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Justin Novak Obituary
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for Justin Novak
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November 24, 2021
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November 24, 2021
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November 24, 2021
Dear Justin,
Last night we had to put our sweet Emma Lu down. She was 14 1/2. I know when she crossed that rainbow bridge you were waiting for her on the other side. I spent one last special night talking to her and petting her telling her about all the people she was going to get to see again. When I mentioned your name she popped her head up and looked at me and gave me kisses. She never forgot her daddy. It comforts me to know she's running through fields of tall grass and flowers with her daddy again. I knew with each year that passed she was getting older and closer to going to heaven. This was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. I feel empty and lossed. I Love you both! I miss you both so much! I'll see you again one day! Hugs and kisses for ever!❤
EMMA LU, 13 1/2, missing you!
February 5, 2021
Missing you more with every year that passes!
Love you always,
H
Miss Emma Lu ready for bed. Emma had her 12th birthday on May 15th 2019.
HP
July 17, 2019
Just thinking of you... missing you so much these days.
Marilyn Williams
January 14, 2014
Hi my special man, Auntie M misses you. When I close my eyes and think of you, I see your cute smile and hear your laughter. Even hear you say Hi Auntie M in your special way. You were one terrific kid. You were here for such a short time but made such a difference to so many. Only hope you knew how much you were loved by so many and what an impact you've made on so many lives. You will always be in my heart little Justy. Can't help but chuckle whenever I see a cake with your "special frosting" …...Love you,
January 14, 2014
Dear Justin:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Remember the year you wanted to celebrate your birthday by going to a German Restaurant. When we got there, we found that it was closed on Monday, Guess we would find the same situation today. So many memories and such a big emptiness since you have left us.
You never made life dull that is for sure. Your memory is with me every day. just wish our last days together had been somewhat normal. I have heard that Jennifer Hudson was feeling the loss of 2 of her relatives who were murdered. It sounds as though she was feeling sadness and helplessness of losing loved ones before their time. Jennifer decided that she would honor their memories by doing something special for others on their birthdays. She said it has helped her to feel better.
Since you helped people with your kindness, it seems fitting to honor your memory by doing something for others on your birthday too. You were loved so much and we would like to make sure your kindness to others can continue.
Love
Mom & Dad
so sorry - I missed your birthday by taking so long to write this and getting the correct e mail address
You're biggest fan, and your little girl Emma.
H P
January 13, 2014
Dear Justin,
Happy Birthday! I'm sitting awake thinking of how much I miss you. There is so much I needed to say to and will never have that chance. You were this amazing kind and generous man. I believe you touched the souls of so many people with your kindness you just didn't know it. As the years pass by I find myself missing you more and more. I've been thinking about how much fun we had every Saturday in the summer bringing Emma to the dog beach and enjoying a Chicago style hot dog when we were done. Or when we walked all the dogs, Sierra, Elsa, and Emma around the block by your house. And I remember every birthday you had we would have dinner and a homemade bday cake at your parents house. Oh Justin how I wish we could still enjoy all these things. You will always have a piece of my heart for I gave it to you the day I met you. You would come to my work every night and bring me a beatiful rose. It was so sweet. No one had ever done something so sweet for me. I will never forget you and always miss and love you. I know we'll meet again in heaven someday and knowing that comforts me. Well my dear Justin I must say goodbye for now.
H P
December 31, 2013
Dear Justin,
I miss you so much. Everywhere I go I see something that reminds me of you. Your church, the street you lived on, a transam driving down the road, and those darn uhaul trucks. I wish I could turn back time and see you again, your amazing personality, and that sweet crooked smile. I think of you all the time. I took Emma on a long walk in the fall. We were walking down Washington when we came to your street. Emma began to pull me toward your house. She still remembers you. She's gonna be 7 on may 15th. She's become somewhat of a lazy lounger. However at least once a day she beats up her tattered squirrel. Its the same sqirrel we bought her @ petco when she was a pup . She's got a gray beard now and is starting to look older. I had baby girl last January 31st. She's beautiful. Its just me, the baby and Emma. Its hard being a single mom but totally worth it. I find myself thinking of you more and more as January comes around again. I know you're in heaven watching over all your loved ones. I pray every night always asking God to watch over you, my father, my daughter and your family. Losing a loved one the way we lost you makes it so much harder to move on. I wish you knew how truly incredible you were and how many people loved you. I just wanted to let you know how missed you really are. I will always love you and you will always hold a special place in my heart. I find comfort in knowing that I will see you again someday. Goodbye for now Justin. You're always on my mind and close to my heart.
December 31, 2013
Dear Justin:
Jonathan has come home for the holidays, and we miss you so much.
Jon got tickets to 2 Black Hawk games.
Friday, he went with Dad, Bob and Bill to an Avalanche Game. Tonight, exactly 2 years to the day, that you and Jon had tickets to a Black Hawk Game, he took me to the game against the LA Kings.
