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Virginia Wilder "Gin" Hayes

Virginia Wilder "Gin" Hayes obituary

Virginia Hayes Obituary

Virginia "Gin" Wilder Hayes, 96, died peacefully in her home in Carmel, California on March 12, 2018. She was born on January 28, 1922, in Blaine, Washington to C.V. and Ella (McFarland) Wilder. After growing up in Bellingham, Gin attended Mills College in Oakland, California and then the University of Washington, where she was a member of the Delta Gamma sorority. She had a keen eye for art, being an accomplished painter herself. Gardening was a lifelong hobby she enjoyed, as well as traveling the world, which she continued to do so well into her 80's. Gin was an astute investor in the stock market, meticulously researching her trades, just like she meticulously researched all of her endeavors in life. She was a smart, independent woman who was always interesting to be around. Gin is survived by her son Gordy (Sarah) of Bellingham, grandchildren Nicole (Chip), Tab (Jennifer), Christy (Mark), Cari (Chuck), Cami (Marty), Craig, Jr. (Sara) and Calvin (Elizabeth) and 7 great-grandchildren. She will be missed dearly by them all. She is preceded in death by her parents, siblings L.K. "Bud" Wilder, Anita Sorrel, and Chuck Wilder, Jr., and her son Craig Hayes. A private service for immediate family members was held in Carmel.

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Published by Bellingham Herald on Mar. 30, 2018.

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Andrea Bartholick

April 1, 2018

Dear Virginia, my friend with a sassy sense of humor, and an easy laugh. I will miss our talks on your back patio in the sun. You were so smart and knowledgeable, a truly special woman. I enjoyed discussing design, history and life with you. How we were two women, of different generations, from Bellingham who ended up in Carmel, how you walked home from high school with my father. I have fond memories of our time together the past 28 years, and am happy we became friends. I'm thankful you are no longer in pain. My heart goes out to your big family. I know they will miss your wit and wisdom. How I wish we could talk one more time. Love and miss you, Andrea

March 30, 2018

Condolences. May your many wonderful memories of Mrs. Virginia Hayes warm your heart and put a smile on your face. May the God of creation comfort you during your time of grief (Genesis 1:1).

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