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Elaine Byrnes Obituary

Elaine Anne Byrnes passed away on May 31, 2023, at a Hospice house in Tucson. Elaine was born on March 13, 1943 in Boston to Samuel and Anna (O'Shea) Cooke. In June 1961, Elaine married her soulmate, John Byrnes. Together, they raised a family and relocated to Lake Havasu in 1976.
Elaine volunteered at her children's elementary schools, Starline and Oro Grande and eventually built a career at the Lake Havasu Board of Realtors. Upon retirement, she volunteered at the Lake Havasu City Visitor Center. In 2020, she moved to Tucson to be closer to family. Elaine was a loving wife, and a dear mother to her five children. She was also a proud "Grammy/Gigi" to 10 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.
Elaine was preceded in death by her parents, her husband and brothers Patrick Sullivan and Wayne Sullivan.
She is survived by her brothers James Cooke and Joseph Sullivan; her children: Denise Schrantz, Laura Graser, Michael Byrnes, Stacey Diehl and Kathleen Stock; grandchildren: Jonathan and Isaac Schrantz; Mitchell and William Graser; Ava Byrnes; Myah Diehl; Rachel Berry; Jonah, Hannah and Benjamin Stock; great grandchildren: Blaise, Madeline and Penny Schrantz; Luke and Elizabeth Berry; Patrick Stock.
Elaine's warmth, wit and compassion will be sorely missed. Her selflessness and ability to put her family first will never be forgotten. The family will be celebrating her life at a private ceremony in February. No services are planned.

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Published by Today's News Herald from Feb. 6 to Feb. 7, 2024.

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Therese C. Cleary

January 31, 2025

Still missing this lovely woman. Resting in peace for certain.

Therese "Terri" Cleary

February 27, 2024

Oh my gosh. Knock me over with a feather, I had no idea of Elaine's passing. I was just thinking the other day that I've not heard from her in a while or seen a presence on FB. Elaine was one of my very favorite people of all time. I met her through real estate. She & John became pet sitting clients of mine. I took care of their little Cookie for many years. She will be missed beyond measure. Rest in peace sweet Elaine now that you will be reunited with John & Cookie.

Lynn Burns

February 8, 2024

Elaine was so sweet and helpful to me when I was a new Realtor and office manager with Burns & Associates and she worked at the Board of Realtors located in The Shambles. I considered her and Arlene as friends. Condolences to her family. She will be remembered fondly!

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