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James M. Lau

1934 - 2023

James M. Lau obituary, 1934-2023, Elkhart, IN

BORN

1934

DIED

2023

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Billings Funeral Home - Elkhart

812 Baldwin St

Elkhart, Indiana

James Lau Obituary

James M. "Jim" Lau, 89, of Elkhart, passed away on Monday, Dec. 11, 2023, at Hubbard Hill. He was born on April 17, 1934, in Elkhart to the late Walter and Martha (Marutz) Lau.

Jim was also preceded in death by his first wife, Marilyn J. (Reed) Lau; brother, Robert Lau; and faithful canine companion, Sammy. He is survived by his wife of 22 years, Mary (Linton) Lau; daughter, Monica Pletcher; granddaughter, Brooke (John) Barbara; great-grandchildren, Lauren and Kenley Barbara; stepchildren, Cathy (Dale) Snow, Leslie (Dan) Miller and Rhonda Linton; and many step grandchildren and step great-grandchildren.

Jim was the best husband, father, grandpa, and great-grandpa who enjoyed spoiling the girls in his family and making them feel special. He worked at Miles Laboratory as a supervisor for over 30 years before retiring and worked briefly as a handyman for ASA Electronics. During his earlier years, he was an avid tennis player in high school where he won the state championships with his team. In his spare time, he also enjoyed playing golf and was a talented piano player. Jim was a devout member of the Masons his entire life and took pride in his involvement in the Masonic brotherhood.

Jim had a witty side that was both playful and sarcastic. He was tender and protective of the women in his life and was the perfect example of a chivalrous man. For many summers, he and his wife, Mary, would camp out at Weko Beach where they met and would spend time with many of their friends. He will be dearly missed by his loving family and many friends.

Visitation will take place on Friday, Dec. 15, from 4 to 6 p.m. at Billings Funeral Home, 812 Baldwin St. in Elkhart with a service to follow at 6 p.m. A private family graveside service will take place at Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens.

Due to his love of animals, in lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be given to the Humane Society of Elkhart County, 54687 C.R. 19, Bristol, IN 46507.

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Published by The Elkhart Truth on Dec. 13, 2023.

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Rosie LeRoy Pickrell

December 17, 2023

Jim was a great guy he used to go past my house on Franklin Street to play tennis at McNaughton Park when we were young would see him over the years he and Mary made a great team I am sure he was a great father and grandfather such a great guy he will be missed

Jerry smith

December 13, 2023

Rest in peace

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15

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4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Billings Funeral Home - Elkhart

812 Baldwin St, Elkhart, IN 46514

Dec

15

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6:00 p.m.

Billings Funeral Home - Elkhart

812 Baldwin St, Elkhart, IN 46514

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