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Lauren and John Galoski
November 9, 2008
Dear Barbara and John,
We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Words cannot express how sorry we are for the loss of John. May all your wonderful memories help you through in the days ahead. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Lauren and John
Aunt Helene&Uncle Joe Gordon
November 9, 2008
Dear Barbara and John,
We pray daily for both of you as well as Joy during this very sad time in your lives. John is your very special angel in heaven now. May God and all your happy memories of John give you strength in the days ahead.
All Our Love,Aunt Helene & Uncle Joe
With a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye
November 9, 2008
MaryAnn & Tom Thurber
November 8, 2008
Dear Barbara and John,
Not a day goes by that both of you and Joy and John are not in our thoughts and prayers. More wonderful parents you could not have been; the son you raised proved that. Though his time here was far too short, the impact he made was great because he cared so much about others. While some of the hopes and dreams you had will never come to pass, may you always find comfort in all of those that have and the joy of having had John in your lives. The love you all shared was truly a blessing. Remember that you are never alone; John is watching over you from above and we will be here for you always. Most importantly, in the difficult days ahead, take care of each other.
We Love You, Mare & Tom
David Serradas
October 29, 2008
John was a very special person, he had the rare ability to make anyone he met feel welcomed and appreciated. Many of us looked up to him as a leader, mentor, and friend. Personally he played a very positive part in my development at Florida Tech and I will never forget him for that. He was always there to help out in the good times and bad. I, like all the other members of Theta Xi (GBE) were truly lucky to have him as a brother.
Laura Golden
October 27, 2008
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I didn't know John well in college, but the times that I did hang out with him were always great. He will be missed.
Josie Santos
October 24, 2008
Dear Joy and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. May God be with you in your deepest time of need.
Betty Ann Marcello
October 23, 2008
Dear Barbara and John, I just learned of the passing of your dearest son John. He was such a treasure in your lives,always making you so proud of the wonderful things he could do. I remember how much he loved you both -so, so much-a wonderful family.I have missed you in my life Barbara and will pray for you each day.
Courtney was married Oct, 12th so that is why I did not know of the service and I am so sorry about that.
May God hold your hands each and every day and bring you some peace now and forever.
Patrick Furlow
October 23, 2008
I met John Freshman year of college at Florida Tech. He was a good friend, and was always a good person to be around. I'll remember him from the Theta Xi parties (good times) and hanging at the Sub for so many lunches. I know he is in a better place and may he rest in peace...we will all miss you Cags.
Tammy DeSanto
October 22, 2008
I met John and Joy while visiting my son at FIT. When My son told me of his passing I could only remember the fun we all had. Joy I know how hard it will be, but always remember you will be together again. God will watch over you and your families along with John himself. My Love Prayers and Thoughts are with all of
you.
Rene' Brown
October 21, 2008
John was the first person I met as a 24 hour visiting student at FIT. He helped me to let my hair down and to enjoy campus life. He left a trail of smiles everywhere he went. We briefly worked together at FMU a few years down the road...and he was still the same fun loving guy. This world has experienced a great loss. You will be missed, John.
Sean Simpson
October 20, 2008
Although I never knew john at Hendricken, I had looked forward to hanging out with him and mike every time I went down to visit my sister before college. Through my brief experience at FIT and TX, John and joy were like extended family to me and I will miss him.
Best Wishes
-Sean Simpson
William Riolo
October 19, 2008
I was so saddened to hear the news about John. He was a good man, and will be missed. He will forever live on in the minds and hearts of the people that he touched.
David Mcginnn
October 18, 2008
Mr and Mrs Calcagni, I am so very sorry to hear about john. As you know he was one of my best and closest friends growing up in Cranston. He was truly a dear friend to me. I will miss him very much. We had some tremendous times that i will NEVER forget.