I sure hope you were with us tonight. It was a great experience, but I wish you had been able to see that game 2 years ago with Jon as well. I know it was such a disappointment to all of you that none of you got to see that original game.
Love Mom , Dad & Jon
December 9, 2013
Dear Justin
We got a new Christmas tree and yesterday, while it was snowing outside, I attempted to put on lights. (Dad decided a pre lit tree might cause problems). I wish I had paid attention to your technique of putting on lights, you had such patience, and the trees were always beautiful.
Thinking of you and missing you.
Love Mom
Marilyn Williams
November 25, 2013
Hey Justy, I was volunteering at the Phoenix Children's Hospital on Friday, as I've been doing for the past 4 years, and when I walked in the playroom, there you were. This little one was around 6 or 7 with glasses. He was exactly as I remember you to have been when you were that age. Wish I could have taken a picture of him but his parents weren't around to get permission. Made me miss my special nephew so much and brought tears to my eyes. Your in my thoughts all the time. Auntie Marilyn loves and misses you.
November 24, 2013
Hi
I finally updated my phone, at the same store where you had updated your phone just before your birthday. I made sure they saved the last call you made to me on your birthday, before you left for the weekend.
When I got the new phone back, they told me 64 pictures had been transferred from the old one. I didn't even know I had any. In reviewing them, the first pictures were of me with Emma. You took them the first night you had her. I wish I had known we had them. I know you were upset that you had misplaced your "Sim" card with your early pictures of Emma. We could have made a copy for you.
Thinking of you.
Mom
October 31, 2013
Hi
Thinking of you today. If you were here wonder how many haunted houses you would have visited.
Guess it's fitting to think of you today, as it's also All Saints Day. I think it is a Mexican tradition to honor their relatives who have passed away as well.
Love and Miss You!
Mom
October 13, 2013
October 13 2013
Dear Justin:
Yesterday, I went to Jewel & noted that Boo Berries are out on the shelves and remember how you enjoyed them during the Halloween limited marketing season, even as an adult.
In fact the last box you purchased was enjoyed by Autumn.
I also noted an unusual display at the fish counter. I remembered when you worked for Jewel, one of your displays was recognized by a visiting Jewel representative as one of the best he had seen at any of the stores.
At this time of year you would also recount stories of when you and Sean helped set up worked at the Lombard Jaycees Haunted House.
Dad & I just had our 50th High School Class Reunion and enjoyed seeing former classmates. At your 10th year reunion you had reconnected with old classmates who were so happy to see you after hearing that you had died.
For some reason your name did not appear in the Willowbrook Alum Name
Directory even though Dad, Jonathan's & mine were, as well as all your cousins. I don't know how that could have happened. Well now, maybe your name will appear in the listing of "Deceased" classmates. How sad.
As always you are thought of each day.
You were so talented in so many areas and had so much to offer people, I just wish you could have had more confidence in yourself.
Love
Mom
September 7, 2013
Dear Justin,
Dad & I went to Medinah's Shrine Center tonight for Dad's birthday dinner. The last time you were with us at the Shrine, we you were there to accept your Citizen's Award in 2009. The Addison Review Board had recognized your saving Charley Pickerill's life by administrating CPR during his heart attack. Such a proud experience for us.
You are always close in our hearts and memories. You made birthdays special with your caring ways.
Love You!
Mom & Dad
September 2, 2013
Dear Justin
Summer has come and gone. Last weekend we were visiting Aunt Ruth and saw the Muster in Connecticut. Today is Labor Day and I think of all the Labor Day parades we spent in Zion with the Horse Troop.
You are still in our hearts and memories of all the good times we shared with you and always will be.
Love,
Mom
July 4, 2013
Dear Justin
Well a 2nd July 4th without you and your presence is still here. Dad & I went to the Parade and watched it at the end of the street with Mr Browning.
It was a beautiful day, not like last year when it was so hot.
It was a quiet day with just Dad & I taking it easy. Dad needs to rest he has been so busy the last couple of weeks moving Jonathan from North Carolina to California - he is really beat. He needs a couple of days of rest.
I went to the Taste of Lombard and got a Philly Cheese Steak in your honor. I never had one before, but knew how much you looked forward to getting one every year.
We won't be going to the fire works display that you enjoyed watching.
We will hear it and see some of the higher displays over the trees in front of the house. We will watch the celebrations on TV from Boston and Washington DC without all the crowds.
I'm reminded of the year we were in Atlanta with the Horse Troop. We went to watch the fireworks near the Stable when it began pouring rain. As we were leaving, a fire cracker canister fell from the sky and hit you in your leg.
Fortunately you weren't badly hurt and it never affected your love of fire work displays.
Miss you!
Love Mom
May 19, 2013
Dear Justin:
Today was the Lilac Day Parade and for the first time in a long time, the Lilacs seem to be in bloom for the festivities. I know you enjoyed attending the parade with your friends. It was a sunny, but very hot day.
