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Gertrude Gray Obituary

GERTRUDE "GERTIE" GRAY

Gertrude "Gertie" Gray, 86, of Ridgecrest Rd., died Tuesday, November 20, 2007 at the Hospicare Residence after a brief illness, surrounded by her loved ones. She was born in Hector, NY on September 11, 1921, daughter of the late Frank and Tivola Clark Catlin and was the widow of Lawrence "Scoop" Gray who died in 1993.
Gertrude lived most of her life on Ithaca's South Hill where she and Scoop raised their four children. When her children were grown, she went to work at Morse Chain, where she would continue to work for 35 years and served at one time as treasurer of the Morse Chain Credit Union. Following her retirement from Morse Chain she worked at Ithacare for 10 years. Gertrude sat on the election board for several years and was able to vote this year at the Hospicare Residence. She volunteered at the Cayuga Medical Center, The Senior Citizen Center and Hospicare. An avid bowler and golfer, she was a life member of the New York State Women's Bowling Association and was a former member of the Ithaca Women's Bowling Association.
A loving and devoted mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, Gertrude is survived by her daughters, Margaret (Ernie) Hoover and Sharron Williams (Butch VanEtten); her son-in-law, Roger Rumsey; her six grandchildren, Johanna Williams (Howard Hertel), Michael (Tammi) Hoover, Tracy Buchanan (Doug Martin), Scott Wallenbeck, Roger (Cynthia) Rumsey and Christine Rumsey and her five great-grand-children, Asher Manley, Amelia and R.C. Rumsey and Christofer and Erika Jackson. She is also survived by her buddy, a loving boxer, Griffin William VanRockwell. In addition to her parents and husband, Gertrude was also predeceased by her son, Lawrence Gray, Jr.; daughter, Patricia Rumsey and brother, Leon Catlin.
Funeral services will be celebrated by Rev. Jim Geuder on Saturday, November 24, 2007 at 11am at the Bangs Funeral Home. Friends may call at the funeral home on Friday, November 23, 2007 from 4 to 6pm. Interment in South Hill Cemetery will be delayed until spring. In lieu of flowers, donations in Gertrude's memory may be directed to Hospicare, 172 E. King Rd., Ithaca, NY 14850.

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Published by Ithaca Journal from Nov. 21 to Nov. 22, 2007.

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Janet Henry

December 4, 2007

Margaret and Sharon
Unfortunately I did not know your mom. I do know her daughters Margaret and Sharon and I believe that apples don't fall far from the tree. she had to have been wonderful to raise such wonderful daughters. My sincere sympathy to the family.

Janet Henry and family

cathy white (hha)

November 25, 2007

I did not know Gertie for a long time but from day one she was like a grandma to me. she would call me her candor brat. I work with Gertie when she was at hospicare. I will miss her calling me a brat and tell me to go home after a long shift ( she will be missed by all )

Paula Nelson

November 24, 2007

Gertie was my 2nd mother. I have so many cherished memories of our families on Coddington Rd. that it's hard to find just one to publish. As I said at her funeral- She was "tiny, but mighty".

Ginny & Doug Dean

November 23, 2007

Gertrude has been a part of my life
since I was old enough to begin my childhood memories. Her Mother was
my Granmother's sister. When I was older I still remember her working
taking care of the older patients
at the old hospital on Quarry St.
I loved her & always admired all she did for so many people.She was a good person she will be missed by a whole lot of people. I remember how good she was to me when I was growing up!!!
I will pray for God to hold her
children & grandchildren close IN
THE SHADOW OF HIS WINGS!

SUZANNE FULLAGAR

November 23, 2007

TO ALL OF GERTIES FAMILY. GERTIE HAS BEEN A GREAT FRIEND AND NEIGHBOR. I WILL SURELY MISS HER AS I SAW HER ALMOST EVERY DAY. SHE WAS A GREAT LADY. MY DAY CARE KIDS WILL MISS GOING TO VISIT HER AND RECEIVING THE CANDY SHE ENJOYED GIVING THEM.

Katie Rumsey

November 23, 2007

Especially for Sharron and Margie but for all my extended family: You all know well that I will miss "Grandma Gertie Gray". It has been pure joy throughout the years just knowing her and loving her; being a part of her family. We know now she will be "met" by other very important people from her (and our) past; be consoled by that. I love you all! Sorry we are not there.
Aunt Katie (and Uncle Phil)

Mark & Jean Brockway

November 23, 2007

Gertie was a wonderful neighbor, co-worker and friend. I know that she will be missed dearly by all who knew her. Our sympathies to the family.
The Brockway's

Joyce Loomis-Joyce

November 22, 2007

Although i didn't know her personally i knew her threw her daughter Margaret.I knew that she loved doing puzzles every Sunday afternoon with Ernie and Maggie.

Elise Rosica

November 22, 2007

I met Gertie through bowling in Ithaca, both in leagues and on the board of directors. She was a cool lady.

Linda Rumsey

November 22, 2007

Gertie was a great Mother, Grandmother, GreatGrandmother and friend. I am honored to have had her as a friend and the mother and grandmother of my sister-in-law and Niece and Nephew. May she enjoy eternal life.

Pat Parkin

November 22, 2007

Gertie was a great lady whom I will always remember. I worked with her at Morse Chain, played with her on the golf course and bowled with her. She will be missed.
Pat Parkin

Katherine Shiner Sherman-D'Andrea

November 22, 2007

Gertie,was a wonderful person to everyone. She treated all of us young women at Morse Chain office like her own family. We had good tips at Ides and Hillendale. My sympathy to all of her family.

judi Tagliavento

November 21, 2007

Gertrude Gray....for as long as I can remember, has always been a part of my life....kind, caring loving, and as 'steady as a rock...' I will miss you, but you will always be alive in my heart. The Gray's were, and always will be, a wonderful part of my history.....where do they start and I end ? I think more, we are a continuous circle......!! My love to you all, I'm here if you need me....a heartbeat away.......Judi rae Tagliavento-Richards

Barb Hoyt

November 21, 2007

In 1961, Gertie took me under her wing and was my mentor, and friend, she will be greatly missed.

Randy and Judy Hausner

November 21, 2007

Gertie was a wonderful friend and neighbor to us for 30 years. We'll miss seeing her on our annual visit to Ithaca. She had a loving family that took care of her for as long as possible. Our prayers are with you all.

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