
Shane jr
August 24, 2022
To nana I never got to meet you but I think about u all the time I wish that I could spend one day with u but that´s not possible and it´s hard for me because I never got to meet u and mom said me and u would be best friends everytime I think about If u never drove that day but that can´t happen. Nana I miss u so much your the reason my name was changed I will see u in heaven love Shane Alan Schaefer jr
Paul Schroeder
January 29, 2018
I miss you Tammy. I did love you. I think about you often.
May 20, 2010
Tammy, you will be sincerely missed. You were a really great person and had such a good heart,why else would I have you as one of my bridesmaids? Im sorry we lost touch with one another but I will always remember what a great person you were and all the good times I had with you.You had the greatest outlook on life and you always cheered everyone up no matter how down they were.You were a great mom to all your kids and I hope I can be the same kind of mother to my daughter too.God took you away to soon and one day I will do a shot of green label Jack Daniels for you!!!thanks for being a great friend and for blessing us(everyone who know you) with your presence!!!! I miss you!
Love,
Nicole Sorgi-Enser
Amy Huber
May 17, 2010
As Tammy's sister-in-law, I have caught such a small glimpse into the life of this amazing woman, the lives she's touched, the great mom and daughter she was. So many funny stories Glenn would tell me about their younger years. He would have our daughter Allyson call her up on game to say, "Can you feel it??" since the time she started talking. And although she picked on me for being a cheerleader in high school, for being a small town girl who lives in a hick town with only 1 mall...LOL.. we were both nurses in different places and I was so excited for her when she said she was going back to school. I wish I was half the nurse she was. She would do doubles all the time when I was ready to go home after 4!! This past week is truly the hardest thing I've had to endure as a wife. My husband's sadness for the loss of his sister is something I wish I could take away. And Tammy would surely say, "SUCK IT UP, YOU GUYS"...right, Momma?? So I will smile and be so grateful that I finally DID get to Buffalo, to see some great friends and make new ones, to spend time with my mother-in-law who I love so much, and even have my first (and last) Jack and coke! Tammy would not want us to be sad so we will honor her life. I love you, Tamra, and I promise to take care of your "little" brother. Go BILLS!!!!!

I will miss you Tammy forever and always..
Virginia Swartmeyer
May 17, 2010
sorry to hear about your loss.. my name is tracey virginias grandaughter and she is one of tammys favorite residents at olv. i am writing for my grandma to show her appritiation. my grandmother was very devistated she loved tammy so much. she was the best nurse any were and took the best care of everybody as well as working so hard. on mothers day when i went to go pick up my grandmother i remember her callin me hunny and she had me sign my grandmother out. i will miss tammy so much i have known her through going to the hospital, and she always filled everyones face with smiles and laughs.. we will all miss u up there but promised that we will see you again.. we love you!

Virginia Swartzmeyer
May 17, 2010
Glenn Huber
May 17, 2010
I have known Tammy for the last 40 years and to hear all the acts of kindness where no shock to me. My sister use to sneak me snacks at summer camp, bought my class ring in high school, had the coolest concert tee shirt I use to borrow. When I was little she use beat me up and when I became bigger she use to try. She had the most unique personality. She could get invited into tailgate parties at the "Ralph" and some how gain the support of an entire section of Bills Fans after pelting some out-of-towners with snowballs because they were celebrating to loud without saying a word. She loved her family, especially her children. She would sacrifice time at home and work long hours to provide for them. She was a hard worker and treated everyone as if it was her relative or friend. She cared for are mom and would find ways of making each step in her treatment alittle brighter and easier. I can only hope I can step in one of her footprints as I continue on in life. So I will celebrate her life each an every day and expressly on Sundays. Tammy when will meet again in the future just remember to leave a note under the light or listen for a knock on the window. Your loving brother.
Karen Swan
May 15, 2010
Donna, Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your Family. Tammy was an awesome person, friend and co-worker. We have many, many wonderful memories during our Mercy years and they will be forever remembered and cherished.
