Sgt. Jacob H. Demand

Sgt. Jacob H. Demand

Jacob H. Demand Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 28, 2005.
Jacob H. Demand never seemed to pull away from his parents during the Terrible Teens. "He always talked to us about everything. Teenagers go through being rebellious and don''t talk; his phase was mild," said Demand''s mother, Charlene Baldwin. "He always talked to us openly. In the Army, he called from all over the world, wherever he was." Demand, 29, of Palouse, Wash., died Sept. 14 when his patrol came under attack by small-arms fire west of Mosul. He was based at Fort Lewis. Demand joined the Army two weeks after graduating high school in 1995. He was a fixture on school teams _ football, basketball, baseball _ and loved hunting and fishing. When her son joined the Army, Baldwin noted "the world was a little safer at that point in time. His goals in life were to be in the Army a little while and then to be in the U.S. Forest Service." But Demand grew to enjoy the people of Iraq. "He talked of their support of the troops, about how little children would wave and smile." He also is survived by a daughter, Reanne, 8; sons Josh, 6, and Seth, 5; and an ex-wife.

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Ben H

May 25, 2020

You are never forgotten brother!!!

Jonathan Luna

December 19, 2017

Jake was a great guy. I met him when he was just out of basic training at 2/187 Inf in Ft Campbell Ky. He and I were both M60 gunners. He was a good buddy and all around really nice guy. I think of him often and was so sad to hear of his loss. I have a picture of he and I together that I look at often to remember him. He was a true hero. - SPC Jonathan Luna

Rich Ackerman

September 14, 2014

Never forgotten brother.

Rob Zemcik

May 28, 2013

Not many days pass I don't think about you SGT Demand, your leadership and comedy you brought to our Squad in Charlie Company! I miss you and I want you to know I carry your memory with me!

November 17, 2012

Jacob Demand-still remembered, respected & honored.

October 25, 2012

man it would be nice to sit down and talk right now. i sure could use some advice right now. burns

Peggy Childers

September 16, 2011

September 14, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jacob H. Demand:
Please accept my remembrance of Jacob on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Peggy Childers

September 14, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. Jacob H. Demand:
Remembering Jacob on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

MIKE BURNS

March 27, 2010

I MISS YOU SARGE. YOU TAUGHT ME EVERYTHING ABOUT SOLDIERING AND THAT SAVED MY LIFE AND OTHERS COMRADES. COULDNT TELL YOU HOW MUCH IT HURTS TO THINK ABOUT THE TIMES IN KOREA, WOUKLD GIVE ANYTHING TO DRINK A COLD ONE AND WATCH JOE DIRT WITH YOU. I LOVE YOU MAN, TIL WE FORM AGAIN

Melissa demand

January 6, 2010

We miss you but honor all you did for our country! Rest in peace and we know you are watching over us protecting us and helping us down the path of life'Love ya the Demand family ryan,Melissa Makayla, Devvon and Trinity Demand

J Lewis

September 15, 2009

5 years, looked down at my wrist yesterday and couldnt believe how fast time goes. I had the pleasure of getting to know Jake right before our deployment on rear-d and then make our long trip Iraq together. To his loved ones, Jake is remebered and talked about often. He was class act. NEVER FORGET!

SGT Joseph Muccianti

September 14, 2009

I knew Jake only briefly just before deployment, he was always doing Staff Duty with a couple of buddies of mine who were being medically discharged. I spent quit a bit of time hanging out at the Battalion staff duty desk with Jake, Jesse and Jeff. Jake was always laughing joking and having a good time. I was shocked one day while waiting at a bus stop on LSA Anaconda and noticed a hand written RIP message on a memorial wall that read SGT Jacob H Demand Sept 14, 2004 since as far as I knew Jake was on his way out of the Army when we left. I bought a KIA bracelet when I returned from Iraq and have worn it everyday of my life since i purchased it. I'm one person who will never forget that some of us paid the ultimate sacrifice.

Peggy Childers

September 14, 2009

To the family of Sgt. Jacob H. Demand:
Jacob gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kenna Larra

September 4, 2009

”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,750 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
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R Collis

April 4, 2009

It is difficult to know what to say since I want to express my sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Sgt Demand. Please know that your loved one is not forgotten. I wish everyone impacted by this tragic loss strength and peace. Although I did not know him, I know that he must have been a very special person to be willing to do something that most Americans will never have to experience and for that we can never say thank you enough.
Thank you Sgt Demand.

In Memory of Jacob ~ (Debra Estep)

September 14, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Jacob, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Grace

June 10, 2008

On Saturday, June 14th (Flag Day) there will be an event in Topeka, KS called The Reading. Volunteers will be reading the names of the fallen from Iraq and Afghanistan. I'll be Reading Sgt. Demand's name. Each Reader is given a page of 50 names - first name, middle initial, last name, date of death and home state. After each name a bell will toll. The event is expected to take approximately 6 hours to complete. It's important the family know of this event in memory of their loved one. Thank you Sgt. Demand for your service to our country. I truly appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. You haven't been forgotten. My condolences to his family and friends.

www.thereading.us

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April 19, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Demand!

minister florence duckett

December 31, 2007

Charlene,

I was moved by the passing of your son. I can't imagine your pain, but I do know what it is to love deeply being the mother of two and grandmother of four!

As mothers, we are the only ones who can say that we carried our children close to our hearts. Even though Jacob is gone from this earth he will forever be in your heart! "...weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning..." I thank God because He "...wiped away all tears from Jacob's eyes..."

I will FOEVER "Salute" Sgt. Jacob. H. Demand!

Yours in Christ,

florence

please see:

www.roseofsharonministriesltd.org
This will let the world know that our soldiers will never be forgotten!

August 13, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 12, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Demand and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Garnet Jenkins

September 14, 2006

Paying tribute to Sgt. Jacob H. Demand, on the anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country and for Freedom.

A Multitude of Thanks, for his Dedication and Service.

Rest In Peace Young Hero, in God's Mighty Hands and may God's Loving Grace and comfort continue to be with the Demand family.

Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.



Those we love remain with us, for love itself lives on...

And cherished memories never fade, Because a loved one's gone....

Those we love can never be, more than a thought apart....

For as long as there is memory, They'll live on in the heart.

May the memories of your loved one live in your heart always.

Laura Cameron

September 10, 2006

To the family and friends



I have only just begun this journey and may not have known your loved one personally.



I extend to you my deepest condolences. No words will ever express the grief those close to this lost treasure are feeling. I can only say that I can share this grief as I too lost a loved one July 8, 2006. I will continue to pray for the safety of our soldiers and especially the family and friends of our lost hero’s. I only hope the memories will carry us through. I will continue pray that you also will believe and know that our heavenly father will not give us more than we can handle.



As always I read (and cry) through the memorials of our lost hero’s, So many people have already expressed the things I would also say. I am amazed and take comfort that so many people care. I can only thank you for the sacrifice you and especially Jacob have made to protect our country. As others have said “I am only an email away.” I would be honored if you so choose to share about this fine hero.



Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28



Laura Cameron

(CPL Joseph P Micks KIA 7/8/2006 Ramadi, Iraq)

James Wingate

July 22, 2005

Miss you bud, I still havent got the fishing license, doesnt seem right wothout you.

Todd Adams

July 5, 2005

Jacob,

I am sorry for your loss.. You are a man of Valor. God Bless you.

Todd

Randy Williamson

June 24, 2005

Thank you for your selfless sacrifice for the freedom of others. I am humbled and profoundly grateful for your service. May God bless your family and bring them peace and comfort at this time.

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