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Shelton Carlton Beckner

Shelton Beckner Obituary

Shelton Carlton Beckner , of Roanoke, Va., went home to be with his Heavenly Father on Wednesday, November 11, 2009. He died suddenly at his home in the arms of his loving wife of 58 years, Margaret Ramona Beckner. Shelton was born on August 12, 1931, the fourth of eight children of the late Noah and Mamie Beckner. He will be remembered with much love by his wife, Margaret; his two sons and daughters-inlaw, Carlton Wayne Beckner and Gerry, and Michael (Pete) Lane Beckner and Karen; brothers, Allen (Joe) Beckner and wife, Mary, and Gary Wayne Beckner and wife, Gladys; sister, Florence Beckner Carr; five grandchildren, Christopher Wayne Beckner and wife, Erin, Kelly Dawn Beckner, Joshua Aaron Beckner, Melissa Anne Beckner, and Kacey Nicole McCreary and husband, Jonathan; three greatgrandchildren, Hayley Madison Beckner, Carter Gage Beckner, and Shilo Jaxon Beckner; uncle, Lewis Grant; sister-in-law and brother-inlaw, Alice and Kendrick Stevens; and several very special nieces and nephews that he held dear. Shelton was known by all that knew him by his love for his Lord, his wife and his family. He was a long time member of Poages Mill Church of the Brethren in Roanoke where he served as deacon, sang in the choir and the "Jolliettes," and had many dear friends. He retired from Mennell Milling after 46 years of service. He loved spending time with his "weekly bowling buddies," singing and patting his foot to old time bluegrass and southern gospel music, traveling, and spending time with family and friends. His boisterous laugh and always smiling face will be missed by many. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Southwest Virginia Second Harvest Food Bank, 1025 Electric Road, Salem, Va. 24153. A "Going Home Celebration" will be held 11 a.m. on Saturday, November 14, 2009, at Poages Mill Church of the Brethren with the Rev. E.B. Shoemaker officiating. The family will receive friends on Friday, November 13, 2009, from 2 to 4 p.m. and from 6 to 8 p.m. at Oakey's South Chapel, 540-989-3131.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Nov. 12 to Nov. 14, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Shelton Beckner

23 Entries

Kelly Faulconer

November 14, 2009

Dear Margaret & Family,

I could not believe it when my Dad called to tell me of Shelton's passing. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. My heart goes out to you all in your time of grief. Even though it was unexpected, you can take comfort knowing that he's with our Heavenly Father right now. May the Lord bless you with peace and healing in your time of need. You are all in my thoughts and prayers!

November 14, 2009

Dear Margaret and family.
I read of your loss yesterday and talked to Margaret and decided I would not come today, but real soon will come and the 3 of us can go out to eat.

In the meantime, I will keep you in my prayers and thank God for this beautiful day, and that Shelton is now resting in the hands of God.

Shelton was a fine gentleman and loved to help others and just hold on to your memories and let them guide you during this time of sadness.

Love, Ruth Rothrock, Martinsville,

Angie Kirk/Neighbors

November 13, 2009

I have known Shelton for a very long time. He has always been a very caring man and could always give someone a smile. God bless you to the family, may your loss always remind us of how awesome Shelton was and will be thru the lives of others.

Stuart Boblett

November 13, 2009

We will so much miss Shelton, his happy smile, his infectious laugh and his gracious friendship. All of his friends and family have been so blessed to have been able to spend just a little of our time on this earth with this wonderful man

LEWIS HARRIS

November 13, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

BUTCH CANNADAY

November 13, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

David joiner sr.

November 13, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Roanoke Locomotine Shop

November 13, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

November 13, 2009

Aunt Margaret and family,
Sorry to hear of Shelton passing, I remember how much fun we had at Dad and Mom (50) anniversary party.

We sorrow not as others do,
Whose hopes fade like the flowers;
There is a hope that's born of God,
and such a hope is ours.
Even in the sad times, Christians have the brightest hope.

Brenda and Cole McPherson and family.

November 13, 2009

Pete, Karen and Family
I am so sorry about your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with your family. If I don't get to the funeral home I am sure you will understand as I am with my very sick Dad. Just know I am thinking of all of you.
God Bless
Donna Entsminger

Great grandpa with Shilo

Jean Makela

November 13, 2009

Dear Josh,

I was so sorry to hear of your grandfathers passing. He was so full of pride and joy when he held Shilo after his birth and you can be sure he will watch over him from heaven! Please tell your parents how sorry I am. God Bless and Keep you all

Jean Makela (future mother-in-law)

November 13, 2009

Dear Margaret, Carlton, Mike/Pete & All,

Shelton was exceptional. He was such a wonderful brother to Golden, brother-in-law to Avis, and uncle to Jay, Lucy, and me. Some of our treasured memories of Shelton are our wedding day in Charlotte, our trip to Monmouth Park in New Jersey, Shelton and Golden building our little back deck in Montclair, flat footing with everyone on New Year's Eve at the community center in Franklin County, holiday gatherings at Shelton's and Margaret's, and our last ride up the mountain with Shelton taking us to places that held special memories for him and the Beckner/Grant clan.

We were blessed to know him. We will love him always.
Jay, Lucy, and Eileen

Dianne & Don Ronk

November 13, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. When we lose a familly member that is a believer, it is good to know that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord and we can see them again.

Gary and Brenda Stultz

November 13, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Pat Shorter

November 13, 2009

I'm so very sorry to read about Mr. Beckner. He was always so nice when he came into the store when Dad and Mom owned it. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time. Pat Ferguson Shorter

Linda Ayer

November 13, 2009

So sorry to hear about your loss. We have many good memories of your family and your work at Poages Mill. The Joliettes were always an inspiration!

Tim Manning

November 13, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.We will all miss Shelton dearly.

Rosemary Begin

November 12, 2009

Margaret and Family,

I am so very sorry to hear about Shelton. He was such a fine, fine man whom I will always hold in the highest regard. His smile, calm demeanor & sense of humor always impressed me. Whether listening to the Joliettes or spending time in each other's homes, it was always a pleasure. Mom & Dad had so much fun with you over the years too. Not everyone can drive to the West Coast and back together and still be friends afterwards! You, Carlton and Pete were of great support to Mom and I during our losses and I do hope you will feel the same from us. I apologize that I am unable to attend the services, but please know that my sincere thoughts and prayers are with you. It is of comfort to know that Shelton is at home with his Savior and many of our precious loved ones.

Love,

Rosemary( "Peanut") Grisso Begin & Family

November 12, 2009

Margaret and Family,

We were so sad to hear of your loss. Shelton was such a dear man. Please know that you all are in our prayers. We love you.

Todd and Kim Reed

November 12, 2009

Margaret and Family,

We were devastated to hear the sad news of Shelton passing. He was such a great man and a real pleasure to be around. Your family will definitely be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Rick & Tammy Eisenring and Courtney Henderson

November 12, 2009

Margaret and Family,
We are so sorry about Shelton. It's hard to believe this happened. We have to put our trust in the Lord and go forward. The Lord took him for a reason. He was a very nice and friendly person - quiet and reserved. We love you - Willie and Norma Jean

Betty Underwood

November 12, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ronnie and Betty Underwood

Tammy Foley

November 12, 2009

Margaret and Family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss, when Mom called to tell me I could'nt believe it. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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