Tom and Karen Swan
Donna Hickok-Bell
May 14, 2010
I went to grammar school and high school with Tammy. We were the best of friends back then and even though our lives took seperate paths I still thought of Tammy very often. She was a great person and she will be truly missed. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
The Rigby's
May 13, 2010
Glenn and Family,
So sorry for your loss, may you find peace and comfort during this difficult time. Maryann,John,Paula,Edward,Lisa Rigby and Familys
sharon kysor
May 13, 2010
Words can not express my deepest sympathy for my dear friend of 16 years, our tammy huber.
I was so lucky to have spoken to her on mother day morning. Our conversation so heartfelt as many of our conversations were. I will never forget that day as it was the day my mother passed as well and this is what some of the conversation was about.
Of course she always finds humor in whatever is said and we did laugh.
My heart is broken and aching after visiting the funeral home today but her legacy lives on in all that were in attendance. She touched the lives of not only family,friends, staff, residents, but also deceased members of mercy nursing facility at Mercy when she was a CNA.
Everyone writes and says what a great personality and sense of humor she did have!
My dearest friend, we shared so much in those wonderful years...laughter, smiles, tears, and yes...food and drink.
In will always remember your voice that echoes in my head. I will never forget you and know those in heaven are very lucky to have you.
You are very much missed already my friend...i will always pray for you.
darlene milan migas lyons
May 13, 2010
tammy , i will miss ya ! we should of keep in touch more, we had a great time working with each other at mercy hospital! i will miss ya always , love darlene milan migas lyons
cummings
May 13, 2010
tammy i miss you.
cathy klier
May 13, 2010
Tammy, we will never forget you. Your smiles and laughter will live on in our hearts forever. We grieve with your family now, but in time our great memories will be what we remember. Take care my friend and have a jack for all of us.
May 13, 2010
Dear Donna, Glen and Family,
The last time I saw Tammy, she was just a little tot. In reading these guest book entries, I can see she grew to be a beautiful person, inside and out. I pray that you have strength to get through this difficult time. God bless you all.
Linda (Jones) Boye
Amherst, NY
Kelly Deering Salas
May 13, 2010
I am Lighting this Candle for LeeAnn Pryaing everyday for her recovery, god be with your family, at this time.. your cousin Kelly Deering Salas
Colleen Mahoney
May 13, 2010
To all of those who have ever met Tammy, she is a person you would never forget. She was always smiling and caring. I worked with her in the Late 80's and early 90's at Mercys SNF. She was so compassionate to everyone she took care of. She respected everyone and treated everone as family. We did go in different paths. I became an RN and she an LPN . I can only imgine what a wonderful nurse she became. I know she is watching over Leeann right now and over her family. My thoughts and prayers are with the family right now. It will be great when we meet again. You are wonderful and will be missed by all those you have crossed paths with. You are just the type aof person one would remember even if it was for a short time. You will be missed by all. Bless your family.
Colette S Naples
May 12, 2010
Dear Donna
My Deepest Sympathy Goes Out To You & Your Family. Tammy Was Such A Wonderful Person And Everyone Will Miss Her Very Much.
Michelle Deering
May 12, 2010
Mom,
I love you so much, you are everything to me. It was too early for you to go. Shane Jr, didnt get to know how wonderful you are but i will tell him everyday. you were such a hard worker,& you did everything you could to give us kidws & grandkids everything.. you taught me to always be strong no matter what this family went through. No matter what i needed you were there. You always brought a smile to my face, If it wasnt for you i wouldnt be the mother I am today because you did EVERYTHING for us kids. You went with less before we did. You were a wonderful mother, nurse, freind and grandmother & no would say different. I know your keeping lee'ann strong because you know she is the next best thing to you. strong & hard worker & a wonderful mother she needs to come back for me, mariah and tommy. & even though everytime the bills game was on you made me leave cause i was bad luck cause i was a patriots fan. I will watch them just for you. & on random days i will drink jack & tea just for you. I love you momma. please watch over me shane & shane jr. We love you..
Kerry Lynne Deering-Ehrhart
May 12, 2010
Tammy you will be missed but never forgotten. My sincere sympathy to your family .The girls smile your smile every day so you will be here in our hearts and prayer.
Nancy Ogorek
May 12, 2010
Although I never worked with Tammy, please know that her Mercy family grieves with her own family.