Cordially,
David McGinn
Brenda and Richard Lynch
October 17, 2008
Dear John, Barbara and Family,
We were so very sorry to hear about Johnny. My memories of him I shall alway hold in my heart so dear and very precious. Johnny was always such a good boy, so thoughtful, kind and considerate of others. I still see little Johnny coming into our office and he always had a way about him that would make people smile. I pray that God will comfort you all with special memories. I know in honor of Johnny so many, have become better people because of him. We will be thankful that we had some time with Johnny. We loved him and will always hold him in our hearts. God bless you John, Barbara, Joy, Pauline and Ray.
You are all in our hearts and prayers.
Love, Brenda and Richard Lynch
Debby Davis
October 16, 2008
Barbara-Ann & John
We were so sorry to hear about John passing away. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love Debby & Roby Davis-Uncle Paul's daughter
Andrew Stanton
October 16, 2008
John, you were a great friend and brother you will be missed.
Ann Quinn
October 16, 2008
Barbara & the Calcagni Family
I am very sorry for your lost
Chris Hanson
October 16, 2008
John,
You were my best friend for the last 12 years. I would not be where I am today if it hadn't been for you. You always made sure I didn't take myself to seriously. You also showed me I had strength I didn't know I had. It was the kind of strength that got me through my times in the war-zone. This and your friendship was your gift to me, of which, I can never fully repay. I miss you big brother.
YITB,
Chris Hanson
GBE286
Kim Ackerman
October 15, 2008
I too met John & Joy when I first arrived at Florida Tech in August of 1997. Upon graduation I remained in Melbourne and was fortunate to still see the two of them when they brought their dog Lady into the veterinarian’s office where I worked. I could reiterate all the things everyone has posted thus far, but simply put, a wonderful young man was taken far too soon and will be greatly missed by many. Time passes and people drift apart but they always leave an impression on your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. God Bless.
george wesolowski
October 15, 2008
Barbara-Ann and John
Our thoughts and prays are with you
God bless John Francis
George, Pattie, Stosh, Eric and Rachel Wesolowski
Donna DelFiore
October 15, 2008
Dear Barbara and John:
Please know that you are in my prayers. I was shocked to hear of Johnny's death. Using my husband's words when we almost lost Paula 3 yrs. ago to brain anurysum, " God needed him more in Heaven than we all needed Him here". I can not find words that woul even try to console you. May God walk you trough this grief, talk to your son, and you may find some moments of peace. With sincere sympathy and affection.
Donna and Jim
Kathy Beaulieu
October 15, 2008
John, Barbara and Joy,
Andrew and I are so sorry for your loss. Reading this guest book we know that John was an exceptional young man. Please know that we were once in the same place you are. We lost our son and he left a beautiful young wife. If you would like to talk (or re-kindle an OLD relationship)...let me explain, Barbara and I shared a hospital room in August 1977. We stayed in touch for a few years and I would love to get back in touch and talk. It would probably be good for BOTH of us.
Please know that you are ALL in our daily prayers and we are truly here if you need anything.
May God bless you and walk beside you every step you take.
Ken & Gale Lussier
October 15, 2008
John, Barbara, and family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time.
Claire Surrey
October 15, 2008
Oh Joy, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts.
Adele Goss
October 14, 2008
To the beloved parents and wife of John Francis.
"There is no grief like the grief that does not speak."
Henrey Wadsworth Longfellow
There are no words for the depth
of pain you feel. I too share your grief.
With love, Adele
Cari Chism
October 14, 2008
Joy
My time spent at Florida Tech and in Melbourne would have definitely been different had it not been for you and John. You are amazing friends. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jan Bailey
October 14, 2008
John, my heart goes out to you and your family. I have no words to express my shock and sorrow at this tremendous loss. Bless your hearts.
Arlie McMillan
October 14, 2008
John was without a doubt the most influential brother and friend that I had the privilege of meeting while I attended FIT. To Joy and the family John left behind, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I’m sure the deep sympathy of your loss cannot be expressed in words.
Josh Reef
October 14, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to Joy and the entire Calcagni family. I am so sorry for your loss. John was a great brother and friend. He touched everyone around him and never asked for anything in return. John, you will be truly missed.