Dad & I had barbecued ribs. We took your advice and tried baking them. In your honor, we even used Sweet Baby Ray's Barbecue sauce, which you loved, not Open Pit. You were right, baked is much better than grilled. The ribs were tender and delicious Wish we had tried it sooner and you had a chance to share them with us, since it was your suggestion and it was one of your favorite meals.
Love you!
Mom
Mom
March 31, 2013
Dear Justin:
Today was Easter Sunday, another Easter without you. I am still trying to adjust, but memories of you are still on my mind every day. Jonathan called from United Arab Emeritis to wish us a Happy Easter. He will soon be returning to the US after being there since last May. We have been able to scype him a lot so that has been good. He has been able to stay in a plush hotel.
We finally had a sunny and mild day for a change. The weather has been cold and days have been overcast and dreary for weeks. Uncle Bill, Aunt Barb, Melinda and Melissa were supposed to come to dinner, but all of them are sick. We have postponed it for awhile until everyone feels better.
Wish you were here to share the day with us. We will always love you!
March 18, 2013
Dear Justin;
Today was my birthday. Last year Dad & I were out of town, but this year we were home and I missed your being here.
You always wanted birthdays to be special. I remember when you were 10, you left a recorder on the kitchen table with a message on it that I should listen to. You had left clues to follow until I found the gift you had left for me along with a wish for a very happy birthday.
Thank you for sharing the thoughtful and creative side of you during your life. I only wish we had a chance to share a day with you for your last birthday. You usually wanted to go to a German restaurant, but we didn't have a chance to set a date.
Love you forever!
Mom
Mom & Dad
March 17, 2013
Dear Justin:
Today is St. Patrick's day and Dad fixed a corned beef and cabbage dinner. You loved corned beef dinners and would never pass an opportunity to
enjoy one - no matter what time of year it was.
Wish you were here to enjoy another one. We miss you so much!
Laura Williams
February 26, 2013
Hey my Lil' J cuz!
I miss your distinct laugh, your special smile, your big heart and kindness to others, I will always cherish the fun times we shared together. You'll ALWAYS be in my heart!
I love you cuz
Justin's Journey Just Begun
Don't think of him as gone away
His journey's just begun,
Life holds so many facets
This earth is only one.
Just think of him as resting
From the sorrows and the tears
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing
That we could know today
How nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of him as living
In the hearts of those he touched....
For nothing loved is ever lost
And he was loved soooooooo much.
Marilyn Williams
February 25, 2013
The Broken Chain
We did not know that day, that God would call your name.
In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone;
For part of us went with you, the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide;
And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same;
But as God calls us one by one, THE CHAIN will link again.
Aunt Marilyn loves and misses you Justy
Jon and Justin 2010
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Citizen's Award 2009
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Jon, Justin, Bobby B. 1988
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Christmas 2010
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Brian P, Bill Jr, Justin at the Ardmore Lounge
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Justin with his Car
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Christmas 1987
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Alex, Autumn, Brandy, Jon
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
The Cousin's
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Halloween 1985
Melinda Baur
February 25, 2013
Brandy, Jon, Alex, Autumn
February 25, 2013
All the Baur Cousins!
February 25, 2013
Halloween 1987
February 25, 2013
Citizen Award 2009
February 25, 2013
Jon and Justin 2010
February 25, 2013
Jon, Justin, Bobby B
February 25, 2013
Justin Christmas 2010
February 25, 2013
The Gang at Ardmore Lounge - Brian P, Bill Jr, Justin
February 25, 2013
Justin and his Car
February 25, 2013
Christmas 1987
February 25, 2013
Your Family & Friends
February 24, 2013
Time is growing short to include memories of February 1, 2012. We had quite a houseful of 9 to get ready and out the door for church that morning, but somehow everyone made it. The morning was so mild that Jonathan, Bob Browning & your Mom walked to Church.
Hank and the hearse were already at the church when we arrived. Autumn added the bird house she made for you and Melinda and Melissa included a jar of applesauce that you helped them make, to your casket. Jon and Bill wore their dress blues and were joined by Uncle Bill, Uncle Emil, Uncle David, and Bob Browning as Pall Bearers.
The service was beautiful with Cynthia Anderson playing the piano and Kristen Rosenwinkle playing the flute. Pastor Swanson gave the sermon and Jonathan gave the Eulogy. One part of service that was supposed to be included and wasn't, was the part where people could come forward and share memories of you. Cousin Bill had prepared a special tribute to you. I know how close you both were, and how much he had wanted it to be a part of your funeral service.
We had a luncheon in the Erlenson Lounge at the church after the service. Maria Pickerill and her crew had prepared the luncheon. Nell Shallcross had set up the tables and food table, she did a beautiful job. Uncle Bill and Aunt Barb had provided sandwiches and desserts during your wake. We appreciate their thoughtfulness more than we can ever express.
