30 School Street
Montpelier, Vermont
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Josh Fitzhugh
April 23, 2014
Dear Ethel and family,
I am sorry to have missed this notice of Stan's death and the calling hours. As neighbors on Liberty Street for many years, Stan and you were among the very first people we met in Montpelier and those years of friendship and education were very important to me and Didi. I always enjoyed my conversations with Stan, whether it was about business or hockey or how to fix a leaky basement or rotten porch! Just the other day I looked for him at the NU hockey game in your goal end seats; gosh how time moves along!!!!
Please extend my condolences to Gary and your daughters ( whom I don't know as well. When I think of people who epitomize the character and dedication and business sense of Montpelier since WW 2, the name Stanley Grandfield rises to the top of the list.
Beverlee Hill
April 18, 2014
Ethel, Gary, girls and extended family: I just returned from out of state yesterday and learned of Stan's passing. So many memories have gone through my mind. Like so many other young people of the late 60's, Stan gave John and I our financial start. His trust in us and his advice were very important as we started our married lives and family.
About a decade later, we had the pleasure of working with him on the youth hockey program. His and Ethel's leadership in getting the outdoor rink inside to a renovated salt shed is known by many. His and Ethel's leadership and contributions to youth hockey continued as the Salt Shed was replaced by the Central Vermont Civic Center on Gallison Hill. I am so glad that the current CVSA Skating organization as well as the National Organization had the opportunity to honor them a few years ago.
As I watch my grandchildren enjoy the fruits of his hockey programs, I will remember him fondly and thank you all for sharing him with us.
Bev Pembroke Hill, Montpelier, Vermont
April 17, 2014
Dearest Ethel and family,
It has been sseveral years since I have been part of the Triad team but a day does not go by that I do not thing about the both of you. I was lucky enough to get a chance to know Stan and how much of a wonderful, caring individual he was. He will be truly missed by the individuals who got to know him and were part of his life.
Much love to you all,
Beth Diederich
Tim Brisley
April 17, 2014
I was saddened to hear of Stan's passing. I was fortunate enough to have spent some quality time with him, and Ethel, at our camps, and at the summer house. A truly awesome man.
Jill Stowe (Graves)
April 17, 2014
Mrs. Grandfield and Family,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I was lucky enough to work with Stanley at the Howard Bank and through Triad; but my favorite time to see him was as a neighbor passing by and chatting for a few minutes.
He has always held a special place in my heart; always a gentleman and a constant teacher - he will be missed by many.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time of losing a husband, Father, Grandfather, and friend. May all the wonderful memories you've made over the years comfort you during this time.
Sandy (Houghton) Pitonyak
April 16, 2014
Ethel and Family ... I am so sorry to have read about Stan's passing. We always enjoyed you folks stopping by City Hall to chat with us, and we hope you will continue, Ethel. I know it has been a difficult journey, as of late, but you're a wonderful family full of love and support and I know the fond memories will sustain you. Love and warm thoughts to you all ...
Jim & Kathy Segar
April 16, 2014
Dear Ethel & family, Jim & I are so sorry to learn of Stanley's passing. He did so much for the Youth of Central VT. We always enjoyed chatting with both of you as you stopped on College St. or when we walked by on Liberty Street and Stanley was outside working on some project! May the memories of the good times help you in these days ahead. God bless you all & rest in peace Stanley.
Judy Knapp
April 16, 2014
Ethel and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
April 16, 2014
Members of the Grandfield Family -- I had the pleasure of working with Stan at the Howard Bank. What a wonderful gentleman who helped me get oriented to Howard Bank. He will be missed by all of the Howard Bank family. Alan Day
Barb Spaulding
April 15, 2014
Dear Ethel, so sorry to read about Stan's passing. He was so very helpful to my former husband and me, in helping us get started and giving us a chance. Bankers like Stan just don't exist anymore. I'm sorry for your loss.
