M. Burial will follow at Swan Point Cemetery, Blackstone Blvd., Providence.

Calling hours are Friday, from 5 to 8 P.M. Flowers are respectfully omitted. Contributions in Helen's memory to the American Multiple Sclerosis Society, 205 Hallene Road, Suite 209, Warwick, RI 02886 would be deeply appreciated.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Aug. 14, 2008.

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Margaret Jenkins

August 19, 2008

Helen, Sharon, Susan and Jennifer,
I have just found your Mother's obituary on the internet and I still read it with disbelief. How I will miss her Christmas cards with news of the family. How I will miss her. I was so glad to have had her for a friend in my life, and memories of her with your lovely family in Lancaster will always be dear to me. I feel such sorrow for the loss and such sorrow for the pain that I know you bear. God bless and comfort each of you. With love,

Dave Anderson

August 19, 2008

Dear Jennifer, Susan, Sharon & Helen,

I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I remember her fondly as she was always so good to me on my visits to the Kay household. I will always remember her smile, her great sense of humor and what a great cook she was. No home was more inviting than yours after your mom had been cooking. I cherish my memories of my time spent with you all and with your mom and dad.

My thougths and sympathies are with you and your families.

With Love and Sympathy,

Dave Anderson

Peter O Donoghue

August 16, 2008

I was saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Helen, I was privileged to have come to know Helen within the last year. Praying that her family who loved her dearly will be comforted. Peter

Nancy Garnett-Thomas

August 16, 2008

Sharon and Mike,
You know my heart goes out to you. Neale and I are always available if you need us. Sharon, since you were mom's "3rd daughter", that makes you my 2nd sister you know!!!

Pat Grattan

August 14, 2008

Dear Friends,
I know the Messore and Anchukaitis families from St. Luke's Religious Education, but to all I extend my sincere sympathy and offer prayers from my heart. I lost my own dear mother a few months ago; and so I feel deeply your pain, especially since it was so unexpected. She was a vibrant and lovely lady, and our community will miss her. God bless you all in the days to come and may He especially embrace her grandchildren.

Diane Mace

August 14, 2008

Susan,
I am so sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. Please accept my deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Wendy Frisch

August 14, 2008

Sharon,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I was shocked when Laura called me. Your mother was so vibrant. I am very, very sorry for you. It is so hard to lose one's mother. I am thinking of you and wish I could be there for you.
Love, Wendy

Gale Divver

August 14, 2008

Helen Ann, Sharon, Susan & Jennifer,
My heart is broken knowing the depth of your loss. I loved your mom and we spend so much time together at work. I was able to spend 2-3 hrs with your mom in Dec. when I was home. She missed your dad so much! but they are now together. Cherish your large family - she was SO proud of you all. I wish I could be there to share my hugs, but know I'm thinking of you all. Love, Gale

Mike and Linda Medeiros

August 14, 2008

We are very sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved Mother. She was a very caring and thoughtful woman. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Take care girls.

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