Since it was Alex's birthday, we had a birthday cake and had everyone sing Happy Birthday to him.
It was at this time, we had Pastor Swanson ask if anyone wanted to share their memories of Justin. Since the opportunity had been omitted from your service your Mom hoped this suggestion would give a chance to those who wanted to, to share their memories.
It was so good to see your best friends Bob Browning, Brian Pevler and Sean O'Deay, sharing the day with us.
Mrs Browning related how she watched you grow up over the years. You would walk by her front window and progressed from wearing cowboy boots, over sized army boots and work boots, and how she missed seeing you.
We heard of your helping a woman, with her groceries, across a busy parking lot. The woman tried to step off the curb, but a parade of cars offered no opening. You were dressed in your black leather jacket, with your Harley Davidson wallet chain hanging from your pocket and sporting your modified Mohawk hair cut. Seeing the situation, you stepped off the sidewalk with your hand out to stop oncoming cars, you pushed the grocery cart to the woman's car and unloaded her groceries.
We could all smile at the mental picture of you and wonder what the woman thought, but know that was you. Whenever someone would suggest you modify your appearance a little. You would remind them not to always judge a person by their appearance. You did not seem worry about what people thought of you, you knew who you were. You could often push boundaries and drive us crazy, but your kind and good side could not be ignored.
When you were about 11, your parents promised you could get a bike. On your own, you made a decision on a bike from Allen's Cycle shop after weeks of consulting with the staff over options available. Before walking home to tell them of your decision, you picked up a brochure at the shop promoting an upcoming charity bike ride to Lake Geneva. The charity was for an unfamiliar woman's disease, but there were several local celebrities involved. Thinking this would be a great idea for someone with a new bike, (although it hadn't been ordered yet), you started collecting donations on your walk home.
When you showed the brochure,to your folks it stated the minimum age for the ride was 16, unless accompanied by an adult. While the ride sounded like an elegant and unusual event, your mother didn't try to find someone willing to ride with you. Instead she just mailed in the money you had already collected. You did receive a thank you and acknowledgement of your donation.
Unfortunately, the first ride on your new bike didn't go well. A pizza delivery driver backed out of a drive way half a block from our house. Your were pedaling your bike on the sidewalk and had no time to stop. Even though the incident caused your new bike to have a bent handle, and caused the seat and biking gloves to be torn and scuffed, the driver never stopped. You were a very disappointed young man, but took the disappointment in stride.
Pastor Swanson mentioned that you saved a man's life. That life was Dad's friend and former Villa Park Fire Chief, Charley Pickerill. He had returned from a hunting trip in Montana and stopped by the Addison U-Haul. He brought you a coffee and breakfast sandwich from McDonald's. You were finishing a reservation and would meet him in the parking lot to help move venison from his car to a freezer in the back of the shop.
Minutes later, you found him lying in the driveway and called 911, while administrating CPR. The firemen on the scene said that it appeared Charley had a heart attack and your CPR helped keep him alive.
About a year later you received a call from the Addison Police Department inviting you to a dinner,on Friday, October 22, 2010. They didn't provide details and you weren't sure you wanted to go.
Turns out the dinner was the 41st Annual Addison Police and Fire Appreciation Awards Banquet at the Shrine Center. You were awarded The 2009 Citizens Award from the Addison Merit Review Board. The firemen who answered the call for Charley submitted your name for consideration for the award.
At the dinner, they told the story of how you earned the honor, and presented you with a plaque. Your name was also included on an another plaque that is displayed in the Addison Town Hall. We were so proud of you!
Wanted to include these stories as an example of the good and loving memories we have of you.
When we all came home from the luncheon. Your mother was going thru some boxes in your room and ran across a box of the video games for the Super Nintendo system. She must have put them in the box while "picking up" for an open house. She should have left them in the open because you would have known where they were. Alex cried when he saw them because he had wanted to play the games with you at Christmas but no one could find them. He misses his Uncle and Godfather.
We love and miss you so much and think of you every day. Wish we had more time to revisit a discussion we had that may have made a difference in our lives. Until we can see you again, we will cherish the many good memories we shared with you.
We are comforted, knowing that you are now at peace with our Lord.
Mom & Dad
January 31, 2013
Justin:
I guess you picked the right January to leave us. Last year was very mild, almost like spring. Today's high was about 17 degrees. Tonight it's about 7 degrees with a very strong wind blowing snow around, probably creating a temperature in the minus range.
Last January 31st, we saw you for the first time since you left us and it was so hard. You were still so handsome. Hank gave you such peaceful look, as if you were just taking a little nap. We had put up pictures around the room and Melinda and Melissa had set up 2 places to watch your Memorial DVD. There were beautiful flower arrangements everywhere.
Colby Hanik had put out an e-mail for your high school class, word of mouth and the Sunday Tribune Obituary Notice put out the word of your passing. As soon as the doors opened, a continuous line of friends, co workers and family members would stop by to share their condolences and memories of you for the next several hours.
