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Thomas Michels Obituary

Thomas Richard Michels, 76, of Aurora passed away peacefully in the comfort of his home surrounded by his family on January 6, 2024. Tom was born on March 30, 1947 in Aurora and was the son of Edward and Mary (Petit) Michels. He graduated in the class of 1966 from Roncalli High School and in 1968 was drafted into the United States Army where he served the majority of his enlistment in the Panama Canal Zone. Following his time in the Army, Tom attended DeVry University, earned an Associate's Degree from Waubonsee Community College and attended Northern Illinois University. In 1971, Tom married the love of his life, Carolyn (Forbes), who he adored for 52 years.

Tom is survived by his devoted wife, Carolyn and his four loving children, Stacy Michels, Sara (Donald) Shinault, Anthony (Abigail) Michels and Kristen (Keith) Vernon; two grandchildren, Alysen and Kylie Shinault. He is also survived by his brothers Kenneth (Carol) Michels, John (Terre) Michels, Joseph (Sue) Michels and sister Cele (Frank) Reinert as well as his sister-in-law Judy (David) Mayne and former sister-in-law Karen Michels and many nieces and nephews.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Edward and Mary (Petit) Michels, sisters Carol (Morse) and Mary Pat Abel-Michels, brothers-in-law Brad Abel, Charles Forbes and Richard Morse, as well as his father and mother-in-law, Gordan and Margaret Forbes, and dear nephew Peter Michels.

Tom dedicated 41 years working as a driver/salesman for Anheuser-Busch in Montgomery. Tom was an active longtime parishioner of St Joseph Parish in Aurora, where he was a Eucharist minister, lector and member in multiple ministries and evangelization committees.

Tom loved spending time in his vegetable garden and could be found in the church parking lot after Mass sharing the abundance of tomatoes with fellow parishioners. He enjoyed tinkering around in the garage, working on a number of household projects, or riding his bicycle around the neighborhood where he never met a stranger. After Mass he could be found in the Narthex talking with fellow parishioners and most of the time being the last one to leave the church. Tom loved spending time with his family and especially with his two granddaughters who loved to ride in the cart behind the riding lawnmower. He was a master griller and popcorn connoisseur.

A memorial Mass will be held Monday, January 15, 2024 at 10:00am at St. Joseph Church. Fr. Jerome Leake will officiate. Burial will be private.

A memorial visitation will be held Sunday, January 14, 2024 from 4:00pm until 8:00pm at THE DALEIDEN MORTUARY, 220 N. Lake St., Aurora, 630-631-5500. Please visit our website at www.daleidenmortuary.com where you may leave condolences for Tom's family.

Tom's family would like to extend heartfelt gratitude to the staff of Divine Palliative and Hospice Care in Yorkville, especially Geisi and Kayley for providing him gentle care and supportive guidance to his devoted wife who did everything in her power to keep him in the comfort of his own home during this long journey.

Tom will be greatly missed as he was loved by many.

Memorial contributions may be made in Tom's memory to Lewy Body Dementia Symptoms, Diagnosis, and Treatment (IBDA.org)

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Beacon News from Jan. 11 to Jan. 12, 2024.

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Laurie (Michels) Cubbage

April 21, 2024

I´m ashamed for my delay in responding to you on the loss of Tom. I am still speechless and was surprised to learn that he was ill. I´m so sorry, Carolyn and family. It seemed that we had just spoken to each other; Tom with his love and wisdom and prudence always made me feel calm and peaceful. God bless him and you and his loved ones.
Laurie

Russ Kolkay

January 17, 2024

Tom was a high school classmate. we graduated from Roncalli High School in 1966. I was looking at the yearbook this morning and, in the section, where seniors were invited to share their life's ambition Tom wrote, "To make the best out of this short life for me and everyone around me." He reached his goal and then kept raising the bar. God bless you brother.

Leigh Jackson

January 16, 2024

Carolyn,
So sorry you have lost your Love-he was a heck of a man and we will remember him with a smile. I wish we would have had more trips to Oberweis! You took amazing care of him and I am glad I saw you before Christmas and was able to catch up. Please call if there is anything you need.
Jim and Leigh Jackson

Jerry and Karen Nickels

January 13, 2024

Our sincere sympathy to you, Carolyn, and all the family. Tom was such a wonderful, friendly man. He was always a joy to be around. The Lord has a special place for him. God bless all of you.

Marcia Michels Dern

January 12, 2024

Dear All:

As the "eldest" of my cousins, Tom was a sometimes baysitter for me and my siblings. We so enjoyed him and his game of "Roly-Poly", where he would lie prone on the floor, allow us to sit "straddled" in a linear line along his back (!) and then proceed to attempt to roll over with us on top of him! We are/were not small people, so I can only imagine how that must have felt!

God bless you, Tom! I know I echo the sentiments of my parents and siblings!

Love you and your family so very much!

Marcia Michels Dern

Deanna Bastian-Crider

January 12, 2024

Carolyn, I used to work with you at St Joseph School and remember you and Tom as active members of the church. What a positive influence he was to the church. My condolences to the Michels family. Rest in Peace.

Claire Michels Pepper

January 9, 2024

What a wonderful man Tom was. Always optimistic and joyful, ready with a laugh, always praising the Lord, and thankful for Carolyn and his family. How he will be missed. Claire Michels Pepper

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