Scott Lindner
October 14, 2008
John was the first face to greet me at Florida Tech: He helped me move into my dorm room as part of Greek Move-In. Even in carrying *my* stuff among the masses in Roberts Hall, he did it was a smile and a laugh. Nearly every other memory with John was the same. A smile and a laugh.
John was a good man, a good friend, and a good brother. And this is clearly evidenced by the overwhelming response of everyone at this tragedy. My condolences to all his family, and to all his loved ones.
-Scott Lindner
GBE307
erin Kennedy Forrester
October 14, 2008
Joy, My thoughts are with you. May God and your Family help you through this difficult time.
Mike Mowry
October 13, 2008
To Joy and all of John's family,
All that I can really say is that I am very sorry for your loss. John was a amazing friend and brother. The world will not be the same without him spreading his joy and love of life to all lucky people that crossed his path. I loved John and will miss him greatly.
Chris Ward
October 13, 2008
John was one of the most devoted Theta Xi brothers I knew at Florida Tech. He always brought a lot of energy and fun to whatever he did. He was a loyal friend who will be sorely missed. Joy and the Calcagni family, you are in my thoughts.
Meghan (Mara) Vitale
October 13, 2008
To the Calcagni Family and Joy,
Although it’s been a few years, I still remember my days of driver’s ed with John. He was always making me laugh, which was hard to do given the early hour in the morning those classes were held. His smile was truly contagious. How lucky was I to have known such a great boy, who grew up to be such a wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Chris Porter
October 12, 2008
joy and johns family,
I am still at a loss of words. It is not often that I lose a friend. Although I only met john recently he had in instant spot as one of my friends. The times we had were few but cherished. I will miss him. Joy, stay strong. Remember that we are here for you. Please do not hesitate to call if you need anything at all.
Joan and Peter Hodosh
October 12, 2008
Dear John and Barbara,
Although we did not know John as a grown man, we remember the beautiful little boy that he was and how much happiness that he brought into your lives. We are shocked and deeply saddened by your loss. May God be with and bless you through these difficult times.
Robyn (Whitton) Meckel
October 12, 2008
I feel very lucky to have been able to call John one of my friends. I will always treasure our times at Florida Tech, especially our freshman year. John was a great friend, devoted Theta Xi brother and loving husband to Joy. I will miss you John. The world is a better place because of you. My heart goes out to Joy and the Calcagni family.
Jill (Pomerantz) Goodman
October 12, 2008
Dear Barbara and John,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of John's passing. I am so sorry for your loss. Although I haven't seen you or "Little John" in many years, I have fond memories of all the times I babysat at your home in Cranston. Together with my parents, we are thinking of you during this sad time.
Scott Cunningham
October 12, 2008
Mr & Mrs Calcagni and Joy,
Jon was a good friend and we had alot of good times together, like taking over the cul-de-sac for a good game of baseball. ALthough we havent had an opportunity to speak for many years, he was always a good friend growing up and through our glorious days at hendricken. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family and may he smile proudly as the Red Sox win the championship this year. God Bless.
Scott Cunningham
October 12, 2008
Mr & Mrs Calcagni,
Jon was a good friend and we had alot of good times together, like taking over the cul-de-sac for a good game of baseball. ALthough we havent had an opportunity to speak for many years, he was always a good friend growing up and through our glorious days at hendricken. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family and may he smile proudly as the Red Sox win the championship this year. God Bless.
Steve Popiel
October 12, 2008
Dear Barbara and John and family,
My sincere sympathy in the passing of your John...God Bless.
Steve Popiel
Meri Kennedy
Vicki Dyas
October 11, 2008
To John, Barbara and Joy,
I only met John once but he was enough like his dad that I felt I had known and loved him forever. Bill and I want to express our most heartfelt condolences. We have been through this ourselves and understand your very deep loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and take some comfort from the wonderful life you all gave him..