Many of your classmates told of how your willingness to listen and show an interest in them, changed their high school experience and adult lives. I wish I could remember all their names. One very, shy woman brought us a vase of a dozen beautiful white roses in memory of your kindness to her during a difficult time in high school. Even Dr. Kolb sent a plant to the house, just hours after I had to cancel your dentist appointment. It would have been on the day of your funeral.
The Masons gave you such a beautiful service. There were so many in attendance it would have been impossible to try to count. It was so gratifying to see how many people felt better having known you and wanted to take time to pay their respects to your memory.
You were so loved. Although God has taken you to your heavenly home and you are now at peace, we still miss you terribly.
Love,
Mom
January 30, 2013
Justin:
A year ago yesterday, Dad, Jon and I went Steuerle's to make arrangements for your funeral. We brought the suit you wore to every event since your 8th grade dance. It had really become a little too short and tight, but you never got around to replacing it. We certainly got our monies worth though, and you always looked so handsome.
Hank and Brian were wonderful with helping us make difficult choices and getting everything done on a short time table.
Today, our house was bustling with activity. Friends and family members gathered together to look thru pictures, books and music for your wake. Each shared memories as they worked and a beautiful memorial DVD was being created.
Pastor Swanson stopped by and spoke with Dad, Jon, and I about your funeral service. Jon was writing a presentation and Melinda provided Bible verses for your service. As we were to find out later, there would be an unforeseen miscommunication during the Church service which still causes feelings of remorse for me.
Marilyn Williams
January 28, 2013
Hey Justin, this is your Auntie Marilyn....it's been a year and I can't believe it. I miss you my god son. You were a special person, you just couldn't see it. I remember some of the talks we had when I lived on Ardmore and you will alway be in my heart. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to travel from AZ to be with family to honor you, but all were in my heart that day.
My Justy I'll never be able to look at the gel frosting again without think you you. Not to mention all the other fun memories...apple picking, holidays and just being with you when we could.
Hope you, Uncle Larry, Grandma, Grandpa and Auntie Frances are taking care of each other and watching over all of us.
I love you Justin
Auntie M
Mom & Dad
January 27, 2013
Justin:
I was thinking of you all day yesterday, trying to make sense of what happened. I know you had a standing date on Thursdays with friends who shared the same day off. The day you left the house, there was nothing to indicate you didn't plan on coming home. From what we can gather plans didn't materialize as expected, but messages left behind don't seem to indicate a misunderstanding on the part of any of the parties involved. We will never know the real answer to what happened, and not knowing what went wrong will haunt us forever.
At the risk of omitting names, I am going to try to mention as many people as I can remember who contacted us during our first hours without you. It meant so much to us and I don't want to forget their kindness but don't want to hurt anyone's feelings by not mentioning them either.
After Dad broke the news to me that you had died, the love of your friends and family became evident shortly thereafter. Calls started coming in from all over, Uncle Ted, Aunt Sharon, Matthew and Joanna. I especially remember the call from a devastated Brian Peevler. He so enjoyed renewing your friendship after losing contact over the years. Mr. and Mrs. Browning came over as soon as they got word from Bobby. Brian Mullins came over as well. Jonathan, Brandy, Alex and Autumn drove all night and arrived early Saturday morning. Bob, Uncle Dave, Aunt Sandy, Frank Croschere and Billy would fly here, while Cousin Rick, Cousin Phil and Aunt Ruth would drive into town to see you. As it turned out Laura was already in Illinois helping out a friend whose mother was sick. I only wish you could have realized how much you were loved.
Knowing all the times you faced disappointments and somehow seemed to accept it as a fact of life, we can't imagine what would have made you give up everything. There's a song that plays on the CD memorial of your life that when God sees someone hurting, "he calls out their name" and takes them home to be with him. The words of the song bring us peace to think that you are with God and you won't be hurt anymore.
Melissa, spent hours scanning pictures for the CD, while Melinda, Brian Mullins, Bob and Brandy spent hours selecting and timing music to go with the pictures. The result was a beautiful memorial to you - We are forever grateful for their dedication and love. I am hoping that I am not leaving out anyone's name - they didn't take any credit for all their hard work - I just don't want to forget anyone.
This week Dad lost 2 former members of the International Shrine Horse Patrol, Wayne Fox, from Canada (car accident) and Dad's special friend from Indianapolis (Murat Horse Patrol) Sam Thompson(diagnosed with cancer 6 weeks ago. Dad, Harold, the Wamsley's and MaryAnn Coull drove over to Indianapolis yesterday for his service at the Scottish Rite Cathedral.
This morning, we went to church at St Paul. There were altar flowers from Mom, Dad, Jonathan, Brandy, Alex and Autumn. No one had signed up for flowers this year for the month of January - so we could honor your memory and help out the church as well.
