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Colin William Carey, 31, of Boston Ma., passed away November 27, 2008, at home, surrounded by his family. Much-loved husband of Erin Ruth (Clifford) Carey. He was born in New Haven, Ct. on Sept. 10, 1977, the son of John P. and Phyllis (Egan) Carey of Clinton, Ct.

Colin graduated from The Morgan School in Clinton and from Boston University, where he received three degrees: a B.A. in History from C.A.S., a B.S. in Social Studies Education from S.E.D., and an Ed.M. from S.E.D. Colin was a history teacher for the last three years at Oakmont Regional High School. He also taught at Franklin High School in Franklin, Ma. and RHAM High School in Hebron, Ct. He enjoyed traveling with his wife, especially to Ireland to visit his many relatives. Colin loved the ocean and often vacationed on Cape Cod, where he and his wife honeymooned. He enjoyed attending B.U. hockey games and was an enthusiastic Red Sox fan. He was an avid reader and loved the game of golf. His favorite movie was Casablanca, although he watched Star Wars hundreds of times. He was devoted to his family, including his cat, Kylemore Abbey. Colin was a wonderful husband, a precious son, and an amazing brother. He will be sadly missed. Besides his parents and his wife of almost five years, he is survived by two brothers, Sean Fitzgerald Carey and Justin Jay Carey, both of Clinton, Ct.; a sister, Kristen Helen Carey of West Haven Ct., and a large and loving extended family.

Family and friends are welcome to help us celebrate Colin's life and grieve his passing on Monday, December 1st, from 5 to 9 p.m. at Swan Funeral Home, 80 East Main St., Clinton, Ct. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Tuesday, December 2nd, at 11 a.m. at St. Mary's Church of the Visitation, 54 Grove St., Clinton, CT. Burial will follow at St. Mary's Cemetery, also in Clinton. In lieu of flowers, donations are welcome to the Colin Carey Memorial Scholarship Fund. This fund will award a scholarship to a student from Oakmont High School who wishes to pursue a career in teaching. Colin was passionate about educating his students and we hope that others will be inspired by his example. Donations may be sent care of David Uminski, Principal, Oakmont Regional High School, 9 Oakmont Drive, Ashburnham, MA 01430. May the light of his life and spirit shine through us for the rest of our days.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Nov. 30, 2008.

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Joe Crawford

July 9, 2009

I went to school with Colin at BU and remember him just as others have described, a witty, intelligent, and passionate young man. I was saddened to learn of his passing in the recent issue of Bostonia (the BU magazine). Although we had not seen each other since college, I will remember and miss Colin.

Diane DesRochers

January 9, 2009

I have only just recently learned of Colin's passing and am deeply upset, not just of the news, but of the loss of opportunity to say good-bye to this remarkable young man. I so enjoyed our "lively conversations" and your wealth of knowledge and good cheer. May you be eternally happy in the presence of the Lord!

Caroline Sturgess

December 25, 2008

Though Colin and I lost touch after high school, he remains vivid in my memory as one of he kindest people I've ever met. He was, as Ryan wrote, always looking for the best in people. I remember him cracking up when we made that bizarre Einstein video; dancing in tights for the school musical; having a long talk by the Clinton beach. I was so glad to hear he had become a teacher, and pleased - but not surprised - to read the loving tributes from his students and their parents. My deepest sympathies to his family.

Cathy Harris-Wallmann

December 12, 2008

I very sad I was to hear of the passing of Colin. I was his babysitting when he was small, such a beautiful child who grew into a beautiful man. My deepest sympathy goes to his family.

Bruce Aiken

December 4, 2008

When Todd told me about Colins passing, I cried. We watched our kids grow together and I cherished that time. Eileen and I are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
Bruce & Eileen Aiken

Tucker Walsh

December 2, 2008

Mr. Carey, you were, and still are, my favorite teacher that i have ever had. You made me actually want to go to school. You made learning extremely fun. You will forever be missed.

linda seidenspinner

December 2, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Brendan Tuohy

December 2, 2008

Although I have not seen Colin since he was 2 to 3 years old I knew his Father and Mother well. Our deepest sympathies to his family and friends

Carol Powell

December 2, 2008

It was with deep sadness we learned of Colin's passing. His enthusiasm for history and his students was very evident during his years at RHAM, and his positive attitude was an inspiration to all. Our deepest sympathies to Erin, his family and friends.

Todd Aiken

December 2, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless, The Aiken Family

Rebecca Harris

December 1, 2008

Colin will always be remembered in my heart as a person with whom I most loved to but heads. In grade school we competed over grades. In junior high and high school, we debated any topic on which we could think to be contrary, and over things far more angst-ridden and dramatic, and yet somehow much less memorable. No matter the circumstances, he was one of those few friends who come to my aid when my soul most needed comfort. Much to his credit his actions were frequently unsung, and in some instances I did not learn of his kindnesses until months - or years - later. Although the years have seen us drift, he will be dearly missed. Colin, I hope that in our most long-ranging, and most contested debate, you have won. I will be happy to have lost.

Brendan Gallagher Oakmont '08 graduate

December 1, 2008

My deepest sympathy on the loss of a talented and caring man. I had the pleasure of knowing Mr. Carey in only one thing we shared Hockey. Hearing Mr. Carey announce our hockey games meant a lot to the team over the last few years. He will be remembered to me as a hockey enthusiast.

Cindy, Jim and Sean Gallagher

December 1, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all on the loss of such a wonderful man. Colin's passion for History and Life did not go unnoticed, as he touched my son Sean(and so many other students) as his favorite teacher and someone he could go to just to talk and get advice. Our school has lost such a positive role model.

Ryan Prucnal

December 1, 2008

Colin will be remembered for the enthusiasm he brought to all tasks strange and mundane, for his ability to see the best in other people, and for his chuckle. He shows up in old videos playing the the role of a salacious Albert Einstein, as well as lamenting a lemon soda he drank at 3AM one morning. I hope his loved ones are able to take solace from the knowledge of a life well-lived.

Jennifer Palmer

December 1, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Linnea Carlson

December 1, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.

Danielle Mooney

December 1, 2008

To Colin's family & friends;
My thoughts are with you all and I hope fond memories of Colin will bring you comfort at this time.

Sandi Gardner

December 1, 2008

As the parent of two of Mr. Carey's students at Oakmont, I saw firsthand what a positive impact he had on them. I am so grateful that last year I was able to tell him just how important he was to my kids. The world needs more dedicated and inspirational teachers like Colin Carey. My deepest sympathy to his family on the loss of a such wonderful man.

Tara M. Ward

December 1, 2008

Such a tragic loss of such a wonderful young man with so much to give. May you remember in the days to come how very lucky you were to have been a part of his life. My thoughts and prayers are with Colin's wife Erin and their families and many friends at this most trying time.

Liz Maillet

November 30, 2008

From the day I first met Colin at my daughter Lexi's teacher conference, I knew he was special. Lexi always talked about what an awesome, dedicated teacher he was. She and I am sure many others will miss him. God Bless your family. He will never be forgotten

oakmont student

November 30, 2008

you will be missed by so many people, including many students and faculty at school. you've inspired so many of us. rest in peace, you won't be forgotten.

Peter & Addie McManus

November 30, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Ed Annino

November 30, 2008

May God bless you and keep you in His care during this sad time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Ed & Eileen Annino, Clinton, CT.

Jen,Mike,Ross,Whittney Treubig

November 30, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May time and happy memories heal your pain.

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