Our love Vicki and Bill Dyas
Kelly Borrowman
October 11, 2008
To Joy and the Calcagni family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. John was an extraordinary guy; he will be missed greatly.
Paul Broman
October 11, 2008
I am deeply saddened by the sudden loss of John. My condolences to Joy and the rest of John's family.
John definitely touched many lives during his too-short life. He was a great friend, and I will always look back fondly at the time our paths crossed and remember John's dedication and passion, as well as his spirit for fun and his friendly nature.
Bob & Sheila Sweeney
October 11, 2008
Joy,
Our prayers are with during this difficult time.
Maureen's parents
Niccole Ostroff-Bologna
October 10, 2008
I had the pleasure of working with John at Everest. He was truly a great person to be around. No matter what the situation was at work John could always find humor in it and make me laugh. He was always playing pranks and making the days at work fun. We share a love of Disney and cruising and spent many times discussing our Disney plans or the next cruise we wanted to take. I will surely miss him. I will take a cruise with my family in December and will think fondly of John. Joy know that John was a bright spot to all that met him. May you find peace and comfort in your time of need. Mr. and Mrs. Calcagni may you as well. You all will remain in my thoughts.
Mike Callahan
October 10, 2008
John was a great guy and great brother. I will always think of him laughing and making others laugh with him or at him.
My thoughts go out to you Joy and the Calcagni family
GB221
Rodney Cooper
October 10, 2008
John will definitely be missed. There is a special space in heaven for your happiness and joy. To Joy and the rest of his family, I offer my condolences your loss.
John was a great friend and a great brother. He will be missed.
Buddy and Shelly Croft
October 10, 2008
Dear Barbara and John,
May God Bless John and may He give you the strength to cope with this tragedy.You have many,many friends in RI that will keep you in their thoughts and prayers.
Ken Good
October 10, 2008
"For life's too short upon this earth
For men of Theta Xi."
Rest in peace brother John...
George Daubert
October 10, 2008
To the Calcagni family,
Please accept my condolences on your loss. John was a well-loved friend and brother, and I always admired his enthusiasm and spirit in all he did.
John, may peace be with you and may you now be free from suffering.
Scott Naro-Norman
October 10, 2008
John was always a good friend to me, and had encouraged me to attend Florida Tech. If not for John, I might not be where I am right now. He touched so many lifes, and never asked for anything in return. He truly was a great friend. Joy, I am so sorry. I can't understand why bad things always happen to such good people, it's just not fair. My heart goes out to you and John's family.
Stephanie Curry
October 10, 2008
Joy, I cannot remember a time at FIT that did not involve you and John, nor can I imagine what it would have been like had he not been a part of my life. John’s capacity to give of himself, his time, energy, and his love so unselfishly has always been what I admire most about him. The world is a far better place having had him in it. I, like many others, are truly blessed to have called him friend. He will be greatly missed, but never forgotten. My heart and my prayers go out to you and the Calcagni family.
“They say love beyond the world cannot be separated by it. Death cannot kill what never dies.” William Penn
Jeremy Ruel
October 10, 2008
John was a great friend and brother. There isn't much more I can say than I will miss him and so will everyone else that was touched by him. Thanks for all the great memories that will keep us all going.
Tracey Aiken-Ruel
October 10, 2008
Joy, you are in my thoughts and prayers along with the whole Calcagni family. John was such a lovable guy and the reason why many are the people they are today. Joy and John are the reason I chose Florida Tech and my life would be completely different if I had never met John. He will be greatly missed!
Rune Oldeide
October 10, 2008
John was a shining beacon in many people’s lives. I first met John in one of my first weeks in the US. He welcomed me in with an open heart and introduced me to so many people at Florida Tech. He truly made my college years very memorable. Joy, my heart goes out to you and I hope that you have a lot of support around you through these difficult times. May John rest in peace.
