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John Graham Obituary

John R. Graham, 82, of Roanoke, Va., went to be with his Lord on December 7, 2009, in his home surrounded by his loving family after bravely battling lung cancer for the past two years. He was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather and brother. He was preceded in death by his parents, John and Essie Graham; brother, Earl; and sister, Dorothy. He is survived by his wife, the former Ruby Newman, whom he married in 1946 and they were the proud parents of two loving children, Linda Myers and husband, Ralph, and John. T. Graham and wife, Berta. He is also survived by five grandchildren, Deborah Wells and husband, Blain, Vickie Craft, Katrina Colquhoun, and Allie and Sarah. Graham. He had six great-grandchildren, Katherine, Elizabeth, and Olivia Craft, Asia and Blake Sawyer, and Spencer Wells. He is also survived by sisters, Gladys Austin, Fredia Guill and husband, George, and Margaret Chumbley. Mr. Graham was a member of Rosalind Hills Baptist Church in Roanoke. As a member of the United States Navy, he served two tours of duty in World War II and Korea and was a member of The American Legion, Post #003. He loved traveling, playing golf, bicycling, hiking and camping with his family. In lieu of flowers, donation may be made in memory of Mr. Graham to Good Samaritan Hospice or The Food Pantry at Rosalind Hills Baptist Church. The family would like to thank Good Samaritan for their kind and loving care over the past several months. Funeral services will be held 2 p.m. on Thursday, December 10, 2009, at Oakey's Downtown Chapel with the Rev. T. Bradley Smith of Rosalind Hills Baptist Church officiating. Burial will be held at Mountain View Cemetery in Vinton. The family will receive friends on Wednesday, December 9, 2009, from 3 to 5 p.m. and from 6 to 8 p.m. at Oakey's Roanoke Chapel, 540-982-2100.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Dec. 8 to Dec. 10, 2009.

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Katrina Myers-Colquhoun

December 29, 2009

There could be no GREATER grandaddy. He was always hands-on. He never just took me some place to let me have fun-he had fun too. He always played games in the pool with me, he taught me to ride the waves in, he roller skated, he did homework with me even though he was tired from working all day, he was......EVERYTHING AND MORE.I miss him now and forever. I am so thankful to have had so many wonderful years and memories with the man I admire, love and look up to more than anyone else. I have always wanted a marriage like my grandparents. They always had so much love for each other and truely enjoyed each others company. I love you Grandaddy - NOW & FOREVER.

Edna White

December 9, 2009

I knew this man as a patient. Even in the worse times before His illness He would come in and, have the most kind smile on his face. He had such a positive outlook on life and, before His illness took him over He was a true Faithful Spirit. I work with some of his Family. I also know His sweet sisters Freda and Gladys. They have such true memories of Him. He Wife was so devoted to Him. May God comfort You and, know that God has Him now and, the suffering is over. My sympathy also to Dr. Joseph Austin and, Becky.

December 9, 2009

Gladys and Freda:
I am so sorry to hear about your brother. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless You.

Patricia Ayers
Roanoke

Jonette Dunn

December 9, 2009

Ruby & Family,

You are your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

LouAnn Howell

December 9, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ron,Darlene,Rhonda,Adrienne Allie

December 9, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Bob Goodman

December 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Patti Leigh Huffman-Chasse

December 8, 2009

Dear Ruby,
I was saddened to learn of Johnny's passing. Sometimes there just are no words. I am thinking of you and holding you up in prayer with the hope that memories of Johnny and the gift of his life on this earth will bring you and your family comfort.
God bless you.
Love,
Patti Leigh

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