This afternoon, we went to the funeral service for Tom Everett. He was the husband of Norma. Dad was her Patron for Eastern Star. His service was at the Presbyterian Church where you and Jonathan went to Growing Place Preschool. It was a beautiful service and a fitting way for Dad and I to reflect on your life as well, especially today.
Don't know how life is up there, but if there is a way of meeting these men, maybe you could introduce yourself. You always seemed to sense when someone would appreciate help or you could bring them a smile or good deed. I sensed that when you were in K1. Grandma had broken her arm and we came to see you in your class's entry of "Be True to Your School" (by the Beach Boys) for their talent show. You gave her a card, made and signed by the class. That was a beginning of many acts of kindness we witnessed over the years. Little did we know that there were many more. I'm sure you did not realize how much your kindness meant to others. We would hear wonderful stories from people whose lives you touched. You meant so much to them that they came from miles away to pay respects to you at your wake. How many other stories are out there we don't know about? I'm sure God took note. Saint Peter probably had a very long list.
Up until today, we could have memories of times we shared with you in 2011 - Thanksgiving at Jon's house in North Carolina along with Bob and Jackie Browning. I especially enjoyed our after dinner walk down to the boat launching pier. Jackie took a picture of Bob, you and Jon before they left. That picture is sitting on our mantel over the fireplace. I have a picture of you and Jonathan sitting on the old Kranz Hardware counter in his garage. The "Little Kranz" sign in the back ground. I took it just as we were loading the car to come home. That picture is on my desk at work.
We had Christmas Eve at Holly and Tom's and then went to the 11:00 service at St Paul's. Christmas was spent with Uncle Bill, Aunt Barb, Melinda and Melissa, Jonathan, Brandy, Alex and Autumn. Even Brian Mullins' family stopped by. There was also the mix up on the Black Hawk game tickets for Jon and Brandy's Anniversary. It was supposed to be a special evening, but instead became a memorable evening for the wrong reasons. As it turned out you spent New Year's Eve with friends at a hotel that offered a package deal - and you had a great time. You did join Uncle Bill, Aunt Barb, Melinda, Melissa, Bob, Jackie, Mr. & Mrs. Browning for dinner the next day - we have a picture of you sitting at the dining room table with them. That was the last picture I have of you - 2012 did not offer an opportunity for a happy occasion that we were able to share with you.
We love and miss you so much!
Mom & Dad
Robert Browning
January 27, 2013
Justin
Today marks one year that you have been gone and no one, that had the chance to know you, is the same. I know you are not forgotten by the wonderful thoughts that your friends and family continue to express and will forever remember you by. Take care my friend.
Mom
January 25, 2013
Justin
It was one year ago today that was the last day I would ever see you. I have relived the last hours over and over.
Monday, you had shared a music video with me on your Droid- the mischievous look on your face as you watched my reaction is still in my mind. It expressed your views regarding your life at the time. I wish I had a more meaningful reaction, but can't go back. . I did enjoy the song you shared, so I tried the music video channel and I did find it. The TV version was different than the one on your Droid. The ending was a surprise, and so suited to your interests = hint a soldier was involved. I was anxious to tell you, but never did. I wanted you to see it for yourself and not give away the ending. Didn't realize at the time that this short exchange on the song that made you so happy - would be the last words we would share.
Wednesday, night you went to your weekly dinner with Katie. You returned home and were watching Tour of Duty - I looked in on you and decided not to interrupt by asking questions on your dinner. You decided to go to bed early - which was not like you, but as you were going down the hall, I mentioned the music video, and that maybe you would like to see it - since it was going off the air on Thursday. You answered over your shoulder that you were tired and would see it later. I don't know if you ever saw it or shared it with someone before Monday or Thursday night.
Thursday morning, I stopped at your bedroom door and decided not to wake you just to say good bye and have a nice I day. It was your day off, your only day to sleep in - I would see you later. (I regret that decision daily-never saying goodbye). Went downstairs and saw your doggie bag and a small cake (possibly a belated birthday cake) in the frig-from your dinner with Katie). The last items you would ever bring home. The cake is still in our new freezer.
I have no way of knowing what was on your mind on Thursday. I have a feeling that the life you were so happy with on Monday, fell apart on Thursday. You couldn't take one more disappointment, you had put on a "nothing bothers me" attitude too long.
Your family wanted so much to see you happy, but it was not to be. Now we have decisions to make on your belongings, but can't tackle that at this time. Every time I look at something, it brings back memories of it's part in your life. You and I were always very sentimental to a fault.
All your military gear that you were so proud to add to your collection. One more thing to cross off your list of requirements to establish a re-enactment unit. Uncle Bill and I would watch as you would negotiate amazing deals and cart off boxes of "treasures". When we got home,you would explain the items & what parts might still need to be found. I was always amazed at your knowledge of the smallest details.
Then there are all your models that were used to make large military dioramas on the pool table. Jonathan mentioned the fact that at times plans to use the pool table had to be cancelled because of your latest project. You would spend hours and days putting scenes together, only to tear them down after awhile. You would wait until another idea came to mind.