Kathleen P Cunningham
May 12, 2010
Tammy was one of the best nurses, She took care of my mom at Mercy/OLV. She was a wonderful, caring person and always had a smile. You could always count on her when left your loved one in her care. Tammy made the residents feel better and also me. My sincere sympathy to her family and her residents and friends at Mercy/OLV they will miss her soo.. Her life was cut short but I believe she is with my mom in heaven.
Carrie Claybolt
May 12, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and loved ones. She will truly be missed,I had the pleasure of working with Tammy when i worked at mercy hospital she was a very kind and loving person.As time would have it,and to both of our surprise.. my eldest son and her daughter ended up dating and having Our beautful grandson!You will forever be in our hearts God Bless You.
Krepe Kraft Employees
May 12, 2010
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Shari (Grill) Maltbie
May 12, 2010
Tammy will be missed dearly. She was a wonderful gift from God to all of us who had the pleasure of knowing her. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family for their loss.
Cheryl Smerka
May 12, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the family. Tammy you were the best no one will never forget you. You were the best friend and careing person you kept everyone around you smileing you will be missed but not forgotten.
Maris Crencha
May 12, 2010
The work that she did told her story.
The way that she treated people and her patients.
May your family be comforted by the love and grace of God at this time.
Also, may the support of family and friends carry you through this diffcult time.
Pat Dellinger
May 12, 2010
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
May 12, 2010
thank you
May 12, 2010
Well tammy i dont know sad it is to see you gone.I remeber all the good time we had at work laugh and joking around but i can said we did are job well.I watch every bills game just for you know you are pick on me for watch them.Tammy i miss you so much you are a great co-work i ever work and thank you for that.
Gail Bader
May 11, 2010
Taken before your time; You still had so much to do; So much to live for: But who am I to question God's plan? You must be needed up in that big blue sky. So Tammy, go where the warm sun shines, and the music plays on, and the southern wind blows, and the green grass grows.
Sleep peacefully dear soul.
Sleep peacefully.
May 11, 2010
You are truly an angel. You've left an impacted on so many lives. You will never be forgotten Tammy. RIP my friend.
Cynthia James
May 11, 2010
I worked with Tammy when she was a CNA in the late '90's at Mercy SNF. She was caring and kind to all and showed these traits as only she could...with humor, sensitivity and compassion. I am pleased she went on to become an LPN and I'm sure she was one of the best.
My sympathy to the family in their time of sorrow.
Tracy Lorden/Fitzgerald
May 11, 2010
Tammy was 'one of a kind'. Caring and loving. We worked together for 5 years on the SNF unit at Mercy Hospital--then we both became Nurse's and our paths changed. I NEVER forgot you my friend. You had the gift to make people feel better when things were bad. Even when you were feeling down-you always looked at the good side of things-- 'why stay mad, life is too short'---how right you were. My Sincere sympathy goes out to her hubby Mike their Childern and all her family!! I will NEVER forget you!! (Go Bills)--the bills games and 'green label'Jack--i know that you know what that means!! Rest babygirl-- you always were an angel!!!
May 11, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Jennifer Kwietniewski
May 11, 2010
Momma You know how much I have always loved you! You let me live with you guys for two years. Even before that you treated no less than one of your own. I will ALWAYS LOVE YOU! GOD BLESS you! Its fair to say that God needed an angel in heaven and he did the perfect jub by choosing you! I only wish it would have been later!
Sheila Bowers
May 11, 2010
My heart aches for your family and your Mercy/OLV family. You helped take care of my godmother Katie and were always someone I could rely on to help Katie as needed. You were the kind of person one could trust to take loving care of one's relative. Your sense of humor, kindness, and compassion for the residents was so evident. I am sure you will have a special place in heaven! Katie and I send our prayers to your family at this difficult time.
Liz McRae
May 11, 2010
I remeber Tammy when I first came to Mercy as an LPN and she was a CNA. Always friendly and helpful.I left and came back as an RN and still Tammy was there.The same girl..I'm so glad she fulfilled her dream to be a nurse and I'm am humbled to have known such a wonderful person. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family in thier time of sorrow. My prayers are with you.
Liz Wilson
May 11, 2010
Tammy was a kind and caring person. She took care of my dad and treated him as though he were her own father. He loved her like a daughter.My sincere sympathy to all who loved her. Tammy I guess it is safe to say you earned the right to "blow your own horn" so toot toot Go Bills and look out for flying cats in heaven.
