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Barbara M. Rourke

1926 - 2019

BORN

1926

DIED

2019

Barbara Rourke Obituary

Barbara M. Rourke, 93, of Schenectady, died peacefully on Monday, March 4, 2019. Barbara Ann McMahon was born February 3, 1926 in Norwalk, Connecticut, the older of two children of William H. McMahon, Jr., M.D. and Alberta Comstock McMahon. Barbara's brother, William H. McMahon, III, died in 1994. Barbara graduated from Trinity College in Washington, D.C. in 1946. She married Schenectady physician Daniel J. Rourke, M.D. in 1954. Dr. Rourke died in 2009. Barbara is survived by her three children, Sheilah A. Rourke, of Clifton Park; Daniel J. Rourke, Jr. (D.J.) of Jupiter, Florida; and Brien M. Rourke of Brooklyn. Barbara is also survived by three of her brother Bill's four sons, Eugene D. McMahon, M.D. and his wife, Victoria of Newtown, Pennsylvania; Paul B. McMahon and his wife, Michelle of Acton, Massachusetts; and Kevin D. McMahon and his wife, Mary Ellen of Southport, Connecticut. Auntie Barb is survived by eight grandnieces and grandnephews. Her nephew, William H. McMahon, IV, died in 2017. She was a communicant of St. John the Evangelist Church. Per Barbara's wishes, funeral services will be private and there will be no viewing hours. Barbara wanted all who held her dear to celebrate life and if so moved, to make a memorial donation to a charity of one's own choosing.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. from Mar. 6 to Mar. 7, 2019.

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grace harrigan

February 28, 2021

She accepted the final years of her life with great Grace. I miss her.

February 29, 2020

I think of Barbara when I use items she encouraged me to but when shopping together.
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Grace Harrigan

March 8, 2019

I will miss our visits whenever I returned to Schenectady. barbara was a great lady. I feel privileged to have known her all these years.My sympathesys to Sheila, DJ and Brian

Victor DeSantis

March 8, 2019

Our prayers are with Barbara and the family

March 8, 2019

DJ, Sheilah and Brien, I am saddened to hear of the passing of your mom. I have such fond memories of her during our childhood, and she was a wonderful neighbor to my family. My sympathies and love to you, hope you find comfort with each other.
Sincerely, Janet Zampella

March 6, 2019

Sheilah, Brien and the Rourke family. So sorry to learn of your mother's passing...mom's are the best. I recall reading somewhere that" God couldn't be everywhere and that's why he created moms'".

Gone From My Sight
By Henry Van Dyke

I am standing upon the seashore.

A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength. I stand and watch her until, at length, she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.

Then some at my side says: There, she is gone!

Gone where?

Gone from my sight.

That is all.

She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to destined port.

Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at that moment when someone at my side says: There, she is gone! there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout: Here she comes!

And that is dying...

Kevin & Mary Ellen McMahon

March 6, 2019

We will think of you always. Thank you for being so generous and full of fun.

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