Many people have commented on one of your winter scenes, with snow made from scattered flour. You used small sticks you found in the back yard, and somehow wound string around them to create fencing. You had the fingers of a surgeon to accomplish that (you also used that talent later when you made a "glove" out of wire. When you were finished it looked like mail worn by a medieval knight. I don't know how you did it).
To get back to your winter diorama and details- you would even have tire tracks in the "snow". You had so much talent, but you could never see it.
There are the boxes of items you planned to put in your recreation room when you had a house. I haven't found the "Justin" song you used to play all the time. I always wondered about it, meant to ask, but never got around to it. You left us with so many questions that we never got a chance to ask you.
Although,you have left us, we will never forget or stop loving you. There is a hole in our family that cannot be filled.
Jonathan Novak
January 24, 2013
Well brother it has almost been a year. Although you are gone you have not been forgotten. I don't think that there has been a day that has gone by that I have not thought about you. Something we did when we were young or a story that you told me. I do still remember the time I had you and Sean pinned down in the trees in the back yard with my BB gun. I know it was not funny for you at the time however we laughed about it later. Although I won't have any new memories of us now. You did give me so many memories and stories to think about. It was great to have a brother even for the short time I had you. I am glad that I had you for a short time then never at all!!!!! I will see you again. I love you brother and I will NEVER forget you!!
Matt & Norma Williamson
January 21, 2013
It's ard to believe it's been a year since you have gone the one thing that you and Matt shared was your Birthday. Janurary 13th so we hope you had a good one up heaven...Happy Birthday Justin....
January 20, 2013
Dear Justin:
A belated Happy Birthday. I had posted a note to you last week, but with Dad in Florida, I didn't have him here to help me. I must not have pressed the correct buttons since it didn't print out.
I had gone to Church and had signed up to have altar flowers in honor of your birthday. You were represented as I wore your necklace you had bought yourself for Christmas and were so proud of. (Jonathan wears your bracelet every day) The Gospel was from LUKE 3;15-17,21-22-LUKE 3;22
was "YOU ARE MY SON, the BELOVED; with YOU I AM WELL PLEASED".
a very fitting topic, I'd say. Your Dad and I loved you so much. You honored us, by never saying a harsh or hurtful word to us. Through all your trials,you had a good, kind heart.
After the service, Erin's Mom came up to me with tears in her eyes knowing it would have been your birthday. She said Erin missed you so much on Christmas Eve that she cried through the whole service.
I was surprised when Nellie brought me one of the flower arrangements from the altar to take home with me. I had walked to Church so I was worried about how the cold air would affect them. They survived OK, since they are still looking fresh, 1 week later.
You are missed more than you will ever know. There isn't a day that goes by, that a memory of you doesn't come to mind.
Love Mom
William Baur
January 19, 2013
Justin . . . Justin . . . Justin. I couldn't tell you how much I've missed you this year. Tonight I was with good friends sharing stories with each other. Without realizing it Most of my stories involved times with you. Our trip to Florida and bowling and our time and Fred house. Once we decided to end the night I jumped in my truck and the Urban of Keith (Keith Urban Days gone by) Came on. Brought back even more memories. I couldnt imagine how my life would have turned out without you, You were the best friend I could have asked for and the brother that I never had all the same I miss you and loved you. I hope I can make you proud with the way I turn out, just know that I will never forget you.
Jennifer Ungaro
January 11, 2013
My Dearest Justin,
The closer January 13th approaches the more I feel the pain. Since you have left I have had a world wind of events happen. I am sure you are up there with my dad. Yeah I said it my dad. He left us on June 9th. 2012 did not treat me well at all. I miss and love you dearly. I wish you the best Birthday and hope your Holidays were great as well. I just remember at this time last year we were getting ready for a bunch on trips and starting over. Please know I love and miss you! Happy Birthday!
Mom & Dad
January 9, 2013
It's been almost a year since you left us & changed our lives forever. Last year we were teasing you about being careful on your birthday, Friday, January the 13th. You were excited about spending your birthday at Lake Geneva and making plans for a trip in the spring.
We wish we could turn back the clock and spend more time with you, but time spent would never be long enough. We always loved you and wish you could have realized how many people loved you. We have so many questions that will never be answered. We never had a chance to give you a hug and a kiss goodbye. We miss you everyday - that includes Sierra and especially Elsa.
H.
May 28, 2012
Still not forgotten. I miss you more than words can express. I will always keep you and your family in my prayers. I love you Justin.
Matt & Norma Williamson
February 4, 2012
To the Novak Family we have been thinking of you and Justin and have you in our prayers. Justin was very sweet and kind and always making us laugh we will miss all of that. Hope you are at peace Justin....
Annie Dohoney
February 3, 2012
To the Novak family and to friends of Justin, thinking and praying for all of you during this difficult time. I am so sorry to hear of Justin's passing.