Marge Cavaretta-Dykstra
May 11, 2010
Loving, caring, sunshine, no job too big, too small, or too hard, always willing to give a helping hand...
Mother, daughter, grandmother, friend, CNA, student, LPN...
Co-worker, leader, advocate, healer, helper, peacemaker...
Well done ...
You will be missed by all who knew you:
Rest in Peace Tammy...
Keri Ambrose
May 11, 2010
Dear Leeann and Family, Our Deepest Sympathies and Condolences to You in Your Time of Loss.You are in Our Thoughts and Prayers. The Members Of Woodlawn Volunteer Fire Company.
Keri Ambrose
May 11, 2010
To Leeann and Family, our deepest sympathies and condolences go out to you in your time of great loss.You are in our thoughts and prayers.Members of the Woodlawn Volunteer Fire Company
Stefanie Baxter
May 11, 2010
The world has lost a beautiful person. I knew Tammy at Mercy Nursing Faciliy many years ago when she was a CNA. I couldn't ask for a more professional, caring person to take care of the residents at the facility. She will be remembered as a very thoughtful and loving women. Her laugh and smile was contagious. Bless you Tammy, I know you are sitting up in heaven smiling at us and cheering those Bills on. I wish all the best to your family. Stefanie Baxter former Director of Nursing, Mercy Nursing Facility
Lori MCGreevy
May 11, 2010
Tammy, you brought love,laughter,joy and comfort to all our lives i know you are already striking up a deal for the bills and the superbowl with god as we speak. you were a true friend and someone that made a difference in so many peoples lives. we have all been blessed to have met you and though we take this time to grieve we will eventually be able to embrace the memories with joy and the happiness that you always gave us. you were one of my best friends i will love you always and miss you greatly
Cherie Messore
May 11, 2010
Tammy took wonderfully good care of my mom during her 4+ years in Mercy's SNF. She was caring, thoughtful, kind and loving and attentive to all the residents and their families, too. We shared many stories, laughter and snacks through the years. Her kindness to my mom and our family (including Walter!) will never be forgotten. Go Bills! : )
Sue Berg
May 11, 2010
Tammy was an angel here on earth, to her patients and everyone who knew her. I will miss her dearly,and I am so glad to have known her.
May 11, 2010
Tammy was one of my Mom's favorite nurses at Mercy SNF at OLV and most recently cared for my Dad, also at Mercy SNF. Our most sincere condolences at the loss of a fabulous lady. She will be dearly missed by all she has known.
Our thoughts are with the entire family,
James Theiss and daughter, Barbara Schaefer
V Bifaro
May 11, 2010
Tammy you will be greatly missed. You were always a great human being. My family Loved and appreciated you so much for being a kind dear friend and taken care of my father during his stay at Mercy’s SNF unit. You gave my Mother much comfort in knowing you were there to take care of her husband. You also gave me one of the best gifts anyone could ask for on their wedding day. You made it possible for my dad to give me away. You dressed in his best and escorted him to the hall so he could do what dads do on that special day. I could never Thank you enough for that. You became part of the family over the last 20 years and we will never forget you and your sense of humor. So please sip some of that tea with Smitty and Mary. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
With much love
The Bifaro’s
Barb Neubauer
May 11, 2010
I did not know Tammy, or her family but my heart breaks for them. She is a fellow LPN, and I feel close to her for that reason. To lose a mother on Mother's day is horrendious. I can't believe the grief you must all feel. I know words cannot make anything better, but I want you to know my heart and my prayers will be with you every day of my life. God be with you at this time of great sadness, and forever. Barb Neubauer LPN
May 11, 2010
Family of Tammy Huber - your have the heartffelt condolences of the entire Trocaire College Community.
Sincerely
Marian Meyers
Dean of Nursing Studies
Mary Jean Michalski
May 11, 2010
Tammy was one of my mom's nurses at the SNF. She was a great nurse and always positive and happy. My prayers are with her family..we will miss her.