Jamie, Stacey, Kaylie & Emily Jacquot
October 10, 2008
Our family has had the honor of being friends with John since 2003. John’s positive and jovial personality was contagious, and you’d be hard-pressed to find someone who wasn’t drawn in by his charisma. In the short time we knew him; we shared a lifetime of good memories. All the bad rounds of golf we played, exchanging of Christmas presents, celebrating the Red Sox first World Series Championship in 86 years-these are memories we will never forget. We will miss you John. We will miss you at work, at special occasions and on game days! Emi and Kaylie will miss seeing you, and to quote Kaylie: “John’s one, cool dude!”
We will never forget you, John! To Joy and family, please know our hearts and thoughts are with you now.
Tom Assal
October 10, 2008
I still remember my first visit to FIT when John and his parents picked me up at the airport. From then on I realized that John was one of the most unselfish people I would ever meet always willing to go out of his way to help a brother or anyone and make sure they were doing ok. Joy and the Calcagni family will be in my thoughts and prayers. We’ll miss you John.
Scott Bruyere
October 10, 2008
Joy and Mr/Mrs Calcagni,
I am so sorry for your loss, you have my deepest sympathy. John was a great friend, brother and roommate. Joy, you and John were a big part of my life during the FIT days and I will always cherish the times we spent together. Rest in peace John and you will forever be missed.
Mike McCormack
October 10, 2008
John was really there for me as I became a Theta Xi brother at FIT.
He will be missed by everyone...
To Joy and to John's family, may God be with you.
Tammy Lambert
October 10, 2008
To know John was to love him. My life in Florida and my time at Florida Tech is enriched with wonderful memories of John. I will never forget him. My deepest condolences to Joy, his family, and to his brothers.
Robin Woodmansee
October 10, 2008
Joy and the Calcagni family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We were so shocked and saddened to hear of John's passing. I will never forget the first time I met John at college. He and I were so excited that I was also from RI and John instantly made me feel welcome and a part of his circle, as he did everyone. I will never forget the many fun and good times we all had together and I can picture John smiling and laughing as he always did. God Bless, Robin (FIT) & David (Bishop Hendricken)
Chris DeSanto
October 10, 2008
Every good memory I have from Florida and my time at Florida Tech include John in some form. He was above all a fantastic and fierce friend. John will be missed in many ways from my life. To Joy and John's Family, my families thoughts are with you. I hope you are able to find the peace you need to move beyond the sorrow of his passing.
Kellie Smith
October 10, 2008
We will miss you John. Joy our hearts and prayers are with you.
God Bless!
Terry Mullin
October 10, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to Joy, the Calcagni family, his friends, and the many lives he touched. John's influential spirit, happiness, and enthusiasm could be felt by everyone around him. I have so many happy memories that are directly attributed to John. He was a terrific friend that was always there. John will be deeply missed. We will cherish these memories forever.
Rodney Cooper
October 10, 2008
John,
I'll definitely miss you brother. Joy, you have been a little sister to me and I pray that you stay strong during these moments.
I love you both and I know that there will be a great deal of blue and white waiting on John when he arrives in heaven. I love you brother and take your rest.
Maureen Zanella
October 10, 2008
Dear Joy, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May God be with you and John's family to comfort you in this time of sorrow.
Chris Broomhead
October 9, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to Joy and the Calcagni family. John was a great friend, who was there whenever you needed him. I have many fond memories of him from the time that I spent at Florida Tech. You will truly be missed.
Chris "Woody" Broomhead
Samantha (Mullin) Broomhead
October 9, 2008
John was a wonderful man, a leader, a friend. He was there during the worst time of my life and even though he barely knew me, he offered me a shoulder to cry on and instant friendship. He made that time easier just by being there. He had a kind, warm smile that you couldn't help but smile back. John touched so many lives during his time with us and we will be forever changed just by knowing him. Joy and all of John's family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mindy Robinson
October 9, 2008
So many of the fond memories I have from my time at Florida Tech include John. It wouldn't have been the same without him.