Heather
February 3, 2012
My dearest Justin, your smile could lite up a room. Your love and kindness filled me with joy. I will miss u always and never forget you. I know your in Heaven now my friend. One day we'll meet again on the other side. Me,You,and our Emma Lu. Goodbye for now.
Dan & Marchon Webb
February 3, 2012
Our prayers and thoughts go out to the family. Our kids all grew up together on S Cornell. I will always remember Justin walking down the sidewalk with his shorts on and his boots. He loved wearing those boots. May God give you comfort and peace during this time of grieving.
Tony Bruno
February 1, 2012
The Novak Family will be in my prayers tonight. I have many great memories of growing up in our neighborhood with Jonathan and Justin in Villa Park. God bless Justin and the Novak Family.
Nick & Tina Rossi
February 1, 2012
We will always remember Justin for his sweet personality and kind heart. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time....he will truly be missed.
Jacqueline Browning
January 31, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the Novak family during this difficult tome. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Brother Robert & Ki m Taglia
January 31, 2012
Dear John and Janette,
We are so truly sorry for the loss of your son..He will be missed but remembered in our hearts and prayers. May God Bless you and keep you strong during this difficult time.
Our Deepest Condolences,
Brother Robert Taglia,
VP Masonic Lodge
and
Kim Taglia
Kelly Patterson
January 31, 2012
My deepest condolences to the Novak family during this difficult time. Praying that God gives you all comfort and peace. Rest in peace, Justin...you will be missed and loved by many
Robert Browning
January 31, 2012
Growing up so near to Justin led to a close friendship. Knowing him for thirty years he was something of a brother to me. He had a heart of gold and was truly a wonderful friend. He will be forever loved and missed by those who had opportunity to know him. My sincere condolences go out to the Novak family.
January 31, 2012
We both offer sincere condolences to the Novak family on the death of your beloved son. Words cannot express.
Don and Jean Law
ROJ class of 1990
K Mitchell
January 31, 2012
My thoughts & prayers go out to the Novak Family & Friends. I'm deeply sorry to hear this sad news.
January 31, 2012
Dear Janette and John, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I will miss your wonderful smile Justin. We will always love you.
The Pittmans
Tiffany Allendorfer
January 31, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the Novak family and friends. Rest in Peace
Daniel Martin
January 31, 2012
I am sorry for your loss. I send my deep condolences to the Novak family.
Lorrin Millette
January 31, 2012
To all of Justin's family, I am so very sorry for your loss. My memories of him will forever be fond. May you find peace in this truly sad time.
Jen Goebel
January 30, 2012
I am very sorry to hear about Justin. May he be in peace. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends
Tracy Coffman
January 30, 2012
My deepest condolences to the Novak family. Justin...you will always be my "JB" the best brother from another anyone could ever ask for! <3 "JS"
Betsy Curtis
January 30, 2012
I went to school with Justin through high school, and we were partners once in speech class. We were very different, but he was always kind to me. I am so sorry for your loss, and will be praying for your family.
Grace Yeksigian
January 30, 2012
My deepest condolences to the Novak Family. Justin you will be missed so much. I will treasure the memories I have of you.
Amanda Glabus
January 30, 2012
Please accept my sincere sympathy on your loss. I share in your grief at this sad passing.
Our faith is so important at a time like this. Things seem so hopeless and out of control, however, we know that with God's help we will make it through this difficult time.
I am praying that God will give you the hope and strength you need.
Marni Chiero
January 30, 2012
To the Novak family, you all have been a huge part of my life and I appreicate all you have done for me, I am so sorry for your loss. Justin, you will always be in my heart and very missed!
Dayna Rutter
January 30, 2012
In loving memory of a wonderful person. Justin will be missed.
jeremy aderholt
January 29, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the novak family. I'm so sorry for your loss.....he will be truly missed!
Jennifer U
January 29, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to the family. I love you Justin William!
Lou & Judy Truty
January 29, 2012
Dear John & Janette...Lou and I are so sorry to hear of Justin's passing. Please know you and your family will be in our prayers.
dawn aderholt
January 29, 2012
Justin will forever be remembered each and every st. pats day by my family. also his kindness of stopping by to see me when our son was at MCRD so he could make me laugh a little. God wrapped his arms around you now Justin, you will be at peace forever. our thought and prayers with his family and all of his friends. Dawn and Dan Aderholt
Lisa & Brett Ferguson
January 29, 2012
We offer our sincere condolence and deepest sympathy on your loss. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of family, friends and strangers and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time. Yours in peace, Lisa & Brett (Novak) Ferguson
Cyndi Baur
January 29, 2012
Your family is in our thoughts and heart during this time. (Uncle Larry's daughter) Cyndi
From the Staff of Steuerle Funeral Home, Ltd.
January 29, 2012
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
stephanie a
January 28, 2012
there are no words to express our deepest condolences to the family. we love you Justin!
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