Edie Kelly
May 11, 2010
Tammy, you will forever be remembered as a great co-worker and friend from Mercy Hosp. skilled Nursing facility. What a remarkable, funny, caring individual.Loved by all who knew you. You lived each day to the fullest and worked hard to achieve your goals.I miss working with you, and remember---Go Bills!!! and let's have a Jack while we talk about it.!!! Friend and former co-worker Edie
Kelly Deering / Salas
May 11, 2010
Tsmmy I didn't get to meet you but i've heard wonderful things about you, and from what i can tell you have raised 2 wonderful daughters i never talked to your son but im sure he is a wonderful kid too ! You will be truly missed but not forgoten, you have so many people that love you !! God has called a Beautiful Angelto heaven so now please look after Leeann she needs your guidance to ome back to those who love and need her. God rest and bless your soul!Our Prayers and thoughts are with your family at this time of need. Your Cousin By Marriage Kelly Deering Salas
Colleen Patterson
May 11, 2010
I will NEVER forget the kindess and love with which Tammy cared for my grandmother during her years as a resident on the SNF floor. She was such a joy to the residents, had a great sense of humor and always treated the residents with the with the dignity and respect they so deserve. My prayers and heart goes out to your family, the residents, your co-workers and friends. You have touched so many families in such a special way over the years and I thank you for that.
Paul Schroeder
May 11, 2010
I knew Tammy in 1983. I will never forget what a wonderful person she was.
Gina Fusco (Antonelli)
May 11, 2010
Although our lives took different paths, I remember Tammy always smiling. So sorry to hear about this tragedy. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Scott,Chris,Amber,Buddy & Dad,Lakeshore Goodfellows,and the Synder Rd crew, Trost
May 11, 2010
Dearest Tammy,To my very best friend,How do I begin; So vibrant, so beautiful, so filled with life. The only way i can describe you to friends is like the energizer bunny,you just kept going.You have brought so many memories to our lives,that will not be forgotten. You were taken much to soon. In the darkness you seemed to radiate.You are and were a guiding light.Your a very dear companion within my life and all you touched.You`re like that. I am greatful for your affection. but believe I was not worthy of it simply because of your level/standard for giving love, trust, and friendship was unequaled. Though out or life Ive never met anybody who didn't take a shine to you nor spoke a foul word.We will all miss your positive attitude,and excuberance towards life.You touched everyone you met.You have found your everlasting pool of Tennesse siping tea,which dolphins and frogs inhabit. It`s time relax,go to the park,sit by the fire,listen to music and sip.You will be in our thoughts and dreams daily and forever.
Lynn Suarez
May 11, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Carla Mingarelli
May 11, 2010
Donna, Leeann, Michelle and Tommy,
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to you all for the loss of your daughter/mother. Donna I remember you working at the hospital and at Rite Aide and you were so proud of Tammy. Leann, Michelle, and Tommy your mom was so proud of all of you. You were her life. Her eyes lit up when she talked about her children and grandchildren. She was respected and loved by the staff and residents at Mercy Nursing Facility. Our hearts and prayers go out to your family. Tammy will always have a special place in our hearts.
Carla Mingarelli (Orchard Park, NY)
Brenda Genewick
May 11, 2010
The light that Tammy gave to others will forever burn brightly.
Julia Diehl
May 11, 2010
You will be loved and missed and never be forgotten,
your friend, Julia Diehl
Donna Casey, RN
May 11, 2010
My deepest sympathy is extended to the family, friends and co-workers of Tammy. She will be missed.
May 11, 2010
You will never be forgotten Tammy.
Chris Adamski
May 11, 2010
I was lucky enough to meet Tammy through our mutual friend Lori McGreevy. Not only was she a wonderful nurse she was a wonderful friend to everyone she met.She was a blessing in the lives of all her knew her.She will be greatly missed but never forgotten. RIP our friend.
Chris & Steve Adamski
South Buffalo
Marie Day
May 11, 2010
Tammy I will miss you. You have been there for me so many times and helped me through the good and bad times. You have gave me the courage do go to back school. My deepest condolences go out to the family and my prayers for Leann.
Michael Roche
May 11, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
Sis Bettie Woolford
May 10, 2010
I Have a Place in Heaven
Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears.
It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know.
My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.
~ Author Unknown ~
I will miss my sweet "Sister" Tammy. We need to stick together during this time of sorrow. I will always be here if anyone wants to talk or pray. Love you all. Sis Bettie
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