Aunt Susan, Uncle Louis, Melissa, Louis & Heather Calcagni
October 9, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Jenny Randall
October 9, 2008
My dear friend, Joy. It was such a blessing to have been a part of you and John's wedding. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Although no words will comfort you, know that God weeps with you and walks beside you in your sadness.
Matt Swinand
October 9, 2008
John was a big reason I came to Florida Tech and joined Theta Xi. He made great connections with people and will be missed. God Bless.
Marilyn Borges
October 9, 2008
John you will be missed. I enjoyed working with you at FMU and sharing Red Sox and NE Patriots stories. Joy, may you feel God's comfort during this difficult time.
Cameron Boyer
October 9, 2008
To Joy and all of John’s family, I was deeply saddened to hear of John’s passing. He was the kingpin of a thriving brotherhood during my time in college. My thoughts and prayers are with you. To John, you will be missed. I have many great memories of the times we’ve shared. Those are what I’ll remember you by…
Michael Meinhold
October 9, 2008
John was one of the first people I met when I made my way to Florida Tech. He was warm and fun and will be sorely missed by anyone who ever knew him. My heart goes out to you Joy, I am truely sorry for your loss.
Brian Verse
October 9, 2008
John, The brotherly bond you shared can never be expressed by words alone. You were a great leader, friend, and brother to us all. For many years, you were the backbone of the Gamma Beta Empire. You will be greatly missed!
michael anello
October 9, 2008
Rest in peace, Brother John. Theta Xi lost a good man.
Judy McCabe
October 9, 2008
John shared his life with us for far too short a time. He was a good person and a great friend, and his loss is deeply felt by all who knew him. He will always be in our hearts.
Joy and family - may you find peace during this difficult time.
Christian White
October 9, 2008
A friend and a brother, you enriched the lives of all those who knew you. Though the sense of loss is unbearable, the tears of sorrow are mixed with tears of joy looking back on the cherished memories we shared. Your friends will forever love you.
Denise Mikulas
October 9, 2008
John was a pleasure to work with. He was always smiling and had amazing timing when cracking a joke during those stressful days. He will be missed very much by all of us here. Joy and family are in our prayers during this tough time.
Brian Kohler
October 9, 2008
John's cheerful personality and love of life was contagious to us all. He will be sorely missed, by his friends, family, Theta Xis, and all who knew him. Joy, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and the family.
Elenie Pabon-Howard
October 9, 2008
Forever Home!
Psalm 23:6
And I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
I also had the pleasure of working with John for almost 4 years at FMU and have lots of happy memories that we were able to share. John and Joy were so much fun to be around and that is what I will always remember. My prayers are with all of the family. I have requested a prayer chain at my local church and that was started yesterday and will continue for the rest of the week. I pray that God gives you the strength that you will need in this time of mourning.
May God Bless you and keep you!
Patrice Young
October 9, 2008
Theta XI probably just lost its most devoted member but memories of John will continue on. My prayers are with you Joy and the rest of the family. God Bless
Andrea & David McPherson
October 9, 2008
John will be truly missed by us Red Sox fans.
Hollimarie Comstock- Montijo
October 8, 2008
John touched the lives of so many people around him- probably more than he ever knew. I had the pleasure of working with him for about 3 years and in that time I became very fond of the person that he was. Thank you John for all the good times. You will be missed.
Joy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time.
Patricia Lutz
October 8, 2008
Joy, Aunt Barbara and Uncle Johnny - There are absolutely no words that could possibly make anyone understand why. Lean on each other, love each other and know that we love you and are here for you ALWAYS. John was there for me to lean on when I needed him when I lost my Dad - now it's my turn to be there for all of you. All our love Always -Patricia, Brian and Rachel
F.R.O.G. = FULLY RELY ON GOD
Betty Searle
October 8, 2008
You are a cherished nephew. I will always remember the little boy who grew up to be a wonderful, kind, loving man. You and Joy were there for me when I needed love more than anything. Uncle Bill and I both loved you. Love Aunt Betty
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