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Robert Wilson Bruce was born March 3, 1917, in Keystone, W.Va., and died July 10, 2009, at his home in Fairlawn, Va. Following a private family burial, a Memorial Service will be held 11 a.m. on Friday, July 17, 2009, at the Fairlawn Presbyterian Church with the Rev. Terry Woodard officiating; a fellowship and visitation time will follow at the church. DeVilbiss Funeral Home is handling arrangements. Bobby was the fourth of the six children of George Cleveland Bruce, of Belspring and Nellie Vermilion Rowe Bruce, of Giles County (his oldest sibling, George William Bruce, died as an infant in 1913). Bobby was very sickly as a child and had pneumonia numerous times and was not expected to live; partly from illnesses he was quite small and was only 4 ft. 11 in., and weighed 98 pounds when he was 17 years old.
Nellie, the children's beloved Mommie, died in August of 1925 and all the siblings went separate ways; Bobby lived with Uncle Doley and Aunt Fanny Caldwell (no relation) in Belspring. He swam in the New River, explored caves, thinned corn for five cents an hour, heard stories and passed them along. At 11 years old he began driving Uncle Doley to work at the Parrott Coal Mine at five in the morning, Daley had a car but couldn't drive; Bobby picked him up during school lunch break. He graduated from Belspring High School in 1934 and was awarded an academic scholarship to William and Mary, but he didn't have enough money for bus fare to Williamsburg, much less books or meals.
He entered the Civilian Conservation Corps in 1934 and after the CCC held various jobs: with the N&W Railway, Big Vein Coal Mine he worked on the dinky train that carried coal from the mine to the tipple, the Box Factory, and other odd jobs.

In 1940 Bobby married the love of his life, Rose Ellen Smith, of Radford. Bobby and Rosie were married for 60 years until Rosie's death in 2000. Their lives and home were characterized by love and laughter, faith and hard work. Their deepest joy and pride were in one another and their family: sons, Robert Gray Bruce and wife, Laurie, of Austin, Texas, and George Stephen Bruce and wife, Nancy, of Kingsport, Tenn.; grandchildren, Shannon Elizabeth Bruce, of Fairlawn, Robert Gray Bruce Jr. and wife, Gretchen, of Austin, George Stephen Bruce Jr. and wife, Mary Ann, of Chattanooga, Tenn., Timothy Herbert Bruce and wife, Sarah, of Atlanta, Ga., Casey Cox Fisk and husband, David, of Dallas, Texas, and Adam Michael Cox, of Portland, Oreg.; and great-grandchildren, Jacob Wilson Bruce, Robert Finn Bruce and Lily Elizabeth Bruce, all of Austin. To the end of his life Bobby cherished his family and enjoyed every minute of their presence and escapades, particularly of the grands and great-grands.
In 1944 Bobby and Rosie and family moved to Fairlawn and he declared his next move would be "to the cemetery." During World War II he began working at the Powder Plant as part of the civilian effort to win the war and except for short periods of time he worked at the Arsenal until retirement. He could do most anything: from work crossword and Sudoku puzzles to wiring and plumbing his own house and repairing his car. An avid reader of history and biographies and politics and the Bible he astounded and confounded his family, who knew he had only 11 years of schooling, with his ability to do crossword puzzles and remember most everything he read. In his own Fairlawn/Belspring way he was a tobacco-chewing, football and NASCAR-loving Renaissance Man.
Bobby was a committed Christian. He taught Sunday School for decades, was an Elder in the Fairlawn Presbyterian Church and served on committees of the Presbytery and General Assembly of the PCUSA.
Family and friends knew him as a man who actively cared for others, washed dishes at the Radford/Fairlawn Daily Bread, visited the sick, and had kind and loving words for everyone. He believed that faith was a matter of loving actions.
One of his more remarkable gifts was his ability to tell stories about his family and other people. Our family files are full of Bobby's stories about his growing up and the people of his world: family and friends, especially the folks of Belspring and Parrott in the 1925 to 1945 time frame. They are priceless memories of a way of life that has disappeared.
His family will remember all this and far more about him. He was a gentleman, in the true sense of gentle, a loving and gracious and funny and generous and absolutely dependable man if he gave you his word, it was better than any signed document, We could go on, but most of you will know the same about him. We thank God for his life.
The Family of Robert Wilson Bruce

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Published by Roanoke Times from Jul. 12 to Jul. 16, 2009.

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Louise Geil

July 22, 2009

We heard about him frequently and although I only met him once, I quickly discerned he was a determined, self-taught individual who loved learning. He obviously loved sharing his talents and knowledge, too. We celebrate with you the long and loving life he had within the family and beyond. My mother left us at age 98 last year, so we well know of the family's sorrow about such a loss, but also we know the peace of mind that comes knowing where that loved one now is being embraced.

Bundy

July 16, 2009

Although I did not know Mr. Bruce, I have known his son, Steve, and see many similarities. Mr. Bruce obviously made a tremendious impact on all that knew him and his legacy will live on through those who were fortunate enough to have witnessed his extraordinary life, especially his family. It is my prayer that God bless and comfort you during this time of sorrow.

July 16, 2009

I did not know Mr. Bruce, but after reading his obituary, I feel that I got a marvelous glimpse into his life. What a lovely tribute your family has written to honor his life! I was quite moved reding it and thank you for sharing the detailed parts of his life. It appears he helped make the world a much better place, and quite a remarkable person. Your family is in my prayers as you endure this time of sorrow.

Lisa

July 16, 2009

I did not know Bobby, however, I read this obituary and felt like I did. I just want to say I am sorry for your loss and truly see how much he was loved. He would be proud of this obituary that you wrote and I just wanted to Thank You for sharing these heartfelt words and thoughts on your loved one. You did a fantastic job and I could read the love and devotion you felt for him. May God bless you and comfort you~

Jessica & Curtis Alley

July 15, 2009

Bobby was a kind person and he will be greatly missed by his church family.

July 13, 2009

Bobby was a wonderful neighbor, always full of kindness. We will miss his friendly smiles and his tomatoes. Our thoughts are with his wonderful family who spent so much time with him in his final days, it was a joy to see him surrounded by such love and to know he was able to spend his last days in his own home because of that love and care.

Carolyn Southern

July 13, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. I know living 13 years of my life beside Rosie and Bobby and then enjoying and looking up to them in church -- my heart soul aches, but is happy and thankful to have had them in my life!

July 13, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

allen weddle

July 12, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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