Joyce Pregent
April 15, 2014
To Ethel and her family,
Sending you and your family my deepest condolences. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time. I have such fond memories of Stan and will cherish them forever. I met Stan when he hired me at Triad Temporary Services as a receptionist and later asked me to become his office manager. I learned so much from him during the 19 years that I worked for him. He had such compassion and kindness for the people that would come into Triad looking for work. To see him reach into his pocket and give a twenty-dollar bill to someone for gas money until they got paid and only asked them to pay him back if they could. It was never a surprise to see that individual come in after cashing his check and walk into Stan's office to pay him back.
Those ‘get together's for Triad employees in Worcester put on by you and Stan will always be remembered. They were so special and fun; especially that Chocolate Bar Tree is still talked about today by my grandchildren. And the kids sure did have fun in the pond during those outings.
I could write much, much more but will visit often and we can reminisce about such things at that time.
I know that Stan is at peace now and I picture him sitting on his porch in Worcester looking at the mountains and watching for his turkeys and checking his apple trees.
Fondly,
April 15, 2014
Dear Ethel and Family, Sorry to hear about Stanleys passing. He was a great person and a tremendous boss.Stan hired me in 1971 and he got me started in the banking business.He will be missed by all. Sincerely, Dave Carbo Winter Haven Fl.
Tom Racine
April 15, 2014
Mrs. Grandfield: our whole family is saddened at the loss of Stan. He was very instrumental in helping Willie and Annette in business for many years. I always enjoyed talking business or pleasure with Stan. He was a true gentleman, honest person and a real Vermonter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Debbie Demingware Nichols
April 15, 2014
Ethel, So sorry to hear of Stan's passing, he was a joy to work for back in The Howard Bank days, you and your family are in my thoughts.
April 15, 2014
So sorry to read the passing of Mr. Grandfield. He was a joy to work with back in The Howard Bank days. You are all in my prayers.
Debbie Demingware Nichols
Mary Paule Hill
April 15, 2014
Ethel & Family - my sincere condolences on the loss of such a wonderful man. Stan was a huge influence in my life. I have fond memories of the time we worked together at Triad and was his General manager for Temp Services. We all had such a wonderful time in Hawaii (my reward for getting his payroll system up and running!). I was honored that he asked my husband and I to join you on vacation. Then there were the great lunches at Peking Duck! I know he's probably still enjoying his "Bombay" in heaven. Rest in Peace Sweet Man, you surely deserve it. Much Love! Mary Paule Hill
Eric Knudsen
April 15, 2014
Dear Ethel,
My condolences to you and your family. I very much enjoyed working with Stan. He was a smart businessman, courteous and had a great sense of humor. I will miss him.
Paul Premo
April 15, 2014
Such a fine gentleman I am glad to have had the pleasure of meeting years ago. He certainly will be missed by all.
Rich Feeley
April 15, 2014
Terri and I are sorry to hear of Stan's passing. He was a great guy, and had a huge influence on me when I worked for him at the Howard Bank in Burlington so many years ago (70s).
Stan was a very bright man, and a great teacher. I was an inexperienced young guy when I met Stan, and he not only helped me become a commercial lender, but he also helped me to become a more responsible young man.
Many of the fellows I worked with/for at the Howard have passed on; and I will forever be in their debt. Stan was a gem, and Vermont has lost one of its "good guys". Glad I had a chance to thank him a few years ago.
Condolences to his family. We know he will be missed
RIP, Stan.
Brenda Seely
April 15, 2014
Dear Mrs.Grandfield,
I was so sorry to hear of your husband's passing.My mom, Milly Seely, always found you both delightful people.May the pain lessen as time moves on....My deepest sympathies.
Brenda Seely
Barry and Robin Aldrich
April 15, 2014
We are deeply saddened by the passing of Stanley. I have endless memories of his humor, sage advice and kinship. I'm sure the stories are flowing around the table in heaven tonight!
David Gustafson
April 14, 2014
Our memories will cherish Stan's generous spirit, good cheer and all-around class.
Lois Ferland
April 14, 2014
Dear Ethel and family
Was startled today to open my Times Argus on line and find Stanley's name in the obituary column. Please know that I was sorry to read that. I will be keeping you all in my prayers and hope that you will all find comfort knowing you and he are remembered Hugs to all Lois
Steve and Heather Bolduc
April 14, 2014
We are so sorry to hear of Stan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. We always enjoyed talking with Stan at the hockey rinks.
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